{"id":158652,"date":"2025-09-21T06:19:11","date_gmt":"2025-09-21T06:19:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/158652\/"},"modified":"2025-09-21T06:19:11","modified_gmt":"2025-09-21T06:19:11","slug":"john-mcenroe-says-how-he-really-feels-about-jimmy-connors-and-reveals-what-it-would-take-for-them-to-spend-time-together","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/158652\/","title":{"rendered":"John McEnroe says how he really feels about Jimmy Connors and reveals what it would take for them to spend time together"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>John McEnroe and Jimmy Connors\u2019 rivalry was one for the ages as the two Americans competed for the sport\u2019s biggest prizes during the 1970s and 1980s.<\/p>\n<p>Between 1977 and 1991, McEnroe and Connors met 34 times on the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.thetennisgazette.com\/tag\/atp\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">ATP Tour<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>It was <a href=\"https:\/\/www.thetennisgazette.com\/tag\/john-mcenroe\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">McEnroe<\/a> who edged the head-to-head 20-14,  although Connors had the better of things late on, winning six of their last seven matches.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"734\" loading=\"lazy\"  src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/GettyImages-514679620-1024x734.jpg\" alt=\"John McEnroe and Jimmy Connors shake hands after the 1984 Wimbledon final\" class=\"wp-image-131307\" \/>Tennis players John McEnroe and Jimmy Connors shake hands after McEnroe wins the men&#8217;s singles finals at the 1984 Wimbledon in sweltering heat.<\/p>\n<p>Whilst the pair respected each other, it\u2019s fair to say they didn\u2019t get along during their playing days, as they often clashed on tour.<\/p>\n<p>But do they get along today? McEnroe has now shared how he really feels about <a href=\"https:\/\/www.thetennisgazette.com\/tag\/jimmy-connors\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Connors<\/a> and suggested what it would take for them to spend time together.<\/p>\n<p>John McEnroe says he and Jimmy Connors have agreed to play golf and have dinner if Andy Roddick is present<\/p>\n<p>Appearing as a guest on the \u2018Served with Andy Roddick\u2019 podcast, McEnroe revealed what he and Connors agreed to do when they met recently.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI hadn\u2019t seen Jimmy [Connors] for six years; I just saw him last week. We agreed, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.thetennisgazette.com\/tag\/andy-roddick\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Andy [Roddick]<\/a>, as long as you\u2019re there, let\u2019s play golf and have dinner afterwards,\u201d he said.<\/p>\n<p>The American had just explained how poor his and Connors\u2019 relationship was during their careers, sharing an anecdote from the 1984 <a href=\"https:\/\/www.thetennisgazette.com\/tag\/davis-cup\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Davis Cup<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI did play Davis Cup with Jimmy Connors once, and for nine of the 12 months when we got to the finals and lost, we didn\u2019t speak to each other. So that\u2019s not the team environment you want,\u201d he admitted.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cHe definitely started it! I played Davis Cup every year for seven years leading up to 1984. I\u2019d been part of some teams already, and it became apparent to Jimmy and his manager that the only thing he hadn\u2019t won was Davis Cup because he had refused to play.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cBut it coincided with what happened to be my best year on the tour, so I was beating him pretty regularly.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>With tensions high, Team USA captain Arthur Ashe tried his best to keep the peace between McEnroe and Connors.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cAt one point, the late great Arthur Ashe, who was the captain at the time, says to me, John, the team dinner is on Wednesday, is it ok if you don\u2019t come because Jimmy doesn\u2019t want you there?\u201d remembered McEnroe.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"680\" loading=\"lazy\"  src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/GettyImages-1277646657-1024x680.jpg\" alt=\"John McEnroe and Arthur Ashe at the 1984 Davis Cup\" class=\"wp-image-131313\" \/>Photo by Rick Diamond\/Getty Images<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIt is true, I go, \u2018Arthur, you know I love you. But you\u2019re also aware that I\u2019ve played every match the last seven years, and Jimmy\u2019s just come in as it looks good on his resume. Do you think maybe he should be the one who doesn\u2019t go?\u2019<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThen he realised that I was right, so Jimmy ended up not coming to the dinner, but it was sort of awkward that we\u2019re going through the whole year not speaking to each other.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>1984 Davis Cup1R \u2013 United States defeated Romania (5-0)QF \u2013 United States defeated Argentina (5-0)SF \u2013 United States defeated Australia (4-1)<\/p>\n<p>Playing Sweden in the final, McEnroe couldn\u2019t believe what he saw Connors doing when the team was on the verge of defeat.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWe get to the Davis Cup final, we\u2019re in Sweden, Jimmy is all crazed in his head because his daughter Aubree was about to be born, he was worried about that, didn\u2019t want to miss that. I had just met\u2026 in a new relationship, with my now ex-wife, so my head was all over the place,\u201d said McEnroe.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWe went out, we lost the first couple of matches, so we\u2019re in big trouble; got to win three in a row to win. We\u2019re playing doubles, me and Peter Fleming and we\u2019re playing [Stefan] Edberg and [Anders] Jarryd, we\u2019re two sets to one down.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIt\u2019s a tiebreaker in the fourth set, we\u2019ve got to win this tiebreaker, all of a sudden I see in the corner, [clapping], Jimmy is cheering for me, I say to hell with that guy!<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI felt terrible, here I am going, screw that man, I\u2019m going to lose this, and I was playing for my country, so I felt horrible in a way.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Connors\u2019 support didn\u2019t drive McEnroe and Fleming to a victory in the doubles, as the United States lost the 1984 Davis Cup final to Sweden.<\/p>\n<p>MatchWinnerLoserScoreMatch score1Sweden (Mats Wilander)USA (Jimmy Connors)6-1, 6-3, 6-3Sweden (1-0) USA2Sweden (Henrik Sundstrom)USA (John McEnroe)13-11, 6-4, 6-3Sweden (2-0) USA3Sweden (Stefan Edberg\/Anders JarrydUSA (John McEnroe\/Peter Fleming)7-5, 5-7, 6-2, 7-5Sweden (3-0) USA4USA (John McEnroe)Sweden (Mats Wilander)6-3, 5-7, 6-3Sweden (3-1) USA5Sweden (Henrik Sundstrom)USA (Jimmy Arias)3-6, 8-6, 6-3Sweden (4-1) USA1984 Davis Cup Final \u2013 USA vs Sweden<\/p>\n<p>There were some positives to take from the trip to Sweden; however, as Connors and McEnroe had an important conversation after the match.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cAfterwards, Jimmy and I went out and had dinner. All of a sudden, it was like, \u2018It\u2019s all good, John,\u2019 he said.<\/p>\n<p>McEnroe and Connors seem to be on better terms now than they were during the early stages of Team USA\u2019s 1984 Davis Cup campaign, but the likelihood is they won\u2019t be calling each other best friends anytime soon.<\/p>\n<p>The two best players in men\u2019s tennis today, Jannik Sinner and <a href=\"https:\/\/www.thetennisgazette.com\/tag\/carlos-alcaraz\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Carlos Alcaraz<\/a>, have a very different relationship\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Carlos Alcaraz and Jannik Sinner are \u2018good friends\u2019 off the court<\/p>\n<p>During his post-US Open press conference, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.thetennisgazette.com\/tag\/jannik-sinner\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Sinner<\/a> had this to say about his Spanish rival.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI think we have a good friendship off the court. We see that this is possible, you know. It\u2019s not like you have to be enemies also off the court,\u201d he said.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"683\" loading=\"lazy\"  src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/GettyImages-2224939329-1024x683.jpg\" alt=\"Jannik Sinner and Carlos Alcaraz embrace after the 2025 Wimbledon final\" class=\"wp-image-112042\" \/>Photo by Daniel Kopatsch\/Getty Images<\/p>\n<p>\u201cOne thing is to be a good tennis player, the other one is to be a good person. Two different things. I think we have both a little bit.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Alcaraz has spoken openly about the respect he has for Sinner over the years and sent him a heartfelt message when he won his first Grand Slam at the 2024 Australian Open.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI am so happy for you, Jannik [Sinner],\u201d he said.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYou deserve it more than anyone. Enjoy the moment, my friend.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Unlike McEnroe and Connors, Sinner and Alcaraz have proven that rivals can maintain a friendship on and off the court.<\/p>\n<p>However, whether their relationship can be maintained as they continue to fight for Grand Slam titles remains to be seen\u2026<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"John McEnroe and Jimmy Connors\u2019 rivalry was one for the ages as the two Americans competed for the&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":158653,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[442],"tags":[6733,49,48,35684,8286,82,593],"class_list":{"0":"post-158652","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-tennis","8":"tag-atp","9":"tag-ca","10":"tag-canada","11":"tag-jimmy-connors","12":"tag-john-mcenroe","13":"tag-sports","14":"tag-tennis"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/158652","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=158652"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/158652\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/158653"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=158652"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=158652"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=158652"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}