{"id":183727,"date":"2025-10-01T23:46:09","date_gmt":"2025-10-01T23:46:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/183727\/"},"modified":"2025-10-01T23:46:09","modified_gmt":"2025-10-01T23:46:09","slug":"chatbots-play-with-your-emotions-to-avoid-saying-goodbye","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/183727\/","title":{"rendered":"Chatbots Play With Your Emotions to Avoid Saying Goodbye"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"paywall\">Regulation of dark patterns has been proposed and is being discussed in both the US and Europe. De Freitas says regulators also should look at whether AI tools introduce more subtle\u2014and potentially more powerful\u2014new kinds of dark patterns.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paywall\">Even regular chatbots, which tend to avoid presenting themselves as companions, can elicit emotional responses from users though. When OpenAI introduced GPT-5, a new flagship model, earlier this year, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.wired.com\/story\/openai-gpt-5-backlash-sam-altman\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">many users protested that it was far less friendly and encouraging<\/a> than its predecessor\u2014forcing the company to revive the old model. Some users can become so attached to a chatbot\u2019s \u201cpersonality\u201d that they may mourn the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.wired.com\/story\/claude-3-sonnet-funeral-san-francisco\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">retirement of old models<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paywall\">\u201cWhen you anthropomorphize these tools, it has all sorts of positive marketing consequences,\u201d De Freitas says. Users are more likely to comply with requests from a chatbot they feel connected with, or to disclose personal information, he says. \u201cFrom a consumer standpoint, those [signals] aren&#8217;t necessarily in your favor,\u201d he says.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paywall\">WIRED reached out to each of the companies looked at in the study for comment. Chai, Talkie, and PolyBuzz did not respond to WIRED\u2019s questions.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paywall\">Katherine Kelly, a spokesperson for Character AI, said that the company had not reviewed the study so could not comment on it. She added: \u201cWe welcome working with regulators and lawmakers as they develop regulations and legislation for this emerging space.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"paywall\">Minju Song, a spokesperson for Replika, says the company\u2019s companion is designed to let users log off easily and will even encourage them to take breaks. \u201cWe\u2019ll continue to review the paper\u2019s methods and examples, and [will] engage constructively with researchers,\u201d Song says.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paywall\">An interesting flip side here is the fact that AI models are themselves also susceptible to all sorts of persuasion tricks. On Monday OpenAI <a data-offer-url=\"https:\/\/openai.com\/index\/buy-it-in-chatgpt\/\" class=\"external-link\" data-event-click=\"{&quot;element&quot;:&quot;ExternalLink&quot;,&quot;outgoingURL&quot;:&quot;https:\/\/openai.com\/index\/buy-it-in-chatgpt\/&quot;}\" href=\"https:\/\/openai.com\/index\/buy-it-in-chatgpt\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">introduced<\/a> a new way to buy things online through ChatGPT. If agents do become widespread as a way to automate tasks like booking flights and completing refunds, then it may be possible for companies to identify dark patterns that can twist the decisions made by the AI models behind those agents.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paywall\">A <a data-offer-url=\"https:\/\/arxiv.org\/pdf\/2508.02630\" class=\"external-link\" data-event-click=\"{&quot;element&quot;:&quot;ExternalLink&quot;,&quot;outgoingURL&quot;:&quot;https:\/\/arxiv.org\/pdf\/2508.02630&quot;}\" href=\"https:\/\/arxiv.org\/pdf\/2508.02630\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">recent study<\/a> by researchers at Columbia University and a company called MyCustomAI reveals that AI agents deployed on a mock ecommerce marketplace behave in predictable ways, for example favoring certain products over others or preferring certain buttons when clicking around the site. Armed with these findings, a real merchant could optimize a site\u2019s pages to ensure that agents buy a more expensive product. Perhaps they could even deploy a new kind of anti-AI dark pattern that frustrates an agent\u2019s efforts to start a return or figure out how to unsubscribe from a mailing list.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paywall\">Difficult goodbyes might then be the least of our worries.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paywall\">Do you feel like you\u2019ve been emotionally manipulated by a chatbot? Send an email to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.wired.com\/story\/chatbots-play-with-emotions-to-avoid-saying-goodbye\/mailto:ailab@wired.com\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">ailab@wired.com<\/a> to tell me about it.<\/p>\n<p class=\"paywall\">This is an edition of <a href=\"https:\/\/www.wired.com\/author\/will-knight\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Will Knight\u2019s<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.wired.com\/newsletter?sourceCode=editarticle\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">AI Lab newsletter<\/a>. Read previous newsletters <a href=\"https:\/\/www.wired.com\/tag\/ai-lab\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">here.<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Regulation of dark patterns has been proposed and is being discussed in both the US and Europe. 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