{"id":105674,"date":"2025-08-29T15:29:10","date_gmt":"2025-08-29T15:29:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/105674\/"},"modified":"2025-08-29T15:29:10","modified_gmt":"2025-08-29T15:29:10","slug":"olivia-colman-and-benedict-cumberbatchs-secret-to-successful-marriages","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/105674\/","title":{"rendered":"Olivia Colman and Benedict Cumberbatch&#8217;s secret to successful marriages"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Yasmin RufoCulture reporter <\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/1756379168_867_grey-placeholder.png\" class=\"sc-d1200759-0 dkIvM hide-when-no-script\" aria-label=\"image unavailable\"\/><img decoding=\"async\"   src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/85856350-84d4-11f0-8482-5de2807b9be8.jpg.webp.webp\" loading=\"eager\" alt=\"Getty Images Olivia Colman and Benedict Cumberbatch attend &quot;The Roses&quot; UK Premiere at the Odeon Luxe Leicester Square on August 28, 2025 in London, England.\" class=\"sc-d1200759-0 dvfjxj\"\/>Getty Images<\/p>\n<p>Colman and Cumberbatch have been friends for many years<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 hxuGS\">Olivia Colman and Benedict Cumberbatch have spent the best part of the last year swearing, shouting and sneering at each other.<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 hxuGS\">Their latest roles see them play Ivy and Theo Rose &#8211; a wealthy couple once blissfully in love, who now find themselves in a marriage breakdown and bitter divorce battle.<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 hxuGS\">Ironically, the relationship between the two actors couldn&#8217;t be further from their warring characters &#8211; they&#8217;re actually close friends, having met decades ago in a radio recording studio.<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 hxuGS\">As I sit down with them the morning after the film&#8217;s premiere, the pair, cups of tea in hand, are gushing over how great the other looked last night.<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 hxuGS\">Colman thanks Cumberbatch for his support the night before as she admits she hates these sorts of events and parties. &#8220;If it&#8217;s my party in my own house with people I know, then I love it,&#8221; The Crown actress says.<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 hxuGS\">Cumberbatch agrees that these events can be challenging as &#8220;you have to have those awkward conversations and really you just want to go and speak to your mum or wife.&#8221; <\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 hxuGS\">&#8220;It is very heightened, odd and a bit weird but you have to just enjoy it and try to find the fun in it.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/1756379168_867_grey-placeholder.png\" class=\"sc-d1200759-0 dkIvM hide-when-no-script\" aria-label=\"image unavailable\"\/><img decoding=\"async\"   src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/ff54b500-84d4-11f0-8482-5de2807b9be8.png.webp.webp\" loading=\"lazy\" alt=\"Searchlight Olivia Colman and Benedict Cumberbatch as Ivy and Theo Rose in The Roses\" class=\"sc-d1200759-0 dvfjxj\"\/>Searchlight<\/p>\n<p>The Roses has been praised by critics for being &#8220;relentlessly entertaining&#8221; <\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 hxuGS\">After dissecting the night before, the enthusiastic praising of each other continues. Colman says she felt like a &#8220;competition winner&#8221; at points and Cumberbatch explains that their acting styles perfectly complement each other.<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 hxuGS\">&#8220;I fret, she doesn&#8217;t faff, she&#8217;s really patient with my fretting and I love her non-faffing. We really do get on incredibly well,&#8221; he says. <\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 hxuGS\">The Roses is an adaptation of the 1989 film The War of the Roses, which was directed by Danny DeVito and starred Michael Douglas and Kathleen Turner as a couple going through an increasingly acrimonious divorce.<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 hxuGS\">In this new version, the sour marital conflict from the late 1980s has been transported into a glossy but volatile world of modern ambition.<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 hxuGS\">Directed by Jay Roach and written by Tony McNamara, Theo is an architect whose career collapses at the same time as his wife&#8217;s career as an up-and-coming chef skyrockets. <\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 hxuGS\">Resentment grows as Theo finds himself a stay-at-home dad, dedicating his time to training their two children to get into a sports scholarship school, while Ivy jets around America opening new restaurants.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/1756379168_867_grey-placeholder.png\" class=\"sc-d1200759-0 dkIvM hide-when-no-script\" aria-label=\"image unavailable\"\/><img decoding=\"async\"   src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/77115350-84d5-11f0-8482-5de2807b9be8.png.webp.webp\" loading=\"lazy\" alt=\"Searchlight Olivia Colman as Ivy in The Roses\" class=\"sc-d1200759-0 dvfjxj\"\/>Searchlight<\/p>\n<p>Colman plays a high flying chef in The Roses<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 hxuGS\">While their characters seem to detest every ounce of each other &#8211; &#8220;I like that he has arms&#8221;, Colman&#8217;s character says during one marriage counselling session &#8211; the actors are both happily married in real life.<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 hxuGS\">Colman is married to producer Ed Sinclair and has three children. Cumberbatch also has three children with playwright and director Sophie Hunter. <\/p>\n<p>&#8216;Don&#8217;t throw knives&#8217;<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 hxuGS\">Both married for a number of years, I ask them what the secret is to a successful marriage? <\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 hxuGS\">&#8220;Don&#8217;t be complacent and keep the conversation between you going rather than thinking one of you is always right,&#8221; the Sherlock actor says. &#8220;It&#8217;s also important to be tolerant, understanding and never stop working at it.&#8221; <\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 hxuGS\">Colman adds that she makes sure her and her husband always appreciate each other and are &#8220;being nice and checking in on each other&#8221;. <\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 hxuGS\">They add that filming The Roses didn&#8217;t make them think differently about love and relationships, but jokingly say they learned &#8220;not to have hard fruit in the house, don&#8217;t throw knives or wear headphones in the bath&#8221;. <\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 hxuGS\">The Roses is all about what happens when work, ambition and family life collide.<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 hxuGS\">Both actors admit it&#8217;s taken time to work at balancing career pressures and family life. <\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 hxuGS\">In the film, Ivy feels guilty for missing key moments in her children&#8217;s livess because she&#8217;s working, and Colman says this really resonates with her. <\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 hxuGS\">&#8220;From the moment you have a child, you&#8217;ll have guilt.<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 hxuGS\">&#8220;I took my eldest on set with me when he was six weeks old and I thought it would be easy but regretted it and even while he was on set, I felt enormous guilt because it didn&#8217;t feel like the right environment for him to be in,&#8221; Colman says. <\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/1756379168_867_grey-placeholder.png\" class=\"sc-d1200759-0 dkIvM hide-when-no-script\" aria-label=\"image unavailable\"\/><img decoding=\"async\"   src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/51c762c0-84d4-11f0-84c8-99de564f0440.jpg.webp.webp\" loading=\"lazy\" alt=\"Getty Images Benedict Cumberbatch is seen filming &quot;Doctor Strange&quot; on April 3, 2016 in New York City. \" class=\"sc-d1200759-0 dvfjxj\"\/>Getty Images<\/p>\n<p>Cumberbatch&#8217;s character Dr Strange will return in Avengers: Doomsday <\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 hxuGS\">She adds that she turns down most jobs which are abroad and normally tries to be home every night. <\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 hxuGS\">Cumberbatch agrees: &#8220;The British industry is flying right now, so a lot of work comes here including a franchise we&#8217;re both part of.&#8221; <\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 hxuGS\">He&#8217;s referring to the Avengers franchise in which he will reprise his role as Doctor Strange in the upcoming Avengers: Doomsday. Colman has previously appeared in Disney+ TV series Secret Invasion, as MI6 agent Sonya Falsworth.<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 hxuGS\">The pair look at each other coyly, nervously giggling &#8211; there has been no announcement of Colman being involved in the films.<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 hxuGS\">I ask if we can expect Colman to be involved, at which she says to Cumberbatch: &#8220;If you&#8217;ve made this happen because you&#8217;ve said this now I will be so thrilled.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 hxuGS\">The pair tease me by saying she&#8217;s the new villainess but it&#8217;s left unclear whether she will have a role in the new films.<\/p>\n<p>&#8216;Relentlessly entertaining&#8217;<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 hxuGS\">There are plenty of rom-com films, including those that chart the downfall of a relationship, but few manage to merge both themes in under two hours. <\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 hxuGS\">Most critics have praised the film &#8211; <a target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.independent.co.uk\/arts-entertainment\/films\/reviews\/the-roses-review-release-benedict-cumberbatch-olivia-colman-b2815485.html\" class=\"sc-f9178328-0 bGFWdi\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">The Independent<\/a> called it &#8220;relentlessly entertaining&#8221; in its four-star review, while <a target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.telegraph.co.uk\/films\/2025\/08\/27\/the-roses-benedict-cumberbatch-olivia-colman\/#:~:text=As%20a%20warring%20couple%2C%20Olivia,supply%20are%20the%20special%20effects.\" class=\"sc-f9178328-0 bGFWdi\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">The Telegraph<\/a> said Colman and Cumberbatch are &#8220;deliciously savage&#8221;.  <\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 hxuGS\"><a target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.theguardian.com\/film\/2025\/aug\/25\/the-roses-review-olivia-colman-and-benedict-cumberbatch-remake\" class=\"sc-f9178328-0 bGFWdi\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">In a two-star review<\/a>, The Guardian said the actors were &#8220;let down by the overly glossy romcom-y sheen&#8221; or Warren Adler&#8217;s novel, who wrote The War of the Roses, on which the film is based. <\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 hxuGS\">I get the sense that these two British actors aren&#8217;t particualrly interested in the reviews &#8211; Cumberbatch says the &#8220;whole project was based selfishly on us wanting to work together&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 hxuGS\">They&#8217;re excited to discuss what they might do together next.<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 hxuGS\">Cumberbatch says he really wants to do a play like Who&#8217;s Afraid of Virginia Woolf or Much Ado About Nothing, but Colman is quick to shut it down saying: &#8220;I really can&#8217;t hold a whole play in my head any more.&#8221; <\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 hxuGS\">We might not know what the pair will act in together next, but one thing does seem certain, this isn&#8217;t the last time they will be co-stars. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Yasmin RufoCulture reporter Getty Images Colman and Cumberbatch have been friends for many years Olivia Colman and Benedict&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":105675,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[32],"tags":[49,48,361,75],"class_list":{"0":"post-105674","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-celebrities","8":"tag-ca","9":"tag-canada","10":"tag-celebrities","11":"tag-entertainment"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/105674","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=105674"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/105674\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/105675"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=105674"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=105674"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=105674"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}