Lydia after two months of dating<\/a>. Before their proposal, Ethan, 27, was vocal about the pace of the couple\u2019s relationship.\u00a0\n<\/p>\n As Lydia, 21, arrived at her proposal, she hugged her family and walked toward Zac, 23, Ethan made one last-ditch effort. “Please say no,” Ethan said as Zac asked Lydia to marry him.\n<\/p>\n
Two hours after she said yes, Zac joined Ethan and Micah, 24, for a chat about the newly engaged couple\u2019s relationship. Before their conversation, Micah and Ethan explained to the camera how they\u2019re \u201cgoing to feel [Zac] out and ask him some questions, and see if we can make him crack.\u201d\n<\/p>\n
Micah then said in his confessional that he doesn\u2019t know Zac \u201cat all,” adding, \u201cI know my dad didn’t grill him that hard, and I feel like maybe Ethan and I should.\u201d\n<\/p>\n
Ethan and Micah Plath in “Welcome to Plathville” season 7 episode 4.<\/p>\n
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The scene cut back to Ethan and Micah discussing the new engagement, with Ethan noting, \u201cLydia’s like the whole world is in ministry in the church, and that’s wonderful.\u201d\n<\/p>\n
\u201cBut I don’t think that Zac and Lydia were divinely put together by God and there’s no one else. And it was just destined and intended to be,” Ethan continued.\n<\/p>\n
“When in reality, it’s, it’s just a crush. And you’re probably making the crush bigger by not kissing or doing anything \u2014” Micah said before Ethan cut him off.\n<\/p>\n
“They don’t really know each other,\u201d Ethan said. \u201cI mean, like Lydia said, he’s a nice guy, but I mean, Lydia wouldn’t know any better.\u201d\n<\/p>\n
\u201cLydia’s like the sweetest person ever. I don’t want I don’t want her to change,\u201d Micah said. \u201cI don’t want to see Lydia get heartbroken at all.\u201d\n<\/p>\n
After the two brothers chat about the relationship, Zac arrived.\n<\/p>\n
\u201cI just wanted to let you know that as Lydia’s bigger brother, I know you make Lydia happy, and that’s what matters to me,” Micah told him. “But if I ever find out that, you know, you did anything to hurt her or anything like that. [If] you ever let her down or anything, there will be consequences.”\n<\/p>\n
Ethan followed that up by asking why their relationship moved \u201cso damn fast,” adding, \u201cThere’s more to lose in my opinion than there is to gain by getting married very quickly. And I just don’t want Lydia to be hurt.\u201d\n<\/p>\n
Zac then told them how he and Lydia got to know each other well when she visited him for five days in Colorado. But Ethan remained unimpressed, explaining in his confessional, \u201cI don’t know what psychedelics you’re on, but the fact is, you still only spent a week with her. And I don’t like it. And I object.\u201d\n<\/p>\n
As their conversation continued, the two brothers pressed Zac about his commitment to save his and Lydia’s first kiss for their wedding. Zac didn’t expect to do that, but decided to “because of who Lydia is, it changed my heart and was like, yeah, no, that’s something I really do want to commit to, to honor her… A lot of that’s tied to the core belief that we do have in Jesus Christ.\u201d\n<\/p>\n
Ethan then shared his thoughts, telling the camera that he expected Zac to say, “We said that we’re going to save her first kiss. But, you know, if I’m being completely honest, I kind of I really want to.\u201d\n<\/p>\n
Ethan also reiterated the thought during the onsite confessional, telling Micah and the camera, \u201cBut I don’t think it’s honest to say I’m not kissing her because you know of the\u2026 seven fruits of whatever. Aww, f— off you big holy bastard. I think that\u2019s a bulls— answer.\u201d\n<\/p>\n
Zac Wyse in “Welcome to Plathville” season 7 episode 4.<\/p>\n
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\u201cI just want to make sure that there’s actually a physical compatibility and passion for each other, you know,\u201d Ethan told Zac.\u00a0\n<\/p>\n
In his confessional, Zac said he and Lydia chose to save their kiss because \u201cin previous relationships, it has become a distraction for [him],” explaining, \u201cI’ve seen physical intimacy get in the way of truly getting to know someone, and so we’re doing it differently.\u201d\n<\/p>\n
\u201cI’ve never in my life met a straight man who voluntarily gives up the opportunity to be intimate with a woman,\u201d Ethan said in his confessional. \u201cIt just doesn’t compute in my own mind, especially as a young man.\u201d\n<\/p>\n
Ethan replied, telling Zac everything that he and Lydia have said is \u201cgreat and sounds amazing,\u201d but he has a question for him. As the episode ends, Ethan asked, \u201cAre you gay?\u201d\n<\/p>\n
Lydia Plath in “Welcome to Plathville” season 7 episode 4.<\/p>\n
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