6. This year… I’ll think small
My diet looks pretty good today – mostly unprocessed, cooked from scratch – but it didn’t happen in a 12 week blitz. It was tiny upgrades over years, like white bread to brown, processed porridge to oats, then adding grains. Each tweak was small enough to keep.
Pick one or two manageable changes and let them stick before adding more. These micro habits don’t feel heroic, but they’re the ones that last.
Avoid flipping your entire diet overnight. Deprivation breeds resentment. Resentment breeds rebellion. Instead of ‘I can’t have,’ try ‘I’m adding’.
If you want this year to feel different, change the approach. Be compassionate, patient and realistic. Choose enjoyment over punishment. Think nourishment over restriction. Build small changes that fit your actual life.
You don’t need a restrictive diet plan to make progress. You need a process you can live with – one that respects your body, protects your mind and leaves room for joy. Let this be the year you treat yourself kindly and trust that small changes will get you big results.
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Published December 2025
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