{"id":220336,"date":"2025-10-17T13:44:09","date_gmt":"2025-10-17T13:44:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/220336\/"},"modified":"2025-10-17T13:44:09","modified_gmt":"2025-10-17T13:44:09","slug":"guts-over-glory-how-john-amaechi-played-it-differently","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/220336\/","title":{"rendered":"Guts over glory: How John Amaechi played it differently"},"content":{"rendered":"

He\u2019s had a remarkable career, though there\u2019s every chance you\u2019ve never heard of John Amaechi. As a professional basketballer Amaechi made history: he was the first Englishman to play in the NBA, the first undrafted player to make an NBA team\u2019s starting five and, in 2007, the first current or former NBA player to come out as gay. Last month, Amaechi, now a philosopher, psychologist and author, released his third book, It\u2019s Not Magic: The Ordinary Skills of Exceptional Leaders.\u00a0 \u00a0<\/p>\n

There was no championship ring, no All-Star appearances. His box scores were modest. After his first season in the NBA, with the Cleveland Cavaliers, he was cut and spent two years in several European leagues before he had smoothed the flaws of his game sufficiently to re-spark the NBA\u2019s interest.<\/p>\n

None of this should have happened. If many superstars dazzle with athletic precocity, Amaechi was the opposite: an uncoordinated and painfully introverted kid who was all but contemptuous of sport until his late teens.<\/p>\n

Born in Boston in 1970 to an English mother and Nigerian father, Amaechi was raised in Greater Manchester by his mother alone. Years later, when his abusive father died, Amaechi declined to speak at his funeral.<\/p>\n

By the age of 16, Amaechi was already 203 centimetres tall, a fact that made the self-conscious boy terribly conspicuous. By his own account, he was overweight, ungainly and possessed few friends \u2013 \u201ca powerless outcast\u201d, as he described himself in his 2007 memoir.<\/p>\n

His favourite place was a library, where he binged on sci-fi, fantasy and the adventures of the Hardy Boys. If he couldn\u2019t abandon his body, books at least offered an escape. In Victor Hugo\u2019s The Hunchback of Notre-Dame, Amaechi saw something of himself in Quasimodo \u2013 a character who, despite his tender heart, is thought dangerous and vulgar. On a rugby field, Amaechi can still recall a father calling him a \u201cmutant freak\u201d. His mother, ever supportive, confronted the man.<\/p>\n

Amaechi didn\u2019t begin playing basketball until he was 17, and the conventional wisdom was that no professional career was possible for one who had started so late. Never mind: Amaechi was disciplined and enjoyed the observable progress of his skills and the improvement of his confidence. He lost weight and, soon enough, was dominating for Manchester United\u2019s basketball team.<\/p>\n

A terrible accident at school camp should have finally quelled any ambitions for professional basketball, much less a historic admission to the NBA. A falling windowpane, dislodged from its frame, almost severed his right hand \u2013 the tendons and muscle would require multiple surgeries and months of rehabilitation. But the accident at least served two things: first, in mourning his presumed athletic career, Amaechi was surprised to realise how much basketball now meant to him. Second, he was sufficiently dedicated that he trained for months exclusively using his non-preferred hand. This had the effect of making him that rare commodity: an ambidextrous baller.<\/p>\n

Throughout his athletic career, Amaechi kept his sexuality to himself. As such, he heard no end of homophobic jokes, derision and unvarnished hate in various locker rooms.<\/p>\n

From a hospital bed in Manchester, though, it was a long and circuitous path to the NBA. He applied to thousands of high schools in the United States, only one of which \u2013 in Toledo, Ohio \u2013 accepted him. From there he played college basketball for Vanderbilt University and Penn State, before registering for the NBA draft in 1995. Amaechi was already 24, an exceptionally advanced age to enter the draft lottery, and no team thought him worth the risk. This obliged his entry via the convoluted and highly competitive summer camp system, where free agents compete for the final roster spaces on teams that have any spare. Cleveland took a gamble.<\/p>\n

Amaechi has a lovely line about what\u2019s required to become successful: \u201cbeing eager in the face of the mundane and the vexing.\u201d He says that behind every game-winning shot and public delirium, there are untold private hours dedicated to the most unglamorous and monotonous practice. Tiny elements of the game \u2013 a basic routine of catch, pivot, pass, for example \u2013 might be rehearsed for an hour straight so that fundamentals become ingrained.<\/p>\n

Never the most gifted basketballer, Amaechi was always one of the most obedient and disciplined. Loyal, too. That loyalty \u2013 of rewarding those who had rewarded him \u2013 would express itself in the most extraordinary, and personally regrettable way, in 2000.<\/p>\n

Amaechi\u2019s return to the NBA in 1999 was with the Orlando Magic. Averaging more than 10 points and three rebounds a game, it was the best of his five seasons in the world\u2019s best league. Complementing Amaechi\u2019s pleasure was the team camaraderie, helmed by coach Doc Rivers, and their upsetting of low expectations. The Magic then had lost superstar Shaquille O\u2019Neal and Penny Hardaway and were rebuilding. The squad was made of modest players with low profiles but high commitment \u2013 and a willingness to accept their particular roles, however self-effacing. They played for each other, this team of \u201cHeart and Hustle\u201d, and exceeded expectations. \u201cA stunning reminder that a loveable band of low-rent overachievers still can thrive in an age of dot.com, overvalued superstars,\u201d the Orlando Sentinel wrote.<\/p>\n

So when the Los Angeles Lakers came knocking, Amaechi was torn. The Lakers had O\u2019Neal and Kobe Bryant and, in Phil Jackson, one of the game\u2019s great coaches. They were about to win a string of championships and were offering Amaechi $17 million over six years. Orlando could only offer one year on $600,000 with no guarantee of extension.<\/p>\n

Still, Amaechi felt he owed the team something and he declined the Lakers\u2019 offer. He was cut at the end of the next season \u2013 a betrayal of the informal but earnest assurances that he would stay, that he was \u201cfamily\u201d.<\/p>\n

But basketball wasn\u2019t everything. He knew that. Amaechi was studying for his doctorate in psychology in these years and he brought his textbooks with him for the flights to away games. His dream of becoming a psychologist began as a boy and well preceded the dream of professional basketball.<\/p>\n

Throughout his athletic career, Amaechi kept his sexuality to himself. As such, he heard no end of homophobic jokes, derision and unvarnished hate in various locker rooms. \u201cThe church \u2026 seemed enlightened compared to some of my [Utah] teammates,\u201d he wrote in 2007. \u201cHomosexuality is an obsession amongst ballplayers, trailing only wealth and women. They just didn\u2019t like \u2018fags\u2019 \u2013 or so they insisted over and over and over again. It soon became clear they didn\u2019t understand fags enough to truly loathe them. Most were convinced, even as they sat next to me on the bus or plane or threw me the ball in the post, that they had never met one.\u201d<\/p>\n

It was through this memoir, The Man in the Middle, that Amaechi came out. Death threats followed, and players publicly expressed their fear or disgust. Tim Hardaway, the All-Star guard and future Hall of Famer, then a few years into his athletic retirement, was notoriously cruel. \u201cYou know, I hate gay people, so I let it be known,\u201d he said. \u201cI don\u2019t like gay people and I don\u2019t like to be around gay people. I am homophobic. I don\u2019t like it. It shouldn\u2019t be in the world or in the United States.\u201d<\/p>\n

In comments he must have come to regret, a young LeBron James \u2013 he was 23 at the time \u2013 said, \u201cWith teammates you have to be trustworthy, and if you\u2019re gay and you\u2019re not admitting that you are, then you are not trustworthy. That\u2019s like the No.\u20091 thing as teammates \u2013 we all trust each other. You\u2019ve heard of the in-room, locker room code. What happens in the locker room stays in there. It\u2019s a trust factor, honestly. A big trust factor.\u201d<\/p>\n

Almost 20 years have passed. Today, Amaechi remains ambivalent about his athletic career. \u201cI put a ball in a hole,\u201d is a favourite saying of his. But as well as being a professor at the business school of the University of Exeter in south-western England, Amaechi is an NBA ambassador. He still enjoys the game, and it left him with a distinctive status that made his coming out powerful.<\/p>\n

\u201cI\u2019m not doing this to change the NBA,\u201d he said at the time of his memoir\u2019s release. \u201cI\u2019m doing this for the high school quarterback who is thinking about sticking his head in a noose because he can\u2019t come to grips with the fact he\u2019s gay.\u201d\u00a0<\/p>\n

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