{"id":514099,"date":"2026-03-02T15:24:14","date_gmt":"2026-03-02T15:24:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/514099\/"},"modified":"2026-03-02T15:24:14","modified_gmt":"2026-03-02T15:24:14","slug":"we-found-that-video-of-mafs-joel-playing-the-drums","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/514099\/","title":{"rendered":"We found THAT video of MAFS Joel playing the drums"},"content":{"rendered":"

A preview for Monday night\u2019s episode of Married At First Sight<\/a> teased \u201cshocking footage\u201d Intruder<\/a> bride Juliette Fava was shown of her new husband Joel Moses.<\/p>\n

After revealing that said footage had \u201cicked\u201d her out, we just had to find it. And find it we did!<\/p>\n

In the YouTube clip, the model and aspiring drummer is seen sitting at a drum kit in his home, playing along to Fountains of Wayne\u2019s 2003 hit song \u201cStacy\u2019s Mom\u201d. But instead of using traditional drumsticks, he\u2019s playing with s*x toys!<\/p>\n

Warning: Contains graphic content!<\/p>\n

\"MAFSThings have gone from bad to worse for Married At First Sight Intruders Joel and Juliette, following their Commitment Ceremony revelations. (Credit: Nine Network)<\/p>\n

Yes, you read that right: Joel is armed with two d***os \u2013 one black and one white.<\/p>\n

\u201cI lost my drumsticks, so I asked Stacy\u2019s Mom if I could use hers,\u201d he captioned the video, shared with his 80 subscribers. The video itself is titled, \u201cFountains of Wayne \u2013 Stacy\u2019s Mom ft. Interracial D***os.\u201d<\/p>\n

Juliette\u2019s shock discovery<\/p>\n

After moving in together that morning, Juliette and Joel were relaxing on the bed together when she decided to address the elephant in the room.<\/p>\n

\u201cA video popped up of you that my friend sent me,\u201d she told her husband. \u201cYou playing the drums with d***os.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cAnd that bothers you?\u201d Joel asked, laughing. \u201cIt was a bit weird, I will say,\u201d Juliette responded.<\/p>\n<\/p>\n

While Joel insisted it was just a bit of \u201charmless humour\u201d, saying he was just having \u201ca bit of fun\u201d, it was clear that Juliette found it anything but funny.<\/p>\n

\u201cI just don\u2019t think that\u2019s, like, a classy act to be posting on YouTube,\u201d she said. \u201cI just think we\u2019re completely different people.\u201d<\/p>\n

Speaking to the cameras, she admitted she was feeling \u201cicked out\u201d by her husband\u2019s theatrics \u2013 which mimicked his \u2018performance\u2019 during his wedding speech.<\/p>\n

\u201cI just can\u2019t help feeling embarrassed,\u201d she said. \u201cThat\u2019s kind of pushed me over the edge of whether or not I find Joel attractive, because it was so theatrical and performative, and that\u2019s what I saw at our wedding.<\/p>\n

\u201cI think I was right about him all along. And now I\u2019m icked out! I\u2019m so icked out.\u201d<\/p>\n

\"JoelCalling out her husband on his behaviour, Juliette admitted, \u201cI just can\u2019t help feeling embarrassed.\u201d (Credit: Nine Network)<\/p>\n

As the couple attempted to get to the root of the issue, Juliette was blunt as she explained that Joel just isn\u2019t the kind of person she would \u201cusually hang out with\u201d. <\/p>\n

She added that she was \u201cembarrassed\u201d that her friends had to see such a video of her husband. And, ultimately, it\u2019s only pushed her \u201cfurther and further away\u201d from him.<\/p>\n

\u201cToday has taken a turn for the worse,\u201d Joel told the camera. \u201cIt\u2019s been a dramatic turn of events between me and Juliette. After last night\u2019s Commitment Ceremony<\/a>, we seemed like we were aligned, but today she blew up at me over my drumming video.<\/p>\n

\u201cShe\u2019s definitely hitting me below the belt. It\u2019s just a joke. It\u2019s slapstick comedy, that\u2019s what the video is.\u201d<\/p>\n

And things only get worse from there, as the pair take aim at each other during their first Intimacy challenge.<\/p>\n

\"Joel'sThe couple\u2019s marriage got off to a bad start, due to Joel\u2019s \u201ctheatrical and performative\u201d wedding reception speech. (Credit: Nine Network)<\/p>\n

Wedding day theatrics<\/p>\n

Ever since their wedding, things have been a little strained between Joel, 31, and Juliette, 27.<\/p>\n

With his huge personality and quirky nature \u2013 including an oddly close relationship with his mother and dependency on a childhood teddy bear \u2013 Juliette was struggling with her attraction to her husband. Or rather, lack thereof.<\/p>\n

Taking to the couch for their first Commitment Ceremony on Sunday night, Juliette opened up to the experts about her concerns.<\/p>\n

\"JulietteFor Juliette, the drumming video was the last straw, pushing her further away from her husband. \u201cI\u2019m so icked out,\u201d she said. (Credit: Nine Network)<\/p>\n

\u201cI\u2019m trying to find anything. Any good signs, really,\u201d she admitted. \u201cBecause, if I wasn\u2019t part of this experiment, and I had just met Joel out, I wouldn\u2019t be proceeding.\u201d<\/p>\n

Joel insisted that things were heading in a \u201cpositive direction\u201d, but his bride clearly didn\u2019t agree if her facial expression was anything to go by!<\/p>\n

\u201cI\u2019m patiently waiting for her to grow that attraction to warm to me,\u201d Joel said. \u201cI\u2019m waiting. Take as long as you need, babe.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cShocked, blindsided and upset\u201d by his wife\u2019s latest comments, is there any saving this relationship?<\/p>\n

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Carolyn Hiblen has spent the best part of two decades working in the publishing industry, covering everything from entertainment and celebrity to film, TV, music, books, lifestyle and sport. After beginning her career at FOXTEL magazine, TV WEEK and OK!, she spent several years rubbing shoulders with A-listers in Hollywood (and writing about them for the Daily Mail!) before returning to Sydney and a stint as Entertainment Editor at New Idea. Coming full-circle, she became Deputy Editor and, subsequently, Editor-in-Chief of FOXTEL magazine before going freelance in 2024. When she\u2019s not binge-watching the latest It TV show \u2013 or chewing your ear off about it! \u2013 Carolyn has her head buried in good book or is listening to music (sometimes even at the same time!).<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"A preview for Monday night\u2019s episode of Married At First Sight teased \u201cshocking footage\u201d Intruder bride Juliette Fava…\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":514100,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[29],"tags":[64,63,134,237113,108353,427],"class_list":{"0":"post-514099","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-tv","8":"tag-au","9":"tag-australia","10":"tag-entertainment","11":"tag-mafs-2026","12":"tag-married-at-first-sight","13":"tag-tv"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/514099","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=514099"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/514099\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/514100"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=514099"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=514099"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=514099"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}