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Amanza Smith appeared on the Tuesday, Nov. 4 episode of Boyfriend Material with Harry JowseyDuring the appearance, Smith openly talked about her sex life”There’s so many uncles I’ve probably banged,” she said before she clarified, “Not a real uncle”

Amanza Smith isn’t afraid to talk about her sex life.

When asked if she had any “first date horror stories” during an appearance on the Tuesday, Nov. 4 episode of Boyfriend Material with Harry Jowsey, the Selling Sunset star, 48, gave an unexpected tidbit about her kids’ “uncles.”

Smith made the revelation after revealing that her daughter, Noah, and son, Braker, are “very opinionated.”

Amanza welcomed Noah and Braker with her ex-husband, former NFL player Ralph Brown, who went missing in 2019 and hasn’t been heard from since. In 2021, Smith was awarded full legal and physical custody of both children.

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“My daughter doesn’t like anybody,” Smith told Jowsey in Tuesday’s episode. “Who does she like? There’s so many uncles I’ve probably banged.”

Host Harry Jowsey was immediately taken aback by Smith’s comment, extending his hand out before asking, “Wait, so, real uncles?”

“Not a real uncle,” Smith quickly responded, explaining, “You know when you’re close friends with somebody, you be like ‘uncle so and so,’ ‘uncle so and so.’ There’s like three uncle so and so that I’ve definitely had sex with.”

While Smith’s explanation made her and Jowsey laugh, she said that her kids are ultimately at the age where they’ve asked if she’s seeing everyone she calls an “uncle.”

When it comes to her perfect partner, Smith said that she has a few characteristics she looks for.

Amanza Smith.

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“I think somebody who is honest,” she said. “Whatever the arrangement is, they’re faithful to that arrangement. Like, if you want to be monogamous, they are loyal.”

The television personality’s future partner must also like kids — or at least teenagers — and be ambitious.

“I prefer someone who is not a smoker,” she continued, noting that she is okay with someone who vapes.

Amanza Smith.

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“They need to be funny or have a sense of humor,” said Smith. “They need to be kind. They need to be, I don’t know, all kinds of stuff.”

This isn’t the first time Smith has gotten candid about her dating life.

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Back in 2020, she opened up about her previous romantic relationships with Taye Diggs and JC Chasez on the Dear Media podcast Not Skinny But Not Fat.