{"id":915537,"date":"2026-10-04T06:46:11","date_gmt":"2026-10-04T06:46:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/915537\/"},"modified":"2026-10-04T06:46:11","modified_gmt":"2026-10-04T06:46:11","slug":"rowena-wise-on-non-monogamy-mental-health-and-new-album-bad-things-feel-good","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/915537\/","title":{"rendered":"Rowena Wise on non-monogamy, mental health and new album Bad Things Feel Good*"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">Rowena Wise makes music about life&#8217;s grey areas.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">Mixing folksy earnestness with lush indie rock, her songs convey complex subject matter in accessible songs that contemplate &#8220;how we put pressure on ourselves to make the right choices, as though there&#8217;s some moral scoreboard tallying everything up&#8221;, Wise explains.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;But life is much messier than that \u2026 Growth can often come through choices and experiences that don&#8217;t neatly fit into good or bad.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">Time and again, the Melbourne-based singer-songwriter&#8217;s second album thrives in contradictions.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">The asterisk in the title of new album Bad Things Feel Good* is designed as the &#8220;start of an unspoken footnote, implying that not all bad things feel good&#8221;, Wise tells <a class=\"Link_link__5eL5m ScreenReaderOnly_srLinkHint__OysWz Link_showVisited__C1Fea Link_showFocus__ALyv2\" href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/Db-OshEMOpy\/?hl=en\" data-component=\"Link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer nofollow\">Double J&#8217;s Dylan Lewis<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">&#8220;There&#8217;s a very long list of exceptions \u2026 It allows space for nuance.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Portrait of a brunette woman in her early 30s, hair hanging, the light blowing out her hair and features to surreal degree.\" class=\"Image_image__5tFYM ContentImage_image__DQ_cq\"  src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/3d2a857ae8b5d84be245b826b75d8e6b.jpeg\" loading=\"lazy\" data-component=\"Image\" data-lazy=\"true\"\/><\/p>\n<p class=\"Typography_base__sj2RP FigureCaption_text__zDxQ5 Typography_sizeMobile12__w_FPC Typography_lineHeightMobile20___U7Vr Typography_regular__WeIG6 Typography_colourInherit__dfnUx\" data-component=\"Typography\">Bad Things Feel Good* is the emotive second album from Rowena Wise. (Supplied: Beloved Records)<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">&#8220;I just decided I was in this head space of &#8216;Actually I don&#8217;t want to tell a clean story about who I am, about morality or love. I&#8217;d like to sit in the grey area a bit&#8217;. And each song touches on that in a way.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">Rejecting simplistic narratives, the album was written while Wise came to terms with &#8220;complicated stuff&#8221;, a messy period involving relationships, mental health and identity crises.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">On the ambling title track, she sings of tossing out a faulty moral compass (&#8220;the needle&#8217;s wigging out&#8221;) in favour of following her heart, her sensitivity underscored by plaintive strumming and sighing pedal steel.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">Elsewhere, The Anchor is a tender, spartan tune in which the burden of love feels as crushing as the titular weight.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">What ties the album together is that the person in each track, &#8220;which is a bit of myself and a bit of others, was standing at the edge of something: of realising, of unbecoming, of transforming&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p>Blood Ties<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">Born and raised in Margaret River, Western Australia, Wise grew up part of a family band. Her father, a luthier, hand-made her first instruments.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">&#8220;I&#8217;m so lucky! He&#8217;s coming up to five decades of making guitars.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">Her custom collection includes an acoustic guitar, ukulele, dulcimer and a violin, her primary instrument.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">&#8220;I like to think my melodies are informed by my background of playing violin,&#8221; says Wise, who arranged strings for her new album.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">At 18, after relocating to Melbourne, she began releasing music under the mononym Ro. Her 2024 debut Senseless Acts of Beauty was shortlisted for the Australian Music Prize, marking her as a keen-edged songwriter. And she&#8217;s only grown sharper.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">She&#8217;s got a way with setting difficult experiences to music that fans of Julia Jacklin, <a class=\"Link_link__5eL5m ScreenReaderOnly_srLinkHint__OysWz Link_showVisited__C1Fea Link_showFocus__ALyv2\" href=\"https:\/\/www.abc.net.au\/listen\/programs\/take-5\/stella-donnelly-take-5-radical-honesty\/105977386\" data-component=\"Link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer nofollow\">Stella Donnelly<\/a>, <a class=\"Link_link__5eL5m ScreenReaderOnly_srLinkHint__OysWz Link_showVisited__C1Fea Link_showFocus__ALyv2\" href=\"https:\/\/www.abc.net.au\/listen\/doublej\/featured-music\/feature-albums1\/carla-geneve-dont-be-afraid-feature-album-review\/105930292\" data-component=\"Link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer nofollow\">Carla Geneve<\/a> and <a class=\"Link_link__5eL5m ScreenReaderOnly_srLinkHint__OysWz Link_showVisited__C1Fea Link_showFocus__ALyv2\" href=\"https:\/\/www.abc.net.au\/listen\/doublej\/music-reads\/features\/gena-rose-bruce-deep-is-the-way-album-interview-bill-callahan\/101968148\" data-component=\"Link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer nofollow\">Gena Rose Bruce<\/a> will recognise and admire.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"A dark-haired woman in denim jacket, jeans and a white top, leans off a pole in street.\" class=\"Image_image__5tFYM ContentImage_image__DQ_cq\"  src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/28e9d9caeb371de757382b4fea6c5d85.jpeg\" loading=\"lazy\" data-component=\"Image\" data-lazy=\"true\"\/><\/p>\n<p class=\"Typography_base__sj2RP FigureCaption_text__zDxQ5 Typography_sizeMobile12__w_FPC Typography_lineHeightMobile20___U7Vr Typography_regular__WeIG6 Typography_colourInherit__dfnUx\" data-component=\"Typography\">Having opened for Ball Park Music, Bernard Fanning and Paul Dempsey, Rowena Wise embarks on a headline tour from October. (Supplied: Nick Mckk)<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">Whether operating in intimate solo mode or fronting a live band, Wise&#8217;s elegant, drawn-out vocal phrasing makes you lean in and pay attention to her perceptive lyrics.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">Inspired by a close friend&#8217;s heartbreak, Diamond in the Rough reckons with the pressures of maintaining impossible standards.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">&#8220;I remember watching her still try to be charming and capable around everyone while privately falling apart. She had built so much of her identity around being exceptional, impressive and desirable.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;It made me think about how praise can quietly become a cage.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Loading Instagram content<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">The song became about embracing the freedom found in stepping off a perfect pedestal, with strings and slide guitar swelling around Wise as she confides:<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">&#8220;Don&#8217;t believe what you&#8217;ve been told \/ You&#8217;re made of flesh, you&#8217;re made of blood \/ You are enough.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">The track Blood Ties uses gently distorted guitars to chronicle the experience of another of Wise&#8217;s friends going through mental illness with their emotionally repressed dad.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">&#8220;His father loved him, but he didn&#8217;t quite have the emotional tools to hold space for talking about what was going on.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">&#8220;He&#8217;d grown up in a time where showing vulnerability, especially as a male, was seen as weakness rather than an opportunity to strengthen bonds between loved ones.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">&#8220;I also saw that my friend had inherited that tendency to just remain silent and hence he didn&#8217;t reach out enough to his loved ones and family and went through a really hard time.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Loading Instagram content<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">You wouldn&#8217;t guess it from the unguarded way she untangles knotty topics, but Wise says she&#8217;s had &#8220;trouble showing vulnerability&#8221;, having grown up with a &#8220;small country town&#8221; mentality.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">&#8220;I think it&#8217;s so important to be honest with those that you love, otherwise there&#8217;s this distance that&#8217;s created. You&#8217;ve got to really open up.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Changing how she saw love<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">Wise reunited with producer Rob Muinos for Bad Things Feel Good*, recording at his Collingwood studio, The Ratshack.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">She spent three days &#8220;crammed in a tiny room&#8221; knocking out each song with a live band: bassist Rich Bradbeer, drummer Jess Ellwood and Matt Dixon on pedal steel.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">&#8220;We all together just found a vibe. It was magic.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">The ensemble&#8217;s patient, understated backing adds a rounded, organic quality that accentuates Wise&#8217;s emotions without overshadowing their intimacy.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">A steady rhythm section shepherds the stand-out Unlearning of Love, fuzzy guitars clouding around Wise &#8220;coming apart&#8221; from an experience with non-monogamy.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">It captures the &#8220;curious, terrifying but beautiful&#8221; tension and thrill of &#8220;forming a new connection with someone and not knowing where it sits between platonic and romantic. And wondering if you have to label it at all&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p>Loading Instagram content<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">The song feels like a companion piece to last year&#8217;s <a class=\"Link_link__5eL5m ScreenReaderOnly_srLinkHint__OysWz Link_showVisited__C1Fea Link_showFocus__ALyv2\" href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=KaH_T09GrvM\" data-component=\"Link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer nofollow\">No Cure For Love<\/a>, a moving duet with then-partner and fellow solo artist Didirri (their collaboration dates back to their <a class=\"Link_link__5eL5m ScreenReaderOnly_srLinkHint__OysWz Link_showVisited__C1Fea Link_showFocus__ALyv2\" href=\"https:\/\/www.abc.net.au\/triplej\/news\/didirri-ro-collaborative-single-tea-stains\/10917490\" data-component=\"Link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer nofollow\">2019 song Tea Stains<\/a>).<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">Whether scrutinising love or friendships, &#8220;unlearning inherited ideas&#8221; is a central theme to Bad Things Feel Good*, gifting its songs a sense of uncertainty but also authenticity.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">Now in her 30s, Wise believes that, in real life, there is no absolute right or wrong, just &#8220;people [who] will try and do their best even if it&#8217;s not good enough&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">Above all else, she still believes in music as &#8220;one of the only magic things in the world, because it transcends all sorts of geographic and demographic boundaries&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">&#8220;It&#8217;s just got this power of making a whole room of [different] people feel the same thing at the same time.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">&#8220;And therefore, everyone becomes something beyond themselves. It&#8217;s as close to spirituality as I think I get.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">Rowena Wise&#8217;s <a class=\"Link_link__kR0xA Link_link__5eL5m ScreenReaderOnly_srLinkHint__OysWz Link_showVisited__C1Fea Link_showFocus__ALyv2\" href=\"https:\/\/www.abc.net.au\/listen\/doublej\/music-reads\/music-news\/rowena-wise-australian-tour-2026\/106832934\" data-component=\"Link\" data-uri=\"coremedia:\/\/article\/106832934\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Bad Things Feel Good* tour<\/a> kicks off at Howler in Melbourne on October 15.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">She visits Castlemaine, the Blue Mountains, Sydney, Thirroul, Brisbane and Mapleton, then in November, Hobart and Fremantle.<\/p>\n<p><script async src=\"\/\/www.instagram.com\/embed.js\"><\/script><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Rowena Wise makes music about life&#8217;s grey areas. 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