{"id":201620,"date":"2025-10-10T00:00:09","date_gmt":"2025-10-10T00:00:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/201620\/"},"modified":"2025-10-10T00:00:09","modified_gmt":"2025-10-10T00:00:09","slug":"grieving-bunbury-family-outraged-over-plan-to-remove-roadside-memorial","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/201620\/","title":{"rendered":"Grieving Bunbury family outraged over plan to remove roadside memorial"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">On a rainy afternoon in June 2020, 16-year-old Tyler Hastie tried to cross a busy highway in the South West of WA.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">He was struck by a passing car, and in an instant, he was gone.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">For five years, a white cross has stood on the Bussell Highway, near Jaymon Road in Stratham, 185 kilometres south of Perth.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">It has endured hot summers, rainy winters and <a class=\"Link_link__kR0xA Link_link__5eL5m ScreenReaderOnly_srLinkHint__OysWz Link_showVisited__C1Fea Link_showFocus__ALyv2\" href=\"https:\/\/www.abc.net.au\/news\/2025-06-02\/bussell-highway-duplication-ongoing-frustrating-drivers\/105363250\" data-component=\"Link\" data-uri=\"coremedia:\/\/article\/105363250\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">years of roadworks<\/a> as part of the Bussell Highway duplication.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Elderly man kneeling beside a white cross with a highway behind him \" class=\"Image_image__5tFYM ContentImage_image__DQ_cq\"  src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/78506d52c57379af98d74aaa5c3e2056\" loading=\"lazy\" data-component=\"Image\" data-lazy=\"true\"\/><\/p>\n<p class=\"Typography_base__sj2RP FigureCaption_text__zDxQ5 Typography_sizeMobile12__w_FPC Typography_lineHeightMobile20___U7Vr Typography_regular__WeIG6 Typography_colourInherit__dfnUx\" data-component=\"Typography\">Brian Hastie says his family visits Tyler&#8217;s memorial at least once a month.\u00a0 (ABC South West: Pip Waller\u00a0)<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">Western Australia&#8217;s transport authority now wants to remove and relocate the memorial, citing safety concerns.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">Tyler&#8217;s grandfather Brian Hastie said the family still visited the site once a month to pay their respects.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">&#8220;We were always told it was never going to be touched. It&#8217;s incorrect to move it,&#8221; Mr Hastie said.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;The cross is exactly where he was being worked on. Exactly where he died.&#8221;Concerns for safety, says Main Roads\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">A Main Roads WA spokesperson said it would work with the Hastie family on a suitable relocation.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">&#8220;The location [of the memorial] poses a serious safety risk for anyone stopping or crossing live traffic to visit the site,&#8221; a Main Roads WA spokesperson said.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">&#8220;The decision is not about aesthetics or appearance. It&#8217;s about ensuring the safety of people wishing to visit the memorial, as well as passing motorists.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">When asked why the decision had now been made to relocate the five-year-old memorial, Main Roads WA indicated the memorial had always been a safety concern.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"White cross with flowers around it in a median strip \" class=\"Image_image__5tFYM ContentImage_image__DQ_cq\"  src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/0e916fca188de8efd06f3b1a49eea39d\" loading=\"lazy\" data-component=\"Image\" data-lazy=\"true\"\/><\/p>\n<p class=\"Typography_base__sj2RP FigureCaption_text__zDxQ5 Typography_sizeMobile12__w_FPC Typography_lineHeightMobile20___U7Vr Typography_regular__WeIG6 Typography_colourInherit__dfnUx\" data-component=\"Typography\">The memorial remained untouched during the Bussell Highway duplication.\u00a0 (ABC South West: Pip Waller\u00a0)<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">Tyler&#8217;s father Robert said his son&#8217;s memorial should be left alone.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">&#8220;How would you feel if it was your daughter, your son, your family member, that you want to uproot and disrespect and move?&#8221; he said.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">The Main Roads WA spokesperson said the authority understood the importance of roadside memorials to loved ones of people who have been killed on the roads.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">Main Roads WA follows its Roadside Memorial Policy when relocating or removing memorials, which is informed by staff, WA Police and the Road Safety Commission.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"a picture of a teenage bot smiling\" class=\"Image_image__5tFYM ContentImage_image__DQ_cq\"  src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/47de72fd63b8fa4e039b8a8bcf1a4f62\" loading=\"lazy\" data-component=\"Image\" data-lazy=\"true\"\/><\/p>\n<p class=\"Typography_base__sj2RP FigureCaption_text__zDxQ5 Typography_sizeMobile12__w_FPC Typography_lineHeightMobile20___U7Vr Typography_regular__WeIG6 Typography_colourInherit__dfnUx\" data-component=\"Typography\">Tyler is remembered for his love of Harry Potter and his kind and caring nature.\u00a0 (Supplied: Brian Hastie \u00a0)<\/p>\n<p>Families forced to &#8216;relive&#8217; trauma\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">For the Hastie family, the memorial also acts as a safety reminder for road users.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">Tarryn Sanford runs Heart Hub South West, a not-for-profit organisation that offers professional counselling for those impacted by road trauma.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">Her son Jack was <a class=\"Link_link__kR0xA Link_link__5eL5m ScreenReaderOnly_srLinkHint__OysWz Link_showVisited__C1Fea Link_showFocus__ALyv2\" href=\"https:\/\/www.abc.net.au\/news\/2021-11-04\/jack-sanfords-parents-start-trauma-support-service\/100591196\" data-component=\"Link\" data-uri=\"coremedia:\/\/article\/100591196\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">killed in a car crash<\/a> in Collie in 2017.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">She said moving the roadside memorial of someone who had died, could force family members to relive trauma.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">&#8220;Having a memorial on the side of the road, for me, is a place where I get to grieve and cry and talk to Jack and feel close to him,&#8221; Ms Sanford said.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">&#8220;There&#8217;s no understanding of what it is like to grieve the loss of a child until you are actually living that nightmare.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">&#8220;To be asked to move the significant memorial to a different location is devastating because that&#8217;s not where it happened.&#8221;\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">Brian Hastie says he remembers him as a funny, cheeky boy who loved the Harry Potter franchise.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">&#8220;I don&#8217;t think anyone has ever got over it. We still talk about Tyler and what a good kid he was,&#8221; Mr Hastie said.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;It&#8217;s extremely important that [the memorial] stays where it is because it&#8217;s a place that we go and reminisce about the life he had.&#8221;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"On a rainy afternoon in June 2020, 16-year-old Tyler Hastie tried to cross a busy highway in the&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":201621,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[8],"tags":[64,63,125901,125903,134,125906,125905,118294,125904,123191,125902,125900],"class_list":["post-201620","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-entertainment","tag-au","tag-australia","tag-brian-hastie","tag-bussell-highway","tag-entertainment","tag-heart-hub-south-west","tag-jaymon-road","tag-main-roads-wa","tag-roadside-memorials","tag-roadworks","tag-taryn-sandford","tag-tyler-hastie"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/201620","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=201620"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/201620\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/201621"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=201620"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=201620"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=201620"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}