{"id":342749,"date":"2025-12-12T08:36:21","date_gmt":"2025-12-12T08:36:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/342749\/"},"modified":"2025-12-12T08:36:21","modified_gmt":"2025-12-12T08:36:21","slug":"woman-raped-by-son-of-afl-great-tells-court-how-he-has-changed-her-life","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/342749\/","title":{"rendered":"Woman raped by son of AFL great tells court how he has changed her life"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>The woman stared down Tom Silvagni, 23, this morning as he appeared in the Victorian County Court on a video link from prison.<\/p>\n<p>Silvagni barely reacted as the woman laid out how his crimes and series of lies changed her life forever.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/https:\/\/prod.static9.net.au\/fs\/a43c9410-7675-4cb7-b5a3-6a38218cb791.jpeg\"   alt=\"\"\/>Tom Silvagni has been convicted of rape. (Nine)<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;You didn&#8217;t just violate my body that night, you violated my trust,&#8221; she told Silvagni.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;It&#8217;s actually terrifying that someone you thought you knew and trusted could do something so evil.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Tom Silvagni was found guilty of two counts of rape on December 5 following a two-week trial.<\/p>\n<p>There had been a suppression over his identity since he was first charged with rape in June 2024, with his lawyers arguing publication could lead to the deterioration of his mental health.<\/p>\n<p>But Judge Andrew Palmer lifted the order yesterday, ruling it was no longer necessary given the trial had been run and Silvagni would be under close watch in custody.<\/p>\n<p>Silvagni had repeatedly denied he digitally raped his friend&#8217;s girlfriend at his Melbourne home in the early hours of January 14, 2024.<\/p>\n<p>The jury was told the woman had consensual sex with her boyfriend at the house before he organised an Uber and left the property shortly before 2am.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/https:\/\/prod.static9.net.au\/fs\/e3e63bef-90fd-4e06-9eb1-c85d35131517.jpeg\"   alt=\"\"\/>Tom Silvagni appeared in court on December 12 via video link. (Nine)<\/p>\n<p>Silvagni then lied, telling the woman her boyfriend would be returning upstairs because his Uber had been cancelled.<\/p>\n<p>But it was Silvagni who went into the dark bedroom a short time later and pretended to be the woman&#8217;s boyfriend as he digitally raped her.<\/p>\n<p>She managed to move away and ask directly if he was Silvagni but he still claimed to be the other man.<\/p>\n<p>Silvagni then grabbed both of the woman&#8217;s hands, pinned her down and digitally raped her a second time while she told him to stop.<\/p>\n<p>The woman managed to get a hand free and felt his hair, which was longer than her boyfriend&#8217;s, and that&#8217;s when Silvagni stopped and ran from the room.<\/p>\n<p>He returned a few minutes later and acted as if nothing had happened, instead asking her if she was OK and requesting a hug before she left.<\/p>\n<p>In the days that followed, Silvagni fabricated an Uber receipt to make it look like the woman&#8217;s boyfriend had left his home after 2.30am.<\/p>\n<p>Silvagni admitted forging the receipt but said he did so because he panicked after being falsely accused of rape.<\/p>\n<p>But the jury rejected his story, finding him guilty of the two rape charges on December 5.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/https:\/\/prod.static9.net.au\/fs\/7718c6c4-d6a1-4522-b6b9-f4d4b3e58ae7.png\"   alt=\"\"\/>Stephen Silvagni and wife Jo outside the County Court on December 12. (Nine)<\/p>\n<p>Silvagni&#8217;s lawyer, David Hallowes SC, today told the court they accepted the offending was serious but argued his client was a young man from a loving family with no prior convictions.<\/p>\n<p>He told the court Silvagni had suffered additional punishment from the extensive media attention, following the suppression over his identity being lifted.<\/p>\n<p>Silvagni should also receive a lighter sentence because his time in custody would be more difficult due to his poor mental health and risk of suicide, Hallowes said.<\/p>\n<p>Judge Gregory Lyon remanded Silvagni in custody ahead of his sentencing hearing on Wednesday.<\/p>\n<p>The maximum jail term for rape is 25 years.<\/p>\n<p>Silvagni&#8217;s father breaks down\ufeff while vowing to &#8216;stand by&#8217; son<\/p>\n<p>AFL great Stephen Silvagni broke down in tears while giving his family&#8217;s first public statement since Tom Silvagni was convicted of rape last Friday.<\/p>\n<p>\ufeffStephen said he and his family &#8220;firmly stand behind&#8221; their son as he &#8220;continues to maintain his innocence&#8221;, while addressing the media outside the Victorian County Court this morning, following the pre-sentence hearing.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/https:\/\/prod.static9.net.au\/fs\/03499d9e-8cae-4666-88ab-b6e0f5f4f061.png\"   alt=\"\"\/>Stephen Silvagni broke down in tears after addressing reporters. (Nine)<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;\ufeffJo and I, together with our family members and friends, are so disappointed with the outcome,&#8221; Stephen read as his wife, television personality Jo Silvagni, stood by his side.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;We love and support our son. Our son \ufeffcontinues to maintain his innocence and we stand firmly by him.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;We will be considering our options\ufeff to appeal and shall not be making any further comments on this case.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Our goal is to clear his name and bring him home\ufeff. We ask for our privacy and to be respectful.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Stephen finished by saying, &#8220;We&#8217;re very grateful\ufeff for our great support and families,&#8221; before he burst into tears and walked away.<\/p>\n<p>Support is available from the National Sexual Assault, Domestic and Family Violence Counselling Service at <a href=\"https:\/\/www.1800respect.org.au\/\" title=\"https:\/\/www.1800respect.org.au\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">1800RESPECT (1800 737 732)<\/a>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"The woman stared down Tom Silvagni, 23, this morning as he appeared in the Victorian County Court on&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":342750,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[560],"tags":[638,64,63,55,639,85],"class_list":{"0":"post-342749","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-afl","8":"tag-afl","9":"tag-au","10":"tag-australia","11":"tag-australian-football-league","12":"tag-australianfootballleague","13":"tag-sports"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/342749","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=342749"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/342749\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/342750"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=342749"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=342749"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=342749"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}