Dear Annie: My sister \u201cKendra\u201d and I are not very close and only communicate two to three times per year, mainly in emails. Kendra sold her home and moved out of state. Through our sibling, I heard that she listed her house high to begin with and had to come down on her price in the end but made a decent amount on it. I never commented on how much she made or didn\u2019t make on her old house; I felt that was absolutely none of my business. When she moved and posted pictures of her new house, I commented that I was happy for her.<\/p>\n
Fast-forward to me selling my home a year or so later. After my home sold, the information on it went out to the various housing sites, incorrectly showing that it took a loss. We actually did make a nice profit on it. The information that went out was a typo and was corrected about four weeks later.<\/p>\n
Kendra was quick to reach out in an email stating she saw online how much we sold for and was surprised at the extreme money loss we took. She then asked if it was a short sale or foreclosure and commented that we must have been very upset about it.<\/p>\n
I feel this was none of her business, even if it was the right information. Am I overreacting that I feel it was quite rude for her to comment on my personal business? How should I reply back to her? — Perplexed <\/p>\n
Dear Perplexed: It\u2019s never polite to comment on someone\u2019s finances — especially if you are making a negative comment, as your sister did. The way you responded to her home sale — congratulating her and keeping your nose out of her personal finances — was just right.<\/p>\n
To give Kendra the benefit of the doubt, it\u2019s possible she was simply surprised and reacted impulsively, or perhaps she was curious, or perhaps she missed you and was using this as an excuse to make contact. Whatever her reason, let her know about the corrected typo in your response, and then change the subject. Ask her about a hobby of hers or a trip that she recently took; this should make it clear that your bank account is not fair game for a conversation starter. <\/p>\n
Send your questions for Annie Lane to dearannie@creators.com.<\/p>\n
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