{"id":139517,"date":"2025-09-12T21:31:09","date_gmt":"2025-09-12T21:31:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/139517\/"},"modified":"2025-09-12T21:31:09","modified_gmt":"2025-09-12T21:31:09","slug":"when-mental-health-diagnoses-become-brands-the-real-drivers-of-our-psychic-pain-are-hidden","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/139517\/","title":{"rendered":"When mental-health diagnoses become brands, the real drivers of our psychic pain are hidden"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"c-article-body__text text-pr-5\">Sami Timimi is a child and adolescent psychiatrist, psychotherapist and author of the new book Searching for Normal: A New Approach to Understanding Mental Health, Distress, and Neurodiversity.<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-article-body__text text-pr-5\">I was talking to my youngest daughter on a cold evening in April, 2022. Still shrouded in the shadows of COVID lockdowns with social distancing signs on London pavements, we sat in a restaurant littered with hand sanitizers accumulating crystalline congealed blobs on the tray below their now mostly empty dispensing levers. Enforced alienation in an already hyper-individualistic culture was contributing to rising referral rates at the child and adolescent mental health service where I worked as a consultant psychiatrist.<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-article-body__text text-pr-5\">Zoe, who was 24 at the time, was in one of those nihilistic moods. Her generally happy-go-lucky predisposition was now often punctuated by pessimism. She was struggling to find a stable job, feel a sense of purpose, and imagine a better life awaited her. She explained that many of her friends and friends of friends felt the same way. An invisible blanket of humdrum gloom and despondency had replaced the ardour and energy of youth. They were getting diagnosed with ADHD, trauma, depression, anxiety, PTSD, autism, and often several such diagnoses. Their conversations were interpolated by references to gender identity, neurodiversity, emotional regulation and \u201chaving\u201d mental health. When she explained the circumstances of these peers, which included bereavements, enforced isolation during lockdowns, financial insecurity, struggling to find an affordable place to live, and so on, I realized she was describing an accelerating \u2013 and to me, worrying \u2013 sociocultural process.<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-article-body__text text-pr-5\">My other daughter, Michelle, had been telling me about chats taking place with other parents at the school gates and nursery car park that my three gorgeous grandchildren attend. \u201cHe\u2019s probably on the spectrum,\u201d \u201cShe\u2019s masking all day and then has meltdowns at home,\u201d \u201cHave you considered whether these are traits of ADHD?\u201d Parents, teachers, support workers, and child-care assistants talking the language of psychiatric symptoms and diagnoses as they tried to make sense of three- to 10-year-old children\u2019s behaviours. <\/p>\n<p class=\"c-article-body__text text-pr-5\">As a child and adolescent psychiatrist, I was also noticing a shift toward more young people and\/or their parents, teachers, friends and other professionals imagining they had a mental disorder that needed diagnosing. The mother of a 14-year-old patient told me with confidence her son needed medication to address \u201csome sort of chemical imbalance.\u201d A 16-year-old girl was \u201cpretty sure\u201d she was bipolar (\u201cI\u2019ve looked this up\u201d) and told me that her friends, all apparently medicated, expressed shock when they learned my patient had not been prescribed anything. The mother of another young woman was certain she had autism, ADHD, depression and anxiety. \u201cBut I think that\u2019s not all that\u2019s wrong with her,\u201d she told me, \u201cThere\u2019s something more. Something deeper. Maybe she has some sort of personality disorder.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-article-body__text mv-16 l-inset text-pb-8\" data-sophi-feature=\"interstitial\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.theglobeandmail.com\/canada\/article-adhd-content-on-tiktok-is-misinformed-according-to-study\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">ADHD content on TikTok is misinformed, could steer youth to self-diagnose, study finds<\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"c-article-body__text text-pr-5\">Even my colleagues weren\u2019t immune. \u201cI think he may have some neurodiversity, perhaps even autism\u201d was becoming a common utterance I heard from therapists, social workers and psychologists.<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-article-body__text text-pr-5\">A patient information leaflet on \u201cantidepressants\u201d produced by a British national mental health service and passed anonymously to me, included the following advice: \u201cIt can sometimes take weeks, months or even years, to get the right medicine at the right dose for you. Think of it as a bit like dating. Some make you feel sick or sleepy; some are great to start with but wear off; others may not be much to start with but after a while grow on you. Then you might have found the one that makes you feel good long-term. So don\u2019t lose hope if the first one doesn\u2019t work.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-article-body__text text-pr-5\">An emboldened and bloated Mental Health Industrial Complex (MHIC) has grown its tentacles beyond the hospital and the clinic, worming its way into the minds of the masses. Is this a sign of a society embracing psychological liberation? Or is it something more sinister \u2013 the monetization of distress and difference whilst psychologizing and distracting from the social drivers of psychic pain.<\/p>\n<p>Rising rates, declining outcomes<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-article-body__text text-pr-5\">Multiple studies have highlighted the increasing prevalence of anxiety, depression and other mental health conditions in Canada, particularly in its youth. Between 2012 and 2022 the prevalence of mood and anxiety disorders increased substantially, particularly among women and those between the ages of 15 and 24. <\/p>\n<p class=\"c-article-body__text text-pr-5\">For example, the one-year prevalence of generalized anxiety disorder among young women <a href=\"https:\/\/www150.statcan.gc.ca\/n1\/pub\/75-006-x\/2023001\/article\/00011-eng.htm\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" title=\"https:\/\/www150.statcan.gc.ca\/n1\/pub\/75-006-x\/2023001\/article\/00011-eng.htm\" target=\"_blank\">tripled<\/a> from 3.8 per cent in 2012 to 11.9 per cent in 2022. Meanwhile, a 2019 survey that asked Canadian youth aged 12 to 17 years to rate their mental health, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.statcan.gc.ca\/o1\/en\/plus\/7642-rising-mental-health-concerns-among-youth\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" title=\"https:\/\/www.statcan.gc.ca\/o1\/en\/plus\/7642-rising-mental-health-concerns-among-youth\" target=\"_blank\">found that 12 per cent<\/a> rated their mental health as \u201cfair\u201d or \u201cpoor.\u201d That proportion had more than doubled to 26 per cent in 2023, when the respondents were now aged 16 to 21 years. Among the 88 per cent of youth who rated their mental health as \u201cgood,\u201d \u201cvery good\u201d or \u201cexcellent\u201d in 2019, 21 per cent reported experiencing a decline to \u201cfair\u201d or \u201cpoor\u201d by 2023.<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-article-body__text text-pr-5\">Some studies suggest these increases may have an element of social contagion. According to Canadian <a href=\"https:\/\/pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/36571927\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" title=\"https:\/\/pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/36571927\/\" target=\"_blank\">research<\/a> published in 2023, kids \u2013 especially teenage girls \u2013 are presenting with self-described Tourette\u2019s, eating disorders, autism, Dissociative Identity Disorder (DID) and other mental disorders in exponentially increasing numbers. The authors conclude that identifying with and glamourizing certain \u201cdisorders\u201d has become a way for some teenagers to express negative emotions in a way that, rather than stigmatizing them, makes them feel part of a community or unique and special.<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-article-body__text text-pr-5\">With this type of concept spread what sometimes happens is young people (particularly girls) watch videos (such as those on <a href=\"https:\/\/pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/articles\/PMC11924099\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" title=\"https:\/\/pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/articles\/PMC11924099\/\" target=\"_blank\">TikTok<\/a>) by content creators who self-identify as having these various \u201cillnesses\u201d (like ADHD). Videos show and describe how the symptoms manifest during everyday activities and how it is an important part of the creator\u2019s identity. Then, these youngsters present with the outward symptoms, just as described by the content creator, thus producing sudden outbreaks of a particular condition, or increases of those considered more common (such as ADHD).<\/p>\n<p>The \u201cTreatment Prevalence Paradox\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-article-body__text text-pr-5\">While more is being spent on treatment of individuals, the general population prevalence of many mental health conditions <a href=\"https:\/\/www.researchgate.net\/publication\/378798052_Global_Trends_and_Correlations_in_Mental_Health_Disorders_A_Comprehensive_Analysis_from_1990_to_2019\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" title=\"https:\/\/www.researchgate.net\/publication\/378798052_Global_Trends_and_Correlations_in_Mental_Health_Disorders_A_Comprehensive_Analysis_from_1990_to_2019\" target=\"_blank\">is rising<\/a>. Hence, on the one hand treatment access has improved and become more available, but on the other hand the omnipresence of mental health conditions has not decreased, but instead has increased across all age groups, and particularly in young people. This is known as the Treatment Prevalence Paradox (TPP). <\/p>\n<p class=\"c-article-body__text text-pr-5\">There has been a cascade of recently written books by <a href=\"https:\/\/thehistorypress.co.uk\/publication\/chemically-imbalanced\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">psychiatrists<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/atlantic-books.co.uk\/book\/sedated\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">sociologists<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.routledge.com\/Users-and-Abusers-of-Psychiatry-A-Critical-Look-at-Psychiatric-Practice\/Johnstone\/p\/book\/9780367559816?srsltid=AfmBOoocngs9ZZTKUZZS-v6QEA9c1faR4iU3d-GN47uPMniL_G84EFrA\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">psychologists<\/a> and <a href=\"https:\/\/www.penguin.co.uk\/books\/443161\/desperate-remedies-by-scull-andrew\/9780141996455\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">historians<\/a> coming to the same conclusion: Our beliefs and practices around mental health have failed to improve either our scientific knowledge or clinical outcomes. <\/p>\n<p class=\"c-article-body__text text-pr-5\">Despite increasing consumption of therapy and psychiatric medication, mental health in Western countries (which have the most globally developed mental-health services) is getting worse by multiple metrics. Suicide rates have <a href=\"https:\/\/health-infobase.canada.ca\/mental-health\/suicide-self-harm\/suicide-mortality.html\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" title=\"https:\/\/health-infobase.canada.ca\/mental-health\/suicide-self-harm\/suicide-mortality.html\" target=\"_blank\">risen<\/a>, more people are worried and\/or <a href=\"https:\/\/news.gallup.com\/poll\/505745\/depression-rates-reach-new-highs.aspx\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" title=\"https:\/\/news.gallup.com\/poll\/505745\/depression-rates-reach-new-highs.aspx\" target=\"_blank\">depressed<\/a>, the <a href=\"https:\/\/annals-general-psychiatry.biomedcentral.com\/articles\/10.1186\/s12991-021-00374-y\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" title=\"https:\/\/annals-general-psychiatry.biomedcentral.com\/articles\/10.1186\/s12991-021-00374-y\" target=\"_blank\">mortality gap<\/a> between those being treated for severe mental conditions and the rest of the population is wide and increasing, and <a href=\"https:\/\/www150.statcan.gc.ca\/n1\/daily-quotidien\/231201\/dq231201b-eng.htm\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" title=\"https:\/\/www150.statcan.gc.ca\/n1\/daily-quotidien\/231201\/dq231201b-eng.htm\" target=\"_blank\">there are rising rates<\/a> of people receiving disability benefits for mental-health difficulties. <\/p>\n<p class=\"c-article-body__text mv-16 l-inset text-pb-8\" data-sophi-feature=\"interstitial\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.theglobeandmail.com\/life\/article-how-public-therapy-programs-are-quietly-re-shaping-individuals-and\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">How public therapy programs are quietly re-shaping individuals and communities<\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"c-article-body__text text-pr-5\"><a href=\"https:\/\/mentalstateoftheworld.report\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" title=\"https:\/\/mentalstateoftheworld.report\/\" target=\"_blank\">International studies<\/a> show this decline in mental health across all age and gender groups, with English-speaking countries having the lowest levels of mental well-being, and those between the ages of 18 and 24 having the worst mental health of all. The trends keep going in the wrong direction. Wherever you look across the Western world you will find stories about <a href=\"https:\/\/www.theguardian.com\/society\/2024\/sep\/20\/mental-health-overtakes-cancer-and-obesity-as-britons-biggest-health-worry\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" title=\"https:\/\/www.theguardian.com\/society\/2024\/sep\/20\/mental-health-overtakes-cancer-and-obesity-as-britons-biggest-health-worry\" target=\"_blank\">mental-health epidemics<\/a> and data that shows more people being diagnosed, more services being created, and more psychiatric treatments being consumed.<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-article-body__text text-pr-5\">These worsening outcomes are not true for cancer, not true for heart disease, not true for diabetes, or almost any other area of medicine. Something is going badly wrong.<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-article-body__text text-pr-5\">The growth of mental health diagnoses has not occurred because of any new scientific discoveries. No one has discovered mythical \u201cchemical imbalances,\u201d characteristic brain differences, or robust genetic associations with any psychiatric condition (the two exceptions being with the dementias and intellectual disability). <\/p>\n<p><a style=\"display:block\" href=\"https:\/\/www.theglobeandmail.com\/resizer\/v2\/XSMSV4VPDJCKXLJMMLXOON5F5I.JPG?auth=7cb08b1ad1b1347f1c69305d7758a23d1d6601035dc99ed56af1dc61ca2f0972&amp;width=600&amp;height=400&amp;quality=80&amp;smart=true\" aria-haspopup=\"true\" data-photo-viewer-index=\"0\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Open this photo in gallery:<\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"figcap-text\">Brain scan images showing Alzheimer&#8217;s dementia, top in dark blue, compared to another scan with early developing spots, in light blue, that researchers said were likely showing the early stages of Alzheimer&#8217;s disease. The results of the research were published in the new England Journal of Medicine in 1996.The Associated Press<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-article-body__text text-pr-5\">This is why what are called \u201ctests\u201d in psychiatry do not tell you anything about the brains or bodies of those diagnosed. They are largely questionnaires supplemented by impressionable observations. <\/p>\n<p class=\"c-article-body__text text-pr-5\">In response to these alarming trends, some are calling for <a href=\"https:\/\/www.cbc.ca\/news\/canada\/calgary\/mental-health-crisis-health-minister-1.6342995\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" title=\"https:\/\/www.cbc.ca\/news\/canada\/calgary\/mental-health-crisis-health-minister-1.6342995\" target=\"_blank\">more resources<\/a> to enable better detection and more (early) interventions. But this may further worsen outcomes if the fundamental concepts that build our beliefs and practices rest on inappropriate foundations. For a start, it assumes we know what we mean by \u201cmental health\u201d and therefore what a mental illness or disorder is. You\u2019d be forgiven for thinking that there are specific targeted treatments out there and that people get better with interventions delivered by professionals with special expertise. You\u2019d likely think that our problem with mental health is stigma and lack of services; that the issue is woeful underfunding and long waiting lists, and that more needs to be done to educate the population.<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-article-body__text text-pr-5\">But these are not the real problems. In fact, the above assumptions are likely a major cause of growing mental-health problems, rather than its solution. <\/p>\n<p class=\"c-article-body__text text-pr-5\">You see there is a truth that we (in the mental-health business) hope no one will notice \u2013 we literally don\u2019t know what we are talking about when it comes to mental health. We are unable to escape something that all the definitions of mental health or illness have in common. They are all subjective. They are constructed by a belief, an opinion, an idea. They are not phenomena that lend themselves to sitting in the world of objective facts in the same way that a broken bone does. This means they can be expanded in a myriad of ways to capture a kaleidoscope of distress, alienation and dissatisfaction. <\/p>\n<p class=\"c-article-body__text text-pr-5\">The World Health Organization <a href=\"https:\/\/www.who.int\/news-room\/fact-sheets\/detail\/mental-health-strengthening-our-response\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" title=\"https:\/\/www.who.int\/news-room\/fact-sheets\/detail\/mental-health-strengthening-our-response\" target=\"_blank\">defines <\/a>mental health as \u201ca state of mental well-being that enables people to cope with the stresses of life, realize their abilities, learn well and work well, and contribute to their community.\u201d What does \u201crealize their abilities\u201d mean? Is it in the sense of being aware of them, or in the sense of putting them into effect? What are the normal \u201cstresses of life\u201d and what does it mean to \u201ccope\u201d with them? What does it mean to \u201cwork well,\u201d and how does a person know that they are contributing to a community? Which community? How do you define a contribution anyway? There must be many people who, for lack of education, money, or opportunity, are in practice unable to do so. Are these unfortunates by definition mentally ill? I could go on.<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-article-body__text text-pr-5\">The consequences for us adopting this non-scientific, simplistic framework have been catastrophic for our collective mental health and for our understanding of distress. It means definitions can expand horizontally (by taking in new behaviours or lesser extreme versions) or vertically (by incorporating new populations). <\/p>\n<p class=\"c-article-body__text text-pr-5\">ADHD starts its clinical life as hyperkinetic disorder, rare and thought of as \u201cdevelopmental\u201d \u2013 meaning most children were expected to grow out of it. It is then thought of as affecting more children, including lesser disruptive behaviours and incorporating attention difficulties rather than just the \u201chyperactive\u201d element. Next, it becomes seen as potentially lifelong, but still a mainly male \u201cdisorder.\u201d Introducing the concept of \u201cmasking\u201d then means that you don\u2019t have to display the behaviours, but rather \u201cfeel\u201d you have them, thus enabling a whole new cohort (mainly women) to be brought into the ADHD diagnostic realm. <\/p>\n<p class=\"c-article-body__text text-pr-5\">None of these evolving diagnostic mutations were the result of new biological discoveries. <\/p>\n<p>Psychiatric diagnoses are consumer brands, not medical diseases<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-article-body__text text-pr-5\">Diagnosis is a system of classification based on categorizing a proximal cause. We can take a car to a garage to run diagnostic tests. Computer technicians will run diagnostics looking for software faults or computer viruses causing a program to malfunction. <\/p>\n<p class=\"c-article-body__text text-pr-5\">In medicine, diagnosis is the process of determining which disease explains, i.e., has caused, a person\u2019s symptoms and\/or signs. Making an accurate diagnosis is a technical skill that enables effective matching of treatment to address specific disease processes occurring in the body. Health care involves a lot more than this, as it is a human social activity, meaning that patients have a relationship with health care providers as well as an awareness that physical suffering also impacts a person\u2019s psychosocial world. But a diagnostic system enables progress on the technical aspects of care. <\/p>\n<p><a style=\"display:block\" href=\"https:\/\/www.theglobeandmail.com\/resizer\/v2\/HARI6ZWU7ZK3PEXSVE3R5HKCCU.JPG?auth=d280fe44de9c8233d42d8250391a0cc277977fef3b63ef6ed12534ab28bbb90d&amp;width=600&amp;height=400&amp;quality=80&amp;smart=true\" aria-haspopup=\"true\" data-photo-viewer-index=\"1\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Open this photo in gallery:<\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"figcap-text\">Dr. Seth Gale points out evidence of Alzheimer&#8217;s disease on PET scans at the Center for Alzheimer Research and Treatment at Brigham And Women&#8217;s Hospital in Boston in 2023.BRIAN SNYDER\/Reuters<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-article-body__text text-pr-5\">The availability of empirical measures enables advances in scientific knowledge and clinical outcomes as we classify a case using measurements that map into the world of objective facts, such as measuring a person\u2019s blood sugar levels to ascertain whether they may have diabetes.<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-article-body__text text-pr-5\">But in mental health we are reliant on subjectivity. Psychiatric diagnoses therefore cannot point toward any causal agent (apart from a few such as those related to forms of dementia).<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-article-body__text text-pr-5\">Consider the following example: If I were to ask the question \u201cWhat is depression?\u201d it\u2019s not possible for me to answer that question by reference to a particular known abnormality. I cannot say that depression is a disease that occurs due to having abnormally low levels of serotonin in the brain, because no one has found this despite <a href=\"https:\/\/www.nature.com\/articles\/s41380-022-01661-0\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" title=\"https:\/\/www.nature.com\/articles\/s41380-022-01661-0\" target=\"_blank\">extensive research<\/a> and so there are no medical tests done to confirm or refute this. <\/p>\n<p><a style=\"display:block\" href=\"https:\/\/www.theglobeandmail.com\/resizer\/v2\/WKJAW3CPIJFF7KTVBH2I7AU4XE?auth=3705ef7a3f0977ef4f29a67dfdac5e0c81b49ae5ab7321cfeab0b7e63f02b7ca&amp;width=600&amp;height=400&amp;quality=80&amp;smart=true\" aria-haspopup=\"true\" data-photo-viewer-index=\"2\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Open this photo in gallery:<\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"figcap-text\">Selective serotonin re-uptake inhibitors (SSRIs) are a class of widely prescribed drugs, including fluoxetine, branded by Eli Lilly as Prozac.MATT DETRICH\/The Associated Press<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-article-body__text text-pr-5\">Instead, to answer the question I will have to provide a description such as, \u201cDepression is the presence of persistent low mood and negative thinking.\u201d Saying that feeling low is caused by depression is a bit like saying the pain in my head is caused by a headache. If we try to use a classification that can only describe, in order to explain, we end up with a circular thinking trap. <\/p>\n<p class=\"c-article-body__text text-pr-5\">Technically speaking, therefore, there is no such thing as a psychiatric diagnosis, yet we act as if we know what we\u2019re talking about and as if we have explanations for certain states of mind and associated behaviours. So why has this unscientific idea spread so widely?<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-article-body__text text-pr-5\">The mental-illness health epidemic is growing alongside a crisis of economy and political legitimacy in Western societies. The distress and insecurity produced becomes another source of profiteering in the marketized economy where personhood is socially produced through individualized consumption. This individualization has helped create a profitable MHIC where psychiatric diagnoses function more like commercial brands. <\/p>\n<p class=\"c-article-body__text text-pr-5\">At the same time, this enables distraction from social causes of distress such as poverty, inadequate housing, social injustice, discrimination, exclusion, and chronic financial insecurity; alongside militarism, and appalling levels of violence inflicted by governments on global citizens they control (or try to control). Cancel culture from right and left, impotence of politicians to take us out of seemingly endless cycles of austerity, and loss of trust in mainstream media, leaves a crisis of legitimacy alongside material deprivations in a landscape of growing inequality. The postwar dream of looking forward to a better life than your parents has faded. Job insecurity, high rents, homelessness, crumbling infrastructure, crippling debts, food banks, extortionate bills alongside mental health epidemics are the zeitgeists of our age.<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-article-body__text text-pr-5\">Like identity politics, MHIC shifts the focus away from the political arena of the runaway elite class of the super-rich oligarchs, to competing minority rights and the space between the ears. <\/p>\n<p>Is there anything we can we do to help each other and our children? <\/p>\n<p class=\"c-article-body__text text-pr-5\">I am continually impressed by the extraordinary ability of even the most severely afflicted of the young patients I see to recover functionality and meaning in their lives. The world may be in crisis, but I remain optimistic. Humans are remarkably resilient. <\/p>\n<p class=\"c-article-body__text text-pr-5\">Here are a few thoughts:<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-article-body__text text-pr-5\">I\u2019m all too aware that there will be thousands of parents reading this who may have been told by teachers that their child has ADHD or is on the autistic spectrum, or has \u201canxiety\u201d and therefore needs an assessment. I can understand why a parent may wish to pursue that given that we have publicized the existence of such conditions and encouraged early diagnosis. My advice \u2013 don\u2019t agree to such a referral. Fight it every step of the way. Love your kids, be patient, and most of you will find a way through.<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-article-body__text text-pr-5\">We should be able to talk about how we feel without jumping into panic mode and imagining that what we\u2019re describing could be the onset of some mental disorder. I try to help the young people I see understand that being able to tolerate, live through and find meaning in low mood or anxiety (for example) is a sign of resilience, not a marker of disorder.<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-article-body__text text-pr-5\">Don\u2019t try too hard. We live in a society whose politics and economics promotes a compare and compete hyper-individualist model of human nature. This puts pressure on us and our children to perform. We then see our children or ourselves as primarily vulnerable and get drawn into noticing all sorts of ways their mental and behavioural health could go \u201cwrong.\u201d As we are launched into a seemingly never-ending search for the right diagnosis and treatment, we start collecting labels and accompanying interventions. Each step in this journey has the potential to make it harder to accept your child (or yourself) just the way they are with all their uniqueness and the mysterious wonderful variety of ways they might thrive in this maddening world. Be patient and categorize psychological problems in the sphere of the ordinary and\/or understandable. <\/p>\n<p class=\"c-article-body__text mv-16 l-inset text-pb-8\" data-sophi-feature=\"interstitial\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.theglobeandmail.com\/opinion\/article-have-you-been-given-an-adhd-diagnosis-by-tiktok-university\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Opinion: Have you been given an ADHD diagnosis by TikTok University?<\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"c-article-body__text text-pr-5\">Don\u2019t fear emotions. When we put emotions in the class of problems that can only be solved with special expertise such as a specific therapy or worse psychiatric medication, we risk losing agency and alienating ourselves from parts of ourselves that are to be experienced rather than feared. Emotions are part of dynamic and multifaceted systems and like any dynamic system (such as the weather) the one constant is change. Our duty as parents (and to each other as adults) is not to prevent our children from experiencing distress (which is impossible), but to be there and take the time and have the patience to be with them and support them when they do.<\/p>\n<p class=\"c-article-body__text text-pr-5\">See nurturing relationships as a greater priority than controlling behaviour. When we are distressed by the behaviour of our children (or other adults in our life) we often hope we can get through to them so that they change in a way that would stop their frustrating\/irritating\/worrying behaviour. Unfortunately, this can accidentally damage the relationship, leading to further problems and more tension in that relationship. The only bit in a relational dynamic that you can reliably influence is your own contribution. Think about those aspects of your relationship that you want to nurture. It can be incredibly powerful if, even in the worst of times, you can keep in mind, notice, and comment on, those bits of behaviour, however fleeting, small, or temporary that remind you of what you love, what brings you joy, and what you value in your child (or other adult). It\u2019s a bit like retraining your internal radar away from picking up all the cues for the things that distress you and reprogramming it to notice the things that you like. <\/p>\n<p class=\"c-article-body__text mv-16 l-inset text-pb-8\" data-sophi-feature=\"interstitial\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.theglobeandmail.com\/canada\/article-teen-mental-health-crisis-data-youth-canada\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">New hub for teen mental-health data launches with eye on tailoring supports for Canadian youth<\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"c-article-body__text text-pr-5\">Beware of concept creep. As what I call the Mental Health Industrial Complex has burrowed its way into day-to-day language and \u201ccommon sense,\u201d concepts have been popularized that encourage us to view behaviours and experiences in pathological ways. We no longer become sad or miserable, we get depressed. We now talk about emotional regulation and dysregulation, having \u201cmeltdowns,\u201d and \u201cmasking.\u201d Strip away this language. You and your children\u2019s experiences nearly always sit in the realm of the ordinary and\/or understandable. <\/p>\n<p class=\"c-article-body__text text-pr-5\">There are profound consequences for each of us and our society as a whole of us literally not knowing what we\u2019re talking about when it comes to mental health and\/or neurodiversity. Arming yourself with some knowledge to help you avoid the prolific spread of scientism (faith masquerading as science) could save you or your child becoming another number in the growing crowds of those who are deemed to have lifelong and incapacitating mental disorder\/illness. These conditions were never meant to be a life sentence.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Sami Timimi is a child and adolescent psychiatrist, psychotherapist and author of the new book Searching for Normal:&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":139518,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[34],"tags":[1397,49,48,84,392,1008],"class_list":{"0":"post-139517","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-healthcare","8":"tag-appwebview","9":"tag-ca","10":"tag-canada","11":"tag-health","12":"tag-healthcare","13":"tag-pleasemod"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/139517","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=139517"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/139517\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/139518"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=139517"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=139517"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=139517"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}