{"id":440863,"date":"2026-01-29T13:00:18","date_gmt":"2026-01-29T13:00:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/440863\/"},"modified":"2026-01-29T13:00:18","modified_gmt":"2026-01-29T13:00:18","slug":"what-if-i-just-started-shouting-when-to-worry-about-intrusive-thoughts","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/440863\/","title":{"rendered":"&#8216;What if I just started shouting?&#8217; &#8211; when to worry about intrusive thoughts"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Have you ever sat in a boring meeting and wondered: &#8220;What if I just started shouting?&#8221; Or you&#8217;re driving along and you think: &#8220;What if I crash?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">These unsettling scenarios are known as &#8220;intrusive thoughts&#8221; which the majority of us will experience from time to time and feel able to shrug off.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">But for some they can become overwhelming obsessions which lead to compulsive behaviours.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">When Dr Nina Higson-Sweeney was a child, she was convinced that unless she only had &#8220;good&#8221; thoughts the whole way home from school, her family would be harmed.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">&#8220;If I had an intrusive thought, I&#8217;d restart the walk from the bus stop,&#8221; she says. &#8220;I was genuinely terrified that if I didn&#8217;t redo it and something happened, it would be my fault&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Nina was diagnosed with obsessive compulsive disorder (OCD) aged 10 and now works as a psychology researcher at the University of Oxford where she specialises in child and adolescent mental health.<\/p>\n<p><img alt=\"A professional headshot of Dr Nina Higson-Sweeney wearing a black t shirt and black rectanglar framed glasses \" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"960\" height=\"540\" decoding=\"async\" data-nimg=\"1\" class=\"rounded-lg\" style=\"color:transparent\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/89bb70830efaf951a7cf60b19325a6e2.jpeg\"\/><\/p>\n<p>Nina still lives with OCD but has learned how to manage it better [Dr Nina Higson-Sweeney]<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">&#8220;Obsessions are intrusive and unwanted thoughts, feelings and sensations while compulsions are repeated, ritualised acts that are done to neutralise or alleviate the anxiety caused by the obsessions,&#8221; Nina <a href=\"https:\/\/www.bbc.co.uk\/sounds\/play\/p0mmjfz7?xtor=AL-72-%5Bpartner%5D-%5Byahoo.north.america%5D-%5Blink%5D-%5Bnews%5D-%5Bbizdev%5D-%5Bisapi%5D\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:tells the BBC&#039;s Complex podcast;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link \">tells the BBC&#8217;s Complex podcast<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Around 1- 4% of the population is thought to live with OCD but the number of <a href=\"https:\/\/www.bbc.co.uk\/news\/articles\/cdr612zrl0no?xtor=AL-72-%5Bpartner%5D-%5Byahoo.north.america%5D-%5Blink%5D-%5Bnews%5D-%5Bbizdev%5D-%5Bisapi%5D\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:16-24 year olds in England reporting symptoms of it has more than tripled in a decade.;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link \">16-24 year olds in England reporting symptoms of it has more than tripled in a decade.<\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">The condition is now the second-most widespread mental health disorder for young adults, a major NHS England survey suggests.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Intrusive thoughts can be extremely distressing and often focus on topics that feel completely at odds with a person&#8217;s values or identity.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">&#8220;You might have thoughts about harm coming to loved ones,&#8221; says Nina.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">&#8220;It could be questioning one&#8217;s sexual attraction, thinking are you homosexual? Are you heterosexual? It can even be as extreme as worrying are you a paedophile?<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">&#8220;A really common one is intrusive thoughts about contamination and worries about getting ill or spreading sickness,&#8221; she says.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">OCD most commonly begins in puberty or early adolescence, but some people are diagnosed later in life as they can &#8220;go years masking or covering up the distress,&#8221; she says.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Research suggests there may be a genetic component to developing OCD as well as links to early life stress such as bullying, bereavement or family breakdown, she says.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Chartered psychologist Kimberley Wilson says almost everyone experiences intrusive thoughts at some point.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">&#8220;Research suggests around <a href=\"https:\/\/www.sciencedirect.com\/science\/article\/abs\/pii\/S2211364914000128\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:80% of us have these thoughts;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link \">80% of us have these thoughts<\/a>,&#8221; she explains.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">For most people, those thoughts pass quickly.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">&#8220;We can look at them, think they&#8217;re weird, and put them aside,&#8221; she says.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">If you&#8217;re unable to dismiss the thoughts, that&#8217;s when you may need to seek help, she suggests.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">&#8220;OCD-related thoughts don&#8217;t pass on, they take up residence and they&#8217;re never positive thoughts &#8211; they&#8217;re aggressive, hostile and not easy to deal with. That&#8217;s when it becomes all-consuming and leads to compulsions.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Signs of compulsions can be mental, like counting to a certain number, or visible, such as repeatedly checking car tyres even when you know they&#8217;re fine.<\/p>\n<p>How to manage OCD<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">In these cases &#8220;a professional or specialist can work out what&#8217;s best for you,&#8221; says Nina.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Alongside professional help, Nina says there are techniques people can use day-to-day to reduce distress.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">One is learning to label thoughts. &#8220;Recognising &#8216;I&#8217;m having an intrusive thought&#8217; creates distance and remind me that it&#8217;s not me,&#8221; she explains.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Some people also find it helpful to visualise OCD as something separate.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">&#8220;Drawing what OCD looks like can help &#8211; there&#8217;s me and there&#8217;s OCD, and those are two different things.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Self-care also matters. &#8220;Eating well, resting and physical activity can help as my OCD is always worse when I&#8217;m stressed and not looking after myself,&#8221; she says.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Today, Nina still lives with OCD but has learned how to manage it.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">&#8220;I&#8217;ve never got over OCD, but I can function with it. I now have mild intrusive thoughts and a lot of insight into how I manage it. When I&#8217;m stressed though they&#8217;re harder to dismiss and can still lead to compulsions.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">If you&#8217;ve been affected by issues in this story, details of organisations offering advice and support for people in the UK are available from <a href=\"https:\/\/www.bbc.co.uk\/actionline?xtor=AL-72-%5Bpartner%5D-%5Byahoo.north.america%5D-%5Blink%5D-%5Bnews%5D-%5Bbizdev%5D-%5Bisapi%5D\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:BBC Action Line;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link \">BBC Action Line<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Have you ever sat in a boring meeting and wondered: &#8220;What if I just started shouting?&#8221; Or you&#8217;re&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":440864,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[10],"tags":[49,48,84,65398,182555,8315,182554],"class_list":{"0":"post-440863","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-health","8":"tag-ca","9":"tag-canada","10":"tag-health","11":"tag-intrusive-thoughts","12":"tag-nina-higson-sweeney","13":"tag-obsessive-compulsive-disorder","14":"tag-unwanted-thoughts"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/440863","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=440863"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/440863\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/440864"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=440863"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=440863"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=440863"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}