{"id":743543,"date":"2026-06-17T21:29:11","date_gmt":"2026-06-17T21:29:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/743543\/"},"modified":"2026-06-17T21:29:11","modified_gmt":"2026-06-17T21:29:11","slug":"spielberg-hasnt-filmed-many-sex-scenes-the-one-time-he-really-did-it-didnt-go-well","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/743543\/","title":{"rendered":"Spielberg hasn\u2019t filmed many sex scenes. The one time he really did, it didn\u2019t go well."},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"12\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cmqiflie0002eqim8yk4ubji8@published\">This article is part of <a href=\"https:\/\/slate.com\/tag\/spielberg-week\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Spielberg Week<\/a>, Slate\u2019s celebration of Steven Spielberg.<\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"209\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cmqifm02o000o357c2xk8llw4@published\">If you\u2019ve seen <a href=\"https:\/\/slate.com\/culture\/2005\/12\/steven-spielberg-s-munich.html\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Munich<\/a>, you probably remember the scene, even if you wish you didn\u2019t. Near the end of Steven Spielberg\u2019s haunted opus about the murders of 11 Israeli athletes and coaches at the 1972 Olympics by members of the Palestinian militant group Black September, and the subsequent Mossad revenge campaign against them, the retribution\u2019s ringleader, Avner (Eric Bana), returns to his wife, Daphna (Ayelet Zurer), clearly frayed by the years of carnage. The couple lies in bed and begins to have sex. We\u2019ve been here before\u2014uncharacteristically for Spielberg, the movie also has an earlier sex scene between Avner and a quite-pregnant Daphna that leaves little to the imagination. But this time is different. Now the camera pushes in on Avner and then suddenly cuts to \u2026 the closing moments of the 1972 massacre, on an airfield during a botched West German rescue attempt. With the wailing John Williams score in full force, Avner\u2019s intense thrusting is crosscut with the murders, reaching a literal climax as Avner finishes in slow motion, his sweat soaring through the air, just after we see the few remaining hostages executed by machine gun. The camera lingers on the dead athletes, and on Avner\u2019s long post-coital stare. Daphna covers his eyes. End of sequence.<\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"126\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cmqifm05f000q357cid0ww5gh@published\">Imagine being in a movie theater and watching this scene. I don\u2019t have to, because 20 years ago, at 19, I was, and I still remember an audience torn between abject horror and nervous laughter. What did we just watch? Munich was unsurprisingly controversial when it was released in 2005, earning pre-release condemnation for the alleged \u201csin of equivalence\u201d before it gained solid critical support and five Oscar nominations, including one for Best Picture. If it was not considered an outright success at the time, it has since earned a strong and deserved reappraisal. (\u201c<a href=\"https:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/2023\/12\/23\/opinion\/israel-gaza-munich.html\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">The Best Movie About Israel and Gaza Now Came Out 18 Years Ago<\/a>,\u201d read a New York Times Opinion headline in late 2023.) These days, it\u2019s <a href=\"https:\/\/www.hollywoodreporter.com\/lists\/steven-spielberg-movies-ranked-best-worst\/always-1989-2\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">often ranked<\/a> among Spielberg\u2019s best movies.<\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"103\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cmqifm08n000r357c18wbbzuh@published\">Yet even fans of the film have never been quite sure what to do with its most infamous scene. For years it has been called \u201cstupefying\u201d and \u201c<a href=\"https:\/\/reverseshot.org\/archive\/entry\/729\/munich\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">fundamentally misguided<\/a>.\u201d It has enjoyed <a href=\"https:\/\/www.telegraph.co.uk\/films\/2017\/02\/10\/11-excruciatingly-bad-sex-scenes-film\/#selection-2933.23-2933.446\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">regular<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/theplaylist.net\/the-10-best-worst-movie-sex-scenes-20130214\/7\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">placement<\/a> on lists with titles like \u201c<a href=\"https:\/\/www.complex.com\/pop-culture\/a\/jennifer-wood\/funniest-sex-scenes-movies\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">The 25 Most Laughable Sex Scenes in Movie History<\/a>\u201d (\u201cWhy is he so sweaty? Why?\u201d) and \u201c<a href=\"https:\/\/www.telegraph.co.uk\/films\/2017\/02\/10\/11-excruciatingly-bad-sex-scenes-film\/#selection-2933.23-2933.446\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">The 11 Most Excruciatingly Bad Sex Scenes in Film<\/a>.\u201d For my part, as my long-ago audience struggled to keep a straight face, I remember finding the scene effectively unsettling, like the rest of the movie, if also a bit of a mystery. Where exactly did that come from?<\/p>\n<\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"87\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cmqifm0bl000s357c3fjtheaa@published\">Not long ago, I learned the scene was once baffling to someone else, too. It was so out of character for Spielberg that it was often thought to be the brainchild of Tony Kushner, the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.slate.com\/articles\/arts\/cover_story\/2016\/06\/oral_history_of_tony_kushner_s_play_angels_in_america.html\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Angels in America<\/a> playwright who shared writing credit on the movie with Eric Roth. \u201cJust the sort of thing you\u2019d expect from the imagination of screenwriter Tony Kushner,\u201d <a href=\"https:\/\/archive.is\/xahCQ#selection-843.352-843.439\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">one critic wrote<\/a> at the time. Except, I recently learned, Kushner didn\u2019t write the scene at all\u2014and he wondered why it was there too.<\/p>\n<p>  \u201cIt\u2019s profoundly upsetting and ugly, but I think there\u2019s a transgressive quality to it that is exactly\u00a0right.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\n      \u2014<br \/>\n      Tony Kushner\n    <\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"56\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cmqifm0e6000t357c0hwu3qc6@published\">\u201cTo be honest, when I first saw it, I was a little weirded out by it,\u201d he told me. \u201cI didn\u2019t quite know what it meant, and I don\u2019t think I even liked it all that much, though I loved the movie a lot when I saw it. I was shocked by seeing it put together.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"105\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cmqifm0ic000u357c8n8eaf49@published\">He had written a sex scene, but \u201cit was just a scene where they\u2019re having sex,\u201d he said. \u201cIt\u2019s at some point when he comes to Brooklyn. I think there\u2019s some indication that he\u2019s sort of partly there and partly not, but he\u2019s lost a certain amount of himself and his soul in the work that he\u2019s been doing. And then Steven did the crosscutting in the editing room with Michael Kahn. So I think I saw the movie right after Thanksgiving of that year. It was right before it was released. And that was the first time I\u2019d seen this cutting back and forth.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"104\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cmqifm0kv000v357cmr555ic6@published\">Kushner told me Munich is called Munich because that\u2019s how he titled the first section of a screenplay draft, as a placeholder for adding in the 1972 events, which were always intended to open the film and which he planned to write last. (Spielberg mistook it for a suggested title.) Instead, the film now opens with the first part of the attack, in the Olympic Village, and saves the airfield killings for last. He couldn\u2019t remember if he ultimately split up the attack, which lasted about 20 hours, or if Spielberg did. But the movie\u2019s most controversial scene had little to do with him.<\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"82\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cmqifm0nw000w357cs6j0mkyr@published\">Part of the reason this was so surprising is because Spielberg, a man of many fixations, is not known for sex on screen. There are a handful of sex scenes in his movies, like the brief ones in <a href=\"https:\/\/slate.com\/culture\/2026\/06\/jurassic-park-schindlers-list-steven-spielberg-1993-movies-oscars.html\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Schindler\u2019s List<\/a> or <a href=\"https:\/\/slate.com\/culture\/2026\/06\/the-color-purple-steven-spielberg-movie-oscars.html\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">The Color Purple<\/a>, but they tend to be fleeting character bits, and often only suggestive, as in <a href=\"https:\/\/slate.com\/culture\/2002\/12\/catch-me-if-you-can-is-spielberg-s-autobiography.html\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Catch Me If You Can<\/a>. He seemed loath to depict sex, even when he veered into R-rated territory. Yet this apparently came from him.<\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"74\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cmqifm0s3000x357c5890pfh5@published\">\u201cHe\u2019s a fairly gentle guy, for all that he\u2019s made a lot of movies that have terrible violence in them,\u201d Kushner said. \u201cI think also he\u2019s fairly private in a lot of ways and feels nervous about using the camera for prurient reasons. So I think he sort of stayed away from showing sex on camera. He did it in Munich, and no one ever accused him of trying to titillate in that moment.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"159\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cmqifm0vk000y357ck15oo8u4@published\">Indeed. I rewatched Munich in full\u2014which I regrettably recommend, because it remains one of Spielberg\u2019s most relentless, formally distinctive, and life-ruining movies\u2014and then the scene in question itself more times than any human should. On one level, I can\u2019t fully deny it is ridiculous. There is a moment where you can almost see the person off-screen drenching Bana, such is the volume and viscosity of his sweat, with Avner nearing orgasm just as Spielberg cuts to a man igniting a grenade. (One hopes the visual logic here was more than \u201ctwo explosions.\u201d) But given that the movie is about Avner\u2019s moral descent\u2014and his increasing, deadening awareness of it\u2014there\u2019s some logic to violating his most sacred place this way. Throughout Munich, even as you witness escalating acts of brutal retaliation, you\u2019re aware you\u2019ve only seen the beginnings of the bloodshed in Munich, and the rest is surely to come. The scene, by design, makes it that much harder to bear.<\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"92\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cmqifm0y8000z357cfxrve75h@published\">Kushner himself had a turnaround. While working on <a href=\"https:\/\/slate.com\/culture\/2022\/11\/fabelmans-steven-spielberg-movie-true-story-parents-divorce.html\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">The Fabelmans<\/a>, the semi-autobiographical drama he co-wrote with Spielberg, he and the director decided to rewatch the unsparing Munich together after a disagreement over whether their current project was becoming too sentimental. \u201cI think he got a little irritated with me and said, \u2018When was the last time you watched it?\u2019 I said, \u2018Not since it came out.\u2019 And so, 20 years. And he said, \u2018I haven\u2019t watched it in years either. Let\u2019s go on the day off and watch it.\u2019 So we did.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"13\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cmqifm1130010357cqpx3nqd2@published\">This time, when they got to the dreaded scene, he saw something different.<\/p>\n<p>    <a href=\"https:\/\/slate.com\/culture\/2026\/06\/disclosure-day-steven-spielberg-movie-reviews-emily-blunt.html\" class=\"recirc-line__content\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\"><\/p>\n<p>          <img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/4fcf66d7-75e3-4ced-8a5e-af250f668cba.png\" width=\"141\" height=\"94\"   alt=\"\" loading=\"lazy\"\/><\/p>\n<p>\n          Dana Stevens<br \/>\n        Disclosure Day Is Like a Towering Sculpture Spielberg Has Been Molding for Decades out of Mashed Potatoes<br \/>\n        Read More\n      <\/p>\n<p>    <\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"68\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cmqifm13v0011357c9lvenrvp@published\">\u201cI found it tremendously moving and really disturbing,\u201d he said. \u201cI finally understood what Steven\u2019s after there is the idea that what Avner\u2019s done and the world outside that he\u2019s been an agent in has completely pervaded every inch of him, including this profoundly intimate moment of having sex with his wife, that there\u2019s no escaping it, that it\u2019s at every moment and it will transform every moment.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>          <a href=\"https:\/\/slate.com\/culture\/2026\/06\/toy-story-5-movie-new-reviews-pixar-ipad-villain.html\" class=\"in-article-recirc__link\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\"><\/p>\n<p>            Toy Story 5 Takes On a Dark Subject\u2014and Comes Away the Best Pixar Sequel in Years<br \/>\n          <\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"125\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cmqifm17n0012357ce1pu1clw@published\">He added, \u201cI remember that when the movie came out, some people were offended by it, some people felt that it was vulgar, and in some ways, it is. Claude Lanzmann, the director of Shoah, would say that there are certain moments that we\u2019re not allowed to look at. We shouldn\u2019t be able to see these things, some of these moments of horror. I think in a certain sense, you can say that what happened on that airfield in Germany is like that. And Steven not only shows us this, but he shows it to us conjoined with a sex act, and a violent sex act. And it\u2019s profoundly upsetting and ugly, but I think there\u2019s a transgressive quality to it that is exactly right.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"74\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cmqifm1au0013357cuyumrjse@published\">On the time when they made the movie, Kushner said, \u201cI\u2019d been in trouble already for being critical of Israel. Steven, not so much. And making this movie at this particular moment took real courage on his part, and I was then and I am now proud of him for that. I think he understands that if you\u2019re going to make art that means anything, you can\u2019t lie. You have to tell the truth.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"21\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cmqifm1ds0014357c9x7j58nk@published\">You may or may not see the truth in this particular scene, but two decades later, I think I finally do.<\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"6\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cmqifm1hd0015357cip14thoi@published\"><a href=\"https:\/\/slate.com\/tag\/spielberg-week\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Read the rest of Spielberg Week.<\/a><\/p>\n<p>      Get the best of movies, TV, books, music, and more.\n    <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"This article is part of Spielberg Week, Slate\u2019s celebration of Steven Spielberg. 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