{"id":726239,"date":"2026-06-09T23:42:12","date_gmt":"2026-06-09T23:42:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/726239\/"},"modified":"2026-06-09T23:42:12","modified_gmt":"2026-06-09T23:42:12","slug":"i-thought-i-was-just-hungover-the-women-who-suffered-strokes-in-their-20s-and-became-friends","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/726239\/","title":{"rendered":"&#8216;I thought I was just hungover&#8217; &#8211; the women who suffered strokes in their 20s and became friends"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Mererid Rees was a performer based in Dubai, when her whole life changed within seconds and she was left unable to move the right side of her body.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">While having breakfast with friends, she described how she went from &#8220;laughing to screaming&#8221; after she had a brain <a href=\"https:\/\/www.mayoclinic.org\/diseases-conditions\/arteriovenous-malformation\/symptoms-causes\/syc-20350544\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"elm:link;elmt:article_link;slk:arteriovenous malformation (AVM;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" data-yga=\"{&quot;yLinkElement&quot;:&quot;context_link&quot;,&quot;yModuleName&quot;:&quot;content-canvas&quot;,&quot;yLinkText&quot;:&quot;arteriovenous malformation (AVM&quot;}\" class=\"link \">arteriovenous malformation (AVM<\/a>) at 26.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">She is not alone, with Nia Tyler suffering a stroke when she was 20, despite thinking she was just hungover.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Experts say there is a misconception only older people are affected by strokes, but about one in 150 strokes occur in someone under 20.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Along with Cari Davies, 28, they live with the long-term effects and want to help others &#8220;find people who understand&#8221; through a ball they are set to host.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Mererid, 30, from Lampeter, Ceredigion, was a performer at Global Village in Dubai for more than four years when her whole world turned upside.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">After having a brain AVM while out for breakfast, she was rushed to hospital by ambulance and was in an intensive care unit for 10 days.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">During this time, her sister Sioned Allan, who was back in Wales, was told she &#8220;urgently needed an operation or would die&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">&#8220;They found an AVM and a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.nhs.uk\/conditions\/brain-aneurysm\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"elm:link;elmt:article_link;slk:burst aneurysm;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" data-yga=\"{&quot;yLinkElement&quot;:&quot;context_link&quot;,&quot;yModuleName&quot;:&quot;content-canvas&quot;,&quot;yLinkText&quot;:&quot;burst aneurysm&quot;}\" class=\"link \">burst aneurysm<\/a>, and then they found an aneurysm that was just about to burst,&#8221; Mererid said.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">&#8220;[It] still blows my mind that someone operated on my brain.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p><img alt=\"Mererid is in a hospital bed with a blue blanket covering her and a white dressing on her head after surgery. \" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"960\" height=\"540\" decoding=\"async\" data-nimg=\"1\" class=\"rounded-lg\" style=\"color:transparent\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/769a6c8b2d8ec81b88cd9f35be58d1c1.jpeg\"\/><\/p>\n<p>Mererid was in the ICU for 10 days and needed life-saving surgery after her AVM rupture [Mererid Rees]<\/p>\n<p>How does an AVM cause a stroke?<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">An AVM rupture happens when a tangle of abnormal blood vessels in the brain burst and spill blood into the surrounding brain tissue.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">AVMs are mostly found in the brain and spinal cord, and most people are born with them, but they can form later in life.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Like Mererid, some people show no symptoms until they experience bleeding resulting in a stroke.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">After leaving Dubai, Mererid spent six months on the stroke ward in Glangwili Hospital in Carmarthen.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">She spent months &#8211; which at times were physically and mentally draining &#8211; learning how to walk again and adapting to daily tasks with her injuries.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Mererid said her walking had come on &#8220;leaps and bounds&#8221; but she still &#8220;can&#8217;t really feel&#8221; the right side of her body.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">&#8220;I had radiotherapy, that&#8217;s to get rid of the AVM, but it takes five years to get rid of,&#8221; she explained.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">&#8220;That kills healthy cells off, so I&#8217;ve lost my right-hand-side eyesight.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">&#8220;I&#8217;ve lost the peripheral vision, so yeah pretty, pretty blind.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p><img alt=\"A woman crouched in front of the Pen-y-Fan sign on the top of the summit. She's wearing shorts, a tacked and trainers with a white bandage on her right leg. She's surrounded by brown slab stones.  \" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"960\" height=\"540\" decoding=\"async\" data-nimg=\"1\" class=\"rounded-lg\" style=\"color:transparent\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/003c8cbde2bf36f2f3b395a03cda7b6f.jpeg\"\/><\/p>\n<p>Mererid has completed many challenges and goals since her stroke, even walking up Pen-y-Fan, the highest peak in south Wales at 886m (2,907ft) [Mererid Rees]<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Mererid said having a stroke at a young age could be isolating, as it was &#8220;hard for able-bodied people to understand&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">She added that &#8220;it&#8217;s just so important for people to know that there are other people in the same boat as them&#8221; and &#8220;important for people to find people that get it&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">She first met Cari Davies, 28, at Glangwilli hospital after a nurse on the ward told her there was &#8220;another young person here&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Cari, a former teacher from Carmarthen, was initially diagnosed with <a href=\"https:\/\/www.nhs.uk\/conditions\/lupus\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"elm:link;elmt:article_link;slk:Lupus;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" data-yga=\"{&quot;yLinkElement&quot;:&quot;context_link&quot;,&quot;yModuleName&quot;:&quot;content-canvas&quot;,&quot;yLinkText&quot;:&quot;Lupus&quot;}\" class=\"link \">Lupus<\/a> before having a stroke in February 2022 and spent a month in hospital.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Mererid said: &#8220;She was really poorly, so I didn&#8217;t want to intrude but I wanted to help her out. So I gave her an affirmation card.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Affirmation cards are small cards featuring positive slogans or messages and gifting them is a way of showing someone support.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Cari said: &#8220;I was really negative, it was just really awful and I was just crying all the time, but Mererid was a beacon of positivity &#8211; we&#8217;ve just built a friendship from there.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p><img alt=\"A woman in her late twenties with long brown hair, wearing a black top, smiling at the camera. She's sat in a public park with greenery behind her.\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"960\" height=\"540\" decoding=\"async\" data-nimg=\"1\" class=\"rounded-lg\" style=\"color:transparent\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/bc67f95658ba031d1d41f2898ed6f8f7.jpeg\"\/><\/p>\n<p>Cari Davies had a stroke and spent a month in the same hospital as Mererid Rees [BBC Wales]<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">The pair later became friends with Nia Tyler, 27, through social media. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.bbc.co.uk\/news\/uk-wales-65838338?xtor=AL-72-%5Bpartner%5D-%5Byahoo.north.america%5D-%5Blink%5D-%5Bnews%5D-%5Bbizdev%5D-%5Bisapi%5D\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"elm:link;elmt:article_link;slk:She suffered a stroke at 20 after initially thinking she was hungover;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" data-yga=\"{&quot;yLinkElement&quot;:&quot;context_link&quot;,&quot;yModuleName&quot;:&quot;content-canvas&quot;,&quot;yLinkText&quot;:&quot;She suffered a stroke at 20 after initially thinking she was hungover&quot;}\" class=\"link \">She suffered a stroke at 20 after initially thinking she was hungover<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">The professional singer, who lives in Cardiff, said she felt really isolated after she had a stroke while at university studying psychology in 2019.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Nia said: &#8220;I&#8217;ve now got friends who were in a super similar situation, and we&#8217;re all stroke survivors.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">&#8220;Even though our stories are very different, there&#8217;s&#8230; some unwritten understanding that there&#8217;s some kind of sisterhood amongst the three of us.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">&#8220;My relationship with Cari and Mez does mean a lot.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">The three women also climbed 200 steps of the Principality Stadium in Cardiff in May, which Mererid said was a reminder that &#8220;recovery doesn&#8217;t just rebuild your body&#8221;, but &#8220;confidence too&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p><img alt=\"A woman in her late twenties with long hair, wearing a black top, smiling at the camera.  She's sat in a public park with greenery behind her.\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"960\" height=\"640\" decoding=\"async\" data-nimg=\"1\" class=\"rounded-lg\" style=\"color:transparent\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/674ccb717e8ae84637cdddc406395ece.jpeg\"\/><\/p>\n<p>Nia Tyler suffered a stroke at 20, after initially thinking she was hungover [BBC Wales]<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Shakeel Ahmad, national clinical lead for stroke in Wales, said &#8220;approximately 10,000-20,000 people under the age of 50 experience a stroke in the UK every year, accounting for around 10-15% of all strokes&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">&#8220;Around one in every 150 strokes occurs in someone under the age of 20,&#8221; he added.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Ahmad explained that it was vital stroke patients reached hospital quickly as &#8220;some can receive <a href=\"https:\/\/www.nhs.uk\/conditions\/stroke\/treatment\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"elm:link;elmt:article_link;slk:clot-busting medication;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" data-yga=\"{&quot;yLinkElement&quot;:&quot;context_link&quot;,&quot;yModuleName&quot;:&quot;content-canvas&quot;,&quot;yLinkText&quot;:&quot;clot-busting medication&quot;}\" class=\"link \">clot-busting medication<\/a> (thrombolysis) or clot removal treatment (thrombectomy) within a critical four to six hour window&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">In younger people, the &#8220;devastated condition&#8221; was more often associated with &#8220;underlying medical conditions, blood clotting disorders or abnormalities in the blood vessels&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">He added: &#8220;Recognising the signs of stroke using FAST [face, arms, speech, time] and calling emergency services immediately can save lives and reduce long-term disability.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">The three women will be hosting an event in October for young stroke survivors at The Angel Hotel in Cardiff.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Mererid said many people from across the UK &#8211; and even the US &#8211; had been in touch to say they wished they had something like this near them.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">The women said it was a &#8220;celebration&#8221; of their journeys and also to &#8220;connect&#8221; with other young stroke survivors.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Their fundraiser has raised more than \u00a32,000 so far which will be used towards the event.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Katie Chappelle, associate director for Wales at charity Stroke Association, said: &#8220;Community events like this can play a vital role in helping people rebuild confidence, reduce isolation and realise that life after stroke is still possible.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>More top stories<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Mererid Rees was a performer based in Dubai, when her whole life changed within seconds and she was&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":726240,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[10],"tags":[262090,141102,49,48,262087,84,262088,262089,12078,262091],"class_list":["post-726239","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-health","tag-avm-rupture","tag-bbc-wales","tag-ca","tag-canada","tag-cari-davies","tag-health","tag-mererid-rees","tag-nia-tyler","tag-stroke","tag-strokes"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/726239","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=726239"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/726239\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/726240"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=726239"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=726239"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=726239"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}