{"id":406860,"date":"2026-01-11T19:59:10","date_gmt":"2026-01-11T19:59:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/406860\/"},"modified":"2026-01-11T19:59:10","modified_gmt":"2026-01-11T19:59:10","slug":"mum-lost-400k-and-ended-up-in-prison-after-she-went-to-bingo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/406860\/","title":{"rendered":"Mum lost \u00a3400k and ended up in prison after she went to bingo"},"content":{"rendered":"

Sian is now raising the alarm about Merseyside\u2019s growing issue with gambling addiction\"Sian<\/p>\n

Sian Mclear-Dyer(Image: Supplied)<\/p>\n

A mum\u2019s life fell apart after her gambling addiction landed her in prison. Sian Mclear-Dyer, 36, from Wallasey<\/a>, had gambled before at the races but started to really enjoy it after she went to bingo with her work colleagues in around 2015.<\/p>\n

Sian, who was a finance manager for a property<\/a> law firm at the time<\/a>, started receiving promotions from the bingo app<\/a> she used that night and began to get hooked. Within a few months, Sian was secretly staying up all night, playing slots on her phone, while her husband was in bed asleep.<\/p>\n

Sian would then lie awake worrying about how<\/a> on earth she would<\/a> get all the money back. Speaking to the ECHO<\/a>, Sian said: \u201cI’d been to the races and things like that, but it had never been an issue and I didn’t have any like gambling apps.<\/p>\n

\u201cWe were going to bingo and somebody had said, if you download the app, you’ll get a free game when we go in. From that, you then get kind of bombarded with the emails and notifications, like you have a free spin on us and things like that.<\/p>\n

\u201cI played this spin game. I span 50p and won \u00a350. I thought, that was easy. Then it just spiraled from there. It got to the point where I was spending all my wages.\u201d<\/p>\n

Sian then started using payday loans and taking out new credit credit cards to cover what she was spending. However, soon she was struggling to pay what she\u2019d been lending out. When Sian reached this stage, she began stealing money from work.<\/p>\n

Sian said: \u201cThat’s when I was full-on addicted. I was thinking, what am I going to do? Nobody can know I’ve got no money because of gambling.<\/p>\n

\u201cThat’s when I started stealing from work. I 100% know it’s stealing, but in my head at the time I was thinking, it’s okay, because when I win, I’ll pay it back. In my head I just thought, everything will be okay.\u201d<\/p>\n

In total, Sian estimated that she lost around \u00a3400,000 from gambling over a four year period, when loans, credit cards and the money she took from work are taken into account.<\/p>\n

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Sian’s said she was “living two lives”(Image: Supplied)<\/p>\n

Sian was \u201cliving two lives\u201d during this time, keeping her spending secret from her husband as she gambled away at night.<\/p>\n

Sian said: \u201cI had this normal life in the daytime, and then at nighttime I’d start gambling. I’d literally lie there all night and sometimes not have any sleep.\u201d<\/p>\n

Sian said it was the shame she felt about her addiction that stopped her from opening up and getting help. She said: \u201dI was so embarrassed and ashamed of what I was doing but I physically couldn’t stop. I was going for interviews with other firms because I wanted to stop what I was doing, but I couldn’t.\u201d<\/p>\n

Two events in quick succession in 2018 gave Sian the push she needed to get help. The first was getting let go from work and the second was finding out she was pregnant.<\/p>\n

She said: \u201cObviously work knew that something was going on. An hour before I was let go from work, I took the pregnancy test. It’s just crazy how everything came out at once. As soon as that happened, my whole world fell apart, but I was relieved everything had come out. I could speak about it.\u201d<\/p>\n

A Google search sent her in the direction of Beacon Counselling Trust<\/a> (BCT), who helped her mend her ways. She said the trust \u201csaved her life\u201d. The charity, based in Liverpool, delivers free treatment and support across the north west.<\/p>\n

However, Sian still had to face the consequences of the law for stealing more than \u00a3320,000 from work. She served just under a year in prison for her actions from 2019 to 2020, and for the first four months she was separated from her newborn son before he was allowed to stay with her in a mother and baby unit.<\/p>\n

In prison, Sian did a counselling course so she could help people in the future with similar problems to her. While in there, Sian says prison officers were so inexperienced with dealing with gambling addiction that they would send those struggling to her for advice.<\/p>\n

When Sian left prison, she got a BA in criminology and psychology from Liverpool John Moores University. Sian now works an education and brief Intervention lead in Beacon, the organisation which helped her at her lowest ebb.<\/p>\n

Sian is now raising the alarm about Merseyside\u2019s growing issue with gambling addiction. BCT has reported an 810% rise in third-party referrals from partners over the past year. While their outreach teams have engaged with more than 20,000 individuals through their support programmes.<\/p>\n

BCT\u2019s frontline teams say the figures are being reflected in the demand for services, particularly in areas like Walton<\/a> in Liverpool, where mental health-related disability claims are significantly above the national average.<\/p>\n

Sian said: “I now go around training professionals going into prisons, speaking to staff and prisoners about gambling harm. We’re doing lots of work at the minute on the links between gambling and domestic violence.”<\/p>\n

Asked if gambling addiction is becoming a bigger problem in Liverpool and Merseyside, Sian said: \u201cIt\u2019s getting worse because there’s just so much of it now and there’s this illegal market that’s coming through as well where younger people become addicted before they’ve even reached the age of 18.<\/p>\n

\u201cI don’t say to people now, oh, don’t gamble, because not everybody is going to get addicted to it. That’s not the issue. It\u2019s about seeing the signs of the dangerous games, the more addictive games.\u201d<\/p>\n

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Sian now works for Beacon Counselling Trust(Image: Supplied)<\/p>\n

Sian\u2019s intervention comes after a new public-health campaign was launched this month to expose the manipulative design and marketing tactics of modern-day gambling through the lens of people with lived experience of gambling harm.<\/p>\n

The campaign, titled \u201cIf I only knew\u201d, features insights from people who have been impacted by gambling to help young people recognise how gambling companies design products, marketing strategies and their business model, as well as showing the benefits of stopping and getting help.<\/p>\n

The campaign has been developed by national gambling harm prevention organisation Chapter One, in partnership with Liverpool City Council.<\/p>\n

James Grimes, Director of Chapter One said: \u201cWhen I was struggling with gambling, I wish I knew that it\u2019s almost impossible to win in the long run, and that gambling harms aren\u2019t about luck or self-control \u2014 modern-day gambling is designed to keep us hooked. We hope once people see this campaign, they will see those affected in a different way.\u201d<\/p>\n

Professor Matthew Ashton, Director of Public Health at Liverpool City Council said: \u201cGambling harm is a public-health issue that affects people, families and communities across Liverpool.<\/p>\n

\u201cThis new campaign is tackling the root causes of gambling harm by focusing on the commercial determinants of health, as well as showing hope by involving people with lived experience. Our goal is for this campaign to reduce stigma and empower young people in the city to live healthier and happier lives.\u201d<\/p>\n

The campaign will run across social media over the coming weeks and is backed by local partners including the NHS North West Gambling Service, which has a clinic in Liverpool City Centre<\/a>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Sian is now raising the alarm about Merseyside\u2019s growing issue with gambling addiction Sian Mclear-Dyer(Image: Supplied) A mum\u2019s…\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":406861,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[35],"tags":[64,63,137,514,515,30419,215576],"class_list":{"0":"post-406860","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-mental-health","8":"tag-au","9":"tag-australia","10":"tag-health","11":"tag-mental-health","12":"tag-mentalhealth","13":"tag-real-lives","14":"tag-wallasey"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/406860","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=406860"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/406860\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/406861"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=406860"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=406860"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=406860"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}