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<\/p>\nWhat kind of reader does this book want me to be? When you start with this question, you\u2019re taking a first step toward getting something meaningful out of whatever you read. Even if simply enjoying what you read is your objective, What kind of reader does this book\u2014or poem, movie, game, song, newspaper, newscast, painting, website, social media stream, etc.\u2014want me to be? offers a more promising place to start than Do I like this book? or What\u2019s wrong with this book? and a much more promising place to start than Do I feel outraged or validated by this book?\u00a0<\/p>\n
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Being outraged has increasingly become a default response for people who think of themselves as thinking persons, but it tends to shut down the mind rather than open it and so robs it of an opportunity to work and grow stronger and come to handle things with greater competence and find more joy in the encounter with them.\u00a0<\/p>\n
What kind of reader does this book want me to be? is useful precisely because it helps you find your way to meaning even when you dislike or hate or are outraged by a book. You can interrogate any reaction\u2014like, dislike, disgust, fascination, irritation, bliss, boredom, hating or loving or identifying with a character, you name it\u2014and exploit that reaction\u2019s interpretive possibilities when you begin by thinking of the book as a machine that produces reactions in you and ask how the machine works.\u00a0<\/p>\n
The pearl, in this analogy, is an interpretive reading.<\/p>\n
This is effective even if you fight the book every step of the way, reading against the grain of what it wants you to do, who it wants you to be. Actually, this approach may be even more effective when you naturally resist becoming the kind of reader a book wants you to be, because resisting its demands makes you acutely aware of them. When I teach literature courses, I tell students that genuine dislike of a book, or of something about a book, can function in the mind like a grain of sand that gets into an oyster, irritating the organism so much that it produces a pearl in response. The pearl, in this analogy, is an interpretive reading.<\/p>\n
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A teacher, too, can do something with strong responses, negative or positive. I bear in mind in this regard something that James Schamus, whom I interviewed for a magazine profile when he was the long-reigning head of the indie movie studio Focus Features, told me about CinemaScore exit polls of movie audiences. While an A from CinemaScore was always welcome, he said, \u201cA B or B-minus is \u2018eh.\u2019 I\u2019d rather have a C-minus or D, knowing that people have strong reactions.\u201d\u00a0<\/p>\n
Which brings me to Edith Wharton\u2019s The House of Mirth. As part of research for a book about what happens in the classroom, I interviewed at length the students who had taken the same required freshman literature course with me in the spring of 2020. When we discussed the books we had read, The House of Mirth took a beating.\u00a0<\/p>\n
\u201cThat was not my thing,\u201d Susannah said, speaking for many. (I\u2019ve changed the students\u2019 names.) \u201cThe language, the time period.\u201d The novel\u2019s set in New York\u2019s high society at the end of the nineteenth century\u2014not that long ago\u2014and its precise, elegant prose is by no means impenetrably alien, but there\u2019s enough distance from us to trigger a response like Susannah\u2019s.\u00a0<\/p>\n
Jonah, who told me that he finds it hard to sit still and read because he gets antsy very quickly, assumed an expression of vividly remembered pain as he said, with dripping irony, \u201cThat was so fun. Oh my gosh. A chapter of that would take me like an hour to get through, because I\u2019m such a slow reader. And it\u2019s just like, What the hell is this? What is she talking about?\u201d\u00a0<\/p>\n
Dara, Eli, and Eva reported that reading The House of Mirth gave them flashbacks to bad experiences of being forced to read nineteenth-century novels in high-school English classes. Eva, with endearingly characteristic bluntness, told me, \u201cI hated it. It was incredibly boring to me.\u201d Dan, too: \u201cBoring. Simple as that.\u201d<\/p>\n
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The stakes couldn\u2019t be higher because Lily apparently can\u2019t function anywhere else than at the top of society. She\u2019s a hothouse flower, and in the wrong conditions she\u2019ll wither and die.<\/p>\n
Among those who identified plot and character as the main off-putting traits, Charlotte articulated the response of several students when she explained, \u201cI just couldn\u2019t pinpoint what I wanted to talk about, what parts meant the most to me.\u201d Tyler also couldn\u2019t figure out how to care about what happened in the novel, but he could put his finger on the source of the problem: \u201cI had just a harder time getting through that whole book because, like, all right, is she going to get married yet? Is she going to keep pushing all these guys away?\u201d\u00a0<\/p>\n
He was referring to the main action of the novel, in which Lily Bart, low on capital but richly endowed with beauty and calculating acumen, tries to pick her way through a field of wealthy suitors. Each of them offers money and position but nothing much in the way of pleasure, excitement, intellectual stimulation, or the prospect of anything other than a life of loveless, socially irreproachable tedium possibly brightened by the occasional extramarital affair. She can\u2019t bring herself to stomach any of the candidates or to say to hell with their money and hook up with the socially acceptable but modestly salaried lawyer Selden, to whom she might actually be attracted. The stakes couldn\u2019t be higher because Lily apparently can\u2019t function anywhere else than at the top of society. She\u2019s a hothouse flower, and in the wrong conditions she\u2019ll wither and die. But none of that mattered to Tyler.\u00a0<\/p>\n
Some students got into it. Arun said, \u201cI think for me, coming from an Indian background, it wasn\u2019t as alien to me because a lot of people have arranged marriages or, like, have that pressure of getting married.\u201d Dave and Paul texted back and forth about Lily Bart\u2019s suitors as they read, having fun with it, making a running joke of following her fortunes as if she were a contestant on The Bachelorette. \u201cCan\u2019t believe she\u2019s really gonna pick Percy Gryce! I\u2019m Team Selden all the way!\u201d That game contained the seeds of an interpretive approach, to the extent that they recognized that there was a surprising and perhaps analytically exploitable bit of overlap between the kind of reader that The House of Mirth asked them to be and the kind of viewer The Bachelorette asked them to be.\u00a0<\/p>\n
Identifying or failing to identify with Lily, sympathizing with her or wishing she\u2019d just hurry up and die already\u2014students\u2019 responses to the demands on them as readers exerted by The House of Mirth were all over the map, creating multiple pathways into the novel for us to exploit.\u00a0<\/p>\n
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In class, when we talked about the language of the novel, we went deep on some tendencies we discerned in it during our initial noticing exercises: the narration makes a lot of word choices that have a resonance of business, war, predation, or science.\u00a0<\/p>\n
There\u2019s constant talk of credit, speculation, interest, and capital in Wharton\u2019s account of Lily Bart\u2019s career in New York\u2019s high-society marriage market. This language acquires an ironic edge when you consider that the women of the novel may have the lioness\u2019s share of drive and ambition, but they\u2019re shut out from Wall Street, where the plodding male characters enjoy copious access to money and power. So the female characters do their mergers, acquisitions, and other deal-making in the ballroom and boudoir. There\u2019s also hunting and military imagery: \u201cShe began to cut the pages of a novel, tranquilly studying her prey through downcast lashes while she organized a method of attack.\u201d\u00a0<\/p>\n
And there\u2019s frequent recourse to the language of natural science: Lily\u2019s compared to a \u201cwaterplant in the flux of the tides,\u201d a \u201csea-anemone torn from the rock,\u201d \u201cspindrift on the whirling surface of existence,\u201d a celestial body in eclipse as others rise above the horizon. She comes to perceive that \u201cthe blind motions of her mating-instinct . . . had been checked by the disintegrating influences of the life about her. All the men and women she knew were like atoms whirling away from each other in some wild centrifugal dance.\u201d<\/p>\n
Because our culture constantly urges them to develop interests and dreams and pursue them\u2014that\u2019s usually the essence of the essays they wrote to gain admission to college\u2014acting on even the most impassioned impulse can feel like obeying orders from on high.<\/p>\n
Seeking a larger pattern in the interplay of these different recurring veins of language, we made out a basic tension in the novel. Lily the entrepreneur-warrior-hunter may try to actively determine the course of her own life, but she\u2019s also portrayed as passively in the tidal grip of large impersonal forces like money, desire, and different social rules for women and men.<\/p>\n
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Seeing how Lily is at once free to choose and helplessly locked into a life course created an analytical path along which even students initially put off by the novel might find their way into it. Lily\u2019s older than they were, in her late twenties, and her marry-or-else situation might seem alien to most of them, but the larger questions Lily\u2019s situation raises can seem more familiar. Do you feel like a warrior or a water plant? An entrepreneur or spindrift?\u00a0<\/p>\n
It\u2019s often both at once, which can be disorienting in ways that students recognize. In both school and personal life, they have repeated occasion to wonder to what extent they\u2019re authentically operating as free agents and to what extent they\u2019re just going through the motions dictated by their programming and the demands of social class and the exclusive institutions and select groups to which they want to gain admittance. Because our culture constantly urges them to develop interests and dreams and pursue them\u2014that\u2019s usually the essence of the essays they wrote to gain admission to college\u2014acting on even the most impassioned impulse can feel like obeying orders from on high. All of that resonates with the predicament of Lily Bart.\u00a0<\/p>\n
So now we\u2019re talking less about language and more about plot, character, and theme, the other big category of reasons why many students found it hard to get into The House of Mirth. Many students balk at being asked to feel deeply about the tragedy of Lily\u2019s ejection from her natural habitat of luxury, which the novel keeps showing and telling us she must have in order to feel that she\u2019s truly living. She\u2019s boxed in by sexual inequality in access to capital, mandatory marriage, and all the rest of the forces impinging on her, but at times it looks like the cause of her demise is low thread count. First-world problems, they say. Why is she so weak and whiny?\u00a0<\/p>\n
They needed each other\u2019s help, not just mine, to get there.<\/p>\n
I understand this kind of reaction. Even rereading it for the tenth time, I want to say to her, Look, if you have to marry and they\u2019re all bozos, just pick the richest and most agreeable or malleable bozo and settle for the security he can provide, and you can emulate your high-society peers by having your romantic adventures on the side. Or marry Selden, if you\u2019re actually attracted to him, and endure the not-very-unspeakable fate of being merely upper middle class rather than super-rich. Or don\u2019t marry anybody and find your way into a bohemian tale or a proto-noir or a shopgirl story or some other formula. But don\u2019t just stand there and dither until the world gets around to squashing you like a bug.<\/p>\n
But that\u2019s not really playing by the rules of the text. In this novel, it\u2019s high society or nothing for Lily, a natural-born ditherer, and she\u2019s too aware of the unjust strictures on her as a woman to allow herself to do what she has to do to assure her place in it. That should turn our attention to those strictures, rather than to questioning the verisimilitude of her melodramatic doom.<\/p>\n
Many of my students got through The House of Mirth, and eventually got into it, only because it was assigned in a class for which they would be receiving credit and a grade. They needed each other\u2019s help, not just mine, to get there.\u00a0<\/p>\n
Even Eli, who hated the book on sight, came around to it by way of class discussions. \u201cThis is the thing,\u201d he told me. \u201cI did not like it at first, but I thought the discussion we had about how the choices a character makes for relationships influence the idea of the narrative and the themes was very interesting at the end. And I\u2019ve always had that mind-set in the back of my head since that book.\u201d\u00a0<\/p>\n
If Eli came away from his encounter with The House of Mirth with a newly acquired habit of thinking about the character system as a way to figure out what a book\u2019s about, then he got something useful out of it. And there\u2019s extra value in the fact that his first reaction was negative but he pushed through it, was willing to consider what the book expected of him and why and how it produced that reaction, and didn\u2019t settle for simply disliking the book. \u201cBut the book as a whole I did not like,\u201d he added, with the air of a man setting the record straight.<\/p>\n
Part of the value of teaching a text that students find offputting or otherwise not instantly likable is that it gives us a chance to practice a set of moves\u2014identification, analogy, interrogating your own reactions to the text, putting your finger on how the form of the text encourages those reactions\u2014they can employ when they find themselves put off by a book\u2026or a movie, a painting, a song, a human being. Even the most broadly interested and forgiving person will react negatively to at least some books, and when it happens, it\u2019s more important than ever to ask What kind of reader does this book want me to be?<\/p>\n
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