{"id":460644,"date":"2026-02-05T19:07:27","date_gmt":"2026-02-05T19:07:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/460644\/"},"modified":"2026-02-05T19:07:27","modified_gmt":"2026-02-05T19:07:27","slug":"mother-of-autistic-children-shares-experience-in-wake-of-suspected-double-murder-suicide","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/460644\/","title":{"rendered":"Mother of autistic children shares experience in wake of suspected double murder-suicide"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">A mother of two children with disabilities living in regional WA wants other families to know there is &#8220;some light at the end of the tunnel&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p>If you or anyone you know needs help:<a class=\"Link_link__5eL5m ScreenReaderOnly_srLinkHint__OysWz Link_showVisited__C1Fea Link_showFocus__ALyv2\" href=\"http:\/\/www.suicidecallbackservice.org.au\/\" data-component=\"Link\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Suicide Call Back Service<\/a> on 1300 659 467<a class=\"Link_link__5eL5m ScreenReaderOnly_srLinkHint__OysWz Link_showVisited__C1Fea Link_showFocus__ALyv2\" href=\"http:\/\/www.lifeline.org.au\/\" data-component=\"Link\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Lifeline<\/a> on 13 11 14Aboriginal &amp; Torres Strait Islander crisis support line <a class=\"Link_link__5eL5m ScreenReaderOnly_srLinkHint__OysWz Link_showVisited__C1Fea Link_showFocus__ALyv2\" href=\"https:\/\/www.13yarn.org.au\/\" data-component=\"Link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer nofollow\">13YARN<\/a>\u00a0on 13 92 76<a class=\"Link_link__5eL5m ScreenReaderOnly_srLinkHint__OysWz Link_showVisited__C1Fea Link_showFocus__ALyv2\" href=\"http:\/\/www.kidshelp.com.au\/\" data-component=\"Link\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Kids Helpline<\/a> on 1800 551 800<a class=\"Link_link__5eL5m ScreenReaderOnly_srLinkHint__OysWz Link_showVisited__C1Fea Link_showFocus__ALyv2\" href=\"https:\/\/www.beyondblue.org.au\/\" data-component=\"Link\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Beyond Blue<\/a> on 1300 224 636<a class=\"Link_link__5eL5m ScreenReaderOnly_srLinkHint__OysWz Link_showVisited__C1Fea Link_showFocus__ALyv2\" href=\"https:\/\/headspace.org.au\/\" data-component=\"Link\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Headspace<\/a> on 1800 650 890<a class=\"Link_link__kR0xA Link_link__5eL5m ScreenReaderOnly_srLinkHint__OysWz Link_showVisited__C1Fea Link_showFocus__ALyv2\" href=\"https:\/\/au.reachout.com\/\" data-component=\"Link\" data-uri=\"coremedia:\/\/externallink\/10971516\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">ReachOut<\/a> at <a class=\"Link_link__kR0xA Link_link__5eL5m ScreenReaderOnly_srLinkHint__OysWz Link_showVisited__C1Fea Link_showFocus__ALyv2\" href=\"https:\/\/au.reachout.com\/\" data-component=\"Link\" data-uri=\"coremedia:\/\/externallink\/10971516\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">au.reachout.com<\/a><a class=\"Link_link__5eL5m ScreenReaderOnly_srLinkHint__OysWz Link_showVisited__C1Fea Link_showFocus__ALyv2\" href=\"http:\/\/www.mensline.org.au\/Home.html\" data-component=\"Link\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">MensLine Australia<\/a> on 1300 789 978<a class=\"Link_link__5eL5m ScreenReaderOnly_srLinkHint__OysWz Link_showVisited__C1Fea Link_showFocus__ALyv2\" href=\"https:\/\/qlife.org.au\/\" data-component=\"Link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer nofollow\">QLife 1800 184 527<\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">Jo Russell has shared her story of navigating bureaucracy while caring for children with complex needs \u2014 and the desperate moment she considered taking her own life. \u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">It comes after last Friday&#8217;s suspected double murder-suicide, where teenagers Leon and Otis Clune, who lived with disabilities, were <a class=\"Link_link__kR0xA Link_link__5eL5m ScreenReaderOnly_srLinkHint__OysWz Link_showVisited__C1Fea Link_showFocus__ALyv2\" href=\"https:\/\/www.abc.net.au\/news\/2026-01-31\/mosman-park-murder-suicide-update\/106291350\" data-component=\"Link\" data-uri=\"coremedia:\/\/article\/106291350\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">found dead in their Mosman Park home<\/a> along with their parents, Jarrod Clune, 50, and Maiwenna Goasdoue, 49. \u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">&#8220;It&#8217;s been a very difficult week \u2026 it hit a nerve with me,&#8221; Ms Russell said.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">&#8220;I&#8217;ve walked in their shoes and I was so close to perhaps taking that course of action [suicide], but I didn&#8217;t.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">Ms Russell stressed her children were a &#8220;gift&#8221;, rather than a &#8220;burden&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">&#8220;I was in that dark space five or six years ago, and I want to share my story, because it&#8217;s the isolation when you have very complex children to look after, when you have to fight and advocate every day and find the strength to carry on,&#8221; she said.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"A woman with red hair hugging a teenage girl with a blue shirt in front of a red door with a number.\" class=\"Image_image__5tFYM ContentImage_image__DQ_cq\"  src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/9ad6a7f89f85c1754420cbc2f568ab79.jpeg\" loading=\"lazy\" data-component=\"Image\" data-lazy=\"true\"\/><\/p>\n<p class=\"Typography_base__sj2RP FigureCaption_text__zDxQ5 Typography_sizeMobile12__w_FPC Typography_lineHeightMobile20___U7Vr Typography_regular__WeIG6 Typography_colourInherit__dfnUx\" data-component=\"Typography\">Jo Russell hugs her daughter, Megan Russell. (ABC Goldfields: Giulia Bertoglio)<\/p>\n<p>Mother&#8217;s personal struggle<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">A former registered nurse and long-time disability advocate, Ms Russell has three children and has lived most of her life in the regional mining city of Kalgoorlie-Boulder, about 600 kilometres east of Perth.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">Her son Daniel, 35, was diagnosed with Asperger&#8217;s syndrome in the 1990s, which is now considered part of the autism spectrum. \u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">Her daughter Megan, 21, also has a diagnosis of profound autism and epilepsy.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">In her mid-teens, Megan was also prone to aggressive, violent outbursts. \u00a0<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"A woman pointing to a tattoo on her left arm.  \" class=\"Image_image__5tFYM ContentImage_image__DQ_cq\"  src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/10f31503419ccdd6a74da4bcb13385f0.jpeg\" loading=\"lazy\" data-component=\"Image\" data-lazy=\"true\"\/><\/p>\n<p class=\"Typography_base__sj2RP FigureCaption_text__zDxQ5 Typography_sizeMobile12__w_FPC Typography_lineHeightMobile20___U7Vr Typography_regular__WeIG6 Typography_colourInherit__dfnUx\" data-component=\"Typography\">Jo Russell has the symbol for World Autism Awareness Day tattooed on her left arm. \u00a0 (ABC Goldfields: Jarrod Lucas)<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">In 2020, at the height of the pandemic, Ms Russell walked out of the emergency department at Kalgoorlie Hospital and left her daughter with a carer. \u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">She had no intention of returning until she had found the help she needed after reaching her lowest point.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">&#8220;To this day, I can&#8217;t believe I left my own daughter behind,&#8221; she said.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">&#8220;I&#8217;d reached the point where I went to bed each night praying I didn&#8217;t wake up the next day.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">&#8220;I&#8217;d wake up in the middle of the night thinking where&#8217;s the screaming coming from, and there was no screaming, it was the screaming in my head.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">&#8220;It was reflective of the screaming that went on all day, every day. Without supportive family and friends, I would not have lasted as long as I did.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"A close-up of a woman smiling.  \" class=\"Image_image__5tFYM ContentImage_image__DQ_cq\"  src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/be29a6d4a13841c028befd6d10f2c1a8.jpeg\" loading=\"lazy\" data-component=\"Image\" data-lazy=\"true\"\/><\/p>\n<p class=\"Typography_base__sj2RP FigureCaption_text__zDxQ5 Typography_sizeMobile12__w_FPC Typography_lineHeightMobile20___U7Vr Typography_regular__WeIG6 Typography_colourInherit__dfnUx\" data-component=\"Typography\">Jo Russell lives in the regional city of Kalgoorlie-Boulder. \u00a0 (ABC Goldfields: Jarrod Lucas)<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">But she described a dark period when Megan, who is largely non-verbal, would attack her mother on multiple occasions, breaking her arm in one incident.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">&#8220;I was at my wits&#8217; end, she was throwing furniture at school, and often it became just another hole in the wall,&#8221; she said.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">&#8220;She would switch from charming and bright and happy to violent and aggressive in a few seconds, and I could not work out what brought on these episodes.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">&#8220;I felt failure as a mother, I felt the distress of Daniel having to cope with the erratic and aggressive behaviours of his sister, because I was honestly frightened that someone was going to die or be seriously injured.&#8221;\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>A &#8216;multi-system failure&#8217;<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">After a month-long stay in hospital in Perth and a new diagnosis which resulted in a change of medication for her daughter, Ms Russell said her behaviour did a &#8220;complete 180&#8221;. \u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">&#8220;Now Megan is a poster child for NDIS funding, she&#8217;s got her own rental, she has around-the-clock support, for now,&#8221; she said.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">&#8220;But in nine months, she has another review \u2014 will the funding be cut?\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">&#8220;None of us can ever rest on our laurels because the services which are meant to help us are changing all the time.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">&#8220;People can&#8217;t keep up with the changes to the NDIS, and they&#8217;re scared to speak out in case they lose their funding.&#8221;\u00a0<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"A woman showing her tattoo on left arm.  \" class=\"Image_image__5tFYM ContentImage_image__DQ_cq\"  src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/57adaf38ad0d38ccec4615f029399faa.jpeg\" loading=\"lazy\" data-component=\"Image\" data-lazy=\"true\"\/><\/p>\n<p class=\"Typography_base__sj2RP FigureCaption_text__zDxQ5 Typography_sizeMobile12__w_FPC Typography_lineHeightMobile20___U7Vr Typography_regular__WeIG6 Typography_colourInherit__dfnUx\" data-component=\"Typography\">Jo Russell got her tattoo in honour of her two children who live with autism. \u00a0\u00a0 (ABC Goldfields: Jarrod Lucas)<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">Ms Russell urged parents to share their story to remove the &#8220;awful isolation&#8221; she felt during times of adversity. \u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">She said the reforms to the National Disability Insurance Scheme (NDIS) had placed additional pressure on parents and carers in the disability sector. \u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">&#8220;It&#8217;s a multi-system failure,&#8221; she said.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">&#8220;The systems designed to support us and assist us are complex, difficult to navigate, and organisations who provide support find it difficult to gain skilled staff.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">&#8220;Of course it should be easier, we&#8217;ve got to fight all the way.&#8221;\u00a0<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"A group of people pause for a minute's silence.  \" class=\"Image_image__5tFYM ContentImage_image__DQ_cq\"  src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/0958019d934ed04815259c292c1e1644.jpeg\" loading=\"lazy\" data-component=\"Image\" data-lazy=\"true\"\/><\/p>\n<p class=\"Typography_base__sj2RP FigureCaption_text__zDxQ5 Typography_sizeMobile12__w_FPC Typography_lineHeightMobile20___U7Vr Typography_regular__WeIG6 Typography_colourInherit__dfnUx\" data-component=\"Typography\">A memorial service in Mosman Park was attended by about 30 people on Wednesday. \u00a0 (ABC News: Rhiannon Shine)<\/p>\n<p>Memorial for Clune family<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">Disability Discrimination Commissioner Rosemary Kayess said she was heartbroken by the deaths of teenagers Otis and Leon and their parents, which remains subject to an ongoing police investigation. \u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">&#8220;While we don&#8217;t yet know all the details, it&#8217;s important that the gravity of this situation is not diminished by the fact that the two teenagers were autistic and required support,&#8221; she said.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">&#8220;There is never a justification for family violence or murder.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">&#8220;We must reject the idea that disability is a burden.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">&#8220;Every child has the right to life, safety and support, and families should have access to help well before crisis.&#8221;\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">On Wednesday night, about 30 people gathered at Gibbon Park in Mosman Park and observed a minute&#8217;s silence during a memorial for the Clune family. \u00a0<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"A female politician speaking to another woman at a memorial service.   \" class=\"Image_image__5tFYM ContentImage_image__DQ_cq\"  src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/e26270ffe72f9582b9d313af419df80f.jpeg\" loading=\"lazy\" data-component=\"Image\" data-lazy=\"true\"\/><\/p>\n<p class=\"Typography_base__sj2RP FigureCaption_text__zDxQ5 Typography_sizeMobile12__w_FPC Typography_lineHeightMobile20___U7Vr Typography_regular__WeIG6 Typography_colourInherit__dfnUx\" data-component=\"Typography\">Sandra Brewer attends the memorial service for the Clune family in Mosman Park. \u00a0 (ABC News: Rhiannon Shine)<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">Among them was the Member for Cottesloe, Sandra Brewer, and the Mosman Park Mayor, Paul Shaw.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">Mr Shaw said the death of the family had hit the &#8220;tight-knit&#8221; community hard.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">&#8220;There&#8217;s a great deal of shock \u2026 and people are trying to process that,&#8221; Mr Shaw said.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">&#8220;Events like this give people the opportunity to that processing \u2026 to come together and grieve.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"A woman and man attending a memorial service.  \" class=\"Image_image__5tFYM ContentImage_image__DQ_cq\"  src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/ad348c21bfefd72b9a31449f800b263c.jpeg\" loading=\"lazy\" data-component=\"Image\" data-lazy=\"true\"\/><\/p>\n<p class=\"Typography_base__sj2RP FigureCaption_text__zDxQ5 Typography_sizeMobile12__w_FPC Typography_lineHeightMobile20___U7Vr Typography_regular__WeIG6 Typography_colourInherit__dfnUx\" data-component=\"Typography\">Fariba Fanaian and Paul Shaw atttend Wednesday&#8217;s memorial service. \u00a0 (ABC News: Rhiannon Shine)<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">The vigil was organised by the group Mosman Park Sisterhood.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">Founder Fariba Fanaian said while the event was held to remember the Clune family, she wanted others in the community to also feel supported.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">&#8220;We hope that we start having a culture where people are OK with checking in on their neighbour,&#8221; Ms Fanaian said.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">&#8220;The space hopefully will remind people that we are here to connect and bring the community together.&#8221;\u00a0<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"A mother of two children with disabilities living in regional WA wants other families to know there is&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":460645,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2],"tags":[13234,13235,43,236684,66236,514,166121,72905,5793,44,46,41,39,42,40,25962],"class_list":["post-460644","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-headlines","tag-autism","tag-autism-spectrum-disorder","tag-headlines","tag-jo-russell","tag-kalgoorlie","tag-mental-health","tag-mosman-park","tag-murder-suicide","tag-ndis","tag-news","tag-perth","tag-top-news","tag-top-stories","tag-topnews","tag-topstories","tag-wa"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/460644","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=460644"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/460644\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/460645"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=460644"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=460644"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=460644"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}