Guests are gathering at Taylor Swift and Travis Kelce’s wedding, and you might be wondering if Blake Lively has been spotted. The answer: Not so much (at least not yet!) due to being in a completely different city.

There’s been speculation about the status of Blake’s RSVP ever since she and Taylor’s alleged falling out last year—when Tay was dragged into Blake’s legal battle.

Since then, there have been conflicting reports about where their friendship stands. On the one hand, an insider told People last summer that they were working on being back “on good terms,” but that “their friendship isn’t the same as it was before,” and that they “aren’t as close and haven’t been spending as much time together as they did in the past,” AND that “Taylor is working to trust Blake again but it’s going to take some time.”

On the other hand, a source told the Daily Mail around the same time that “Even though Taylor has totally cut ties with her, Blake hasn’t with Taylor. She’s been reaching out to her with texts, voicemails and even emails begging to mend what they once had. Blake isn’t giving up on trying to get her friendship with Taylor back on track. Taylor hasn’t responded to any of Blake’s pleas. She’s ignored all her grovelling excuses. The missives explain there must be some misunderstanding on Taylor’s part and that she would never do anything to harm their ten years of closeness and personal secrets. Taylor obviously still means so much to Blake, but Taylor’s totally done with her and as of right now, no requests will mend their bond as far as she’s concerned.”

There hasn’t been much recent reporting on where things stand, and it’s possible Blake could still make an appearance at the wedding (we’ll update this article if that happens), but as of yesterday, she was upstate with her family!