{"id":465143,"date":"2026-02-07T21:46:12","date_gmt":"2026-02-07T21:46:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/465143\/"},"modified":"2026-02-07T21:46:12","modified_gmt":"2026-02-07T21:46:12","slug":"my-hardworking-boyfriend-lost-his-job-and-was-made-out-to-be-a-dirty-sinner-due-to-a-stupid-rule-that-needs-to-change-now","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/465143\/","title":{"rendered":"My hardworking boyfriend lost his JOB and was made out to be a &#8216;dirty sinner&#8217; due to a stupid rule that needs to change now"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">The partner of a Tasmanian deputy principal who was stood down after beginning a new relationship before his Catholic marriage was annulled has launched a blistering attack on the church rule she says destroyed his career.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Psychologist April Saltmarsh has accused Catholic Education <a style=\"font-weight: bold;\" target=\"_self\" href=\"https:\/\/www.dailymail.co.uk\/news\/tasmania\/index.html\" id=\"mol-0588eb80-02ed-11f1-8a8d-b15a12ca602b\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">Tasmania<\/a> of bullying her partner, <a style=\"font-weight: bold;\" target=\"_self\" href=\"https:\/\/www.dailymail.co.uk\/sport\/sam-johnstone\/index.html\" id=\"mol-059128e0-02ed-11f1-8a8d-b15a12ca602b\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">Sam Johnstone<\/a>, who was forced out of his senior role.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Mr Johnstone, who had worked at Marist Regional College in Burnie since 2021, was stood down in late 2024 after disclosing details of his personal life to management.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">According to Ms Saltmarsh, her partner, who was separated from his wife but still awaiting a church annulment, was effectively branded a &#8216;dirty sinner&#8217; because he began a new relationship before the Catholic annulment process was complete.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Mr Johnstone has since signed a non-disclosure agreement preventing him from speaking publicly, but Ms Saltmarsh, who also worked at the school, says she is determined to tell the story he legally cannot.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">&#8216;My boyfriend lost his job because of me, but they apply their values haphazardly, she told Daily Mail.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">&#8216;Catholic Education Tasmania have said that if you are married and that marriage ends, you cannot enter into a new relationship until the church grants an annulment, which can take 12 to 18 months and is not even guaranteed.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">&#8216;You can be legally divorced, separated for years, and still be treated like you&#8217;ve done something wrong.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>   <img decoding=\"async\" id=\"i-97034c0a3181da42\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/106122411-15529667-image-a-1_1770270681729.jpg\" height=\"633\" width=\"634\" alt=\"Psychologist April Saltmarsh has accused Catholic Education Tasmania of bullying her partner\" class=\"blkBorder img-share\" style=\"max-width:100%\" loading=\"lazy\" \/>   <\/p>\n<p class=\"imageCaption\">Psychologist April Saltmarsh has accused Catholic Education Tasmania of bullying her partner<\/p>\n<p>   <img decoding=\"async\" id=\"i-d8e72d3432b258f8\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/106122409-15529667-Deputy_principal_Sam_Johnstone_was_stood_down_after_disclosing_d-a-18_17703480494.jpeg\" height=\"377\" width=\"634\" alt=\"Deputy principal Sam Johnstone was stood down after disclosing details of his personal life to school management\" class=\"blkBorder img-share\" style=\"max-width:100%\" loading=\"lazy\" \/>   <\/p>\n<p class=\"imageCaption\">Deputy principal Sam Johnstone was stood down after disclosing details of his personal life to school management\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">&#8216;If you start a new relationship before the church says it&#8217;s allowed, you&#8217;re a dirty sinner and you can&#8217;t work as a leader in their schools.&#8217;<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Ms Saltmarsh said Mr Johnstone was stood down on the final day of term and then left in limbo for almost 10 months.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">&#8216;So Sam was the deputy principal of wellbeing. He was incredible at his job. He was so well loved and respected by staff and students. He is amazing with kids,&#8217; she said.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">&#8216;They stood him down on the last day of term and then bullied him for 10 months until he was forced to resign and sign a non-disclosure agreement.&#8217;<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">She said the situation was made worse by what she claims is a double standard within the Catholic education system.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">&#8216;There are divorced people who have re-partnered,&#8217; she said.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">&#8216;There are same-sex couples within the system. There are also no rules around relationships with colleagues, and there are quite a few couples within the school.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">&#8216;Their claim was that because Sam was at deputy principal level, he was held to a different standard, but that was never clearly outlined.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>   <img decoding=\"async\" id=\"i-21feb3a5e07e41fa\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/106122403-15529667-Ms_Saltmarsh_said_the_situation_was_made_worse_by_what_she_claim-a-19_17703480495.jpeg\" height=\"475\" width=\"634\" alt=\"Ms Saltmarsh said the situation was made worse by what she claims is a double standard\" class=\"blkBorder img-share\" style=\"max-width:100%\" loading=\"lazy\" \/>   <\/p>\n<p class=\"imageCaption\">Ms Saltmarsh said the situation was made worse by what she claims is a double standard<\/p>\n<p>   <img decoding=\"async\" id=\"i-e82eab5edeb007ba\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/106122547-15529667-Mr_Johnstone_had_worked_at_Marist_Regional_College_in_Burnie_sin-a-17_17703480493.jpeg\" height=\"747\" width=\"634\" alt=\"Mr Johnstone had worked at Marist Regional College in Burnie since 2021\" class=\"blkBorder img-share\" style=\"max-width:100%\" loading=\"lazy\" \/>   <\/p>\n<p class=\"imageCaption\">Mr Johnstone had worked at Marist Regional College in Burnie since 2021\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>   <img decoding=\"async\" id=\"i-7a2836df303335e8\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/106122413-15529667-image-a-1_1770271598838.jpg\" height=\"642\" width=\"634\" alt=\"Mr Johnstone has since signed a non-disclosure agreement preventing him from speaking publicly\" class=\"blkBorder img-share\" style=\"max-width:100%\" loading=\"lazy\" \/>   <\/p>\n<p class=\"imageCaption\">Mr Johnstone has since signed a non-disclosure agreement preventing him from speaking publicly<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">&#8216;No one ever said, &#8216;By the way, now that you&#8217;re in this role, you&#8217;re not allowed to see anyone else for two years.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Ms Saltmarsh also questioned the legality of the decision, pointing to Tasmania&#8217;s tough regulations.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">&#8216;In Tasmania, you are not allowed to discriminate based on relationship status or sexual orientation,&#8217; she said.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">&#8216;But Catholic Education don&#8217;t care about that.&#8217;<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Last week, Mr Johnstone, who is still unable to publicly discuss the situation, told a parliamentary inquiry into bullying in Tasmanian schools that he was going through a marriage break-up when he became close to Ms Saltmarsh.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">He explained her &#8216;support became critical&#8217; to his wellbeing and it was thereafter he claims his treatment changed.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">The inquiry heard Mr Johnstone disclosed the relationship to the school, after which his treatment changed.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">&#8216;From that point on, the focus shifted. It was no longer about my professional conduct, my leadership or my years of service,&#8217; he said.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>   <img decoding=\"async\" id=\"i-8c6e0e67f8118363\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/106122407-15529667-image-a-5_1770270757446.jpg\" height=\"556\" width=\"634\" alt=\"Mr Johnstone has spoken at a parliamentary inquiry into bullying\" class=\"blkBorder img-share\" style=\"max-width:100%\" loading=\"lazy\" \/>   <\/p>\n<p class=\"imageCaption\">Mr Johnstone has spoken at a parliamentary inquiry into bullying\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">&#8216;It became about my personal life or how it was perceived.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">&#8216;I was judged not on behaviour, but on the relationship and marital status. Not on evidence, but on assumption. Not with care, but with process and power.&#8217;<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Mr Johnstone told the inquiry that, despite there being no finding of professional wrongdoing or any &#8216;evidence-based assessment of misconduct&#8217;, he was stood down.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">&#8216;I was treated as though I was morally compromised and had been involved in criminal-type behaviour at a time when I was already deeply vulnerable and needed support and care,&#8217; he said.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">&#8216;At that point, the discrimination became explicit.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">&#8216;I was told I could not continue as a leader, or even as a teacher at my school, nor could I teach in any other Catholic Education Tasmania school.&#8217;<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">The inquiry heard the &#8216;blanket exclusion&#8217; was not based on any substantiated finding of wrongdoing and that, when Mr Johnstone attempted to negotiate, he was offered &#8216;diminished&#8217; non-teaching roles.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Mr Johnstone eventually resigned and signed a non-disclosure agreement, which he told the inquiry explicitly stated that no professional criminal wrongdoing had occurred.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">&#8216;I lost my role. I lost my vocation. I lost my community, when I needed all of them the most,&#8217; he said.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">&#8216;And despite the severity of what occurred, there has been no accountability for those who made these decisions, while I continue to carry the consequences.&#8217;<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">Mr Johnstone, who was asked to speak at the inquiry, which also heard evidence from two LGBTQIA+ students, said he chose to share his story in the hope it would lead to change.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">&#8216;People shouldn&#8217;t live in fear \u2026 whether it be young male or females, that are either heterosexual, homosexual, gender-fluid, or whatever it is they&#8217;re dealing with, or their marital status,&#8217; he said.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">&#8216;People need to be able to feel safe \u2026 and they feel that there&#8217;s an arm-around approach as opposed to a punitive, out the door one.&#8217;<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">A Catholic Education Tasmania spokesperson said they are taking the accusations seriously.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">&#8216;The Archdiocese and Catholic Education Tasmania take bullying and discrimination extremely seriously and we aim to provide a safe environment for all who are involved in Catholic Education,&#8217; they said.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"mol-para-with-font\">&#8216;It would be inappropriate to publicly respond to individual statements made under privilege to a Parliamentary Committee.&#8217;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"The partner of a Tasmanian deputy principal who was stood down after beginning a new relationship before his&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":465144,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[64,63,100,44,238157],"class_list":["post-465143","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-australia","tag-au","tag-australia","tag-dailymail","tag-news","tag-sam-johnstone"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/465143","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=465143"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/465143\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/465144"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=465143"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=465143"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=465143"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}