{"id":522576,"date":"2026-03-06T13:41:17","date_gmt":"2026-03-06T13:41:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/522576\/"},"modified":"2026-03-06T13:41:17","modified_gmt":"2026-03-06T13:41:17","slug":"perth-mum-threatened-with-police-action-after-daughters-innocent-best-friend-necklace-exchange-at-daycare","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/522576\/","title":{"rendered":"Perth mum threatened with police action after daughter\u2019s innocent \u2018best friend\u2019 necklace exchange at daycare"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"css-9cqv6l-StyledPNParagraph e8utp6u0\">A Perth mum has been threatened with police action over an innocent interaction her daughter had with a child at daycare.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-9cqv6l-StyledPNParagraph e8utp6u0\">Rachal Lange revealed her four-year-old daughter was attending a childcare centre when she was given a \u2018best friend\u2019 necklace from another child.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-9cqv6l-StyledPNParagraph e8utp6u0\">Ms Lange briefly saw the necklace at her home but was unsure where it had come from.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-9cqv6l-StyledPNParagraph e8utp6u0\">After the daycare notified parents that the necklace was missing, Ms Lange realised it had come from the daycare and asked her daughter for the jewellery piece so she could return it to the other little girl.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-9cqv6l-StyledPNParagraph e8utp6u0\">However, when her daughter revealed she had put it in the bin, Ms Lange immediately called the other mum to say she\u2019d give her the money to replace it.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-9cqv6l-StyledPNParagraph e8utp6u0\">Ms Lange initially thought it was \u201cjust a cheapy\u201d and was happy to pay $20 as a \u201cgesture of goodwill\u201d.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-9cqv6l-StyledPNParagraph e8utp6u0\">But it turned out the necklace was not cheap, it was a Prouds necklace, and cost $80.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-9cqv6l-StyledPNParagraph e8utp6u0\">After sitting on it overnight, Ms Lange took to social media to ask for advice, and the overwhelming response was \u201cdo not replace it,\u201d which Ms Lange said shifted her mindset.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-9cqv6l-StyledPNParagraph e8utp6u0\">\u201cI wrote a really kind, respectful, but also very direct message to the mum and I just said, \u2018maybe this is a learning curve, like, we shouldn\u2019t be taking (valuable) things to daycare anyway,\u201d Ms Lange said.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-9cqv6l-StyledPNParagraph e8utp6u0\">Despite Ms Lange attempting to stay amicable, the other mum \u201cwas not happy\u201d and claimed Ms Lange\u2019s daughter had stolen it from the little girl\u2019s neck.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-9cqv6l-StyledPNParagraph e8utp6u0\">\u201cShe basically said, \u2018this matter will be taken to the police\u2019, and I said you go for it\u2019,\u201d Ms Lange told her social media followers.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-9cqv6l-StyledPNParagraph e8utp6u0\">\u201cThen I said to her, \u2018please don\u2019t contact me again\u2019, and I haven\u2019t heard from her since.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-9cqv6l-StyledPNParagraph e8utp6u0\">Ms Lange says the necklace shouldn\u2019t have been brought to daycare in the first place.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-9cqv6l-StyledPNParagraph e8utp6u0\">\u201cI say to my daughter, if you want to take something to daycare, and I\u2019ve said no multiple times, and you still want to take it, absolutely go for it\u2019,\u201d she said.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/8cab6b8c80862ab1425bb42111d2e0c7fc16c376.jpg\" alt=\"The necklace turned out to cost $80.\" class=\"css-16r7l45-StyledImage en5ut4d0\"\/>Camera IconThe necklace turned out to cost $80. Credit: Prouds<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-9cqv6l-StyledPNParagraph e8utp6u0\">\u201cIf it doesn\u2019t come home, it gets broken, lost, stolen, eaten, misplaced, then that\u2019s your own fault.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-9cqv6l-StyledPNParagraph e8utp6u0\">The \u201claughable\u201d interaction ignited fierce debate online about who is responsible for replacing the necklace.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-9cqv6l-StyledPNParagraph e8utp6u0\">\u201cYour child threw away something she knew wasn\u2019t hers. You replace it, period,\u201d one comment said.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-9cqv6l-StyledPNParagraph e8utp6u0\">Others disagreed, and took Ms Lange\u2019s side.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-9cqv6l-StyledPNParagraph e8utp6u0\">\u201cIf it gets lost at daycare, they wouldn\u2019t be paying for it. It\u2019s completely on her for letting her child take it to preschool,\u201d a comment said.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-9cqv6l-StyledPNParagraph e8utp6u0\">Another said: \u201cI\u2019d give them $100 with a note saying if they\u2019re ever on hard times you\u2019re happy to help them out with groceries or meals, they seem like the type of people who will be offended by that lol.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-9cqv6l-StyledPNParagraph e8utp6u0\">It\u2019s been a \u201cbizarre\u201d experience for Ms Lange, who says she hasn\u2019t experienced anything like this in the almost five years her daughter has been at day care.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-9cqv6l-StyledPNParagraph e8utp6u0\">\u201cI\u2019m chill, it\u2019s not like it really bothered me. . . I more (thought) that if she goes to the police, that is one, so embarrassing for her, but two, just don\u2019t waste police resources on something like this.\u201d<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"A Perth mum has been threatened with police action over an innocent interaction her daughter had with a&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":522577,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[64,63,502,44,46,45],"class_list":["post-522576","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-australia","tag-au","tag-australia","tag-children","tag-news","tag-perth","tag-wa-news"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/522576","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=522576"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/522576\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/522577"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=522576"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=522576"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=522576"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}