{"id":954718,"date":"2026-11-06T12:40:12","date_gmt":"2026-11-06T12:40:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/954718\/"},"modified":"2026-11-06T12:40:12","modified_gmt":"2026-11-06T12:40:12","slug":"clare-testoni-former-partner-of-disgraced-novelist-craig-silvey-writes-of-betrayal","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/954718\/","title":{"rendered":"Clare Testoni, former partner of disgraced novelist Craig Silvey, writes of &#8216;betrayal&#8217;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">The ex-partner of disgraced novelist Craig Silvey has spoken of suffering a &#8220;betrayal&#8221; and how she and their three young children are &#8220;secondary victims&#8221; of his crimes.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">Writer Clare Testoni, who separated from Silvey after 13 years in the wake of his arrest on child exploitation charges, posted a statement online on yesterday evening, telling of &#8220;the hardest year of my life&#8221; since his arrest in January this year.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.abc.net.au\/news\/2026-11-03\/craig-silvey-literary-darling-child-exploitation-offender\/107338130\" data-component=\"FullBleedLink\" class=\"RelatedCard_link__rsgR9 FullBleedLink_root__lTw_U interactive_focusContext__yRhc_ interactive_defaults__AKxUU FullBleedLink_showVisited__g3Xvz\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">How Craig Silvey ended up behind bars<\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"Typography_base__sj2RP RelatedCard_synopsis__cFwMW Typography_sizeMobile14__u7TGe Typography_lineHeightMobile20___U7Vr Typography_regular__WeIG6 Typography_colourInherit__dfnUx\" data-component=\"Typography\">Author Craig SIlvey&#8217;s conviction on child exploitation material charges leaves a generation of book lovers feeling &#8220;great betrayal&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">Silvey was jailed this week for seven months for possessing and distributing graphic images and videos of child exploitation<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">In sentencing him, Judge Hayley Cormann said the material he possessed and his communications about it were &#8220;repulsive&#8221; and &#8220;degrading&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">Ms Testoni&#8217;s statement detailed her increasing distance from Silvey over the past six years, and their eventual estrangement when she learned of his crimes.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>&#8216;Great betrayal&#8217;<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">She described what Silvey did as a &#8220;great betrayal&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">&#8220;The father of my children and my partner of 13 years revealed himself not to be the man I thought he was,&#8221; Ms Testoni wrote.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">&#8220;While I was aware he was stressed and his mental health was suffering I had no idea what was truly going on.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">&#8220;I had seven month old twins, a three year old, I had been drowning in motherhood and in his growing absence.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">Ms Testoni expressed her sorrow for those whose abuse was depicted in the material Silvey shared.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Craig Silvey arrives at court while wearing a suit and dark sunglasses. \" class=\"Image_image__5tFYM ContentImage_image__DQ_cq\"  src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/11\/1793968812_866_87d57ada70b40fa0169d81f5b89543e8.jpeg\" loading=\"lazy\" data-component=\"Image\" data-lazy=\"true\"\/><\/p>\n<p class=\"Typography_base__sj2RP FigureCaption_text__zDxQ5 Typography_sizeMobile12__w_FPC Typography_lineHeightMobile20___U7Vr Typography_regular__WeIG6 Typography_colourInherit__dfnUx\" data-component=\"Typography\">Craig Silvey arrives at court for his sentencing on Monday. (ABC News: Cason Ho)<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">&#8220;I\u2019m especially sorry for the victims,&#8221; she wrote.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">&#8220;All children deserve to be safe and loved. That is what I hope to provide for my girls.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8216;Secondary victims&#8217;<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">Her statement came days after Silvey posted his own <a class=\"Link_link__kR0xA Link_link__5eL5m ScreenReaderOnly_srLinkHint__OysWz Link_showVisited__C1Fea Link_showFocus__ALyv2\" href=\"https:\/\/www.abc.net.au\/news\/2026-11-03\/craig-silvey-s-online-apology-fails-to-address-victims\/107342544\" data-component=\"Link\" data-uri=\"coremedia:\/\/article\/107342544\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">9,000-word essay online <\/a>in which he tried to explain what led to his offending, outlining his own sexual abuse as a child and his anguished mental state.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">Ms Testoni, who is understood to have moved from Fremantle to New South Wales after separating from Silvey, said this year had been the hardest of her life.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">&#8220;With little children and no employment, this betrayal came at the time in my life when I was most financially and socially vulnerable,&#8221; she wrote.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">&#8220;It is hard to rebuild friendships after escaping a toxic relationship when you are the sole parent to three under four.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.abc.net.au\/news\/2026-11-02\/craig-silvey-jailed-child-exploitation-offences\/107337348\" data-component=\"FullBleedLink\" class=\"RelatedCard_link__rsgR9 FullBleedLink_root__lTw_U interactive_focusContext__yRhc_ interactive_defaults__AKxUU FullBleedLink_showVisited__g3Xvz\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Craig Silvey jailed over &#8216;most depraved&#8217; child exploitation material<\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"Typography_base__sj2RP RelatedCard_synopsis__cFwMW Typography_sizeMobile14__u7TGe Typography_lineHeightMobile20___U7Vr Typography_regular__WeIG6 Typography_colourInherit__dfnUx\" data-component=\"Typography\">Disgraced Australian author Craig Silvey is jailed by a Perth judge after admitting he distributed graphic images of adults abusing children over a messaging service.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;It is harder still while being followed by the Daily Mail on your way to Centrelink.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">&#8220;We separated as soon [as I] learned of his crimes but he remains the father of our children.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">&#8220;Reconciling how he will be in their lives is an ongoing project that I don\u2019t think anyone else can understand until it happens to them.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">&#8220;We are secondary victims in this. We have suffered greatly.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Sexual assault support services:Silvey &#8216;a shadow&#8217;<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">Ms Testoni said she had become increasingly estranged from Silvey as his writing career blossomed.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">&#8220;Craig has already been a shadow that occluded me at times in my career,&#8221; she wrote.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">&#8220;He supported many of my endeavours with enthusiasm but in the last six years he had stopped reading my work when I shared it with him, discouraged me from continuing my PhD when we had our first child, and generally prioritised his own more lucrative career over mine.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">&#8220;This is an old story badly re-told again and again.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph_paragraph___QITb\">&#8220;I hope to tell a new story going forward.&#8221;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"The ex-partner of disgraced novelist Craig Silvey has spoken of suffering a &#8220;betrayal&#8221; and how she and their&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":954719,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2],"tags":[522122,216925,522121,522120,43,44,86,41,39,42,40,45,522123,522124],"class_list":["post-954718","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-headlines","tag-clare-testoni","tag-craig-silvey","tag-craig-silvey-child-exploitation-images","tag-craig-silvey-child-sex","tag-headlines","tag-news","tag-perth-news","tag-top-news","tag-top-stories","tag-topnews","tag-topstories","tag-wa-news","tag-who-was-craig-silveys-partner","tag-who-was-craig-silveys-wife"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/954718","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=954718"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/954718\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/954719"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=954718"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=954718"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/au\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=954718"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}