{"id":29935,"date":"2025-07-28T18:00:10","date_gmt":"2025-07-28T18:00:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/29935\/"},"modified":"2025-07-28T18:00:10","modified_gmt":"2025-07-28T18:00:10","slug":"study-shows-many-families-think-potty-training-is-a-load-of-work-features","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/29935\/","title":{"rendered":"Study shows many families think potty training is a load of work | Features"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>                        <img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"data:image\/png;base64,iVBORw0KGgoAAAANSUhEUgAAAAQAAAADCAQAAAAe\/WZNAAAAEElEQVR42mM8U88ABowYDABAxQPltt5zqAAAAABJRU5ErkJggg==\" alt=\"pexels-elly-fairytale-4008801\" class=\"img-responsive lazyload full default\" width=\"1279\" height=\"853\" data- data-\/><\/p>\n<p>(Photo by Elina Fairytale via Pexels)<\/p>\n<p>By Stephen Beech<\/p>\n<p>One in five parents struggles with toilet training their toddler, reveals new research.<\/p>\n<p>They say their child suffered &#8220;potty anxiety&#8221; during the landmark process.<\/p>\n<p>A similar number said toilet training was harder than they expected.<\/p>\n<p>A poll of 820 American moms and dads of children aged one- to six years old revealed the challenges and anxieties many families face during the major developmental milestone.<\/p>\n<p>The <a href=\"https:\/\/mottpoll.org\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">University of Michigan Health C.S. Mott Children\u2019s Hospital National Poll<\/a> on Children\u2019s Health shows that it can be a bumpy ride for many.<\/p>\n<p>Poll co-director Dr. Susan Woolford said: \u201cLearning to use the toilet is a major step in a young child\u2019s development and requires time, patience, and consistency.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cOur report demonstrates that parents are <a href=\"https:\/\/talker.news\/2022\/09\/15\/mom-began-potty-training-daughter-when-she-was-only-eight-weeks-old\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">approaching potty training<\/a> thoughtfully but for many families and their kids, the process often includes setbacks, frustrations, and moments of uncertainty.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>                        <img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"data:image\/png;base64,iVBORw0KGgoAAAANSUhEUgAAAAQAAAADCAQAAAAe\/WZNAAAAEElEQVR42mM8U88ABowYDABAxQPltt5zqAAAAABJRU5ErkJggg==\" alt=\"daniel-k-cheung-ZJQ5Iv4p4Og-unsplash (2)\" class=\"img-responsive lazyload full default\" width=\"1761\" height=\"1176\" data- data-\/><\/p>\n<p>Daniel K Cheung<\/p>\n<p>                                    By Talker<\/p>\n<p>The survey found that more than half of parents started potty training around the age of two.<\/p>\n<p>But 21% began earlier, while another 22% waited until age three.<\/p>\n<p>Most felt they chose the right time, but a minority said they may have started too early or too late.<\/p>\n<p>Parents factored in a variety of reasons before starting potty training.<\/p>\n<p>Some needed their child to be out of nappies to enter daycare or preschool.<\/p>\n<p>Other parents were motivated by the cost of diapers, with one in five stating that financial burden played a role in the decision.<\/p>\n<p>Dr. Woolford, a pediatrician at the <a href=\"https:\/\/talker.news\/2025\/06\/17\/would-you-let-your-teenagers-stay-in-a-hotel-room-alone\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">University of Michigan<\/a>, said, \u201cWaiting until a child is truly ready can make the process smoother for everyone.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cPushing it too soon often leads to frustration and delays.<\/p>\n<p>                        <img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"data:image\/png;base64,iVBORw0KGgoAAAANSUhEUgAAAAQAAAADCAQAAAAe\/WZNAAAAEElEQVR42mM8U88ABowYDABAxQPltt5zqAAAAABJRU5ErkJggg==\" alt=\"pexels-pixabay-236164\" class=\"img-responsive lazyload full default\" width=\"1280\" height=\"853\" data- data-\/><\/p>\n<p>(Photo by Pixabay via Pexels)<\/p>\n<p>                                    By Talker<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;But some families don\u2019t have the flexibility to wait.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>She says readiness signs can include staying dry for longer periods, showing interest in the bathroom, following simple instructions, and being able to help dress or undress themselves.<\/p>\n<p>Dr. Woolford says some children may also hide when they need to go or start mimicking adult bathroom behavior.<\/p>\n<p>Among <a href=\"https:\/\/talker.news\/2021\/11\/19\/two-thirds-of-parents-feel-exhausted-before-the-day-even-begins\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">parents who reported difficulty<\/a> toilet training their toddler, the most common challenges included a child\u2019s refusal to cooperate, busy family schedules, coordination between home and daycare, and household disruptions.<\/p>\n<p>Dr. Woolford says some of the reasons children may resist include fear of flushing noises and discomfort with adult-sized toilets.<\/p>\n<p>Even once progress is made, regression is common, with a third of parents saying their child seemed toilet-trained, but then took a step back.<\/p>\n<p>Dr. Woolford said, \u201c<a href=\"https:\/\/talker.news\/2023\/07\/13\/gene-edited-trees-could-lead-to-more-sustainable-diapers\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">Potty training<\/a> isn\u2019t always a straight path.<\/p>\n<p>                        <img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"data:image\/png;base64,iVBORw0KGgoAAAANSUhEUgAAAAQAAAADCAQAAAAe\/WZNAAAAEElEQVR42mM8U88ABowYDABAxQPltt5zqAAAAABJRU5ErkJggg==\" alt=\"charlesdeluvio-0AflAh9zYJM-unsplash\" class=\"img-responsive lazyload full default\" width=\"1175\" height=\"1762\" data- data-\/><\/p>\n<p>charlesdeluvio<\/p>\n<p>                                    By Talker<\/p>\n<p>\u201cUnderstanding that it\u2019s a gradual process can help parents stay patient.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Setbacks are normal, particularly when there are stressful events in the child\u2019s life, such as a new sibling or a move to a new home.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Parents use different ways to support their <a href=\"https:\/\/talker.news\/2023\/06\/12\/hilarious-moment-toddler-admits-he-went-no-2-in-grandmas-garden\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">child during potty training.<\/a><\/p>\n<p>The survey found common ones included taking their child to the toilet regularly, offering small rewards, letting their child go nappy-free during the day, or turning the process into a game or something fun.<\/p>\n<p>For children with high potty anxiety, Dr. Woolford recommends turning the bathroom into a pressure-free zone where they can read books or play songs that help them feel relaxed.<\/p>\n<p>She said simple tools such as sticker charts, potty-only toys, and consistent routines can also go a long way as well as using a child-sized potty to help kids feel more secure.<\/p>\n<p>Dr. Woolford added, \u201cRegardless of the method, the most important things are consistency, encouragement, and keeping the experience as low-pressure and supportive as possible.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIf a child continues to struggle, especially if there\u2019s pain, withholding, or ongoing anxiety, parents should talk to their paediatrician for guidance and support.\u201d<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"(Photo by Elina Fairytale via Pexels) By Stephen Beech One in five parents struggles with 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