{"id":210483,"date":"2025-10-13T15:24:12","date_gmt":"2025-10-13T15:24:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/210483\/"},"modified":"2025-10-13T15:24:12","modified_gmt":"2025-10-13T15:24:12","slug":"hogg-retiring-in-bid-to-save-marriage-was-biggest-mistake","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/210483\/","title":{"rendered":"Hogg: Retiring in bid to save marriage was &#8216;biggest mistake&#8217;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Former Scotland captain Stuart Hogg has revealed that he retired from rugby in an attempt to rescue his marriage &#8212; a decision he views as the &#8220;biggest mistake of my life&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p>Hogg called time on his career in 2023 at the age of 31 &#8212; shortly before the World Cup that same year &#8212; but following a tumultuous spell out of the game, resumed playing in 2024 after signing for French club Montpellier.<\/p>\n<p>The British and Irish Lion in November 2024 admitted to abusing his estranged wife Gillian and was sentenced to a five-year non-harassment order and fined after breaching bail for repeatedly contacting his ex-partner.<\/p>\n<p><img class=\" lazyload lazyload\" data-image-container=\".inline-photo\" height=\"320\" width=\"570\"\/>Stuart Hogg earned more than 100 caps for Scotland.\u00a0David Rogers\/Getty Images<\/p>\n<p>Hogg admits that he caused hurt to people around him but has now restored some stability to his life.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I missed the buzz, the changing room, the banter. I missed rugby more than I ever realised,&#8221; Hogg told <a href=\"https:\/\/www.therugbypaper.co.uk\/features\/468118\/ive-found-peace-im-living-in-the-now\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">The Rugby Paper<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I gave up on my rugby career to try to save my marriage. At the time I didn&#8217;t know who I was.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I was up to my eyeballs in antidepressants. I didn&#8217;t know what was going on in life, whether I was making people happy or sad. I used alcohol to escape. I was purely existing.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;The Doddie Aid cycle ride from Scotland to Rome changed everything. For the first time since retiring, I felt part of a team again. I came back and told my dad, &#8216;I&#8217;ve made the biggest mistake of my life.&#8217;<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.espn.com.au\/rugby\/story\/_\/id\/46572960\/marcus-smith-hands-harlequins-first-win-prem-season-saracens-first-loss\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">Smith hands Harlequins first win of Prem season, Saracens first loss<\/a><br \/>&#8211; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.espn.com.au\/rugby\/story\/_\/id\/46556086\/wallabies-len-ikitau-reject-r360-costs-rugby-world-cup-spot-australia\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">Len Ikitau to reject R360 if it costs World Cup spot<\/a><br \/>&#8211; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.espn.com.au\/rugby\/story\/_\/id\/46418963\/women-rugby-world-cup-reacting-biggest-ever-tournament-red-roses-victory\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">Reacting to biggest-ever Women&#8217;s Rugby World Cup and Red Roses victory<\/a><\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I&#8217;m in a better place mentally than I&#8217;ve been in years. I used to think being selfish was strength, but I took that too far. I hurt people.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Now I&#8217;m learning to be selfless for the right reasons &#8212; for my kids, my partner, my team. I know I&#8217;ll never be the same Stuart Hogg I once was, but I&#8217;m OK with it. I&#8217;ve found peace.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Hogg, who won 100 Scotland caps and made two Test appearances for the Lions, underwent Achilles surgery in April and has yet to play for Montpellier this season.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Former Scotland captain Stuart Hogg has revealed that he retired from rugby in an attempt to rescue his&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":210484,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[567],"tags":[64,63,760,85],"class_list":["post-210483","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-rugby","tag-au","tag-australia","tag-rugby","tag-sports"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/210483","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=210483"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/210483\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/210484"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=210483"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=210483"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=210483"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}