{"id":107632,"date":"2025-08-30T23:52:13","date_gmt":"2025-08-30T23:52:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/107632\/"},"modified":"2025-08-30T23:52:13","modified_gmt":"2025-08-30T23:52:13","slug":"reading-retreats-the-salve-for-modern-womens-burnout","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/107632\/","title":{"rendered":"Reading retreats the salve for modern women&#8217;s burnout"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">The trope of the tired modern woman exhausted by the relentless family-work-life juggle is oft-cited.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">But more and more women, regardless of whether they are mothers or not, are calling a timeout on the pressures of life and are heading to women-only reading retreats.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">Established as weekend getaways in regional towns, all meals and activities are taken care of, allowing guests to simply kick back and read.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">Often held at the beach or in picturesque locations, these retreats are designed to be dreamy and idyllic, and help an increasing number of women reporting symptoms of burnout.<\/p>\n<p>Timeout<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">Anneli McKinnon&#8217;s life is centred on books.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">She is a member of <a class=\"Link_link__kR0xA Link_link__5eL5m ScreenReaderOnly_srLinkHint__OysWz Link_showVisited__C1Fea Link_showFocus__ALyv2\" href=\"https:\/\/www.abc.net.au\/listen\/programs\/nightlife\/book-club\/105688250\" data-component=\"Link\" data-uri=\"coremedia:\/\/audiosegment\/105688250\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">two book clubs<\/a> on Gippsland&#8217;s Bass Coast, works at a local library, and hosts a monthly book dinner where guests can discuss their favourite titles over a meal.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">Her latest venture is a women&#8217;s spring reading retreat on the Walkerville coastline near Wilsons Promontory.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">It is aimed at uniting women in a neutral space where they can read, relax and be completely taken care of all weekend.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I always think it would be so nice to have a whole day just to read a book and we all know that does not happen at home,&#8221;  she said.<img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Image of a woman wearing a blue sweater, sitting in a cafe courtyard while reading a book. \" class=\"Image_image__5tFYM ContentImage_image__DQ_cq\"  src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/2f9ab147eacc7c45c30822fc0e7cfd89\" loading=\"lazy\" data-component=\"Image\" data-lazy=\"true\"\/><\/p>\n<p class=\"Typography_base__sj2RP FigureCaption_text__zDxQ5 Typography_sizeMobile12__w_FPC Typography_lineHeightMobile20___U7Vr Typography_regular__WeIG6 Typography_colourInherit__dfnUx\" data-component=\"Typography\">Reading retreat host Anneli McKinnon says literature is a wonderful unifier. (ABC Gippsland: Madeleine Stuchbery)<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">Ms McKinnon said women often got distracted at home, or felt guilty for taking time to sit and relax.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">She said by heading away on a reading retreat, participants could unburden themselves of expectations or work, and could invest time in themselves.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">Being in a bush environment is also a key part of the retreat, providing space for women to connect with nature, with other women, and with themselves.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">&#8220;There&#8217;s something about reading and talking about books that takes you to deeper levels quicker,&#8221; Ms McKinnon said.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">&#8220;You enter through a book, rather than if you just started with chit chat.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">&#8220;Reading fiction is a great thing for your brain, for creating and fostering empathy, that&#8217;s been proven.&#8221;\u00a0<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"A beach and surrounding bushland in Victoria.\" class=\"Image_image__5tFYM ContentImage_image__DQ_cq\"  src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/a83b2af46d27c25dd09a7d64786d5318\" loading=\"lazy\" data-component=\"Image\" data-lazy=\"true\"\/><\/p>\n<p class=\"Typography_base__sj2RP FigureCaption_text__zDxQ5 Typography_sizeMobile12__w_FPC Typography_lineHeightMobile20___U7Vr Typography_regular__WeIG6 Typography_colourInherit__dfnUx\" data-component=\"Typography\">A regular women-only book retreat is held at Walkerville South in Victoria.\u00a0 (ABC News: Kathy Lord)<\/p>\n<p>Burning out<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">The Women&#8217;s Ambition Report, published by Women&#8217;s Agenda, found 72 per cent of the 2,000 women surveyed in 2025 experienced burnout \u2014 a form of emotional exhaustion \u2014 in the past 12 months.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.abc.net.au\/news\/2025-05-25\/burnout-career-break-millennial-mini-retirement-work-job\/105051626\" data-component=\"FullBleedLink\" class=\"RelatedCard_link__rsgR9 FullBleedLink_root__lTw_U interactive_focusContext__yRhc_ interactive_defaults__AKxUU FullBleedLink_showVisited__g3Xvz\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">The burnt-out millennials who walked away from work<\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"Typography_base__sj2RP RelatedCard_synopsis__cFwMW Typography_sizeMobile14__u7TGe Typography_lineHeightMobile20___U7Vr Typography_regular__WeIG6 Typography_colourInherit__dfnUx\" data-component=\"Typography\">With burnout at unprecedented levels who doesn&#8217;t dream of stepping away from it all and embracing a career break. But can it solve the problem?<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">Symptoms can include low energy, motivation or mood; feeling isolated or trapped; disengagement from work; procrastination; decreased life satisfaction; disrupted sleep; and physical symptoms such as headaches and body pain.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">Women&#8217;s Agenda co-founder Angela Priestley said 61 per cent of the women who reported symptoms of burnout thought it stemmed from balancing home life and a career.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">&#8220;The key thing that comes up over and over again, and we&#8217;ve done this for 10 years now, is the leading ambition for women \u2014 around 30-35 per cent \u2014 is to earn more,&#8221; Ms Priestley said.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">&#8220;I think we need to look at the societal structures that are creating the pressure.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">&#8220;You can go on a retreat, you might go to a spa for a day or something, and that can be good \u2026 but that&#8217;s not going to change the underlying reason behind what may have led to burnout.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>A place to pause<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">Crystal Wells runs a series of reading retreats for women across regional Victoria, including in the noted book town, Clunes.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">She said while a weekend off may not be the silver bullet to resolve broader societal pressures, carving out time for oneself could be a good tool to mitigate stress.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Woman sitting in an outdoors setting, feet up on the table, reading a book in the sunshine. \" class=\"Image_image__5tFYM ContentImage_image__DQ_cq\"  src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/750e84c9dfda325ac160df86bda49bad\" loading=\"lazy\" data-component=\"Image\" data-lazy=\"true\"\/><\/p>\n<p class=\"Typography_base__sj2RP FigureCaption_text__zDxQ5 Typography_sizeMobile12__w_FPC Typography_lineHeightMobile20___U7Vr Typography_regular__WeIG6 Typography_colourInherit__dfnUx\" data-component=\"Typography\">Women are seeking respite from their busy modern lives at reading retreats across Australia.\u00a0 (Supplied: Crystal Wells)<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">&#8220;This myth of the superwoman, who pursues this high-powered career and is a perfect mum, and devotes her supposed downtime to self-improvement and all these things \u2026 a light has shone on that being a bit of a myth,&#8221; she said.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">&#8220;Maybe more people are feeling more comfortable to discuss the fact this isn&#8217;t something that&#8217;s achievable, that pushing ourselves to the nth degree in every aspect of our lives is not actually going to result in a high quality of life for us, as women.&#8221;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"The trope of the tired modern woman exhausted by the relentless family-work-life juggle is oft-cited. 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