{"id":258737,"date":"2025-11-03T12:03:30","date_gmt":"2025-11-03T12:03:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/258737\/"},"modified":"2025-11-03T12:03:30","modified_gmt":"2025-11-03T12:03:30","slug":"kerry-man-who-suffered-from-mental-health-issues-as-teenager-reaching-out-to-help-others","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/258737\/","title":{"rendered":"Kerry man who suffered from mental health issues as teenager reaching out to help others"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"indo-ebe0ecc6_root indo-ebe0ecc6_paragraph indo-300db776_none indo-91174671_primary indo-1d70522a_marginbottom5 indo-1d70522a_margintop0 indo-b48c4984_inherit\" style=\"color:var(--color-primary-80)\">A former student of St Brendan\u2019s College in Killarney, Neil struggled for his entire life with mental health and as a teenager he thought about suicide daily. <\/p>\n<p class=\"indo-ebe0ecc6_root indo-ebe0ecc6_paragraph indo-300db776_none indo-91174671_primary indo-1d70522a_marginbottom5 indo-1d70522a_margintop0 indo-b48c4984_inherit\" style=\"color:var(--color-primary-80)\">Given his own personal story he now wants to help parents in Kerry whose teenagers may be experiencing difficulties like he once went through, with a free workshop in his home town. <\/p>\n<p class=\"indo-ebe0ecc6_root indo-ebe0ecc6_paragraph indo-300db776_none indo-91174671_primary indo-1d70522a_marginbottom5 indo-1d70522a_margintop0 indo-b48c4984_inherit\" style=\"color:var(--color-primary-80)\">In an interview with The Kerryman, some years ago, after the launch of his book, he explained he was known as the happy guy, the class clown, one of the lads \u2013 but it was all a front. <\/p>\n<p class=\"indo-ebe0ecc6_root indo-ebe0ecc6_paragraph indo-300db776_none indo-91174671_primary indo-1d70522a_marginbottom5 indo-1d70522a_margintop0 indo-b48c4984_inherit\" style=\"color:var(--color-primary-80)\">He thought about suicide on an almost-daily basis. The harrowing account of sitting at his desk, aged 15, while he was a student at St Brendan\u2019s College in Killarney, thinking about ending it all, is just one of the many heart-breaking mental-health struggles Neil has gone through in his life.<\/p>\n<p class=\"indo-ebe0ecc6_root indo-ebe0ecc6_paragraph indo-300db776_none indo-91174671_primary indo-1d70522a_marginbottom5 indo-1d70522a_margintop0 indo-b48c4984_inherit\" style=\"color:var(--color-primary-80)\">Many years later at the age of 36, Neil bravely spoke out about his suicidal thoughts and now almost 10 years later he is helping others. <\/p>\n<p class=\"indo-ebe0ecc6_root indo-ebe0ecc6_paragraph indo-300db776_none indo-91174671_primary indo-1d70522a_marginbottom5 indo-1d70522a_margintop0 indo-b48c4984_inherit\" style=\"color:var(--color-primary-80)\">He is returning to Killarney next month hosting a community workshop, \u201cRaising Resilient Teens: Spotting the Hidden Signs of Worry or Low Mood.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"indo-ebe0ecc6_root indo-ebe0ecc6_paragraph indo-300db776_none indo-91174671_primary indo-1d70522a_marginbottom5 indo-1d70522a_margintop0 indo-b48c4984_inherit\" style=\"color:var(--color-primary-80)\">\u201cThe community workshop will shares practical, real-world tools to help parents spot the early signs of worry, rebuild connection, and support their teen through stress and low mood,\u201d he said.  <\/p>\n<p class=\"indo-ebe0ecc6_root indo-ebe0ecc6_paragraph indo-300db776_none indo-91174671_primary indo-1d70522a_marginbottom5 indo-1d70522a_margintop0 indo-b48c4984_inherit\" style=\"color:var(--color-primary-80)\">\u201cIt\u2019s for parents, teachers, and coaches who want real tools to support teens and themselves. It comes as UNICEF\u2019s recent report ranked Irish teens among the unhappiest in Europe, echoing what I see daily; parents anxious, teens shutting down, and families unsure how to reconnect,\u201d he explained. <\/p>\n<p class=\"indo-ebe0ecc6_root indo-ebe0ecc6_paragraph indo-300db776_none indo-91174671_primary indo-1d70522a_marginbottom5 indo-1d70522a_margintop0 indo-b48c4984_inherit\" style=\"color:var(--color-primary-80)\">Neil has been providing lived-experience-based coaching programmes across Ireland the UK and abroad, offering early, practical support for families and now he is bringing his free workshop to Kerry. <\/p>\n<p class=\"indo-ebe0ecc6_root indo-ebe0ecc6_paragraph indo-300db776_none indo-91174671_primary indo-1d70522a_marginbottom5 indo-1d70522a_margintop0 indo-b48c4984_inherit\" style=\"color:var(--color-primary-80)\">The workshop takes place on Thursday, November 13, at 7pm at The Panoramic, Killarney Racecourse. 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