{"id":678073,"date":"2026-05-18T06:15:12","date_gmt":"2026-05-18T06:15:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/678073\/"},"modified":"2026-05-18T06:15:12","modified_gmt":"2026-05-18T06:15:12","slug":"a-conversation-about-ai-replacing-jobs-ended-up-destroying-a-longtime-friendship","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/678073\/","title":{"rendered":"A Conversation About AI Replacing Jobs Ended Up Destroying a Longtime Friendship"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-802229\" class=\"wp-image-802229\" src=\"https:\/\/twistedsifter.com\/wp-content\/plugins\/lazy-load-0.7\/images\/1x1.trans.gif\" alt=\"woman artist drawing an eye\" width=\"800\" height=\"450\" title=\"A Conversation About AI Replacing Jobs Ended Up Destroying a Longtime Friendship\" data-lazy-src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/woman-artist-drawing-an-eye.jpg\" data-lazy- data-lazy-\/><\/p>\n<p id=\"caption-attachment-802229\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Pexels\/Reddit<\/p>\n<p>AI has disrupted a lot of industries, and maybe one of the only silver linings is that it gives the people it\u2019s displaced tend to find a strange kind of solidarity with each other. However, that\u2019s not what happened in this story.<\/p>\n<p>One man was reeling from a job lost due to AI last year, spending months dealing with the depression that followed, knowing his career experience was suddenly worthless in a changed market.<\/p>\n<p>So when he texted his artist friend to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.reddit.com\/r\/AmItheAsshole\/comments\/1six5nh\/aita_for_saying_i_would_use_ai_after_my_artist\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">commission new artwork<\/a>, the conversation turned to how AI had affected them both.<\/p>\n<p>But instead of supporting him, his artist friend seemed to dismiss his experience entirely. Neither the commission nor the friendship survived the ensuing conversation.<\/p>\n<p>Keep reading for the full story.<\/p>\n<p>I have a friend who works as an artist. I like to roleplay online and I\u2019ve commissioned her a few times to draw my characters.<\/p>\n<p>There\u2019s obviously a big uptick in people online using AI generated images for their characters and profiles. I still prefer to pay my friend for art.<\/p>\n<p>AI is a bit of a sore subject for this artist.<\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t really like AI. I lost my job due to AI basically making me obsolete in the eyes of my company.<\/p>\n<p>It hurt. I liked my job and coworkers. It happened last year and I got pretty depressed over it, feeling like I\u2019m useless.<\/p>\n<p>My friends know how hard it all was on me. Including this artist friend I\u2019ll call AF.<\/p>\n<p>So she hit AF up for another commission, which she was very grateful for.<\/p>\n<p>I was texting AF and during our conversation I mentioned wanting to commission her to draw my newest character I was making.<\/p>\n<p>She and I had a brief conversation where she thanked me for still coming to her for art because AI art has gotten so popular she noticed a big decrease in people commissioning her.<\/p>\n<p>I shared my experience more in detail about how AI took my job too, so I get it.<\/p>\n<p>But instead of commiserating, AF made her feel worse about the whole thing.<\/p>\n<p>She wasn\u2019t really sympathetic though.<\/p>\n<p>Instead, AF basically told me that \u201cit\u2019s different\u201d because my job is one that it makes more sense for AI to do. But AI art is a bigger deal because it\u2019s stealing art and being an artist takes a lot of skill that AI could never be able to replicate.<\/p>\n<p>In her eyes, AF just didn\u2019t seem to understand her situation.<\/p>\n<p>The whole conversation was rubbing me the wrong way, so I told AF that I disagree on it being a bigger deal with her job than it was with mine.<\/p>\n<p>I was actually laid off. Not just a slow down on commissions. I was jobless in a market where my only career experience was for a now useless field. It was awful.<\/p>\n<p>She now feels quite negatively towards AF and her attitude.<\/p>\n<p>I didn\u2019t like how she was acting like her experience with AI was more serious than mine.<\/p>\n<p>AF was, in my opinion, being rude by not hearing me out and insisting that her experience was more valid than mine because my job in her eyes was easy to do and pointless.<\/p>\n<p>Which is exactly why I was so depressed at the start of the year.<\/p>\n<p>So she decided to pull back on the commission.<\/p>\n<p>I got mad and told her nevermind on the commission, that I\u2019ll just use AI to make my art from now on if she\u2019s going to act like that.<\/p>\n<p>I also said that she\u2019s probably lost more work due to being a jerk than because of AI.<\/p>\n<p>Now the whole friend group is turning against her.<\/p>\n<p>AF blocked me and told some mutual friends about what I said.<\/p>\n<p>I feel bad and embarrassed but also pretty justified because I don\u2019t know why she had to act like that.<\/p>\n<p>Well that escalated quickly.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/twistedsifter.com\/wp-content\/plugins\/lazy-load-0.7\/images\/1x1.trans.gif\" alt=\"envelope 80 A Conversation About AI Replacing Jobs Ended Up Destroying a Longtime Friendship\" height=\"60\" width=\"60\" title=\"A Conversation About AI Replacing Jobs Ended Up Destroying a Longtime Friendship\" data-lazy-src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/envelope-80.jpg\"\/><\/p>\n<p>Never Miss a Story<\/p>\n<p>Sign up to get our BEST stories of the week straight to your inbox.<\/p>\n<p>If you enjoyed this story, <a href=\"https:\/\/twistedsifter.com\/2026\/05\/the-harsh-truth-why-a-womans-best-friends-finally-admitted-the-real-reason-for-their-falling-out\/?utm_source=IN-ARTICLE&amp;utm_medium=IN-ARTICLE&amp;utm_campaign=IN-ARTICLE\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">check out this post<\/a> about a woman who was stunned when her friends finally admitted the reason for their falling out.<\/p>\n<p>What did Reddit have to say?<\/p>\n<p>Some people can be a little performative about their stance on AI.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-802221\" src=\"https:\/\/twistedsifter.com\/wp-content\/plugins\/lazy-load-0.7\/images\/1x1.trans.gif\" alt=\"Screenshot 2026 05 14 at 7.42.48 PM A Conversation About AI Replacing Jobs Ended Up Destroying a Longtime Friendship\" width=\"800\" height=\"1373\" title=\"A Conversation About AI Replacing Jobs Ended Up Destroying a Longtime Friendship\" data-lazy-src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/Screenshot-2026-05-14-at-7.42.48-PM.jpg\" data-lazy- data-lazy-\/><\/p>\n<p>This creates a lot of opportunities for hypocrisy.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-802222\" src=\"https:\/\/twistedsifter.com\/wp-content\/plugins\/lazy-load-0.7\/images\/1x1.trans.gif\" alt=\"Screenshot 2026 05 14 at 7.43.19 PM A Conversation About AI Replacing Jobs Ended Up Destroying a Longtime Friendship\" width=\"800\" height=\"1427\" title=\"A Conversation About AI Replacing Jobs Ended Up Destroying a Longtime Friendship\" data-lazy-src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/Screenshot-2026-05-14-at-7.43.19-PM.jpg\" data-lazy- data-lazy-\/><\/p>\n<p>So this friend expects people to support her career but doesn\u2019t care about when other people lose theirs? That\u2019s pretty rich.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-802223\" src=\"https:\/\/twistedsifter.com\/wp-content\/plugins\/lazy-load-0.7\/images\/1x1.trans.gif\" alt=\"Screenshot 2026 05 14 at 7.44.34 PM A Conversation About AI Replacing Jobs Ended Up Destroying a Longtime Friendship\" width=\"800\" height=\"1135\" title=\"A Conversation About AI Replacing Jobs Ended Up Destroying a Longtime Friendship\" data-lazy-src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/Screenshot-2026-05-14-at-7.44.34-PM.jpg\" data-lazy- data-lazy-\/><\/p>\n<p>Just because two things aren\u2019t exactly the same doesn\u2019t mean they aren\u2019t both bad in their own way.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-802224\" src=\"https:\/\/twistedsifter.com\/wp-content\/plugins\/lazy-load-0.7\/images\/1x1.trans.gif\" alt=\"Screenshot 2026 05 14 at 7.45.29 PM A Conversation About AI Replacing Jobs Ended Up Destroying a Longtime Friendship\" width=\"800\" height=\"1685\" title=\"A Conversation About AI Replacing Jobs Ended Up Destroying a Longtime Friendship\" data-lazy-src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/Screenshot-2026-05-14-at-7.45.29-PM.jpg\" data-lazy- data-lazy-\/><\/p>\n<p>He kept commissioning her work through a period when most people had switched to AI generators. He did it consciously and deliberately because he knew what displacement felt like from the inside.<\/p>\n<p>So when he told her his experience, he was hoping to speak with someone else who understood, but instead she decided to leave him high and dry.<\/p>\n<p>Sure, what he said was harsh, but she was being pretty harsh too, especially when he had already gone out of his way to support her and her livelihood.<\/p>\n<p>For someone so against AI, she was acting pretty dang robotic.<\/p>\n<p>\n\t\tCategories: <a href=\"https:\/\/twistedsifter.com\/category\/life-drama\/\" rel=\"category tag nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Life &amp; Drama<\/a>\t\t<br \/>Tags:  \u00b7 <a href=\"https:\/\/twistedsifter.com\/tag\/ai\/\" rel=\"tag nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">ai<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/twistedsifter.com\/tag\/aita\/\" rel=\"tag nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">aita<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/twistedsifter.com\/tag\/artists\/\" rel=\"tag nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">artists<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/twistedsifter.com\/tag\/entity\/\" rel=\"tag nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">ENTITY<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/twistedsifter.com\/tag\/friend\/\" rel=\"tag nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">friend<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/twistedsifter.com\/tag\/friend-drama\/\" rel=\"tag nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Friend Drama<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/twistedsifter.com\/tag\/layoffs\/\" rel=\"tag nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">layoffs<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/twistedsifter.com\/tag\/losing-your-job\/\" rel=\"tag nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">losing your job<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/twistedsifter.com\/tag\/picture\/\" rel=\"tag nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">picture<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/twistedsifter.com\/tag\/reddit\/\" rel=\"tag nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">reddit<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/twistedsifter.com\/tag\/top\/\" rel=\"tag nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">top<\/a>\t<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Pexels\/Reddit AI has disrupted a lot of industries, and maybe one of the only silver linings is that&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":678074,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[20],"tags":[256,37776,254,255,39629,64,63,42389,1868,288767,17109,326826,20246,2579,105,4048],"class_list":["post-678073","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-artificial-intelligence","tag-ai","tag-aita","tag-artificial-intelligence","tag-artificialintelligence","tag-artists","tag-au","tag-australia","tag-entity","tag-friend","tag-friend-drama","tag-layoffs","tag-losing-your-job","tag-picture","tag-reddit","tag-technology","tag-top"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/678073","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=678073"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/678073\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/678074"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=678073"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=678073"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=678073"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}