While Mel and Luke were taking one big step forward, Julia and Grayson were taking countless steps backwards.

Julia’s “ultimate fantasy night” looked something a bit more like filling out a questionnaire.

Getting to know more about whether Grayson was bullied at school, what his exes thought of him and what exactly his footy injury was, was a “sacred” experience for Julia.

Grayson obliged but didn’t think this is what the experts really meant when they said “Intimacy Week”.

His frustration was, well, written all over his face.