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\t\t\t \n\t\t\tIf you\u2019ve found yourself Googling \u201chow to make friends after 30,\u201d you\u2019re in good company. Between busy careers, relationships, moves and packed schedules, building new friendships as an adult can feel surprisingly difficult. The good news? Experts say it\u2019s a common challenge \u2014 and one that\u2019s more manageable than you might think. From joining local [\u2026]\t\t<\/p>\n Why Social Fitness Matters<\/p>\n Socializing in America has narrowed. Most adult get-togethers revolve around eating or drinking, and that sameness leaves little room for the kind of shared novelty psychologists say strengthens relationships.<\/p>\n \u201cSocialization culture, particularly for adults outside of school, has become really centered around eating and drinking. I think we\u2019ve been successful because we\u2019ve provided another option for people to do something with their friends outside their house,\u201d Tayler Carraway, cofounder of New York City art caf\u00e9 Happy Medium, told Vogue<\/a>.<\/p>\n The stakes are higher than a slow Friday night. People with close friendships report greater life satisfaction and are less likely to suffer from depression<\/a>, according to the American Journal of Psychiatry. They are also less likely to die from heart problems and other chronic diseases<\/a>, PLOS Medicine research found.<\/p>\n \u201cNot exercising your social fitness is hazardous to your health,\u201d Robert Waldinger, a professor of psychiatry at Harvard Medical School, told Outside.<\/a><\/p>\n \u201cWhen you lose emotional and social fitness, you lose everything,\u201d Emily Anhalt, a clinical psychologist and cofounder of Coa, a gym for mental health, told Outside. \u201cEverything in life is going to feel better if you feel connected to other people to get through the tough things and enjoy the good things.\u201d<\/p>\n What the Research Says About Doing Something New Together<\/p>\n Novelty is the ingredient most nights out are missing. A 2000 study in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology<\/a> found that couples who took part in \u201cnovel\u201d and \u201carousing\u201d activities together reported stronger relationships and increased passion. Participants ranged from partnerships lasting two months to 15 years, and researchers noted the boost appeared after a shared task as short as seven minutes.<\/p>\n An earlier study of more than 50 married couples in the Journal of Social and Personal Relationships<\/a> reached similar conclusions after 10 weeks of weekly activities described as exciting or pleasant.<\/p>\n Julianne Holt-Lunstad, a professor of psychology and neuroscience at Brigham Young University, told the American Psychological Association<\/a> that platonic connection deserves the same active promotion as physical health.<\/p>\n \u201cAfter having to reduce social contact during the pandemic, we\u2019ve realized how it impacts basically every sector of society. That suggests that each of these sectors can potentially play a role in solutions,\u201d Holt-Lunstad said.<\/p>\n She added, \u201cWhat we know is that if we don\u2019t interact regularly, things go really bad remarkably fast. But what is the magic in these interactions that\u2019s keeping us healthy and sane? More and more researchers are saying there\u2019s this huge part of human behavior we know very little about. Let\u2019s change that.\u201d<\/p>\n \t \t\tThank You!<\/p>\n You have successfully subscribed.<\/p>\n Improve Your Social Fitness: The Nights Out Worth Trying<\/p>\n
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