{"id":157473,"date":"2025-09-20T22:16:10","date_gmt":"2025-09-20T22:16:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/157473\/"},"modified":"2025-09-20T22:16:10","modified_gmt":"2025-09-20T22:16:10","slug":"widower-kayaks-through-grief-and-love-to-raise-money-for-cancer-treatment","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/157473\/","title":{"rendered":"Widower kayaks through grief and love to raise money for cancer treatment"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">Anyone with an eye to the Murray River this spring might be rewarded with the memorable sight of a septuagenarian sharing a kayak with a poodle, paddling 2,400 kilometres for a good cause.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">Peter Dixon is on a fundraising mission, but he is also paddling through his grief after the loss of his wife Helen Dixon to pancreatic cancer in March.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">His unlikely poodle co-pilot Maggie May isn&#8217;t much of paddler, but she has taken to the journey all the same.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">The pair set off from Bringenbrong Bridge on the Victoria\u2013New South Wales border on September 2, and expect to arrive at Goolwa, South Australia in November.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Peter stands by the river with people holding messages of support.\" class=\"Image_image__5tFYM ContentImage_image__DQ_cq\"  src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/9bb387b3f95eb11f34dbcb8d5fdad0a7\" loading=\"lazy\" data-component=\"Image\" data-lazy=\"true\"\/><\/p>\n<p class=\"Typography_base__sj2RP FigureCaption_text__zDxQ5 Typography_sizeMobile12__w_FPC Typography_lineHeightMobile20___U7Vr Typography_regular__WeIG6 Typography_colourInherit__dfnUx\" data-component=\"Typography\">The community is right behind Peter Dixon&#8217;s (second from left) paddling journey. (Supplied: Peter Dixon)<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">&#8220;She doesn&#8217;t even like the bathtub,&#8221; Mr Dixon said, of Maggie May.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">&#8220;She seems to love it [on the river] if the weather&#8217;s good \u2026 but when the wind picks up and it becomes overcast she starts to whinge a little.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">Repeating a kayak trip he made 15 years ago with his daughter and wife as support driver, Mr Dixon is floating down a river of memories to relive one of his happiest times.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Pete in a life jacket and beanie holding grey poodle Maggie.\" class=\"Image_image__5tFYM ContentImage_image__DQ_cq\"  src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/7c81c25b2fb585d3b265f990046683df\" loading=\"lazy\" data-component=\"Image\" data-lazy=\"true\"\/><\/p>\n<p class=\"Typography_base__sj2RP FigureCaption_text__zDxQ5 Typography_sizeMobile12__w_FPC Typography_lineHeightMobile20___U7Vr Typography_regular__WeIG6 Typography_colourInherit__dfnUx\" data-component=\"Typography\">Peter Dixon talks to both Maggie May the poodle and his late wife Helen as he kayaks. (Supplied: Peter Dixon)<\/p>\n<p>A life together<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">The Dixons&#8217; love story sounds like the premise of a movie: a young man in the air force in Sydney admiring from afar a young woman working behind the bar.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">They married in 1977, had four children, and moved to Wandiligong in Victoria&#8217;s Alpine region to run a guesthouse.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"A younger Helen and Pete smile at the camera.\" class=\"Image_image__5tFYM ContentImage_image__DQ_cq\"  src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/219a0883500cfc636156d40464bd0633\" loading=\"lazy\" data-component=\"Image\" data-lazy=\"true\"\/><\/p>\n<p class=\"Typography_base__sj2RP FigureCaption_text__zDxQ5 Typography_sizeMobile12__w_FPC Typography_lineHeightMobile20___U7Vr Typography_regular__WeIG6 Typography_colourInherit__dfnUx\" data-component=\"Typography\">Helen and Peter Dixon were married 47 years. (Supplied: Peter Dixon)<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">In 2023 the pair were working together at a local supermarket when Ms Dixon started experiencing chest and back pain and was referred to the local hospital.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">&#8220;Unfortunately, the tests came back that she did have cancer, and it had spread by that stage,&#8221; Mr Dixon said.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I was lucky, I suppose, that Helen lasted for the 20 months.&#8221;<img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Helen, Pete and family smile and point to Helen in her hospital bed.\" class=\"Image_image__5tFYM ContentImage_image__DQ_cq\"  src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/675b23d1004a763bc8753731158204df\" loading=\"lazy\" data-component=\"Image\" data-lazy=\"true\"\/><\/p>\n<p class=\"Typography_base__sj2RP FigureCaption_text__zDxQ5 Typography_sizeMobile12__w_FPC Typography_lineHeightMobile20___U7Vr Typography_regular__WeIG6 Typography_colourInherit__dfnUx\" data-component=\"Typography\">Helen Dixon received a terminal diagnosis in 2023 and died in March 2025. (Supplied: Peter Dixon)<\/p>\n<p>Giving back<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">A silver lining in the very dark cloud of stage four pancreatic cancer was the availability of treatment in nearby Albury-Wodonga.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">&#8220;I almost found myself looking forward to it,&#8221; Mr Dixon said.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">&#8220;The treatment itself wasn&#8217;t much fun, but the people were so nice.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">&#8220;If we&#8217;d had to go down to Melbourne for all this it just would have been horrendous \u2026 I can&#8217;t imagine how difficult it would have been if that cancer centre hadn&#8217;t been there.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Peter holds his grey poodle Maggie in front of the river.\" class=\"Image_image__5tFYM ContentImage_image__DQ_cq\"  src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/393fe898b46007a38f37cd60e097ab6b\" loading=\"lazy\" data-component=\"Image\" data-lazy=\"true\"\/><\/p>\n<p class=\"Typography_base__sj2RP FigureCaption_text__zDxQ5 Typography_sizeMobile12__w_FPC Typography_lineHeightMobile20___U7Vr Typography_regular__WeIG6 Typography_colourInherit__dfnUx\" data-component=\"Typography\">Peter Dixon and Maggie May trained for just a few hours on a lake before embarking on their journey. (Supplied: Albury-Wodonga Regional Cancer Centre Trust Fund)<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">He came up with the idea to paddle down the Murray as a fundraising opportunity, and surpassed his goal of $50,000 before he put an oar in the water.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">So far he has raised more than $80,000 for the Albury-Wodonga Regional Cancer Centre Trust Fund, under the name of &#8220;Pensioner Pete&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">The cancer centre is run in partnership with Ramsay Health Care, but will be <a class=\"Link_link__kR0xA Link_link__5eL5m ScreenReaderOnly_srLinkHint__OysWz Link_showVisited__C1Fea Link_showFocus__ALyv2\" href=\"https:\/\/www.abc.net.au\/news\/2025-09-18\/albury-wodonga-cancer-centre-hospital-ramsay-health-public\/105786700\" data-component=\"Link\" data-uri=\"coremedia:\/\/article\/105786700\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">publicly managed from July next year<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">Albury-Wodonga Health says the centre&#8217;s relationship with the trust fund will remain unchanged.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">Trust fund manager Andrew McKinlay said Mr Dixon&#8217;s efforts were significant for an individual fundraiser, compared to the organisation&#8217;s annual Sunshine Walk, which raised about $150,000.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Andrew McKinlay sits at a computer and smiles at the camera.\" class=\"Image_image__5tFYM ContentImage_image__DQ_cq\"  src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/3d9065df41ae6f7beeb208504ade56d2\" loading=\"lazy\" data-component=\"Image\" data-lazy=\"true\"\/><\/p>\n<p class=\"Typography_base__sj2RP FigureCaption_text__zDxQ5 Typography_sizeMobile12__w_FPC Typography_lineHeightMobile20___U7Vr Typography_regular__WeIG6 Typography_colourInherit__dfnUx\" data-component=\"Typography\">Andrew McKinlay says the Albury-Wodonga Regional Cancer Centre Trust Fund relies on philanthropy. (Supplied: Albury-Wodonga Regional Cancer Centre Trust Fund)<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">&#8220;The passion that Peter&#8217;s got is contagious,&#8221; he said.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;He&#8217;s certainly become a bit of a fan favourite amongst the trust fund staff.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">Mr Dixon is finding supporters along his route as well, with the Walwa Riverside Caravan Park providing free accommodation.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Kev and Heidi holding a Business of the Year award in front of the river.\" class=\"Image_image__5tFYM ContentImage_image__DQ_cq\"  src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/8dc77699bf955d5f79d8ec65e4cb1338\" loading=\"lazy\" data-component=\"Image\" data-lazy=\"true\"\/><\/p>\n<p class=\"Typography_base__sj2RP FigureCaption_text__zDxQ5 Typography_sizeMobile12__w_FPC Typography_lineHeightMobile20___U7Vr Typography_regular__WeIG6 Typography_colourInherit__dfnUx\" data-component=\"Typography\">Kev and Heidi Conway and supporting Peter Dixon on his expedition. (Supplied: Heidi Conway)<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">&#8220;My father passed away from cancer and I \u2026 used to work at Epworth Hospital,&#8221; Walwa Riverside co-owner and manager Heidi Conway said.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">&#8220;So I thought it was a great opportunity and he was doing such a great thing.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>A coping mechanismIf you or anyone you know needs grief support:<a class=\"Link_link__5eL5m ScreenReaderOnly_srLinkHint__OysWz Link_showVisited__C1Fea Link_showFocus__ALyv2\" href=\"https:\/\/griefline.org.au\/\" data-component=\"Link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer nofollow\">Griefline<\/a>:\u00a0Phone support for all Australians Monday to Friday\u00a0and 24\/7<a class=\"Link_link__5eL5m ScreenReaderOnly_srLinkHint__OysWz Link_showVisited__C1Fea Link_showFocus__ALyv2\" href=\"https:\/\/griefline.org.au\/get-help\/online-forums\/\" data-component=\"Link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer nofollow\"> online forums<\/a>. Call 1300 845 745 from\u00a08:00am to 8:00pm AEDT<a class=\"Link_link__5eL5m ScreenReaderOnly_srLinkHint__OysWz Link_showVisited__C1Fea Link_showFocus__ALyv2\" href=\"https:\/\/kidshelpline.com.au\/\" data-component=\"Link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer nofollow\">Kids Helpline<\/a>: 24\/7 phone support and <a class=\"Link_link__5eL5m ScreenReaderOnly_srLinkHint__OysWz Link_showVisited__C1Fea Link_showFocus__ALyv2\" href=\"https:\/\/kidshelpline.com.au\/get-help\/webchat-counselling\" data-component=\"Link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer nofollow\">WebChat <\/a>for young people aged between five and 25. Call\u00a01800 551 800<a class=\"Link_link__5eL5m ScreenReaderOnly_srLinkHint__OysWz Link_showVisited__C1Fea Link_showFocus__ALyv2\" href=\"https:\/\/www.headspace.org.au\/headspace-centres\/\" data-component=\"Link\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Headspace<\/a>: Centres for young people in each state and territory or check out\u00a0<a class=\"Link_link__5eL5m ScreenReaderOnly_srLinkHint__OysWz Link_showVisited__C1Fea Link_showFocus__ALyv2\" href=\"https:\/\/www.eheadspace.org.au\/\" data-component=\"Link\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">headspace<\/a>\u00a0for online or phone support<a class=\"Link_link__5eL5m ScreenReaderOnly_srLinkHint__OysWz Link_showVisited__C1Fea Link_showFocus__ALyv2\" href=\"https:\/\/www.lifeline.org.au\/\" data-component=\"Link\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Lifeline<\/a>: 24-hour support for all Australians on 13 11 14<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">Mr Dixon said his wife&#8217;s diagnosis was all consuming, and planning for his expedition had given him something to focus on after her death.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">&#8220;Even when I was at work, I would just be thinking about absolutely nothing else,&#8221; he said.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">&#8220;Preparing for this trip has probably helped me get through.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">His support driver and friend of more than 50 years Geoff Barton said he was happy to assist the project.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;You&#8217;ve got to say at the very minimum that it&#8217;s inspirational,&#8221;  he said.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">Tales of getting lost on the river 15 years ago have already been added to, with the car stuck in &#8220;the biggest pothole you&#8217;ve ever seen&#8221;, and Mr Barton falling in the river as he was helping to launch the kayak.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Peter with his arm around Geoff; Maggie is in the kayak on the edge of the river.\" class=\"Image_image__5tFYM ContentImage_image__DQ_cq\"  src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/ab7414943c886d841db8f37449650233\" loading=\"lazy\" data-component=\"Image\" data-lazy=\"true\"\/><\/p>\n<p class=\"Typography_base__sj2RP FigureCaption_text__zDxQ5 Typography_sizeMobile12__w_FPC Typography_lineHeightMobile20___U7Vr Typography_regular__WeIG6 Typography_colourInherit__dfnUx\" data-component=\"Typography\">Peter Dixon and Geoff Barton expect to take two months to travel 2,400km down the Murray. (Supplied: Peter Dixon)<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">&#8220;Little things like that help to make trips like this,&#8221; Mr Dixon said.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">He said his journey down the Murray was many things: an escape from a house of grief, a tribute to his beloved wife and a chance to show his gratitude for the treatment she received.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">As his thoughts wander on the river, Mr Dixon said they took him in one direction.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Anyone with an eye to the Murray River this spring might be rewarded with the memorable sight of&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":157474,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[5],"tags":[104798,64,63,99,1617,3321,6084,42273,49526,75078,104799,104800,104802,104801],"class_list":["post-157473","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-business","tag-albury-wodonga-regional-cancer-centre","tag-au","tag-australia","tag-business","tag-cancer","tag-fundraising","tag-grief","tag-kayak","tag-kayaking","tag-murray-river","tag-paddling","tag-pensioner-pete","tag-peter-dixon","tag-poodle"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/157473","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=157473"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/157473\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/157474"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=157473"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=157473"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=157473"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}