{"id":568441,"date":"2026-03-29T10:41:08","date_gmt":"2026-03-29T10:41:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/568441\/"},"modified":"2026-03-29T10:41:08","modified_gmt":"2026-03-29T10:41:08","slug":"i-share-my-story-to-normalise-living-with-cancer","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/568441\/","title":{"rendered":"&#8216;I share my story to normalise living with cancer&#8217;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">A woman with terminal lung cancer said screening could help beat the misconception the disease only affects &#8220;heavy smokers and older men&#8221;, after meeting people &#8220;from all walks of life&#8221; through support groups.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Maria Elliott, 58, from Leeds, has a stage-four diagnosis but is currently free of the disease due to medication, after being told she could only have 12 months to live.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">She said through volunteering and social media, she aimed to raise awareness, and empower others to gain &#8220;the power and the motivation to get support&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">&#8220;You need to find your village &#8211; ask the silliest questions, ask the most serious questions and just know there&#8217;s somebody there to catch you,&#8221; she explained.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">&#8220;It&#8217;s hard when you feel so alone, so I just try and normalise things for people because it&#8217;s a hard enough journey.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">In 2022, Maria was diagnosed a type of cancer linked to a mutation in the epidermal growth factor receptor gene (EGFR).<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Seven years earlier, the mum-of-two had a lumpectomy, 15 sessions of radiotherapy and a full preventative hysterectomy to treat breast cancer.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">In 2017, she underwent surgery for skin cancer.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Although she was in remission, during the Covid-19 pandemic, she began to experience pain when eating, and lost her appetite.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Testing found a cancerous tumour at the bottom of her lung, which was too advanced to operate on.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">&#8220;I shut down for six months, I was absolutely devastated. I didn&#8217;t know what to do,&#8221; she said.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">According to charity EDFR Positive, EGFR-mutated lung cancer in the UK is nearly twice as common in women than in men.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">It also <a href=\"https:\/\/www.bbc.co.uk\/future\/article\/20250605-the-mystery-rise-of-lung-cancer-in-non-smokers?xtor=AL-72-%5Bpartner%5D-%5Byahoo.north.america%5D-%5Blink%5D-%5Bnews%5D-%5Bbizdev%5D-%5Bisapi%5D\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:affects more people who have never smoked;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" data-yga=\"{&quot;yLinkElement&quot;:&quot;context_link&quot;,&quot;yModuleName&quot;:&quot;content-canvas&quot;,&quot;yLinkText&quot;:&quot;affects more people who have never smoked&quot;}\" class=\"link \">affects more people who have never smoked<\/a> or have been light smokers.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">The stigma attached to lung cancer was something she struggled with, she said, although she was supported by family, including husband David, and her children.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">&#8220;I started to reach out because it was a very lonely place because I didn&#8217;t know anybody else who&#8217;d had that cancer.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">&#8220;I think lung cancer in particular, there&#8217;s a lot of stigma because everybody thinks it&#8217;s only because of environment or smoking, and it&#8217;s not.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Maria&#8217;s cancer can be managed with a daily tablet, which has reduced the size of the tumour to undetectable levels, and is monitored through regular check-ups.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Screening as a preventative method, similar to cervical and breast cancer checks, could be a way to catch the disease earlier, she said.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">&#8220;At one time, you had to be a heavy smoker and cough a lot before you&#8217;d get X-rays and be referred.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">&#8220;I&#8217;m in a very positive mind frame because of the advancements in research and science, it&#8217;s really amazing what they can do [but] it&#8217;s about awareness.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">A Department of Health and Social Care spokesperson said the government was committed to &#8220;driving forward research and screening to better diagnose and support those with cancer&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">&#8220;The UK National Screening Committee advises on screening, and proposals for screening conditions can be made online through the open call on the GOV.UK website,&#8221; they added.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Through Facebook groups and volunteering work with charities such as Cancer in Common and Roy Castle Lung Cancer Foundation, she has encountered people &#8220;from all walks of life&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">&#8220;You don&#8217;t realise how lucky you are and how much, how intense those friendships become. You learn from them, and that&#8217;s the important thing,&#8221; she said.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">&#8220;The hardest bit is losing them [and] that happens far too regularly.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">&#8220;Each person that I&#8217;ve lost, I&#8217;ve learnt something.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8216;Keep it upbeat&#8217;<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Maria also runs a social media page where she shares her story, alongside advice and tips for others living with lung cancer.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">&#8220;I started my journey on Instagram as some sort of, &#8216;I still want it to matter. I still wanted to be seen'&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Despite her positive outlook, some days can be &#8220;a tiny bit bittersweet&#8221;, she said.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">&#8220;You do have that thing where you think, &#8216;this is the last time so I better enjoy myself&#8217; so you put a bit of pressure on yourself.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">&#8220;But you know, normally I do have a laugh, I keep it upbeat &#8211; I think it has spurred me on to just live my life&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Listen to highlights from <a href=\"https:\/\/www.bbc.co.uk\/sounds\/curation\/p0cjdv3n?xtor=AL-72-%5Bpartner%5D-%5Byahoo.north.america%5D-%5Blink%5D-%5Bnews%5D-%5Bbizdev%5D-%5Bisapi%5D\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:West Yorkshire on BBC Sounds;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" data-yga=\"{&quot;yLinkElement&quot;:&quot;context_link&quot;,&quot;yModuleName&quot;:&quot;content-canvas&quot;,&quot;yLinkText&quot;:&quot;West Yorkshire on BBC Sounds&quot;}\" class=\"link \">West Yorkshire on BBC Sounds<\/a>, catch up with the latest <a href=\"https:\/\/www.bbc.co.uk\/programmes\/b006mj5m?xtor=AL-72-%5Bpartner%5D-%5Byahoo.north.america%5D-%5Blink%5D-%5Bnews%5D-%5Bbizdev%5D-%5Bisapi%5D\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:episode of Look North;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" data-yga=\"{&quot;yLinkElement&quot;:&quot;context_link&quot;,&quot;yModuleName&quot;:&quot;content-canvas&quot;,&quot;yLinkText&quot;:&quot;episode of Look North&quot;}\" class=\"link \">episode of Look North<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>More on this storyRelated Internet Links<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"A woman with terminal lung cancer said screening could help beat the misconception the disease only affects &#8220;heavy&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":414589,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[10],"tags":[11026,49,48,7714,84,11557,218799,61595],"class_list":{"0":"post-568441","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-health","8":"tag-breast-cancer","9":"tag-ca","10":"tag-canada","11":"tag-cancer","12":"tag-health","13":"tag-lung-cancer","14":"tag-maria-elliott","15":"tag-skin-cancer"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/568441","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=568441"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/568441\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/414589"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=568441"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=568441"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=568441"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}