{"id":517787,"date":"2026-03-04T09:07:15","date_gmt":"2026-03-04T09:07:15","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/517787\/"},"modified":"2026-03-04T09:07:15","modified_gmt":"2026-03-04T09:07:15","slug":"mosman-park-murder-family-friend-speaks-of-harrowing-reality-raising-child-with-severe-autism","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/517787\/","title":{"rendered":"Mosman Park murder family friend speaks of \u2018harrowing\u2019 reality raising child with severe autism"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">WARNING: This story contains details some readers may find distressing.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">A friend of a family found dead in their Perth home after an apparent double murder-suicide says it is difficult for people not impacted by severe disability to understand what it is like.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">The entire family were found dead in their Mosman Park home in January \u2014 brothers Otis, 14, and Leon, 16, and their parents Jarrod Clune, 50, and Maiwenna Goasdoue, 49.<\/p>\n<p>If you or anyone you know needs help:<a class=\"Link_link__5eL5m ScreenReaderOnly_srLinkHint__OysWz Link_showVisited__C1Fea Link_showFocus__ALyv2\" href=\"http:\/\/www.lifeline.org.au\/\" data-component=\"Link\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Lifeline<\/a> on 13 11 14Aboriginal &amp; Torres Strait Islander crisis support line <a class=\"Link_link__5eL5m ScreenReaderOnly_srLinkHint__OysWz Link_showVisited__C1Fea Link_showFocus__ALyv2\" href=\"https:\/\/www.13yarn.org.au\/\" data-component=\"Link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer nofollow\">13YARN<\/a>\u00a0on 13 92 76<a class=\"Link_link__5eL5m ScreenReaderOnly_srLinkHint__OysWz Link_showVisited__C1Fea Link_showFocus__ALyv2\" href=\"https:\/\/www.beyondblue.org.au\/\" data-component=\"Link\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Beyond Blue<\/a> on 1300 224 636<a class=\"Link_link__5eL5m ScreenReaderOnly_srLinkHint__OysWz Link_showVisited__C1Fea Link_showFocus__ALyv2\" href=\"https:\/\/headspace.org.au\/\" data-component=\"Link\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Headspace<\/a> on 1800 650 890<a class=\"Link_link__5eL5m ScreenReaderOnly_srLinkHint__OysWz Link_showVisited__C1Fea Link_showFocus__ALyv2\" href=\"https:\/\/au.reachout.com\/\" data-component=\"Link\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">ReachOut<\/a> at <a class=\"Link_link__5eL5m ScreenReaderOnly_srLinkHint__OysWz Link_showVisited__C1Fea Link_showFocus__ALyv2\" href=\"https:\/\/au.reachout.com\/\" data-component=\"Link\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">au.reachout.com<\/a><a class=\"Link_link__5eL5m ScreenReaderOnly_srLinkHint__OysWz Link_showVisited__C1Fea Link_showFocus__ALyv2\" href=\"http:\/\/www.mensline.org.au\/Home.html\" data-component=\"Link\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">MensLine Australia<\/a> on 1300 789 978<a class=\"Link_link__5eL5m ScreenReaderOnly_srLinkHint__OysWz Link_showVisited__C1Fea Link_showFocus__ALyv2\" href=\"https:\/\/www.sane.org\/\" data-component=\"Link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer nofollow\">SANE<\/a>\u00a0on 1800 187 263<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">Police believe the parents killed their boys before taking their own lives.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">The boys experienced &#8220;significant health challenges&#8221;, according to police, which friends say was a severe level of autism.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">Simon Lewis knew the family, having met them at the early intervention centre they attended with their sons, and where Mr Lewis and his wife took their own severely autistic daughter Madeleine, now 16.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">\u201cI can most definitely relate to what they were going through,&#8221; Mr Lewis said, while not justifying the parents&#8217; actions.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Two teenage boys and their father, all in wet suit. \" class=\"Image_image__5tFYM ContentImage_image__DQ_cq\"  src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/465a7478b82e48a0d191338e933555b0.jpeg\" loading=\"lazy\" data-component=\"Image\" data-lazy=\"true\"\/><\/p>\n<p class=\"Typography_base__sj2RP FigureCaption_text__zDxQ5 Typography_sizeMobile12__w_FPC Typography_lineHeightMobile20___U7Vr Typography_regular__WeIG6 Typography_colourInherit__dfnUx\" data-component=\"Typography\">Leon (left) and Otis Clune with their father Jarrod, who is believed to have killed them in their Mosman Park home. (Supplied)<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">&#8220;Obviously it&#8217;s a horrible tragedy,&#8221; he told ABC Radio Perth in an emotional interview detailing his own family&#8217;s experiences.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">He said Otis and Leon &#8220;were lovely kids, just like Madeleine is.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Simon Lewis is side profile headshot.\" class=\"Image_image__5tFYM ContentImage_image__DQ_cq\"  src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/6d89dd451aac9286bbf12bcd77dbc7a3.jpeg\" loading=\"lazy\" data-component=\"Image\" data-lazy=\"true\"\/><\/p>\n<p class=\"Typography_base__sj2RP FigureCaption_text__zDxQ5 Typography_sizeMobile12__w_FPC Typography_lineHeightMobile20___U7Vr Typography_regular__WeIG6 Typography_colourInherit__dfnUx\" data-component=\"Typography\">Simon Lewis said the death of the Clune family was &#8220;still a big shock&#8221;. (ABC News: Andrew O&#8217;Connor)<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;It&#8217;s obviously something that people outside the tent don&#8217;t actually really understand,&#8221;  Mr Lewis said.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">&#8220;You can probably hear me getting a little bit emotional but it is still a big shock.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Loading&#8230;Confronting and isolating<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">Mr Lewis described the &#8220;harrowing&#8221; and &#8220;heartbreaking&#8221; experiences his family have endured with Madeleine, who has level 3 autism.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">Stressing his profound love for his daughter, Mr Lewis said he and his wife had been pushed to the limit by some of her behaviours, which were outside her control.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">Madeleine is not verbal and cannot articulate her needs or feelings, and requires 24-hour care so she does not harm herself or others.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"A baby lying between her young sisters who are hugging her.\" class=\"Image_image__5tFYM ContentImage_image__DQ_cq\"  src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/a871471705fd405e3b0a8cb9044daa98.jpeg\" loading=\"lazy\" data-component=\"Image\" data-lazy=\"true\"\/><\/p>\n<p class=\"Typography_base__sj2RP FigureCaption_text__zDxQ5 Typography_sizeMobile12__w_FPC Typography_lineHeightMobile20___U7Vr Typography_regular__WeIG6 Typography_colourInherit__dfnUx\" data-component=\"Typography\">Madeleine as a baby with her sisters Alexandra (left) and Josephine (right).\u00a0 (Supplied: Simon Lewis)<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">Mr Lewis said as a baby and small child, she would often scream for hours, and was awake between the hours of 1am and 6am, meaning he and his wife would often go to work on less than two hours&#8217; sleep.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">&#8220;It is frightening, it is confronting, it is isolating. It pushes you into places you would have never thought you would have been,&#8221; he said.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">When medical staff assessed her developmental delays shortly before her second birthday, Mr Lewis said he was told there would be a two and a half year wait for a formal diagnosis.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"A man looks outside a window\" class=\"Image_image__5tFYM ContentImage_image__DQ_cq\"  src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/6897161b7ed4ecc34fe780fe4c59275d.jpeg\" loading=\"lazy\" data-component=\"Image\" data-lazy=\"true\"\/><\/p>\n<p class=\"Typography_base__sj2RP FigureCaption_text__zDxQ5 Typography_sizeMobile12__w_FPC Typography_lineHeightMobile20___U7Vr Typography_regular__WeIG6 Typography_colourInherit__dfnUx\" data-component=\"Typography\">Mr Lewis speaks candidly about his experiences raising his daughter. (ABC News: Andrew O&#8217;Connor)<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">&#8220;No diagnosis means no services,&#8221; Mr Lewis said, recalling how he went home and broke down in his backyard, not knowing what to do.<\/p>\n<p>Reflecting on the Clunes<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">Mr Lewis said he would wake up bathed in sweat from the stress and anxiety of his family&#8217;s situation, and felt there was no help available for parents.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">&#8220;The pressure on families such as mine is through the roof \u2014 there&#8217;s not even a counselling service to ring up,&#8221; he said.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">&#8220;We&#8217;re just trying minute by minute to keep it together.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">&#8220;I reflect very much on the Clunes because their eldest boy was I think six months older.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"A man is cuddling her son sitting on a sofa\" class=\"Image_image__5tFYM ContentImage_image__DQ_cq\"  src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/cc759bbd855499165037c141eacb7181.jpeg\" loading=\"lazy\" data-component=\"Image\" data-lazy=\"true\"\/><\/p>\n<p class=\"Typography_base__sj2RP FigureCaption_text__zDxQ5 Typography_sizeMobile12__w_FPC Typography_lineHeightMobile20___U7Vr Typography_regular__WeIG6 Typography_colourInherit__dfnUx\" data-component=\"Typography\">Maiwenna Goasdoue cuddling her teenage son Otis.\u00a0 (Supplied)<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">He said it was &#8220;heartbreaking&#8221; to watch his daughter&#8217;s distress and be unable to understand what was troubling her.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">Occasionally this took the form of sudden violence inflicted on her mother, while at other times it made her grimace in apparent pain that her parents found it almost impossible to diagnose.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">One time, he said, she was grimacing and holding her tummy, so he gave her a warmed wheat bag to try to soothe her \u2014 but she almost immediately ripped it to shreds and began eating the raw wheat inside.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">&#8220;It is so intense \u2014 these children are often frightened, they are frustrated,&#8221; he said.<\/p>\n<p>Autism tropes disputed<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">Describing Madeleine&#8217;s condition as &#8220;incredibly cruel&#8221;, Mr Lewis said he was sick of autism being construed as a superpower.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">&#8220;Autism has been hijacked into something of a quirk,&#8221; he said.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">&#8220;[But] the autism I see through my lens is not a superpower.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"A close-up shot of a teenage girl with brown hair, wearing a red rain jacket in front of a road and trees.\" class=\"Image_image__5tFYM ContentImage_image__DQ_cq\"  src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/82f777a3bec325c3526c7c9dede4f93c.jpeg\" loading=\"lazy\" data-component=\"Image\" data-lazy=\"true\"\/><\/p>\n<p class=\"Typography_base__sj2RP FigureCaption_text__zDxQ5 Typography_sizeMobile12__w_FPC Typography_lineHeightMobile20___U7Vr Typography_regular__WeIG6 Typography_colourInherit__dfnUx\" data-component=\"Typography\">Teenager Madeleine Lewis is not verbal and cannot articulate her needs or feelings, and requires 24-hour care so she does not harm herself or others. (Supplied: Laura Clarke)<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">Mr Lewis said Madeleine was also capable of moments of extreme tenderness and joy.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">&#8220;My favourite moment with her is when we would swim together in the ocean &#8230; she would be squealing with delight,&#8221; he said.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">&#8220;She is extremely, extremely loving.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;She is a very happy girl. She is much loved &#8230; but this beast of a condition \u2014 and it&#8217;s not the person, it&#8217;s the condition \u2014 places so much impact on families.&#8221;NDIS stress<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">Mr Lewis said the stress had driven him and his wife to the brink of divorce, and their marriage was only saved when a GP friend helped him get psychological help.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">He said it had been trying for his two older daughters too, as he and his wife tried to keep the family together.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Headshot from below of a teenager girl and her parents.\" class=\"Image_image__5tFYM ContentImage_image__DQ_cq\"  src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/8fc386b770e9afefc2fed108b9010d05.jpeg\" loading=\"lazy\" data-component=\"Image\" data-lazy=\"true\"\/><\/p>\n<p class=\"Typography_base__sj2RP FigureCaption_text__zDxQ5 Typography_sizeMobile12__w_FPC Typography_lineHeightMobile20___U7Vr Typography_regular__WeIG6 Typography_colourInherit__dfnUx\" data-component=\"Typography\">Madeleine Lewis with her parents Simon Lewis and Laura Clarke. (Supplied: Laura Clarke)<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">&#8220;It is absolutely high octane, high pressure,&#8221; he said.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">Mr Lewis said another source of pressure was his enduring fear that Madeleine&#8217;s NDIS funding, which enabled the family to employ carers and psychological help for Madeleine, could be cut.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">Describing the National Disability Insurance Scheme as a &#8220;wonderful initiative&#8221;, he said he and his wife were forced to recount the &#8220;harrowing&#8221; details of their daily life annually in order to maintain their daughter&#8217;s plan funding, and knew of families whose funding had been abruptly cut.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">&#8220;If that [the funding] gets taken away or reduced, I don&#8217;t know where I&#8217;ll be,&#8221; he said.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"A worried looking man in headshot in front of an ABC microphone.\" class=\"Image_image__5tFYM ContentImage_image__DQ_cq\"  src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/2531aa8656d57a8c9e746c117dd3fae6.jpeg\" loading=\"lazy\" data-component=\"Image\" data-lazy=\"true\"\/><\/p>\n<p class=\"Typography_base__sj2RP FigureCaption_text__zDxQ5 Typography_sizeMobile12__w_FPC Typography_lineHeightMobile20___U7Vr Typography_regular__WeIG6 Typography_colourInherit__dfnUx\" data-component=\"Typography\">Simon Lewis has detailed his often &#8220;harrowing&#8221; experiences of living with a severely autistic daughter. (ABC News: Andrew O&#8217;Connor)<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph__iYReA\">Mr Lewis said he was speaking out about his daughter because families like his were often invisible to society, unable to participate in community life and hidden behind the doors of their homes.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;There are families going through this today, and there&#8217;ll be families going through this tomorrow, and it&#8217;s time that the severe end of the community is noticed and is helped,&#8221;  he said.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"WARNING: This story contains details some readers may find distressing. 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