{"id":505986,"date":"2026-02-26T19:36:18","date_gmt":"2026-02-26T19:36:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/505986\/"},"modified":"2026-02-26T19:36:18","modified_gmt":"2026-02-26T19:36:18","slug":"mother-offered-to-pay-for-her-daughters-wedding-and-instead-took-control-of-everything-including-the-grooms-clothes-so-the-groom-told-his-fiancee-that-he-no-longer-wants-to-get-marr","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/505986\/","title":{"rendered":"Mother Offered To Pay For Her Daughter\u2019s Wedding And Instead Took Control Of Everything Including The Groom\u2019s Clothes, So The Groom Told His Fianc\u00e9e That He No Longer Wants To Get Married \u00bb TwistedSifter"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-733412\" class=\"wp-image-733412\" src=\"https:\/\/twistedsifter.com\/wp-content\/plugins\/lazy-load-0.7\/images\/1x1.trans.gif\" alt=\"Man in brown sweater looking sad\" width=\"800\" height=\"420\" title=\"Mother Offered To Pay For Her Daughters Wedding And Instead Took Control Of Everything Including The Grooms Clothes, So The Groom Told His Fianc\u00e9e That He No Longer Wants To Get Married\" data-lazy-src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/Keira-Burton-2026-02-10T011031.181.png\" data-lazy- data-lazy-\/><\/p>\n<p id=\"caption-attachment-733412\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Pexels\/Reddit<\/p>\n<p>Isn\u2019t it insane when parents think they can control their children\u2019s lives however they want?<\/p>\n<p>This man shares how his mother in law took full control of his wedding and refused to back out.<\/p>\n<p>Check out the<a href=\"https:\/\/www.reddit.com\/r\/AITAH\/comments\/1qj0b0i\/aitah_for_telling_my_fianc%C3%A9e_that_if_her_mother\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\"> full story!<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Her mother who is somewhat well to do is paying for a lot of things, including her dress, catering, alcohol many other stuff and her father, who is divorced from her mother is paying for the venue.<\/p>\n<p>My family is paying for the rehearsal dinner and my dad is paying for the honeymoon trip.<\/p>\n<p>This is where it gets tricky\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Her mother who is a bit of a control freak has made her mission to choose what everyone should wear. She chose my fianc\u00e9e\u2019s dress even though she had wanted a different one.<\/p>\n<p>She chose the colors for the groomsmen and bridesmaids. She is even trying to dictate what color my family should wear.<\/p>\n<p>Before even she got involved, I had decided to get married in a brown double cupped suit that I would get custom-made for me specifically. I already got everything set up and I have already chosen my bespoke tailor.<\/p>\n<p>UH OH\u2026<\/p>\n<p>To have a preview of what the suit will look like I generated an AI image of the same color of the suit and I showed it to my fianc\u00e9 to see if she likes it or not.<\/p>\n<p>She likes it and she really think that it will look very good on me and it will go perfect with the colors of the of the venue and all as well as the what the other people are wearing.<\/p>\n<p>Apparently, my future mother-in-law does not like the suit or at least the color and I\u2019ve decided to send me different colors that I should go for instead of the brown.<\/p>\n<p>She\u2019s being way too ANNOYING!<\/p>\n<p>I am not totally against choosing a different color or anything, but the fact the issue is that her choice are terrible. She apparently wants me to wear a pink skinny suit that looks terrible and cheaply made.<\/p>\n<p>I told my fianc\u00e9 that I do not want to wear the suit that she\u2019s suggesting or even asking me to wear and that\u2019s the end of it. But my my fianc\u00e9 is saying I should consider her mom is paying for a lot of things and that I should consider.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s INSANE!<\/p>\n<p>I told her if her mom is going to dictate what I should wear at my own wedding then I do not want to get married.<\/p>\n<p>Now she\u2019s mad and calling me an AH for not considering the opinions of others.<\/p>\n<p>AITAH<\/p>\n<p>GEEZ! Why on earth would the mother act so nosy?<\/p>\n<p>Let\u2019s find out what folks on Reddit think about this one.<\/p>\n<p>Exactly! This user knows whoever pays gets the bigger say!<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-733406\" src=\"https:\/\/twistedsifter.com\/wp-content\/plugins\/lazy-load-0.7\/images\/1x1.trans.gif\" alt=\"Screenshot 2026 02 10 010838 Mother Offered To Pay For Her Daughters Wedding And Instead Took Control Of Everything Including The Grooms Clothes, So The Groom Told His Fianc\u00e9e That He No Longer Wants To Get Married\" width=\"800\" height=\"582\" title=\"Mother Offered To Pay For Her Daughters Wedding And Instead Took Control Of Everything Including The Grooms Clothes, So The Groom Told His Fianc\u00e9e That He No Longer Wants To Get Married\" data-lazy-src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/Screenshot-2026-02-10-010838.png\" data-lazy- data-lazy-\/><\/p>\n<p>This user suggest breaking up before it is too late!<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-733407\" src=\"https:\/\/twistedsifter.com\/wp-content\/plugins\/lazy-load-0.7\/images\/1x1.trans.gif\" alt=\"Screenshot 2026 02 10 010845 Mother Offered To Pay For Her Daughters Wedding And Instead Took Control Of Everything Including The Grooms Clothes, So The Groom Told His Fianc\u00e9e That He No Longer Wants To Get Married\" width=\"800\" height=\"221\" title=\"Mother Offered To Pay For Her Daughters Wedding And Instead Took Control Of Everything Including The Grooms Clothes, So The Groom Told His Fianc\u00e9e That He No Longer Wants To Get Married\" data-lazy-src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/Screenshot-2026-02-10-010845.png\" data-lazy- data-lazy-\/><\/p>\n<p>This user knows the wife should have made some efforts.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-733408\" src=\"https:\/\/twistedsifter.com\/wp-content\/plugins\/lazy-load-0.7\/images\/1x1.trans.gif\" alt=\"Screenshot 2026 02 10 010853 Mother Offered To Pay For Her Daughters Wedding And Instead Took Control Of Everything Including The Grooms Clothes, So The Groom Told His Fianc\u00e9e That He No Longer Wants To Get Married\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" title=\"Mother Offered To Pay For Her Daughters Wedding And Instead Took Control Of Everything Including The Grooms Clothes, So The Groom Told His Fianc\u00e9e That He No Longer Wants To Get Married\" data-lazy-src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/Screenshot-2026-02-10-010853.png\" data-lazy- data-lazy-\/><\/p>\n<p>This user suggests running away from this marriage.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-733409\" src=\"https:\/\/twistedsifter.com\/wp-content\/plugins\/lazy-load-0.7\/images\/1x1.trans.gif\" alt=\"Screenshot 2026 02 10 010858 Mother Offered To Pay For Her Daughters Wedding And Instead Took Control Of Everything Including The Grooms Clothes, So The Groom Told His Fianc\u00e9e That He No Longer Wants To Get Married\" width=\"800\" height=\"334\" title=\"Mother Offered To Pay For Her Daughters Wedding And Instead Took Control Of Everything Including The Grooms Clothes, So The Groom Told His Fianc\u00e9e That He No Longer Wants To Get Married\" data-lazy-src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/Screenshot-2026-02-10-010858.png\" data-lazy- data-lazy-\/><\/p>\n<p>This user wants this guy to stand his ground.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-733410\" src=\"https:\/\/twistedsifter.com\/wp-content\/plugins\/lazy-load-0.7\/images\/1x1.trans.gif\" alt=\"Screenshot 2026 02 10 010912 Mother Offered To Pay For Her Daughters Wedding And Instead Took Control Of Everything Including The Grooms Clothes, So The Groom Told His Fianc\u00e9e That He No Longer Wants To Get Married\" width=\"800\" height=\"336\" title=\"Mother Offered To Pay For Her Daughters Wedding And Instead Took Control Of Everything Including The Grooms Clothes, So The Groom Told His Fianc\u00e9e That He No Longer Wants To Get Married\" data-lazy-src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/Screenshot-2026-02-10-010912.png\" data-lazy- data-lazy-\/><\/p>\n<p>Somebody\u2019s being way too unreasonable here.<\/p>\n<p>If you thought that was an interesting story, check this one out about <a href=\"https:\/\/twistedsifter.com\/2023\/12\/this-is-the-final-result-over-the-last-3-years-of-my-life-grandfather-creates-points-system-for-his-inheritance-and-a-family-friend-ends-up-getting-majority-share\/?utm_source=IN-ARTICLE&amp;utm_medium=IN-ARTICLE&amp;utm_campaign=IN-ARTICLE\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener nofollow\">a man who created a points system for his inheritance, and a family friend ends up getting almost all of it.<\/a><\/p>\n<p>\n\t\tCategories: <a href=\"https:\/\/twistedsifter.com\/category\/stories\/\" rel=\"category tag nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">STORIES<\/a>\t\t<br \/>Tags:  \u00b7 <a 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