{"id":560689,"date":"2026-03-24T08:04:11","date_gmt":"2026-03-24T08:04:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/560689\/"},"modified":"2026-03-24T08:04:11","modified_gmt":"2026-03-24T08:04:11","slug":"the-wa-law-that-made-kyros-waiting-game-take-longer","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/560689\/","title":{"rendered":"The WA law that made Kyro\u2019s \u2018waiting game\u2019 take longer"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Save<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-d1b14060-4 JmUoF\">You have reached your maximum number of saved items.<\/p>\n<p>Remove items from your <a href=\"https:\/\/www.watoday.com.au\/goodfood\/saved\" class=\"sc-3f16ee48-12 sc-d1b14060-2 jyLmZI iQLtAb\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">saved list<\/a> to add more.<\/p>\n<p>AAA<\/p>\n<p>For Kyro McDonald, transitioning felt like a waiting game.<\/p>\n<p>Now a year into his hormone therapy journey, the 19-year-old still wishes he could have accessed the life-changing medical treatments sooner.<\/p>\n<p>McDonald described his journey to coming out to his family as a trans man at 16 as both confusing and \u201cvery scary\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cPuberty is when I started to figure stuff out. I\u2019d always been a very, very girly girl. I\u2019ve always liked makeup, all that stuff. It was just more my body image when I started going through puberty [when things started to feel off]. It was such an odd feeling,\u201d he said.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Sandi and Kyro McDonald.\" loading=\"eager\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/88b1c572df9f53f0d468a4dd0684ca6b42873e206a784bfcda981f61c4bf4858.jpeg\"  class=\"sc-d34e428-1 ldCIuB\"\/>Sandi and Kyro McDonald.Sandi McDonald<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIt already is [weird] going through puberty in general \u2013 but when you\u2019re looking at men, and you\u2019re looking at women, and you\u2019re like, \u2018Wait a second, I want to be doing what they\u2019re doing\u2019, that you realise you shouldn\u2019t be feeling like that.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>McDonald, who appears alongside his mother Sandi in an upcoming episode of Insight about trans medicine, said he couldn\u2019t imagine his life as a woman.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIt was more like dread of the idea of going through a female puberty and how I was going to develop more. I remember hearing about it, and periods, and childbirth and all that stuff, and it just was such a disconnect in my brain,\u201d he said.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIt was so foreign and weird. But then the idea of being a man felt more comfortable. It felt safe to me. It felt calmer, and it just felt right compared to being a woman.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cBut my problem was, again, I was very feminine. I still liked girly stuff. I still liked makeup. And it was not until I\u2019d watched more queer media where I saw more gay flamboyant men when I realised, \u2018Wait, that\u2019s an option? I can be that?\u2019\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Despite cutting his hair, binding his chest and dressing more masculine, without parental consent McDonald was unable to begin his transitioning journey before he was 18.<\/p>\n<p>In WA, people younger than 18 have access to puberty blockers and hormone treatments \u2013 as long as both parents give consent.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI felt like I could talk to my mum about it, but then I couldn\u2019t because she was still very dismissive of it at that point and I just could not talk to my dad about it,\u201d he said.<\/p>\n<p>McDonald said his mum was \u201cin denial\u201d about his desire to transition and believes she thought it was a phase he was going through.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cEven at that point, when I was 15 it was still like, \u2018You\u2019re just a bit confused\u2019 because my friends were queer. So [she thought I was] just copying them and it was just a funsy little thing we all get together and do,\u201d he said,<\/p>\n<p>\u201cBut it\u2019s like, no, we don\u2019t want to get hate crimes, it\u2019s not like a fun cute thing where we go outside and get yelled at.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>While McDonald wishes his parents had supported his desire to begin hormone therapy at 16, he understands their hesitation.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI 100 per cent get it. Because at the end of the day, it\u2019s a big thing. Almost all the changes with testosterone are irreversible. Like, your voice isn\u2019t going to un-drop,\u201d he said.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI also understand the fact that it\u2019s scary, you\u2019re losing your daughter, and if it was a mistake, then she\u2019s going to have all these issues when she\u2019s older \u2013 like I get that.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cBut my mental health was so bad because I\u2019m trapped, not being able to do anything about anything \u2026 and I felt like once I was on hormones, [things would be better].\u201d<\/p>\n<p>A few months after his 18th birthday, McDonald had his first appointment to go on hormones and, by February 2025, had his first shot.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI was so giddy,\u201d he said.<\/p>\n<p>But appointments aren\u2019t easy to come by.<\/p>\n<p>McDonald plans to undergo top surgery and said he has had to wait a year just to have his first initial assessment appointment which is pencilled in for November.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYou shouldn\u2019t have to wait a year for a surgery when you\u2019re already feeling like shit for years and years and years,\u201d he said.<\/p>\n<p>The numbers behind transgender healthcare in WA<\/p>\n<p>Perth Children\u2019s Hospital\u2019s Gender Diversity Service is the point of call for transgender youth in WA.<\/p>\n<p>The GDS, operated by the Child and Adolescent Health Service, offers outpatient services for children and adolescents up to 18 years old with persistent gender dysphoria, the psychological distress caused by a mismatch between a person\u2019s sex assigned at birth and their gender identity.<\/p>\n<p>The service \u2013 which can be accessed through referral by a general practitioner, paediatrician or other health professional \u2013 treats patients in two stages: puberty suppression treatment and hormone treatment.<\/p>\n<p>Related Article<a href=\"https:\/\/www.watoday.com.au\/politics\/queensland\/legal-service-files-fresh-effort-to-scrap-queensland-kids-gender-care-ban-20260106-p5ns50.html\" tabindex=\"-1\" class=\"sc-cba76dee-0 hdiTqm\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\"><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"\u201cIn Queensland, we\u2019re not prepared to go down that pathway of trialling unproven drugs on children,\u201d Health Minister Tim Nicholls said announcing an extension of the ban last month.\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/ece831ce0de3a2a7470436a881c20c576fb2baa9d394e5caa5976b053bfbea89.jpeg\"  class=\"sc-d34e428-1 ioInpc\"\/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>As of March 2026, there are 215 children as young as 11 receiving care as part of the program.<\/p>\n<p>This number has declined from 2020, when there were 392 young people accessing gender diversity services at PCH.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThe GDS has a multidisciplinary team model including clinical psychology, child and adolescent psychiatry, endocrinology, gynaecology, nursing and speech pathology professionals,\u201d a spokesperson for the Child and Adolescent Health Service said.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cAll young people who wish to access gender-affirming medical care, undergo a comprehensive mental health assessment and multidisciplinary team assessment. The care pathway is comprehensive and requires written informed consent from the young person and both parents or legal guardians.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cTreatment options are explored with the family at the end of the assessment phase and are dependent on the young person\u2019s physical development, gender experience, wishes, and existing supports.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>The spokesperson wouldn\u2019t provide updated information on current wait times for appointments, but in 2020 there was a three-month wait for an initial assessment, and a 4\u00bd-year wait for a comprehensive mental health assessment with a clinical psychologist.<\/p>\n<p>According to answers provided in state parliament in November 2025, in 2025\u201326, the Mental Health Commission allocated $2,514,890 to the Child and Adolescent Health Service for the Gender Diversity Service.<\/p>\n<p>Laws to access services as a youth differs between states, with the Northern Territory and Queensland initiating blanket bans across the public health system on puberty blockers and hormone treatments for people under the age of 18.<\/p>\n<p>A professor\u2019s point of view<\/p>\n<p>Paula Gerber, a Monash University professor of law and author of Sex, Gender &amp; Identity: Trans Rights in Australia, doesn\u2019t agree that parents should have the final say on trans youth access to health care.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI have some concerns because not all parents are going to be understanding and supportive of their children,\u201d she said.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cSo it all depends on the age of the child and their maturity and their ability to understand all the implications of embarking on a certain course of medical treatment.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cBut it\u2019s probably best left to the young person and their health carers, rather than having parents being able to veto it because they don\u2019t understand or approve of changing your gender.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>She added that government-enforced blanket bans on treatments could come with dire consequences.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWe\u2019ve seen a significant spike in suicide by trans and gender-diverse youth. If we\u2019re talking about what\u2019s in the best interest of children, then this sort of blanket ban saying, \u2018Well just wait until you\u2019re 18\u2019, some children are just not going to be able to survive going through puberty in the wrong gender,\u201d she said.<\/p>\n<p>Soon, for the first time, the Australian Bureau of Statistics will include transgender people aged 16 and up in the census.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThe ABS has compiled some questions that are asking people about sexual orientation and gender identity and this is really important because people throw around a lot of numbers and percentages about how many people are gay or trans, but we really don\u2019t know,\u201d Gerber said.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cSo, it\u2019s important if we\u2019re making policy, that it\u2019s based on evidence, and the best evidence is the census.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>A parent\u2019s journey<\/p>\n<p>Sandi McDonald said she loves her child regardless of him coming out as transgender.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWe have gotten closer, if anything. Kyro and I discuss everything openly and I hope this will always be the case,\u201d she said.<\/p>\n<p>But she says the loss of the daughter she had would always be difficult to come to terms with, and that her decision to hold off on allowing Kyro to take hormones was made to ensure that he \u201cwasn\u2019t going through a phase due to situations around him at the time\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>Despite this decision, she firmly believes blanket bans on puberty blockers and hormone treatments are wrong.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI strongly disagree with what [Northern Territory and Queensland governments] have done, no one should take away basic human rights,\u201d she said.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIf the child and parents have been counselled and gone through all the right steps, they should be given the right to utilise the blockers if it fits their circumstance. It would certainly save a person going through surgery later on.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThere are so many varying circumstances in play within each family unit.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>McDonald said she struggled to know how or whether to discuss her son\u2019s transition with others \u2013 especially within her family unit \u2013 but knows her love for him will never change.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI love Kyro for who he is and am so proud of the person he has become. He is a much happier, outgoing, quirky person overall and loved immensely by us,\u201d she said.<\/p>\n<p>SBS Insight episode Trans Medicine airs Tuesday, March 24 at 8.30pm on SBS, or stream on <a class=\"inline-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.sbs.com.au\/ondemand\/news-series\/insight\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer nofollow\" target=\"_blank\">SBS On Demand<\/a>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Save You have reached your maximum number of saved items. 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