A caller to The Ramsey Show earning $85,000 a year called in with two debt problems layered on top of each other. His own balance had started at $53,000. He told Dave Ramsey, “I’ve been listening to you, so I’ve sold some stocks that I had in an ESP plan, and I brought my debt down to about $20,000.” That is real progress. Then he explained the second problem: he had co-signed a credit card and a lease for his mother roughly six years ago during COVID, and the card still carried an $18,000 balance that had never come down. <\/p>\n
Ramsey’s response was blunt. “She’s never going to pay off the debt. COVID was 6 years ago. We’re not going to sit around and wait on her.” He told the caller to add the $18,000 to his own payoff list, refuse to renew as co-signer on the lease, and act on the card now: “Cancel the card. No more charges. Charges aren’t allowed by anybody, you or her.” <\/p>\n The verdict: Ramsey is right, and the APR is why <\/p>\n Financial mistakes do not define anyone. Cutting personal debt from $53,000 to roughly $20,000 by liquidating an employee stock purchase plan is proof of that. But co-signing creates shared legal liability, and the numbers on this specific card make delay dangerous. <\/p>\n Are You Ready To Retire, Or Years Behind? <\/p>\n Most Americans suspect they’re behind on retirement and never find out. Advisor.com’s free matching tool<\/a> pairs you in about three minutes with a vetted fiduciary advisor who can help you with investing, taxes, retirement, estate planning, and more. No minimums. No sales call. Find out where you stand<\/a>. <\/p>\n The average credit card APR sits at roughly 21%, which the Federal Reserve data classifies as record territory. On an $18,000 balance at that rate, a typical 2% minimum payment of roughly $360 barely covers the monthly interest charge. That is why the balance stalled for six years. The card is being fed just enough to stay alive rather than actually retired. <\/p>\n Story Continues <\/p>\n Cancelling the card does two things at once. It caps the principal at $18,000 so no new charges compound at 21%. And it forces the caller to attack a fixed number rather than a moving target. Under a debt snowball approach, which Ramsey has championed for decades, the caller would list every balance smallest to largest and throw every extra dollar at the smallest while paying minimums on the rest. <\/p>\n Co-signing is joint ownership of the risk <\/p>\n Readers often think of co-signing as vouching for someone. Legally, it is shared ownership of the debt. The Consumer Financial Protection Bureau has documented how deeply this cuts: almost half of individual credit card accounts belong to a credit-linked consumer whose finances are effectively tied to another person’s. When one person stops paying, the other’s credit score, wages, and future borrowing capacity are all exposed. <\/p>\n Credit card delinquency across all banks sits at about 3%, still inside what the Fed labels the normalizing range. Consumer sentiment, meanwhile, has dropped to 44.8 in May 2026, well into pessimistic territory. Households are more stretched, and the national savings rate has fallen to 3.9% in the first quarter of 2026 from 6.2% two years earlier. A balance that has not moved in six good years is not going to move in worse ones. <\/p>\n The variable that changes the verdict <\/p>\n The single factor that determines whether Ramsey’s advice fits any co-signer is one question: has the primary borrower made measurable progress on the balance in the last year? If a parent has cut an $18,000 card to $12,000 through consistent payments, staying on and helping is defensible. If the balance is flat or higher after 12 months, the compounding math has already answered the question. This caller sat at six years of no progress. Ramsey’s directive to cancel now was the arithmetically correct call. <\/p>\n What to do if you are the co-signer <\/p>\n Pull the account history. Request 24 months of statements. If the balance is flat or drifting up while payments were made, interest is eating everything. That is the signal Ramsey acted on. <\/p>\n Freeze new charges before you argue about old ones. Contact the issuer and close the card to new purchases. You cannot fix a leak while water is still running in. <\/p>\n Refuse to re-up on any lease or loan renewal. Ramsey’s line, “When the lease comes up for renewal, I’m not gonna stay on it as a co-signer,” is the cleanest exit point available to any co-signer. <\/p>\n Order the debts smallest to largest and attack. Fold the co-signed balance into your own snowball if you have decided to pay it off. Treating it as separate keeps it invisible and unpaid. <\/p>\n Past mistakes, including someone else’s, are only a starting balance. <\/p>\n Are You Ready To Retire, Or Years Behind? <\/p>\n Most Americans have no idea where they actually stand. Most guess, or hope Social Security and a 401(k) will work out. Advisor.com’s new matching tool<\/a> gives you a real answer, free. <\/p>\n They pair you with a fiduciary (required by law to put YOUR interest first) with questions related to taxes, estate planning, retirement, insurance analysis, and more. See you who you match with today,<\/a> and get the answers you need. <\/p>\n \u00a0 <\/p>\n<\/a> Anna Webber | Getty Images <\/p>\n