Same photos. Same resort. Same hot tub. One of them lost a career. The other skipped a press conference.
Dianna Russini resigned from The Athletic on Tuesday, less than a week after the New York Post’s Page Six published photos of her and Patriots head coach Mike Vrabel at a Sedona hotel. The images showed them poolside, in a hot tub, and apparently holding hands or embracing. Both are married to other people. Both denied any impropriety. Only one of them paid for it.
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Vrabel’s response to the Post was: the photos show “a completely innocent interaction” and any suggestion otherwise is “laughable.” He skipped the Patriots’ pre-draft press conference, and executive vice president of player personnel Eliot Wolf told reporters it was “business as usual.” No public investigation. No suspension. No resignation. Just a man going back to work while the woman in the photos cleared out her desk.
The instinct is to call this sexism and move on. And the sexism is real — veteran sportswriter Jeff Pearlman argued that if he had been the one in a hot tub with Vrabel, nobody would have written a headline. Michelle Beadle went further, warning women who piled on Russini that she knows “a lot about a lot of you.” But the gender gap is not the full story. The full story is worse.
Journalism Punishes Appearances. Football Protects Power
Russini worked for The Athletic, owned by the New York Times. That means editorial standards that treat the appearance of a conflict as a crisis in itself. When the photos dropped, her editor initially called them “misleading.” Within days, the Times opened an investigation, pulled her off reporting, and according to executive editor Steven Ginsberg, “additional information emerged” that raised “new questions.” By Tuesday, she was gone.
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Vrabel works for the Patriots. The NFL has no public ethics code governing relationships between coaches and reporters, and ProFootballTalk noted there is no equivalent standard that applies to Vrabel in his job. No public investigation. No meaningful statement beyond his one-liner. The organization’s official position is that he has been “very involved” in draft preparation. That is the accountability structure.
This is not just a double standard between a man and a woman. It is a double standard between two industries. Journalism built conflict-of-interest rules, internal reviews, and standards language enforced by a parent company with a reputation to protect. The NFL built nothing equivalent for this. Vrabel does not answer to an editorial board. He answers to Robert Kraft. And Kraft has not said a word.
The Athletic’s editor initially defended Russini, then opened an investigation days later. Credit: @DylanByers/X
The Insider Game Was Always Dirty. Russini Just Got Caught in Public
Here is where it gets uncomfortable for everyone in sports media. The entire insider ecosystem runs on access. Reporters cultivate relationships with coaches, GMs, agents, and players. They share meals, drinks, texts, and off-the-record time. The line between source and friend has always been blurry, and the business rewards the people who blur it best, because the closer you get, the better your scoops.
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ESPN’s Buster Olney, who has been in this business for decades, said the Russini situation should “open up a larger conversation about the potential destructiveness of quid pro quo in our business.” He added: “It’s as bad as I’ve ever seen.”
Russini is paying for a system that the entire industry tolerates. She got caught on camera doing something that looks a lot like what many insiders do without cameras around. That does not make it right. It does make the selective outrage hard to stomach.
The Witnesses Made This Harder To Explain Away
The Ambiente resort in Sedona, where the photos were taken before the NFL owners’ meetings. Credit: @ambientesedona/Instagram
Both Russini and Vrabel said they were part of a larger group that day, and Russini specifically said the photos did not represent “the group of six people who were hanging out during the day.” But Page Six reported that three eyewitnesses said they did not see anyone else with them at the resort. That contradiction likely helped turn initial newsroom defensiveness into a deeper standards review.
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If the “group of six” claim does not hold up, that is a credibility problem that goes beyond gender or institutional asymmetry. Journalists who mislead editors do not usually survive internal reviews.
Vrabel Kept His Job Because the NFL Has No Shame Mechanism
Russini may have exercised bad judgment. She may also be the most visible casualty of a system that depends on exactly the closeness she is being punished for. Both can be true. What cannot be true is that only one person in those photos faces consequences while the other calls the whole thing laughable and goes back to running a football team.
If the NFL wants to act like this is not its problem, someone should ask Vrabel one question the next time he takes the podium: if the photos were so innocent, why has the Patriots’ response amounted to five words, a skipped press conference, and business as usual?