In our How I Manage My Money series we aim to find out how people in the UK are spending, saving and investing money to meet their costs and achieve their goals.

This week we speak to Courtney Summer, 29, who lives in Southampton with her parents and works as a freelance illustrator and graphic designer. Courtney has been made redundant twice and had to give up a rental flat she’d put a deposit on after losing a job. She would like to earn £60,000 a year and has recently set up a private pension after her father told her he regretted not starting one.

Monthly budget

My monthly income: Before tax, the income from my work as a freelance illustrator and graphic designer is approximately £2,200 per month. 

My monthly outgoings: I’m not paying for accommodation or utility bills at present. Groceries, £250; Adobe Illustrator, £30; web hosting, £14; trains and buses, £100; mobile phone, £20; Apple Music, £11; iCloud storage, £9; eating out and takeaways, maximum £50. I’ve just started paying £60 a month into a self-invested personal pension (Sipp). I try to add £100 to £500 to my cash savings account when I can.

I studied illustration at university in Plymouth, before moving to London to take on my first proper job. I worked at Hamleys from 2018 as a graphic designer, earning £21,500 a year, while paying £660 a month for rent.

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Feeling insecure at work
in your 50s? You’re not alone

The final decades of work

There’s this assumption about being put out to pasture… but now that we’re living and working longer, we have to challenge myths around ageing and remember that over-50s are a crucial part of the workforce…

LYNDSEY SIMPSON, AUTHOR OF AGE REBELLION AND FOUNDER OF 55/REDEFINED

The current situation

By 2030, almost half of all employees in the UK workforce will be over 50.

36%

Now one in three workers are over 50. 

Yet more than a third of those between 50 and 69 believe that their age puts them at a disadvantage when they apply for jobs. 

37%

The Age Without Limits study from 2024 shows that 37 per cent of workers between 51 to 70 felt badly treated in work because of their age.

The things to do, says Simpson

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Keep learning new skills

We need the same level of career planning in
our fifties as our twenties. It’s possible to reinvent yourself again.

Embrace technology

It’s nonsense that older people can’t pick up how to use new tech.

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Think about money

Do you need a pay rise? Could you trade some of that money you earn, to work a bit less, and do more things you enjoy?

The things not to do

Become full-time childcare

Grandparenting on the horizon? If you don’t want to do childcare, have the conversation early – even before a child becomes pregnant – that you plan to continue working and love your job.

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Accept redundancy too quickly

It’s going to be so much harder to get back into work if you don’t have a plan before you take that leap.

The things not to do

Rush into retirement

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Everybody thinks early retirement is the dream but the reality can be different. There can be loneliness, lack of purpose and a sense of invisibility. 



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By November, UK food prices will be 50 per cent higher than they were at the start of the cost-of-living crisis 

With that in mind, food editor Sophie Morris shares how she saves money on her weekly shop

Easy ways to save on the weekly shop

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Avoid chicken breast

Boneless chicken thighs are all meat and a much tastier product.

Don’t plan everything

If you plan every meal all week, there’s no leeway for necessary last-minute changes of plan (or leftovers).

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Shop alone

There are so many products that children want to fill the trolley with – all kinds of exciting eye candy. It’s cheaper to go alone.

Easy ways to save on the weekly shop

Consider a vegetable box delivery

Having a Riverford box delivery helps Morris avoid impulse buys and go to the shops
less – even though the box is pricey. “It is expensive, but of great quality and organic”.

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Track your spending

It doesn’t need to be an elaborate spreadsheet but without some kind of metric, it’s impossible to spot where you
can or must make cutbacks.

Easy ways to save on the weekly shop

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Look for yellow stickers

You can save plenty
over a year by never buying branded products at full price.

Take stock

Do a quick cupboard stocktake. You might find you already have three jars of one thing.

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Avoid packaged snacks

Packing fruit, biscuits, and nuts etc into a Tupperware to take out is more cost effective than buying tiny packaged portions.

Easy ways to save on the weekly shop

Be wary of DIY treats

“Faking” a takeaway at home can sound like a cheaper option, but if it’s something you don’t usually cook – that needs new ingredients – it could work out pricier.

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Do you need it now?

Returning a few things to the shelves that you won’t need in the near future can save you a healthy amount.

Skip a shop

Every time you make do with what’s at home,
you save big.

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Easy ways to save on
the weekly shop

Try a week or a month of shopping local,
and you might be surprised at the results,
in terms of cost and other benefits like supporting local businesses, and
avoiding car journeys and traffic.

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Go shopping when you’re not in a huge rush so you can make relaxed and informed decisions. Don’t expect to stick to your plan or make great choices when you’re in a hurry. 

I’ve been a cleaner for 30 years – these are the 10 products I swear by

Rebecca Jones has tried most cleaning products in her
decades-long career.

She shares the ones she can’t
live without.

The 10 best cleaning products

Best vacuum

Henry is a classic.
It has fantastic filters, sucks up pet hair quickly, and is great at cleaning up fine dust. 

Best mop and bucket

The Vileda H2PrO set is light, manoeuvrable and keeps clean and dirty water separate.

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Best glass cleaner

The HG Glass and
Mirror cleaner removes stains without leaving smudges or streaks.

The 10 best cleaning products

Best multipurpose cleaner

Method’s multi-surface cleaner is plant-based, cruelty-free, and works great on grease, sinks, sealed wood surfaces, hobs, bins and sealed laminated floors.

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Best toilet brush

Unlike a regular toilet brush, nothing gets stuck in the bristles of Ibergrif M34152 Silicone brush. It also dries quickly, so
there’s less odour.

The 10 best cleaning products

Best mould remover

Jones uses the HG Mould Spray on walls, tiles, grout, windows and outdoor furniture.

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Best cloths

The Seep Eco Bamboo clothes have a streak-free finish and last.

Best carpet cleaner

Every home should have a bottle of Dr Beckmann’s stain remover, says Jones.

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The 10 best cleaning products

Best stain remover

The Mr Siga Multi-Functional Eraser Sponge acts like fine sandpaper to lift
dirt, stains, and scuffs using only water.

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Best kept secret

Jones uses Bar Keepers Friend Cleanser to polish stainless-steel, scour sinks and clean her fridge and cookware.

Around 957,000 people aged 16 to 24 are classed as NEET ie. not in Education, Employment or Training

But as youth unemployment rises, not all companies
are looking to universities to find their new recruits. Meet the people who have benefitted.

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For young people unable to attend uni

My whole life was being a carer, so I was very lost…

From the age of around 10, Bruce Devlin took responsibility for everything at home – from administering his mother’s medication, to doing the shopping, cooking, cleaning and supporting his mother’s mental health.

He scraped through school, leaving with the lowest grades.

Now, aged 26, he has secured a job by pursuing an unconventional route.

The charities helping them

Bruce followed an unconventional route.

Getting a foot in the door seemed impossible with his qualifications, lack of experience and connections.

His Job Centre work coach put him in touch with Generation, a non-profit which partners with companies to identify roles which they are struggling to fill.

He landed a place on Generation’s first IT support boot camp and benefited from CV and interview coaching.

Bruce is now a level three senior quality engineer with 2i Testing, a company which tests other companies’ software.

The result

Getting a full-time salary and being a contributing member of society is an amazing achievement. Without this, I’d be just another person on jobseeker’s allowance, wasting any potential I had.

BRUCE DEVLIN, 26, GLASGOW

The apprenticeship route

Jessica Andrea Carvalho had an offer to start a media and marketing degree but she rejected it at the last minute to avoid huge debt and years of classroom learning.

Avoiding increasing
NEET numbers

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Generation placed 700 people
like Bruce in jobs last year.

The number of placements has jumped 20 per cent from last year.

42 per cent of their learners come from the UK’s most deprived areas.



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What do employers think?

Creating more routes in is not just about opportunity – it helps bring in talent with different experiences.

Paula Cunnington, the chief talent officer for Publicis Groupe UK, a network of marketing agencies that has hired 79 apprentices, says curiosity and real-world experience are far better indicators of future success.

Up to 75 per cent of us in the UK are not drinking enough water.

The human body can survive for a time without food, but it cannot survive for long without water.

Here are the signs you need more fluids, according to a GP.

How much we should drink

Water is the most vital component for life.

6-8

NHS guidelines advise we should be drinking six to eight glasses of fluid per day.

This does vary depending on our activity levels, the weather, and if we are ill.

80%

An estimated 50-80 per cent of our bodies and brains being made up of water. 

It allows us to deliver nutrients to cells in our blood, lubricates our joints, regulates our temperature and much more. 

How to stay hydrated

What to drink

Not all fluids are the same – water takes top spot, as it hydrates without sugars or calories, but lower-fat milks, sugar-free drinks or moderate amounts of tea and coffee can all count towards fluid intake.

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What to avoid

Limit smoothies and fruit juices to 150ml per day because the sugar causes dental decay.

Signs you’re not drinking enough

1. Our brains

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When dehydrated, we can display an exaggerated response to pain and experience headaches. Concentration, attention, reaction times and short-term memory can also all be negatively impacted.



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Signs you’re not drinking enough

2. Our bodies

Another common sign of dehydration is constipation. Our skin can look duller, be less bouncy to the touch and be less elastic. 

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3. Our psychology

Research has shown that even mild dehydration can lead us to feel more moody, stressed and irritable. We can also feel more tired than usual, with less energy and motivation. 

Quick and life-changing tricks for a calmer, tidier home

Easy habits to declutter your home

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The habits audit

Subconscious habits can cause clutter so take regular pauses to stop and notice what you are doing during the day.

The re-entry reset

Establish a routine you follow every time you come home so the entrance stays clear.

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The exit mindset

Each time you leave the house, take a minute to think: ‘What can I take out with me?’ To the tip? To the charity shop? To recycle?

Easy habits to declutter your home

The drop zone

Doing a clear-out for charity doesn’t need to be a big task. Have a donate box in a practical location to drop any unwanted items as you come across them.

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Dedicated home

Create a logical home for everything so it’s easier to find and keeps everything in place.

Easy habits to declutter your home

The quick scan

Each time you open a drawer identify a few items you can bin, donate or return to their rightful home. 

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One in, one out rule

To manage wardrobe clutter follow the rule that a new item can only go in if you give something else away. 

The daily check-in

Give yourself a few minutes at the start or end of the day to acknowledge the progress you’ve made.

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It can be far easier to seek an internal promotion rather than a new job elsewhere

The statistics

A trend of ‘job hugging’

12%

In January, available vacancies were down 12 per cent compared to a year prior.

According to the ONS it marked 39 consecutive quarters of decline.

51%

of UK employees plan to stay in their current roles, as Employment Hero’s first Annual Jobs Report shows. Four in 10 say competition is too high to take the risk.

So how can you improve your current situation without leaving?

Learn to humble brag

Your wins don’t always speak for themselves. Share them. Jump into conversations beyond your usual remit. How people see you today shapes the opportunities that come your way tomorrow. Even small updates can have an outsized impact.

VICTORIA MCLEAN, CEO OF CITY CV AND AN EXPERT IN CV AND PROFILE WRITING

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Make your case – with data

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Keep a log

The chances of your boss remembering what you achieved in Q1 by December is low so keep a success log.

Treat it as a proposal

Show impact, link it to organisational goals,
and outline future
value, says McLean.

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Remember that you may be able to find a new job within your current organisation (Photo: Shutterstock)(Photo: Shutterstock).

Don’t be shy

Ask your boss directly what you need to do to be promoted in the next six to 12 months.

Offer solutions to problems

Ask yourself: what keeps your organisation awake
at night?

Solve those problems and you shift from just doing your job to being a strategic asset.

Sharing your ideas and views with the people above you can really prove what you’re capable of.

Proactively initiate new projects
or processes.

 It ‘s daunting but getting people to see you in a more elevated position before you get there is really effective.

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Ask for training

It’s a fantastic signal to show how serious you are about your development. 

As careers are no longer linear, a promotion may not be in your current role, but perhaps in the same company in a broader role.

Do some digging to find out what else might be available in other areas.

How to resolve the biggest rows that can end marriages

Private school, sex and housework can be some of the biggest causes of tension between warring couples.

Mike Talbot, a psychologist, and chief executive of UK Mediation [below], reveals how to fix them.

What couples row over

Parenting and schooling

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Psychologist Mike Talbot says parenting can expose ideological differences in a couple. He encourages people to listen to each other, and find a “third way”, something that they come up with between themselves, rather than sticking to one person’s opinion.



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Money (or a lifestyle)

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It’s common for couples to disagree on their property or finances.

Couples might have different ideas about what the best plan of action is for the future.

Dr Talbot says its important to find “common ground” on what both parties wish for, or worry about.



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Incompatibilities around sex

Dr Talbot has seen this when one person loses their sex drive. “It can happen when the couples get older, and she loses her sex drive during menopause, whereas the guy’s still as randy as he was when he was 20.”

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Domestic workload

We get people disagreeing about how tidy the house should be, how neatly dressed the kids should be… 

This goes back to the gender stereotypes.

The solution is to focus on value and to get the couple to think about the conflict in a different way.

I then got a job as an illustrator at an animation company, making £25,000 a year. In 2021, during the Covid-19 pandemic, I was made redundant. I ended up being unemployed for six months and went on universal credit, which didn’t even cover my rent.

In November 2021, I got a new job as a designer at a tech startup in London, working remotely. I started on £28,000 a year, while paying £750 a month for rent and bills. I discovered a lot of my peers working at the firm were earning considerably more than me, so I asked for a raise. My pay went up to £37,500.

I was made redundant from the job at the tech startup in December 2023, meaning I’d been axed twice in the space of a few years. A message on Slack came through asking for a meeting out of the blue, and I was told I was being let go. It did feel personal, even though I knew it shouldn’t have. It was unexpected and gut-wrenching.

After being made redundant for the second time, I knew I had to move back home, as the financial impact would be too severe otherwise, particularly with rental costs in London. I’d just paid for a deposit on a flat to rent in Brighton the day before I was made redundant for the second time, and the move had to be cancelled after I lost my job at the startup.

The job market proved extremely challenging and I found myself without a job two years later. I was reluctant to go on universal credit again, but did after my parents said it was a good idea. I’ve since come off universal credit and found being on it was a bit demeaning.

In the interim, I ended up getting another short-term job at a startup in December 2024, but believe it was a scam. I was not paid at any point, despite being promised I would be.

I’ve now launched my own business as a freelance illustrator and graphic designer, and wish I had done it sooner. Before tax, I make about £2,200 a month and hope this will increase. One of my main clients is a theme park and I’m currently also working on a children’s book for a wedding company.

Setting boundaries as a freelancer has been challenging. I need to set aside free time for myself. Having contract clauses in place and standing firm on them has been useful, particularly if clients ask for more than they did initially. Knowing what to charge clients has also been difficult.

I’ve got about £9,000 in pensions from when I was employed. Since going freelance, I’ve started focusing more on pensions and have just opened a Sipp, which I’m adding £60 a month to. My father didn’t have a private pension and told me he regrets that.

I’ve always been very careful with my money and don’t spend it unnecessarily. I don’t really spend any money on clothes as I am super green and use Vinted, and I only spend what I earn in the app.

I’ve only recently got a credit card to ensure I can build up a credit score and use it abroad easily. I have £15,000 spread across a standard savings account with my bank and some inherited premium bonds. Investing feels a bit foreign to me.

Part of me wants to become a digital nomad and travel to places like Costa Rica or Canada, but I’ll need to see how freelancing pans out. I don’t know how feasible it will be for me to buy my own home in the UK, but do want to rent somewhere myself at some point. I don’t know if I’ll be able to buy a home without an inheritance.

Currently, I’m very motivated by money due to my current living situation. I want to be financially stable again. I’d like to be making £50,000 to £60,000 a year and have the ability to dictate what work I take on and when. Not having to worry about money would be brilliant.

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