{"id":131351,"date":"2025-09-09T23:09:16","date_gmt":"2025-09-09T23:09:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/131351\/"},"modified":"2025-09-09T23:09:16","modified_gmt":"2025-09-09T23:09:16","slug":"cafe-condemns-hospitality-hostility-after-young-staffer-hip-and-shouldered-on-fathers-day","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/131351\/","title":{"rendered":"Cafe condemns hospitality hostility after young staffer &#8216;hip-and-shouldered&#8217; on Father&#8217;s Day"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">A Port Adelaide cafe owner says aggressive behaviour won&#8217;t be tolerated following a young staff member being knocked over by a disgruntled customer on Father&#8217;s Day.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">Fabian Folghera said the incident happened on Sunday when a group was leaving his Banksia Tree Cafe, and one of them hip-and-shouldered an 18-year-old employee on the way out.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">Mr Folghera said the group had been advised of the cafe&#8217;s policy of limiting bookings to 90 minutes, but had arrived about half an hour late.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">He said they had finished their meals and were reminded of the time limit and asked to leave, but that at that point they &#8220;got a little bit upset&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">&#8220;They were again reminded, &#8216;Hey, sorry guys, we do need the table back&#8217;, by my 18-year-old staff member,&#8221; Mr Folghera told ABC Radio Adelaide.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">&#8220;They got up and they said, &#8216;Yep, cool, no worries, thanks&#8217;, and on the way out one of the members decided to hip-and-shoulder him quite hard and knocked him over.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.abc.net.au\/news\/2022-09-14\/queensland-hospitality-workers-wage-theft-abuse\/101434958\" data-component=\"FullBleedLink\" class=\"RelatedCard_link__rsgR9 FullBleedLink_root__lTw_U interactive_focusContext__yRhc_ interactive_defaults__AKxUU FullBleedLink_showVisited__g3Xvz\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">70pc of hospitality workers have experienced abuse: survey<\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"Typography_base__sj2RP RelatedCard_synopsis__cFwMW Typography_sizeMobile14__u7TGe Typography_lineHeightMobile20___U7Vr Typography_regular__WeIG6 Typography_colourInherit__dfnUx\" data-component=\"Typography\">A new University of Queensland Business School report pinpoints\u00a0structural flaws in the hospitality industry that are leading to many workers feeling disrespected and undervalued.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">&#8220;No-one turned back to say, &#8216;Oh my gosh, are you OK? What just happened?&#8217; It was just deemed as acceptable behaviour.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">Mr Folghera took to social media to condemn what he described as an &#8220;assault from a disgruntled guest&#8221; and said the staff member &#8220;was really left quite shaken up&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">&#8220;Violence, intimidation, or even the smallest act of unwanted contact has no place here,&#8221; he posted on social media.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">&#8220;That kind of behaviour is absolutely not tolerated,&#8221; he later told ABC Radio Adelaide.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;To really go ahead and single out that person, rather than sort of go to a manager who was visibly present and say, &#8216;Hey we&#8217;re not happy, we&#8217;ve been removed from our table, we feel like we&#8217;ve been rushed&#8217; \u2014 it&#8217;s just a kneejerk reaction and I&#8217;m sick of seeing it.&#8221;Police urge businesses to report incidents<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">Mr Folghera said while the incident had not been reported to police, the cafe would support the staffer if they wanted to.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">&#8220;We sort of decided it&#8217;s in his ball court \u2014 and we will 100 per cent back him,&#8221; he said.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">&#8220;But we have been in contact [with the group] and we have let them know that that is something we are still seriously considering.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">SA Police Assistant Commissioner Narelle Kameniar said such incidents should be reported.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Any behaviour where a person is harmed, whether that&#8217;s in hospitality or in retail, is obviously concerning to us,&#8221;  she said.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">&#8220;We would ask people to contact the police and report that.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"A senior SA Police officer at a media conference.\" class=\"Image_image__5tFYM ContentImage_image__DQ_cq\"  src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/ce4ab3a048a36893ff48e57a1ea9a8d1\" loading=\"lazy\" data-component=\"Image\" data-lazy=\"true\"\/><\/p>\n<p class=\"Typography_base__sj2RP FigureCaption_text__zDxQ5 Typography_sizeMobile12__w_FPC Typography_lineHeightMobile20___U7Vr Typography_regular__WeIG6 Typography_colourInherit__dfnUx\" data-component=\"Typography\">SA Police Assistant Commissioner Narelle Kameniar urged businesses on the receiving end of physical aggression towards staff to report it. (ABC News)<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">Mr Folghera, who said he was not at the cafe when the incident happened but had spoken to staff who were present at the time, said the 18-year-old had been working at the cafe for just over a year.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">He said Sunday was the busiest day the business had experienced, and that if customers had grievances, they should raise them in the proper manner.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">&#8220;If you have a problem with a company&#8217;s policies or something you have to understand that it&#8217;s not the person facing you that&#8217;s come up with that policy you don&#8217;t agree with,&#8221; he said.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"A Port Adelaide cafe owner says aggressive behaviour won&#8217;t be tolerated following a young staff member being knocked&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":131352,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[49460,5729,64,63,91114,49013,91111,77078,91113,49090,91112,44,11457,13298],"class_list":["post-131351","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-australia","tag-aggression","tag-allegations","tag-au","tag-australia","tag-banksia-tree","tag-cafe","tag-fabian-folghera","tag-fathers-day","tag-hip-and-shouldered","tag-hospitality","tag-knocked","tag-news","tag-staff","tag-worker"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/131351","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=131351"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/131351\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/131352"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=131351"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=131351"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=131351"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}