{"id":719696,"date":"2026-06-06T20:48:11","date_gmt":"2026-06-06T20:48:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/719696\/"},"modified":"2026-06-06T20:48:11","modified_gmt":"2026-06-06T20:48:11","slug":"what-pompeii-taught-me-about-the-sisterhood-and-the-power-of-patience","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/719696\/","title":{"rendered":"What Pompeii taught me about the sisterhood and the power of patience"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">I think I&#8217;ve finally found the cult I want to join.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">Given that Groucho Marx&#8217;s maxim about abhorring club membership is one I have long taken to heart, this is significant and made even more so because I suspect any woman reading this will immediately want to join too.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">The secret women&#8217;s society I&#8217;m referring to involves copious amounts of wine, food and feverishly dancing around to wild music wearing diaphanous gowns; with initiation culminating in cutting the heart of an oxen out of its chest with a sword and your bare hands.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">Or, as it&#8217;s known in my house, Friday night drinks.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Picture of a Roman ruin showing painted fresco of a man and a woman on a red wall\" class=\"Image_image__5tFYM ContentImage_image__DQ_cq\"  src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/1cb3e3bb3a5dc4176506d6d174a9f99d.jpeg\" loading=\"lazy\" data-component=\"Image\" data-lazy=\"true\"\/><\/p>\n<p class=\"Typography_base__sj2RP FigureCaption_text__zDxQ5 Typography_sizeMobile12__w_FPC Typography_lineHeightMobile20___U7Vr Typography_regular__WeIG6 Typography_colourInherit__dfnUx\" data-component=\"Typography\">The walls of the dining room are frescoed in exquisitely detailed panels of Satyrs and woodland deities painted in the rare, blood-red pigment called cinnabar. (Supplied: Virginia Trioli)<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">This cult was revealed to me in a series of recently uncovered rooms in a home that had been buried for almost 2000 years beneath the ancient Vesuvian ash and pumice at the excavations of Pompeii.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">The walls of the dining room are frescoed in exquisitely detailed panels of Satyrs and woodland deities painted in the rare, blood-red pigment called cinnabar. They depict the transition of a demure young woman into a maenad, a frenzied female follower of Dionysus, complete with her final, triumphant brandishing of a dripping ox heart. In one panel, another woman is leaping off her pedestal and running towards the garden outside, as if fleeing in terror at the bloody rites inside. As Groucho always said, not everyone wants to join.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">Visiting this remarkable site earlier this year and seeing these rooms which are now open to the public was, without exaggeration, one of the highlights of my life. The <a class=\"Link_link__5eL5m ScreenReaderOnly_srLinkHint__OysWz Link_showVisited__C1Fea Link_showFocus__ALyv2\" href=\"https:\/\/www.pompeionline.net\/en\/news\/420-a-megalography-on-the-mysteries-of-dionysus-emerges-in-insula-10-of-pompeiis-regio-ix\" data-component=\"Link\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">colours and richness and beauty of the painted detail<\/a> was one thing. The vast, preserved ordinariness and mysteries of a working Roman port-town was another.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">But best of all, was discovering the optimistic and very human philosophy that preserves and protects all of it. In a time when we are watching breathtaking fools make ruinous choices, and are globally shrugging off crucial decisions to the silicone minds of AI, scholarship and intelligence became the most important artefacts I encountered.<\/p>\n<p>Why hadn&#8217;t it been excavated before?<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">The frescoes are in a banqueting hall of the <a class=\"Link_link__5eL5m ScreenReaderOnly_srLinkHint__OysWz Link_showVisited__C1Fea Link_showFocus__ALyv2\" href=\"https:\/\/pompeiitravel.com\/house-of-thiasus-pompeii\/\" data-component=\"Link\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">House of Thiasus<\/a>, in what was once a very posh neighbourhood of Pompeii, and they form a megalography \u2014 a cycle of paintings featuring nearly life-size figures. It&#8217;s only the second painted example of female Dionysian initiation after the 1909 <a class=\"Link_link__5eL5m ScreenReaderOnly_srLinkHint__OysWz Link_showVisited__C1Fea Link_showFocus__ALyv2\" href=\"https:\/\/seepompeii.com\/en\/luoghi\/the-villa-of-the-mysteries-of-pompeii\/\" data-component=\"Link\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">discovery of the Villa of the Mysteries<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">The only reason this one was uncovered was because it was part of an area of the long-buried town where the ground above had become unstable and started to slip. For safety and preservation reasons the area was <a class=\"Link_link__5eL5m ScreenReaderOnly_srLinkHint__OysWz Link_showVisited__C1Fea Link_showFocus__ALyv2\" href=\"https:\/\/www.bbc.com\/news\/articles\/c15zgvnvk4do\" data-component=\"Link\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">carefully dug up<\/a> between 2023 and 2025.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">But why hadn&#8217;t it been excavated before? For a most beautiful reason.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.abc.net.au\/news\/2023-01-11\/pompeii-restored-house-of-vettii-revealed\/101845912\" data-component=\"FullBleedLink\" class=\"RelatedCard_link__rsgR9 FullBleedLink_root__lTw_U interactive_focusContext__yRhc_ interactive_defaults__AKxUU FullBleedLink_showVisited__g3Xvz\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Restored Pompeii home revealed<\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"Typography_base__sj2RP RelatedCard_synopsis__cFwMW Typography_sizeMobile14__u7TGe Typography_lineHeightMobile20___U7Vr Typography_regular__WeIG6 Typography_colourInherit__dfnUx\" data-component=\"Typography\">The House of Vettii\u00a0likely belonged to two former slaves who became rich through the wine trade.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">Because specific parts of the site have been deliberately left unexcavated, so they can be uncovered by future archaeologists, scholars and engineers who may have better technology than us to uncover and preserve these ruins.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">I find this decision wonderfully generous and admirably restrained. Any Roman historian would be itching to get their trowel into the crumbly lapilli of small pumice stones that both buried and preserved the town in 79AD. Imagine the other gorgeous rooms and their treasures just below their impatiently stamping feet.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">But as my friend at the Parco Archeologico di Pompeii, archaeologist Sophie Hay explains, contemporary excavation reveals the faults in the many diggings that came before, so it follows logically that the next work must be done by those who know better.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">&#8220;We have a responsibility to future generations to leave unexplored parts of the city so they may apply technology to try to answer questions we cannot at present even dream of asking,&#8221; she says.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Human-like robot arms move broken pieces of mosaic tiles around inside a glass box\" class=\"Image_image__5tFYM ContentImage_image__DQ_cq\"  src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/2afb92b0a907be1b4a2461c8b7a0ef15.jpeg\" loading=\"lazy\" data-component=\"Image\" data-lazy=\"true\"\/><\/p>\n<p class=\"Typography_base__sj2RP FigureCaption_text__zDxQ5 Typography_sizeMobile12__w_FPC Typography_lineHeightMobile20___U7Vr Typography_regular__WeIG6 Typography_colourInherit__dfnUx\" data-component=\"Typography\">Robots are already helping archaeologists reconstruct fragmented frescoes buried for centuries in Pompeii by combining image recognition, AI-driven puzzle-solving, and ultra-precise robotic hands. (REUTERS\/Guglielmo Mangiapane)<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">There is humility and grace in this decision, even though it of course rubs up against its natural opposite: the pride of one&#8217;s own capacity.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">It is deeply human to feel that you know better. Know better than your poor forebears; know better than the maleducated children who will come after you. Even to know better than the super-fast thinking of the artificial intelligence that will no doubt better aid the archaeologists of the future. The most intelligent we will ever be must be right now. Or, in this time of devolution, perhaps five minutes ago?<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">This decision to trust in the future, surprisingly, goes hand in hand with a trust of future technology and decision-making that is a rare feeling now when we look at the fools and monsters dominating the tech world with malign decisions.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.abc.net.au\/news\/subscribe\/\" data-component=\"FullBleedLink\" class=\"RelatedCard_link__rsgR9 FullBleedLink_root__lTw_U interactive_focusContext__yRhc_ interactive_defaults__AKxUU FullBleedLink_showVisited__g3Xvz\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Sign up for Weekend Reads in your inbox<\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"Typography_base__sj2RP RelatedCard_synopsis__cFwMW Typography_sizeMobile14__u7TGe Typography_lineHeightMobile20___U7Vr Typography_regular__WeIG6 Typography_colourInherit__dfnUx\" data-component=\"Typography\">Start your weekend with the best of the ABC&#8217;s journalism, presented by Virginia Trioli. Discover compelling features, big ideas and revealing analysis to understand the stories that matter to Australians.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">Because what frames the Parco&#8217;s decision is, I think, a clear understanding of future technology as only one more tool in service to a deeply human quest: revealing the story of what happened to the people of Pompeii on that warm August day in 79AD. There may be newer, smarter ways of getting there, but all knowledge, all decisions must eventually lead underground to that moment in time, and then to the very connecting act of preserving it and making it accessible to a ceaselessly curious public.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">The tools may indeed get better, but the critical thinking of the human archaeologist must remain. &#8220;It&#8217;s important that we take charge of it [AI] ourselves,&#8221; says Gabriel Zuchtriegel the director of the Parco, &#8220;otherwise others will do it for us, lacking the necessary humanistic and scientific background&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">Not for the first time, I wish we would listen more closely to the historians, to those who have tracked our rise and fall, and who have seen the precipice even before we know it&#8217;s there.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">This weekend we have <a class=\"Link_link__kR0xA Link_link__5eL5m ScreenReaderOnly_srLinkHint__OysWz Link_showVisited__C1Fea Link_showFocus__ALyv2\" href=\"https:\/\/www.abc.net.au\/news\/2026-05-30\/love-stories-and-modern-dating-tales-from-abc-readers\/106529984\" data-component=\"Link\" data-uri=\"coremedia:\/\/article\/106529984\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">reflections on modern dating<\/a> and <a class=\"Link_link__kR0xA Link_link__5eL5m ScreenReaderOnly_srLinkHint__OysWz Link_showVisited__C1Fea Link_showFocus__ALyv2\" href=\"https:\/\/www.abc.net.au\/news\/2026-05-31\/darkness-retreat-sensory-deprivation-cave-kiana-aran\/106681456\" data-component=\"Link\" data-uri=\"coremedia:\/\/article\/106681456\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">sensory deprivation<\/a> for you, while they are often one and the same thing.<\/p>\n<p>What to read this weekend:\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\"><a class=\"Link_link__kR0xA Link_link__5eL5m ScreenReaderOnly_srLinkHint__OysWz Link_showVisited__C1Fea Link_showFocus__ALyv2\" href=\"https:\/\/www.abc.net.au\/news\/2026-05-30\/love-stories-and-modern-dating-tales-from-abc-readers\/106529984\" data-component=\"Link\" data-uri=\"coremedia:\/\/article\/106529984\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">We asked for your modern dating love stories \u2014 here is what you told us<\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\"><a class=\"Link_link__kR0xA Link_link__5eL5m ScreenReaderOnly_srLinkHint__OysWz Link_showVisited__C1Fea Link_showFocus__ALyv2\" href=\"https:\/\/www.abc.net.au\/news\/2026-05-31\/bushfire-smoke-impacts-on-unborn-children-as-climate-changes\/106700352\" data-component=\"Link\" data-uri=\"coremedia:\/\/article\/106700352\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Smoke engulfed their cities. Did it make their children sick?<\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\"><a class=\"Link_link__kR0xA Link_link__5eL5m ScreenReaderOnly_srLinkHint__OysWz Link_showVisited__C1Fea Link_showFocus__ALyv2\" href=\"https:\/\/www.abc.net.au\/news\/2026-05-31\/darkness-retreat-sensory-deprivation-cave-kiana-aran\/106681456\" data-component=\"Link\" data-uri=\"coremedia:\/\/article\/106681456\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Five days in darkness left scientist Kiana Aran thinking about anything but science<\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\"><a class=\"Link_link__kR0xA Link_link__5eL5m ScreenReaderOnly_srLinkHint__OysWz Link_showVisited__C1Fea Link_showFocus__ALyv2\" href=\"https:\/\/www.abc.net.au\/news\/2026-06-03\/ralph-jackman-new-book-detention-a-rookie-teacher\/106744450\" data-component=\"Link\" data-uri=\"coremedia:\/\/article\/106744450\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Why Hugh Jackman&#8217;s brother cried on his first day as a prison-school teacher<\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\"><a class=\"Link_link__kR0xA Link_link__5eL5m ScreenReaderOnly_srLinkHint__OysWz Link_showVisited__C1Fea Link_showFocus__ALyv2\" href=\"https:\/\/www.abc.net.au\/news\/2026-05-30\/interview-david-szalay-booker-flesh-sydney-writers-festival\/106732488\" data-component=\"Link\" data-uri=\"coremedia:\/\/article\/106732488\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">The Interview: David Szalay on why AI won&#8217;t be able to replace authors<\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\"><a class=\"Link_link__kR0xA Link_link__5eL5m ScreenReaderOnly_srLinkHint__OysWz Link_showVisited__C1Fea Link_showFocus__ALyv2\" href=\"https:\/\/www.abc.net.au\/news\/2026-05-31\/bitter-springs-aboriginal-language-translated-after-78-years\/106717896\" data-component=\"Link\" data-uri=\"coremedia:\/\/article\/106717896\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Nearly 80 years after Bitter Springs film, its Aboriginal actors are finally being understood<\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">And don&#8217;t forget to tune into <a class=\"Link_link__5eL5m ScreenReaderOnly_srLinkHint__OysWz Link_showVisited__C1Fea Link_showFocus__ALyv2\" href=\"https:\/\/www.abc.net.au\/listen\/programs\/ladies-we-need-to-talk\" data-component=\"Link\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Grace Tame&#8217;s special series on women and autism<\/a> on Yumi Styne&#8217;s Ladies We Need to Talk.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">Grace is a wise and fierce advocate for understanding \u2014 many autistic women will feel seen by this series.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">Have a safe and happy weekend and let the wonderful Jessie Ware take you away on her continuing voyage into opulent disco soul, with <a class=\"Link_link__5eL5m ScreenReaderOnly_srLinkHint__OysWz Link_showVisited__C1Fea Link_showFocus__ALyv2\" href=\"https:\/\/youtu.be\/LpjhZjfHEEk\" data-component=\"Link\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">her new single, Superbloom<\/a>. It&#8217;s made for swaying.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">Go well.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">Virginia Trioli is presenter of Creative Types and a former co-host of ABC News Breakfast and Mornings on ABC Radio Melbourne.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"I think I&#8217;ve finally found the cult I want to join. 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