{"id":364429,"date":"2025-12-23T20:07:07","date_gmt":"2025-12-23T20:07:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/364429\/"},"modified":"2025-12-23T20:07:07","modified_gmt":"2025-12-23T20:07:07","slug":"my-daughter-said-i-should-start-going-to-the-gym-at-70-she-was-right","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/364429\/","title":{"rendered":"My Daughter Said I Should Start Going to the Gym at 70. She Was Right."},"content":{"rendered":"<p>This\u00a0story is based on a conversation with Joan MacDonald, 79, a former driving examiner of Collingwood, Ontario. It has been edited for length and clarity.<\/p>\n<p>January 2017 was a New Year I&#8217;ll never forget. It was one of the few times that my daughter, Michelle MacDonald, lost her cool with me.<\/p>\n<p>She&#8217;d <a target=\"_self\" class=\"\" href=\"https:\/\/www.businessinsider.com\/left-us-moved-to-mexico-american-dream-2025-7\" data-track-click=\"{&quot;element_name&quot;:&quot;body_link&quot;,&quot;event&quot;:&quot;tout_click&quot;,&quot;index&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;,&quot;product_field&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;}\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">moved to Mexico<\/a> the previous month and was visiting. &#8220;I won&#8217;t get to see you as often as I like,&#8221; she said. &#8220;And, every time I leave, I won&#8217;t know whether it will be the last time I see you.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Then she made another blunt comment that changed my life. &#8220;Mom, why don&#8217;t you go to the gym?&#8221; she said.<\/p>\n<p>I needed to improve my health<\/p>\n<p>I had high blood pressure, kidney problems, and was at least 70 pounds overweight. Approaching my 71st birthday that March, I felt scared and miserable.<\/p>\n<p>                          <img decoding=\"async\" class=\"lazy-image author-image\" viewbox=\"0 0 1 1\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/673ce03eede4eeae392875b3\" alt=\"A woman in glasses wearing a blue dress standing in front of a bush.\"\/><\/p>\n<p class=\"body-sm-subtle body\">\n                          Every time Jane publishes a story, you\u2019ll get an alert straight to your inbox!\n                        <\/p>\n<p class=\"body-sm-subtle body-sm\">\n                          Stay connected to Jane and get more of their work as it publishes.\n                        <\/p>\n<p>My doctor had already warned me that, if I didn&#8217;t make an effort to improve my health, I would end up on dialysis before very long. I was effectively dying.<\/p>\n<p>              <img xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"lazy-image \" encoding=\"UTF-8\" width=\"1\" height=\"1\" data-content-type=\"image\/jpeg\" srcs=\"{&quot;https:\/\/i.insider.com\/6949cce804eda4732f2e0370&quot;:{&quot;contentType&quot;:&quot;image\/jpeg&quot;,&quot;aspectRatioW&quot;:1620,&quot;aspectRatioH&quot;:1215}}\" alt=\"An older woman standing in a clothing store\"\/><\/p>\n<p>                      MacDonald, before she discovered the gym and became healthier.<\/p>\n<p>              Courtesy of Michelle MacDonald.<\/p>\n<p><a target=\"_self\" class=\"\" href=\"https:\/\/www.businessinsider.com\/raised-in-canada-live-in-us-life-better-in-us-2024-11\" data-track-click=\"{&quot;element_name&quot;:&quot;body_link&quot;,&quot;event&quot;:&quot;tout_click&quot;,&quot;index&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;,&quot;product_field&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;}\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">Growing up in Canada<\/a>, I&#8217;d been an active child. I played ball, skated in the winter, and went bowling. I enjoyed doing them because they were fun. But I was by no means an athlete.<\/p>\n<p>I got married a month before my 21st birthday and settled into married life while working as a driving examiner. I juggled work with motherhood, raising Michelle and her older and younger brothers.<\/p>\n<p><a target=\"_self\" class=\"\" href=\"https:\/\/www.businessinsider.com\/what-to-expect-after-going-to-gym-for-a-month-2023-3\" data-track-click=\"{&quot;element_name&quot;:&quot;body_link&quot;,&quot;event&quot;:&quot;tout_click&quot;,&quot;index&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;,&quot;product_field&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;}\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">Going to the gym<\/a> really wasn&#8217;t a thing back then. None of my married friends worked out, or even thought about doing so.<\/p>\n<p>I took medication for high blood pressure<\/p>\n<p>I believe that your body changes every seven years or so. I went through variations in terms of shape and size, and enjoyed certain foods, then went off them.<\/p>\n<p>Do you have a powerful story about senior health? Please email Jane Ridley at jridley@insider.com<\/p>\n<p>I didn&#8217;t have regular meals, often eating just two meals a day at irregular times. In between, I&#8217;d snack.<\/p>\n<p>Throughout my 60s, I was in poor health. I&#8217;d get bronchitis in the fall and spring \u2014 I had weaker lungs after <a target=\"_self\" class=\"\" href=\"https:\/\/www.businessinsider.com\/celebrities-who-have-had-polio-2022-8\" data-track-click=\"{&quot;element_name&quot;:&quot;body_link&quot;,&quot;event&quot;:&quot;tout_click&quot;,&quot;index&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;,&quot;product_field&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;}\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">contracting rheumatic fever<\/a> as a child \u2014 and the kidney issues began.<\/p>\n<p>The weight had grown to 200 pounds, which was far too heavy for my height of 5 feet 3 inches. And my <a target=\"_self\" class=\"\" href=\"https:\/\/www.businessinsider.com\/what-causes-high-blood-pressure\" data-track-click=\"{&quot;element_name&quot;:&quot;body_link&quot;,&quot;event&quot;:&quot;tout_click&quot;,&quot;index&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;,&quot;product_field&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;}\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">blood pressure was high<\/a>; I was put on medication.<\/p>\n<p>              <img xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"lazy-image \" encoding=\"UTF-8\" width=\"1\" height=\"1\" data-content-type=\"image\/jpeg\" srcs=\"{&quot;https:\/\/i.insider.com\/6949cd7704eda4732f2e0376&quot;:{&quot;contentType&quot;:&quot;image\/jpeg&quot;,&quot;aspectRatioW&quot;:2049,&quot;aspectRatioH&quot;:1873}}\" alt=\"An older woman flexes her muscles on a beach.\"\/><\/p>\n<p>                      MacDonald, after taking up exercise and eating five small meals a day.<\/p>\n<p>              Courtesy of Michelle MacDonald<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m lucky because Michelle is a certified strength and conditioning specialist and sports nutrition coach. She saw how unhealthy I&#8217;d become and was worried, especially because she&#8217;d moved thousands of miles away and couldn&#8217;t keep an eye on me.<\/p>\n<p>Her recommendation struck home. It was enough to jolt me into action. My doctor also encouraged me to lose weight and reduce my blood pressure.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;d half-heartedly attended the gym before, but not consistently. This time, I went five times a week.<\/p>\n<p>My body slimmed down<\/p>\n<p>I sought advice from Michelle and studied <a target=\"_self\" class=\"\" href=\"https:\/\/www.businessinsider.com\/what-youtube-content-viewers-are-watching-on-tv-living-room-2024-12\" data-track-click=\"{&quot;element_name&quot;:&quot;body_link&quot;,&quot;event&quot;:&quot;tout_click&quot;,&quot;index&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;,&quot;product_field&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;}\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">YouTube videos <\/a>to learn how to use the machines and do strength training with free weights. At first, I couldn&#8217;t believe how hard it was to pick up 20 pounds.<\/p>\n<p>I began with small weights and increased them by increments. I&#8217;ve since done a deadlift of 170 pounds and a hip thrust of 230 pounds.<\/p>\n<p>It was amazing to see my body slim down and fit into clothes, like jeans, that I hadn&#8217;t worn in a very long time.<\/p>\n<p>I lost 45 pounds in six months and a further 25 pounds during the rest of my 70s. I&#8217;ve gone from a size XL to a medium. I was able to quit my medications.<\/p>\n<p>              <img xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"lazy-image \" encoding=\"UTF-8\" width=\"1\" height=\"1\" data-content-type=\"image\/jpeg\" srcs=\"{&quot;https:\/\/i.insider.com\/6949cde064858d02d2174a2b&quot;:{&quot;contentType&quot;:&quot;image\/jpeg&quot;,&quot;aspectRatioW&quot;:1536,&quot;aspectRatioH&quot;:1152}}\" alt=\"An older woman doing the splits.\"\/><\/p>\n<p>                      MacDonald has become stronger and more flexible.<\/p>\n<p>              Courtesy of Michelle MacDonald<\/p>\n<p>My current regimen involves spending two hours at the gym, with around 15 minutes of cardio, followed by using weights. I often work out with Michelle, whom I joined in Mexico for around a year after my husband died.<\/p>\n<p>As for my diet, I eat five small meals a day, including oatmeal with egg whites, protein powder, and 1% coconut milk for breakfast.<\/p>\n<p>Then I&#8217;ll have yogurt, an egg white omelette with ground beef, chicken, turkey, and ham, a protein bar, and a final, plain meal without starches. If I start my day at 7 am, I&#8217;ll stop eating by 7 pm.<\/p>\n<p>A shoulder injury hasn&#8217;t stopped me<\/p>\n<p>Unfortunately, I suffered a <a target=\"_self\" class=\"\" href=\"https:\/\/www.businessinsider.com\/shoulder-hurt-when-lifting-arm-pain-overhead-press-when-stop-2022-7\" data-track-click=\"{&quot;element_name&quot;:&quot;body_link&quot;,&quot;event&quot;:&quot;tout_click&quot;,&quot;index&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;,&quot;product_field&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;}\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">shoulder injury<\/a> while biking outside on a rough surface and needed surgery three months ago. I&#8217;ve had to take things a bit easier as I recover. However, I feel 100% happier and healthier than I did before going to the gym.<\/p>\n<p>Michelle and I established <a target=\"_blank\" class=\"\" href=\"https:\/\/www.trainwithjoanofficial.com\/\" data-track-click=\"{&quot;click_type&quot;:&quot;other&quot;,&quot;element_name&quot;:&quot;body_link&quot;,&quot;event&quot;:&quot;outbound_click&quot;}\" rel=\" nofollow noopener\">&#8220;Train With Joan&#8221; <\/a>to help inspire people to take up exercise, regardless of their age.<\/p>\n<p>It may slow you down a bit, but I&#8217;ve seen many seniors, even older than me, accomplish great things. They have resolved to do it for themselves. Nobody else is living in your body but you.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"This\u00a0story is based on a conversation with Joan MacDonald, 79, a former driving examiner of Collingwood, Ontario. 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