{"id":549849,"date":"2026-03-20T21:53:10","date_gmt":"2026-03-20T21:53:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/549849\/"},"modified":"2026-03-20T21:53:10","modified_gmt":"2026-03-20T21:53:10","slug":"i-hid-my-symptoms-out-of-embarrassment-then-needed-life-saving-surgery","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/549849\/","title":{"rendered":"&#8216;I hid my symptoms out of embarrassment &#8211; then needed life-saving surgery&#8217;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">A young woman who had to have her large intestine removed after masking her bowel symptoms for a year out of embarrassment has urged others not to do the same.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Alex Lyons was 21 when she started having to use the toilet more frequently and noticed blood in her stool.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">She recognised they were symptoms of inflammatory bowel disease (IBD) as her twin brother Joe had just had bowel removal surgery at the time due to the chronic disease.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">She said she saw the trauma it put her family through and &#8220;couldn&#8217;t face the possibility of doing that to them again&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">&#8220;I thought ignoring it would make it go away. I think being at uni at the time it was quite hard to talk to friends and family about it because I felt embarrassed,&#8221; she added.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">She was diagnosed with IBD last year and started treatment but last month was told it was not working and she was rushed into life-saving emergency surgery.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Alex, from Armagh, said her brother also hid his symptoms for a year prior to his diagnosis.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">She said they both have aggressive forms of the disease meaning surgery was probably inevitable.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Now 23, she said if she could go back in time she would shake her younger self and tell her to go to the doctor.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">&#8220;I think I would&#8217;ve gone a little longer without losing my bowel had I gone to the doctor earlier,&#8221; she said.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">It is estimated half a million people in the UK have IBD. However, Alex and Joe are part of a growing number of young people who are being diagnosed with it.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">A 2024 study by Southampton Children&#8217;s Hospital found the number of children and young adults being diagnosed <a href=\"https:\/\/www.bbc.co.uk\/news\/articles\/cp9rx1m1y5zo?xtor=AL-72-%5Bpartner%5D-%5Byahoo.north.america%5D-%5Blink%5D-%5Bnews%5D-%5Bbizdev%5D-%5Bisapi%5D\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:more than doubled in 10 years;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" data-yga=\"{&quot;yLinkElement&quot;:&quot;context_link&quot;,&quot;yModuleName&quot;:&quot;content-canvas&quot;,&quot;yLinkText&quot;:&quot;more than doubled in 10 years&quot;}\" class=\"link \">more than doubled in 10 years<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Alex has Ulcerative Colitis, which along with Crohn&#8217;s disease are the most common forms of IBD.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">According to the charity Crohn&#8217;s &amp; Colitis there are more than 17,000 people in Northern Ireland living with either form.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">It estimates more than 200,000 people in the UK are living with a stoma &#8211; an opening on the abdomen which connects to the digestive or urinary system and allows waste to be diverted out of the body and into a bag.<\/p>\n<p>&#8216;Stool sample end of world&#8217;<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Alex told <a href=\"https:\/\/www.bbc.co.uk\/programmes\/b007cpv5?xtor=AL-72-%5Bpartner%5D-%5Byahoo.north.america%5D-%5Blink%5D-%5Bnews%5D-%5Bbizdev%5D-%5Bisapi%5D\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:Evening Extra;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" data-yga=\"{&quot;yLinkElement&quot;:&quot;context_link&quot;,&quot;yModuleName&quot;:&quot;content-canvas&quot;,&quot;yLinkText&quot;:&quot;Evening Extra&quot;}\" class=\"link \">Evening Extra<\/a> she was &#8220;so thankful&#8221; to have received the life changing surgery which has left her with a stoma but admits it has been a hard adjustment.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">&#8220;I&#8217;m still quite emotional every day trying to get used to it,&#8221; she said.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">&#8220;Even little things like looking in the mirror is a little bit tough. I&#8217;ve got a bag on my stomach, I&#8217;ve got a big scar.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">&#8220;I empty the bag every four hours-ish, so I&#8217;ll never be able to have a full night&#8217;s sleep again.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">&#8220;I love my sleep, so that&#8217;s been tough enough. And food as well &#8211; I&#8217;ll never be able to have some of my favourite foods.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">She has urged anyone with symptoms to go and get checked by a doctor.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">&#8220;I remember the first time I was asked to do a stool sample, I thought it was the end of the world,&#8221; she said.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">&#8220;No matter how embarrassing the symptom, no matter how tiny the symptom is go to the doctor.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Symptoms of IBD<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">bleeding from your bottom<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">losing weight without trying<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">The disease is distinct from irritable bowel syndrome (IBS) although some of the symptoms overlap.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">A diagnosis of IBD is only made if there is inflammation in the bowels.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Alex said her brother Joe, who also has a stoma, has been guiding her through everyday life since her surgery and said he is her hero.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">She has been documenting her experience on TikTok.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">&#8220;I was so determined even going into surgery that I wasn&#8217;t going to let this ruin my life,&#8221; she said.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">&#8220;I wasn&#8217;t going to let this stop me from going outside, stop me from wearing my favourite clothes. I was posting on TikTok before, I wasn&#8217;t going to let it stop me from doing any of that.&#8221;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"A young woman who had to have her large intestine removed after masking her bowel symptoms for a&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":414589,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[10],"tags":[213810,213812,213811,49,48,5734,84,32341,213813],"class_list":{"0":"post-549849","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-health","8":"tag-alex-lyons","9":"tag-bowel-symptoms","10":"tag-brother-joe","11":"tag-ca","12":"tag-canada","13":"tag-emergency-surgery","14":"tag-health","15":"tag-inflammatory-bowel-disease","16":"tag-stool-sample"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/549849","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=549849"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/549849\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/414589"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=549849"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=549849"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=549849"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}