{"id":900985,"date":"2026-09-22T06:42:09","date_gmt":"2026-09-22T06:42:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/900985\/"},"modified":"2026-09-22T06:42:09","modified_gmt":"2026-09-22T06:42:09","slug":"the-truth-about-sean-combs-no-is-not-a-stopping-point-for-him-sean-diddy-combs","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/900985\/","title":{"rendered":"The truth about Sean Combs: \u2018No is not a stopping point for him\u2019 | Sean \u2018Diddy\u2018 Combs"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"dcr-1s160rg\">For Cheyenne Roundtree, an investigative reporter at Rolling Stone, the civil lawsuit that dropped on Sean \u201cDiddy\u201d Combs in November 2023 seemed to come from nowhere. Filed by his ex-partner, the singer Cassie Ventura, it alleged that Combs had beaten and raped her, plied her with drugs and forced her into sexual encounters with male sex workers throughout their decade-long relationship.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-1s160rg\">Roundtree, along with much of the world\u2019s media, was shocked. \u201cI\u2019d grown up in the era of Diddy and Cassie and viewed them as this power couple,\u201d she says. \u201cHer hit Me &amp; U was my song. Diddy was this mogul \u2013 I knew him for the music \u2013 and she was this style inspiration, this beautiful, talented woman living an amazing life.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-1s160rg\">At first, Combs and his legal team <a href=\"https:\/\/www.theguardian.com\/music\/2023\/nov\/17\/sean-diddy-combs-cassie-abuse-lawsuit-response\" data-link-name=\"in body link\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">issued<\/a> blanket denials. The lawsuit, they said, had followed an attempt by Ventura to blackmail Combs, and was \u201criddled with baseless and outrageous lies\u201d. Despite this, they settled it immediately with a $20m sum, but within days more women came forward. A second lawsuit was filed one week after Ventura\u2019s, by Joi Dickerson-Neal, which alleged that, as a student in 1991, she had been drugged and raped by Combs, who had filmed the alleged assault and shared it with other men. Days later came another. In this, Anna Kane alleged that Combs and two others had gang-raped her in 2003 when she was 17. As the cases piled up, Combs\u2019s team continued the denials \u2013 describing the lawsuits as \u201cmoney grabs\u201d. Then a leaked video forced them to change tack. Security footage from a Los Angeles hotel taken in March 2016 showed Cassie Ventura creeping from a room, pursued by Combs, who is wrapped in just a towel. He beats her, kicks her and drags her back.<\/p>\n<p>\u2018I wanted to show how all the little dots on the timeline brought us to this moment\u2019 \u2026 Cheyenne Roundtree. Photograph: Maria Spann\/The Guardian<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-1s160rg\">\u201cHis attorneys took it head on,\u201d says Roundtree. \u201cThey were saying: \u2018We\u2019re going to own the domestic violence, but that happened in the past \u2013 all that is locked in the 2010s and he has changed. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.theguardian.com\/music\/2017\/nov\/06\/puff-daddy-diddy-sean-combs-renames-himself-love\" data-link-name=\"in body link\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">He has become Love<\/a> since then. [Combs had declared in November 2017 that he was renaming himself Love, or Brother Love.] He\u2019s a new person, a father figure.\u2019 But all these other lawsuits were telling a completely different story.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-1s160rg\">Ventura started digging through the archives, finding stories, interviews and police reports lost to time, often because they weren\u2019t online. Over the next three years, she spoke to people who had known Combs at every stage of his life \u2013 as a boy, a teenage intern, a genius producer and the founder of Bad Boy Records, a Grammy-winning artist, a business mogul \u2013 and finally as an inmate in a New Jersey prison. The lawsuits led to a federal investigation and, eventually, Combs\u2019s indictment. Now 56, he is serving a 50-month sentence for transporting people across state lines for prostitution.<\/p>\n<p>Cassie Ventura with Combs at her 21st birthday party in September 2007, at the Jet nightclub at the Mirage on Las Vegas Boulevard. Photograph: Denise Truscello\/WireImage<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-1s160rg\">\u201cTo me, he was always \u2018Diddy\u2019,\u201d says Roundtree. \u201cWhen I talk to anyone from New York, he\u2019s Puff or Puffy. Later, he wanted the world to call him Love and now, in this legal sense, he has become Sean Combs. He lives in these different versions for different people, but who is he?\u201d Her book, Bad Boy for Life, attempts to answer this by picking out the patterns and repeat behaviours, the rumours and run-ins that have threaded through every reinvention. It reads like a \u201cmaking of a monster\u201d, a damning indictment of celebrity culture, where every impulse, however dark, is enabled by yes men. \u201cI never planned to write a book but I was finding so much material, it felt important to preserve all the history in one place,\u201d she says. \u201cI wanted to show how all the little dots on the timeline brought us to this moment.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-1s160rg\">It begins in Harlem where Combs spent his first years, and where his father, a gangster, was shot dead when Combs was a toddler. His mother, Janice, moved them to Mount Vernon, a suburb of Westchester County, just north of New York City. The Janice remembered by Combs\u2019s childhood friend Tim Patterson cuts a formidable figure \u2013 glamorous, determined and ambitious. Patterson describes discipline that goes beyond \u201ctough love\u201d, and wild parties where it was normal to walk in on couples \u201cbutt naked\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>A mugshot of Combs after his arrest by New York Police Department, when he was charged in 2021 with possession of a firearm following a shooting at a Manhattan nightclub. Photograph: Donaldson Collection\/Getty Images<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-1s160rg\">\u201cHis childhood leaves questions that only Combs and Janice can answer,\u201d says Roundtree, \u201cbut the sources from that time said that being exposed to sexual things quite young, parenting style and growing up in Harlem meant that, by the time he was a teenager at Howard University, you\u2019re seeing that something had manifested.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-1s160rg\">Janice Combs has complained of \u201clies\u201d and \u201cinaccuracies\u201d in how she and her son\u2019s upbringing have been portrayed.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-1s160rg\">At Howard, studying business, Combs was well known \u2013 for his drive, his style and his legendary parties. Years later, he also described falling in love at Howard, in an ill-fated Romeo and Juliet-style affair. In a magazine interview, Combs said his girlfriend\u2019s parents disapproved because her grades had dropped from As to Bs. They pulled her from Howard, allowing her back only if she ended the relationship. \u201cThat hurt so bad. It\u2019s one of those things in life that everybody goes through, but the pain was so intense it was hard for me to handle,\u201d he said.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-1s160rg\">Former classmates remember it differently. In their accounts to Roundtree, Combs was jealous and abusive. His girlfriend\u2019s parents intervened, they said, only after Combs had shown up at her dorm, called her outside, whipped her with his belt and dragged her by her hair, while students watched horrified from their windows.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-1s160rg\">\u201cThe way he romanticised all that, and talked about her as if they were destined by the stars but forces kept them apart, was exactly how his attorney talked about Cassie decades later,\u201d says Roundtree. \u201cIn the trial last year, the attorney called Combs\u2019s relationship with Cassie \u2018a great modern love story\u2019.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-1s160rg\">The pages of Bad Boy for Life are packed with allegations, many involving women who have since launched civil suits. (Up to 70 lawsuits are believed to be moving through the system.) There are common features: one-night encounters where drinks are spiked, a woman is raped, and the alleged abuse is filmed, and others that tell how Combs would single out a woman and pursue her relentlessly using any means necessary. (\u201cNo is not a stopping point for Combs,\u201d says Roundtree.) He was known for his untamed rage. Many former friends and colleagues describe witnessing his assaults on girlfriends \u2013 and on any men deemed rivals.<\/p>\n<p>Combs in a recording studio in 1997. Photograph: New York Daily News Archive\/NY Daily News\/Getty Images<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-1s160rg\">Roundtree also shines a light on other criminal activities in his orbit, from long-forgotten police reports to the notorious murders of his protege Biggie Smalls and Biggie\u2019s rival, Tupac Shakur. Again, she picks out parallels. In 2001, after a shooting inside a Manhattan nightclub, Combs was charged with the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.theguardian.com\/world\/2001\/jan\/30\/duncancampbell\" data-link-name=\"in body link\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">possession of illegal weapons and attempted bribery<\/a> (it was alleged that he had offered his driver $50,000 to take the blame). By then, at 31, Combs was already a multimillionaire with a record label, a fashion brand and a celebrity girlfriend, Jennifer Lopez. \u201cHis team conducted \u2013 and won \u2013 that early case in just the same way they fought the trial in 2025,\u201d says Roundtree. \u201cThe smooth PR, the publicists who would talk to journalists and the crowds outside rooting for him.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-1s160rg\">In that 2001 case, the jury acquitted Combs but his co-defendant, rapper Jamal \u201cShyne\u201d Barrow, who had been with him on the night, was convicted, sentenced to 10 years, then deported to Belize, his birth country. Combs didn\u2019t attend Barrow\u2019s sentencing, quietly dropped Barrow from his record label and changed his name from Puff Daddy to P Diddy to mark his fresh start. (Barrow later described Combs as \u201csomeone who destroyed my life\u201d.)<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-1s160rg\">In every chapter of the book \u2013 and Combs\u2019s life \u2013 people around him are shot, assaulted, imprisoned and broken, and careers are destroyed, yet he remains A-list, ascending to icon status. How? \u201cThat\u2019s the biggest question,\u201d says Roundtree. \u201cHow is someone with so many incidents around him, so much ruin in his wake, able to just keep doing better and better?<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-1s160rg\">\u201cI think part of it was his personality. The media loved him because he played into the spectacle \u2013 he wasn\u2019t afraid to be larger than life. He was also building something people really believed in. His record company was everywhere in New York, and he was giving opportunities to young people, straight out of school. He\u2019d created a living legend in Biggie, who died so early. His clothing line was cool. His fragrance was great. His parties were epic. All these things played into a figure so big and so tangible, people think they can see it all right in front of them. So why look any further?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Biggie Smalls, Nate Dogg, Snoop Dogg and Combs, circa 1995.  Photograph: Nitro\/Getty Images<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-1s160rg\">Ventura\u2019s lawsuit was a pulling back of the curtain. \u201cShe was the first to let people into that world,\u201d says Roundtree. \u201cIt\u2019s really rare to see the inner workings of a public couple, but she laid it all out there, through her lawsuit, her trial testimony with all those photos on screen and text messages that she was asked to read, in front of the jury, in front of the world. She bared it all.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-1s160rg\">Ventura had signed to Combs\u2019s record label when she was 19, a model turned singer. She had a hit, Me &amp; U, a 10-album deal, and so much promise ahead. The book describes Combs\u2019s focused pursuit of her, despite the 17-year age gap. (One of his personal assistants recalls Combs describing her as \u201cvery mouldable\u201d and saying: \u201cI got her right where I want her. She\u2019s young.\u201d)<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-1s160rg\">Combs\u2019s inner circle and Ventura\u2019s testimony describe the control he had over every part of her life \u2013 her diary, clothes, hair, nails. Even her medical records went directly to Combs\u2019s email and he tracked her menstrual cycle. Her career stalled. Though Ventura recorded hundreds of tracks, her boss \u2013 Combs \u2013 didn\u2019t release them. \u201cShe was his \u2018wife partner\u2019 for 10 years publicly,\u201d says Roundtree. \u201cOne of the most surprising things to see was that, behind the scenes, she never lived with him, she never spent Christmas with him.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-1s160rg\">The relationship described by Ventura was dominated by \u201cfreak-offs\u201d \u2013 coerced, multi-day-long, drug-fuelled sexual encounters with male sex workers, held in hotel rooms. Every aspect was micromanaged, choreographed, directed, watched and filmed by Combs. According to Ventura, she was 22 when Combs first raised the idea, and she \u201chad no concept of how it would be a turn-on\u201d. But she wanted to please him. After the first, she felt \u201cdirty\u201d but glad Combs was \u201chappy\u201d with her, that she \u201cdid something right\u201d.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-1s160rg\">Hundreds more took place around the world with unvetted men she didn\u2019t know. Ventura says she felt \u201cdisgusting\u201d, \u201chumiliated\u201d. When she attempted to leave Combs, he threatened to share the videos. (In one exchange between them, she talks of showing the world photos of her beaten face and body. \u201cRelease the videos also,\u201d Combs shoots back.) Her life became preparing for \u201cfreak-offs\u201d, enduring them and recovering afterwards. (\u201cThat\u2019s why nothing gets done,\u201d she wrote in one message to Combs, in 2017, their final year together. \u201cAlways healing.\u201d)<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-1s160rg\">Ventura officially separated from Combs in 2018 and filed her lawsuit five years later. When federal investigators subsequently approached her to build a criminal case, she handed over phones, iPads, video material, the names of sex workers and other witnesses to help corroborate her claims.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-1s160rg\">The US has no federal laws around coercive control and offences such as rape and assault carry statutes of limitations \u2013 legal time limits after which prosecution is not possible. But Combs was charged with racketeering conspiracy, sex trafficking by force, fraud, or coercion, and transportation to engage in prostitution. \u201cThose laws were developed to bring down the mafia, to dismantle criminal networks,\u201d says Roundtree.<\/p>\n<p>Combs performing at Howard University\u2019s Yardfest in 2023. Photograph: Thaddaeus McAdams\/WireImage<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-1s160rg\">Combs\u2019s 2025 trial lasted seven weeks, with the prosecution arguing that Combs used his business empire as a front for a criminal operation, relying on close associates to force and intimidate women into freak-offs and transport and supply drugs to keep them compliant. The defence argued successfully that what took place did not constitute a formal criminal enterprise. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.theguardian.com\/music\/2025\/jul\/02\/diddy-trial-verdict-sean-combs\" data-link-name=\"in body link\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Ultimately, he was acquitted of most charges<\/a>. \u201cHe was only found guilty of the clear examples where he paid for the male escorts to travel across a state line,\u201d says Roundtree. \u201cIf they\u2019d stayed within their states, they couldn\u2019t have charged him with that.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-1s160rg\">The music industry, says Roundtree, is yet to have its \u201c#MeToo fallout\u201d. \u201cHollywood had this reckoning; music never really has.\u201d R Kelly is the only other high-profile musician now in prison because of abuse uncovered in the me-too fall out. Others have been untouched by swirling rumours and mounting accusations. \u201cMaybe it\u2019s because an artist is so singular,\u201d says Roundtree. \u201cActors have this whole machine around them, procedures to go through, people to answer to. And we love our music. Those songs are our fondest memories, they take us right back to a place or a time or a person and it\u2019s hard to give that up, to separate the art from the artist. Sean Combs was a producer. Do we give up every song he touched? So we can\u2019t listen to Biggie any more? It\u2019s not realistic.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-1s160rg\">Combs\u2019s release date is set for early in 2028, and he has multiple civil cases still to answer, although on Thursday it was reported that his attorneys are <a href=\"https:\/\/www.theguardian.com\/music\/2026\/sep\/17\/sean-diddy-combs-attorneys-legal-bills\" data-link-name=\"in body link\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">no longer acting for him<\/a> in a dispute over months of unpaid legal bills. What lies beyond this? \u201cHe\u2019ll definitely want to try to tell his story and make a comeback,\u201d says Roundtree. \u201cHe has had a microphone in his hand since he was in his early 20s and I don\u2019t think that desire to be loved and validated has gone away. There\u2019ll be a next chapter for Sean Combs.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-1s160rg\"> Bad Boy for Life: The Rise and Fall of Sean Combs by Cheyenne Roundtree (Simon &amp; Schuster, \u00a325) is out on 29 September. To support the Guardian, order your copy at <a href=\"https:\/\/www.guardianbookshop.com\/bad-boy-for-life-9781398555211\/?utm_source=editoriallink&amp;utm_medium=merch&amp;utm_campaign=article\" data-link-name=\"in body link\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">guardianbookshop.com<\/a>. Delivery charges may apply.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-1s160rg\"> Information and support for anyone affected by rape or sexual abuse issues is available from the following organisations. In the UK, <a href=\"https:\/\/rapecrisis.org.uk\/\" data-link-name=\"in body link\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Rape Crisis<\/a> offers support on 0808 500 2222 in England and Wales, 0808 801 0302 in <a href=\"https:\/\/www.rapecrisisscotland.org.uk\/\" data-link-name=\"in body link\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Scotland<\/a>, or 0800 0246 991 in <a href=\"https:\/\/rapecrisisni.org.uk\/\" data-link-name=\"in body link\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Northern Ireland<\/a>. In the US, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.rainn.org\/\" data-link-name=\"in body link\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Rainn<\/a> offers support on 800-656-4673. In Australia, support is available at <a href=\"https:\/\/www.1800respect.org.au\/\" data-link-name=\"in body link\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">1800Respect<\/a> (1800 737 732). 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