{"id":327897,"date":"2025-12-04T20:16:15","date_gmt":"2025-12-04T20:16:15","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/327897\/"},"modified":"2025-12-04T20:16:15","modified_gmt":"2025-12-04T20:16:15","slug":"living-with-adhd-and-how-i-make-my-life-easier-after-being-diagnosed-as-an-adult","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/327897\/","title":{"rendered":"Living with ADHD and how I make my life easier after being diagnosed as an adult"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">It&#8217;s estimated attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD) affects between 2 to 6 per cent of adults in Australia.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">International Day of People with Disability storyteller scholar and Brisbane artist Mark du Potiers shares his personal story of how ADHD impacts him and what he does to make life more manageable after being diagnosed in his 30s.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">Having a disability can be different for each person who lives with it.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"An artwork showing an x-ray machine with three people with one a single leg amputee, one in a wheelchair and one with two legs.\" class=\"Image_image__5tFYM ContentImage_image__DQ_cq\"  src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/9f661bfcd039547b62047b42be0fbfe0\" loading=\"lazy\" data-component=\"Image\" data-lazy=\"true\"\/> Disability can look different for each person.(ABC News: Mark du Potiers)<img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"An artwork of a ghost with a striped green, orange and purple background.\" class=\"Image_image__5tFYM ContentImage_image__DQ_cq\"  src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/a3bde8ec54466db499aab9488fc9a629\" loading=\"lazy\" data-component=\"Image\" data-lazy=\"true\"\/> Sometimes disability can be invisible.(ABC News: Mark du Potiers)<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">And disabilities, such as ADHD, can be invisible.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">I know from my own experience that ADHD can be tough to manage.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">Sometimes it can feel like I am fighting my own brain.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"An artwork showing two boxers with brains for heads fighting. One has an R to show the right side and one has an L to show left.\" class=\"Image_image__5tFYM ContentImage_image__DQ_cq\"  src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/cf5d3bca5a6a7d003a1ae9d65d5b6969\" loading=\"lazy\" data-component=\"Image\" data-lazy=\"true\"\/> ADHD can be tough to manage, like fighting your own brain.(ABC News: Mark du Potiers)<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">And it can leave me feeling slow and stupid.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">I often find it difficult to start (or finish) a task, and I do tend to lose track of time.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">In struggling to stay focused, I get anxious, exhausted, and then stuck.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"An illustration with a blue and orange striped background with a snail that has a thumbs down on it.\" class=\"Image_image__5tFYM ContentImage_image__DQ_cq\"  src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/02e652bf71453a9638e045ebffea1bda\" loading=\"lazy\" data-component=\"Image\" data-lazy=\"true\"\/> Sometimes I feel slow and stupid.(ABC News: Mark du Potiers)<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">It can be hard for others to understand the impacts of ADHD because it&#8217;s not always readily visible.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"An artworks shows a green bush with eyes in the middle and a branch poking out the top with a black bird perched on it.\" class=\"Image_image__5tFYM ContentImage_image__DQ_cq\"  src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/b81cbfdda87ed6c2f9d249c9b2b313df\" loading=\"lazy\" data-component=\"Image\" data-lazy=\"true\"\/> I find that ADHD can be hard for others to understand and accept.(ABC News: Mark du Potiers)<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">My brain doesn&#8217;t always work in the way I want it to.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">This can leave me feeling guilty, ashamed and that I&#8217;m not good enough.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"An artwork of a person in a suit with a fishbowl as its head and its hands holding the bowl. It is on a red and blue background.\" class=\"Image_image__5tFYM ContentImage_image__DQ_cq\"  src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/d2ebef5cee5c9715ef146a858b97afaa\" loading=\"lazy\" data-component=\"Image\" data-lazy=\"true\"\/> My brain doesn&#8217;t always work in the way I want it to.\u00a0(ABC News: Mark du Potiers)<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">Speaking with my GP about my specific circumstances was the first step in my journey to finally understanding more about my brain.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"An artwork of a green frog on a brown bench with a speech bubble. Another speech bubble shows a lilypad.\" class=\"Image_image__5tFYM ContentImage_image__DQ_cq\"  src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/6b7b5817ae26378f2928baff3346ef08\" loading=\"lazy\" data-component=\"Image\" data-lazy=\"true\"\/> I spoke to my GP about my specific circumstances.(ABC News: Mark du Potiers)Five things I do to make my life with ADHD easier<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">Support comes in different forms. For me, it can be from health professionals, trusted family members and friends.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">When I don&#8217;t get the support that I feel I need, I seek a second opinion.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"An artwork of a traffic light with a red and green light. One speech bubble shows two people and another shows two hugging.\" class=\"Image_image__5tFYM ContentImage_image__DQ_cq\"  src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/fd1b2994f487d96a637dc3099f49d186\" loading=\"lazy\" data-component=\"Image\" data-lazy=\"true\"\/> Support comes in different forms.(ABC News: Mark du Potiers)<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">I often get stuck with not knowing where to start.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">I\u2019m still learning to &#8220;practice being messy&#8221; and to accept that things don&#8217;t have to be perfect.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">I write lists to clear my head and do one thing at a time.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"An artwork shows a hand holding a pen writing a list. In the image a persons real hand can be seen at the bottom.\" class=\"Image_image__5tFYM ContentImage_image__DQ_cq\"  src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/d233ac4fa425ee4e097230d3ad255716\" loading=\"lazy\" data-component=\"Image\" data-lazy=\"true\"\/> I write lists down to clear my head and do one thing at a time.(ABC News: Mark du Potiers)<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">Transitioning from one task to another can be difficult for me.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">I find playing music or going for a quick walk usually helps me with starting a new task.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">I celebrate the small wins, like ticking something off my to-do list.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"An artwork shows a person hiking with a pole and backpack with mountains and greenery in the background.\" class=\"Image_image__5tFYM ContentImage_image__DQ_cq\"  src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/bc2825ce14de6ebee52c6e100ab81115\" loading=\"lazy\" data-component=\"Image\" data-lazy=\"true\"\/> I find playing music or going for a quick walk usually helps me with starting a new task.(ABC News: Mark du Potiers)<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">I\u2019ve learned that eating a healthy diet and having good sleep hygiene is important in managing my ADHD.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">So, I make sure that I am having good sources of protein and prioritising rest.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"An artwork showing a black cat in a bedwith a thought bubble showing an orange, drumstick and apple.\" class=\"Image_image__5tFYM ContentImage_image__DQ_cq\"  src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/1f778a7dcd2e324386ae55602533fff1\" loading=\"lazy\" data-component=\"Image\" data-lazy=\"true\"\/> I\u2019ve learned that eating a healthy diet and having good sleep hygiene is important.(ABC News: Mark du Potiers)<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">I&#8217;m still learning how to be friends with my ADHD brain and my invisible disability.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">I find making an effort to be gentle, kind and reasonable with myself is the best approach to have.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"An artwork showing two people embracing.\" class=\"Image_image__5tFYM ContentImage_image__DQ_cq\"  src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/ea4b20b849d7542710d34f56cba567c1\" loading=\"lazy\" data-component=\"Image\" data-lazy=\"true\"\/> I\u2019m still learning how to be friends with my ADHD brain and my invisible disability.\u00a0(ABC News: Mark du Potiers)<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">This article was <a class=\"Link_link__kR0xA Link_link__5eL5m ScreenReaderOnly_srLinkHint__OysWz Link_showVisited__C1Fea Link_showFocus__ALyv2\" href=\"https:\/\/www.abc.net.au\/news\/2025-11-17\/idpwd-2025-australians-with-disability-tell-their-stories\/105946814\" data-component=\"Link\" data-uri=\"coremedia:\/\/article\/105946814\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">commissioned as part of the ABC&#8217;s coverage<\/a> of <a class=\"Link_link__5eL5m ScreenReaderOnly_srLinkHint__OysWz Link_showVisited__C1Fea Link_showFocus__ALyv2\" href=\"https:\/\/www.idpwd.com.au\/\" data-component=\"Link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer nofollow\">International Day of People with Disability<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">Mark du Potiers is <a class=\"Link_link__5eL5m ScreenReaderOnly_srLinkHint__OysWz Link_showVisited__C1Fea Link_showFocus__ALyv2\" href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/blisteredhand\/?hl=en\" data-component=\"Link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer nofollow\">a visual artist<\/a> based in Brisbane \u2014 he has Australian, Hong Konger, and Chinese heritage and was diagnosed with ADHD in his 30s.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">This story was produced with support from <a class=\"Link_link__kR0xA Link_link__5eL5m ScreenReaderOnly_srLinkHint__OysWz Link_showVisited__C1Fea Link_showFocus__ALyv2\" href=\"https:\/\/www.abc.net.au\/news\/claudia-williams\/101870526\" data-component=\"Link\" data-uri=\"coremedia:\/\/person\/101870526\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Claudia Williams.<\/a><\/p>\n<p><script async src=\"\/\/www.instagram.com\/embed.js\"><\/script><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"It&#8217;s estimated attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD) affects between 2 to 6 per cent of adults in 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