{"id":357609,"date":"2025-12-20T12:40:24","date_gmt":"2025-12-20T12:40:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/357609\/"},"modified":"2025-12-20T12:40:24","modified_gmt":"2025-12-20T12:40:24","slug":"carla-harvey-says-she-was-kind-of-squeezed-out-of-butcher-babies","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/357609\/","title":{"rendered":"CARLA HARVEY Says She Was &#8216;Kind Of Squeezed Out&#8217; Of BUTCHER BABIES"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>In a new interview with Matt Wake of <a href=\"https:\/\/www.al.com\/life\/2025\/12\/this-rock-star-is-married-to-another-rock-star-and-a-rock-legend-performed-the-ceremony.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener nofollow\">AL.com<\/a>, former BUTCHER BABIES vocalist Carla Harvey spoke about her split with the band nearly a year and a half ago after a decade-and-a-half run. She said: &#8220;I couldn&#8217;t do a tour [in the fall of 2023] because I had a serious eye injury and they went and did a tour without me. Then it was, like, &#8216;Well, we&#8217;ll just do the band by ourselves.&#8217; When you have put your heart and soul into something for so long and you do get kind of squeezed out of it, there&#8217;s a moment when you&#8217;re, like, &#8216;I can either lay down and not do anything else, or I&#8217;m not gonna let someone else tell me when I&#8217;m fucking done doing what I do.'&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Harvey credited her now-husband, ANTHRAX and PANTERA drummer Charlie Benante, with inspiring her to launch a new project called THE VIOLENT HOUR. &#8220;He was, like, &#8216;No, get out of bed. Fuck that. We&#8217;re gonna write an album,&#8221; Carla explained. &#8220;Charlie&#8217;s excitement about it was really instrumental in my excitement. He would be playing guitar riffs in the morning with our morning coffee.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Back in October 2024, Harvey, who also works as a grief counselor and an end-of-life specialist, told &#8220;The Ward Bond Show&#8221; about her exit from BUTCHER BABIES: &#8220;It&#8217;s quite interesting because [prior to BUTCHER BABIES] I had come to a point living in L.A., you get opportunities and they&#8217;re snatched away from you. You make money, then you lose your money. And I was so tired of the entertainment business. And I was, like, &#8216;I don&#8217;t wanna do this anymore. I don&#8217;t wanna play music anymore. I don&#8217;t wanna act anymore. It&#8217;s too much. Nothing is ever gonna happen with it.&#8217; So that&#8217;s when I went to mortuary school and I was committed to only working in funeral service from then on out. Well, after a couple years of working, I got my dream job at a very big mortuary in L.A. And at the same time, I got an opportunity to start my band and go on tour for the first time in my life. So I had to make a choice in that moment. I&#8217;ve committed myself to this death-care career. Do I drop it all, everything that I&#8217;ve worked so hard for in school, and go on tour with this band and just see what happens one final time, or do I just stick on my path? And I chose music in that moment, and that was 2009 that I really committed back to music, and 2012 we went on our \u2014 we were touring non-stop, so there was no way I could work in funeral service anymore. Well, it ended up being the best thing that ever happened to me because our career just exploded, and so I got the best of both worlds. I had gotten my education. I had gotten a taste of working in death care, and then I could still live out my dream, and I am so grateful for that. The last 15 years of my life have been spent on stage, entertaining people in a capacity that I never dreamed I would have, especially after so much disappointment in my early years in L.A. So I got to do that. I got to be a rock star. I got to do all the things. And then 15 years later, my mind kind of changed again. [Laughs]&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Elaborating on her decision to leave BUTCHER BABIES and return to the death-care industry, Carla said: &#8220;So there&#8217;s so much that goes into being in a band, especially as you get older and your life changes, you have relationships, you have a partner. I have a stepdaughter, and the idea, all of a sudden, of being on the road 10, 12 months out of the year became just a lot to handle. And in a band there&#8217;s five people, and half of those people may feel like they want to be on the road constantly all the time and then some people are, like, &#8216;Maybe it&#8217;s halftime.&#8217; So it doesn&#8217;t always work out for the greater good of everybody.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>She continued: &#8220;My dad said something to me once years ago, when we had started the band, and he meant it in jest. He said, &#8216;I saw you singing on the Internet. Don&#8217;t quit your day job.&#8217; And at the time I was, like, &#8216;That&#8217;s the nastiest thing you could say.&#8217; But I&#8217;m glad I never quit my day job. In fact, all the while, the last 15 years, while I&#8217;ve been on tour, I&#8217;ve been getting more education and getting more certification so that I could continue on because I always had that need to still be in death care in some aspect. I founded my grief coaching company so that I could still be of service to people who need me in that capacity. It was very important to me. And then [in 2023], I was on this major summer tour. We were playing sheds, the outdoor amphitheaters and it was wonderful and every day you&#8217;re up on stage singing your heart out, but, man, I saw this post about [innovative solidified remains company] Parting Stone looking for a partner success manager. And I thought, &#8216;Man, I wanna apply for this. I wanna see what happens if I can take this job.'&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Harvey added: &#8220;There&#8217;s just so many moments in life where you really have to assess what&#8217;s best for you. Life changes. And also another thing about the entertainment industry and the music industry, it&#8217;s not the same as it was for musicians 20 years ago, 10 years ago. My husband&#8217;s in a legacy band. They never have to worry about having a real job \u2014 ever. But bands my size? You&#8217;re not breaking the bank. You&#8217;re not really earning a livable wage unless you&#8217;re on the road 12 months out of the year. You can&#8217;t support yourself. So I&#8217;ve always had other jobs, whether I&#8217;m painting pictures for people or doing my grief coaching on the side. That&#8217;s a day job that I&#8217;ve been able to maintain throughout my career with music. It was a necessity as well as a passion, because otherwise I&#8217;d be couch surfing somewhere. [Laughs] I have nothing. So it&#8217;s really hard to live passionately and just follow your dreams without something to fall back on or something to assist you. And I tell this to a lot of people, and some people are, like, &#8216;No, man. I don&#8217;t want a backup plan. This is the only thing I&#8217;m ever gonna do.&#8217;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I always thought about, &#8216;Okay, this is awesome right now. What about when I&#8217;m 60? What am I gonna do then?'&#8221; Carla said. &#8220;Because my mom is 72 and she&#8217;s working all the time still. She loves working. We&#8217;re not 70-year-olds that are gonna be sitting on a couch or 60-year-olds that aren&#8217;t gonna be out doing something. Life is different. We&#8217;re still gonna be working. We have to do something, and I&#8217;d rather have that be a career rather than a job that I&#8217;m forced to have to sustain myself in the [later] years.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>THE VIOLENT HOUR&#8217;s self-titled debut EP was released in July via Megaforce Records. Carla wrote all lyrics and handled all the vocals on &#8220;The Violent Hour&#8221;, while Benante wrote the music and played all instruments on the EP. The track &#8220;Sick Ones&#8221; features a guitar solo from M\u00d6TLEY CR\u00dcE guitarist John 5, and PANTERA guitarist and BLACK LABEL SOCIETY frontman Zakk Wylde makes a cameo on the track &#8220;Hell Or Hollywood&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p>Joining Harvey in THE VIOLENT HOUR&#8217;s touring lineup are Kiana De Le\u00f3n on lead guitar, Allie Kay on rhythm guitar, Jewell Steele on bass and Sasha De Le\u00f3n on drums.<\/p>\n<p>Kiana and Sasha previously played together in the PANTERA tribute band FAR BEYOND HOSTILE and the covers project VIXEN VENDETTA.<\/p>\n<p>THE VIOLENT HOUR is currently touring the U.S. as direct support for STEEL PANTHER.<\/p>\n<p>Photo credit: Lynn Yati<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"In a new interview with Matt Wake of AL.com, former BUTCHER BABIES vocalist Carla Harvey spoke about her&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":357610,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[32],"tags":[49,48,361,75],"class_list":{"0":"post-357609","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-celebrities","8":"tag-ca","9":"tag-canada","10":"tag-celebrities","11":"tag-entertainment"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/357609","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=357609"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/357609\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/357610"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=357609"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=357609"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=357609"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}