{"id":80365,"date":"2025-08-19T04:50:09","date_gmt":"2025-08-19T04:50:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/80365\/"},"modified":"2025-08-19T04:50:09","modified_gmt":"2025-08-19T04:50:09","slug":"running-a-rehab-clinic-for-the-rich-depressed-me","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/80365\/","title":{"rendered":"Running a rehab clinic for the rich depressed me"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Last October Jan Gerber was on a beach on a private island in the Seychelles when \u201ca depression hit that had never hit me before. I\u2019d be brushing my teeth in the morning and I\u2019d feel the darkening coming on. I\u2019d crawl to the floor and just lie there crying. <\/p>\n<p>\u201cMy fianc\u00e9e would find me half an hour later and have to get me to bed. It was the most beautiful place in the world, a boutique resort surrounded by a national park, but I had plunged into a dark ocean. I saw so clearly there is no meaning, there\u2019s just pain, so why keep going?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Gerber had plenty of experience of other people\u2019s breakdowns, as the founder and chief executive of Paracelsus Recovery, the world\u2019s most expensive \u2014 and exclusive \u2014 rehab clinic, costing clients about \u00a3100,000 a week. <\/p>\n<p class=\"responsive__Paragraph-sc-1pktst5-0 gaEeqC\">This is where film stars, royalty, elite sportspeople, and CEOs check in suffering from burnout, depression and\/or addiction. For them a white-walled psychiatric hospital simply will not do. <\/p>\n<p class=\"responsive__Paragraph-sc-1pktst5-0 gaEeqC\">Yet the strain of building up this business brought Gerber, 43, to this point where he wanted to commit suicide, but lacked the energy to form or carry out a plan. \u201cI wouldn\u2019t have minded if a bus ran over me.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"responsive__Paragraph-sc-1pktst5-0 gaEeqC\">The son of a Swiss psychiatrist father and nurse mother, Gerber studied accounting at the London School of Economics before becoming a management consultant and serial entrepreneur. The idea for an ultra-exclusive clinic was born after a friend of a friend, who was the boss of a listed company, needed discreet help for alcoholism. Gerber curated his treatment, sourcing him a butler and a yoga instructor. <\/p>\n<p class=\"responsive__Paragraph-sc-1pktst5-0 gaEeqC\">\u201cI realised there was a niche of very exposed, famous and ultra-wealthy people who couldn\u2019t just walk into rehab or a clinic. Their family, or the public, or business partners might find out.\u201d <\/p>\n<p class=\"responsive__Paragraph-sc-1pktst5-0 gaEeqC\">\u2022 <a href=\"https:\/\/www.thetimes.com\/life-style\/article\/rehab-for-the-1-percent-where-the-ultra-rich-go-when-they-hit-rock-bottom-wr8nqfvw3\" class=\"link__RespLink-sc-1ocvixa-0 csWvlP\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">The man the ultra-rich call when they hit rock bottom<\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"responsive__Paragraph-sc-1pktst5-0 gaEeqC\">Gerber and his mother pioneered a fully holistic approach, with each client assigned a team of 15 to 20 people, including psychiatrists, nurses, masseuses, nutritionists and a live-in therapist. \u201cIf you really want to unearth all the factors that contribute to a problem and find bespoke treatments, you need to throw massive resources at it. That costs a lot.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"responsive__Paragraph-sc-1pktst5-0 gaEeqC\">Paracelsus Recovery was founded 12 years ago, since when about 400 high-profile clients \u2014 mainly American, but many from the Middle East and Europe, have checked in to its three (the maximum number of clients treated at any one time) apartments on the shores of Lake Zurich, complete with a live-in therapist available 24\/7 and personal chef. From there, they can walk discreetly \u2014 via the bins \u2014 the 30 seconds to the clinic, with sessions arranged so that no client ever sees another. <\/p>\n<p class=\"responsive__Paragraph-sc-1pktst5-0 gaEeqC\">Its staff have become experts in understanding the issues that uniquely plague ultra-high-net-worth individuals \u2014 defined as people worth more than \u00a337 million \u2014 with research showing that despite their financial cushions, people in that bracket are three to five times more likely than the average to suffer from a mental illness or substance abuse problem. <\/p>\n<p class=\"responsive__Paragraph-sc-1pktst5-0 gaEeqC\">\u201cThese people live in a separate reality,\u201d Gerber says. \u201cThey\u2019re surrounded by people who daren\u2019t say no, who want your money, who are affiliated with you for reasons other than being interested in you as a human being and that makes you very lonely.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"responsive__Paragraph-sc-1pktst5-0 gaEeqC\">It\u2019s a 40-minute drive from Zurich to the restored 150-year-old house \u2014 we were chauffeured here in a Bentley \u2014 which Gerber shares with his fianc\u00e9e, Jil, and their adored retriever. Having shown us round the underground gym, with its sauna, steam room, Japanese onsen bath and sound-healing room, Gerber is now nursing a glass of fine Swiss wine, looking out over emerald woodland from the terrace. He is dressed in white trousers and an open-neck shirt. A swimming pool glistens below us. The clang of cowbells can be heard in the background.<\/p>\n<p class=\"responsive__Paragraph-sc-1pktst5-0 gaEeqC\">Indoors, a 33ft Murano glass chandelier dominates the double-height living room, while a secret bar is hidden behind a bookcase. A chef prepares our three-course dinner, but often Jil cooks for clients whom they often entertain. \u201cOften they haven\u2019t had a home-cooked meal in a home environment since childhood.\u201d Their guest before me was the Duchess of York, there to explore mental health advocacy.<\/p>\n<p class=\"responsive__Paragraph-sc-1pktst5-0 gaEeqC\">He\u2019s had a long day, which included bolstering staff after one client was \u201cquite mean to them \u2026 it\u2019s a cultural thing. The patience and the kindness you need to show is sometimes taxing.\u201d <\/p>\n<p class=\"responsive__Paragraph-sc-1pktst5-0 gaEeqC\">Tomorrow will start early with a high-profile Turkish family wanting to check out the facilities. Gerber has worked non-stop for years to build his client base, with his first major mental health wobble coming during Covid. \u201cMental health issues were on the rise, but borders were closed. I should have declared bankruptcy, but I was like, \u2018I\u2019m not giving this up.\u2019 It was so close to my heart,\u201d he says.<\/p>\n<p class=\"responsive__Paragraph-sc-1pktst5-0 gaEeqC\">The business survived but there were further grapples with a \u201ctoxic\u201d business partner. \u201cIt really took a mental toll.\u201d At the same time, Gerber\u2019s nine-year marriage began falling apart. \u201cI was having a midlife crisis, my six-year-old son was not doing well in kindergarten and as a parent you take on that energy. I was wondering, what is it all for. I was well-off but I\u2019d been much happier as a student watching my budget, not knowing how I\u2019d pay my rent the following month.\u201d <\/p>\n<p class=\"responsive__Paragraph-sc-1pktst5-0 gaEeqC\">\u2022 <a href=\"https:\/\/www.thetimes.com\/life-style\/health-fitness\" class=\"link__RespLink-sc-1ocvixa-0 csWvlP\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Read more expert advice on healthy living, fitness and wellbeing<\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"responsive__Paragraph-sc-1pktst5-0 gaEeqC\">In 2022, Gerber suffered his first depressive episode. \u201cI just didn\u2019t function. I felt no pleasure. I was deeply sad.\u201d His team would advise he cut down on work and he tried to immerse himself in nature. Symptoms alleviated and he stumbled on for a few more months, but then he and his ex-wife decided definitively to end the marriage, although for several months they still shared a house.<\/p>\n<p class=\"responsive__Paragraph-sc-1pktst5-0 gaEeqC\">\u201cI had anxiety attacks for days, when I would not be able to leave the bed but my intellect was on, so it felt like I was observing what was happening to me. I remember my now ex-wife said, after a day or so, \u2018Look, I\u2019ll open the window, why don\u2019t you take a fresh, crisp breath of air?\u2019 It was two steps from the bed, but I was helpless, crying because it was too much for me to do that.\u201d <\/p>\n<p class=\"responsive__Paragraph-sc-1pktst5-0 gaEeqC\">He was told he needed clinical help. Treatment at Paracelsus \u201cwould not have been therapeutic\u201d, he says, so instead he waited for a place in another clinic. During that time he hosted several Paracelsus-related events. <\/p>\n<p class=\"responsive__Paragraph-sc-1pktst5-0 gaEeqC\">\u201cI had to put on a good show because there was no one else to step in. I had one speaking engagement at a family wealth business conference in a private ch\u00e2teau outside Paris. I sat in the beautiful library just before the speech, crying my eyes out. I made it onstage and the feedback was amazing because I came across as so authentic,\u201d he says, but for two days afterwards he couldn\u2019t get out of bed. \u201cI began to see how we can warn CEOs all we like about burnout, but they\u2019ll hold on until the last straw breaks.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"responsive__Paragraph-sc-1pktst5-0 gaEeqC\">Eventually, he spent six weeks in a nearby clinic with a 70-patient capacity. \u201cIt was a very different programme to here, a much lighter touch, much less personal. But it really did me good.\u201d <\/p>\n<p class=\"responsive__Paragraph-sc-1pktst5-0 gaEeqC\">Ever the businessman, Gerber instantly grasped how the experience could help Paracelsus Recovery to improve. \u201cI came out with real, lived experience of what our clients go through. I\u2019ve always been a compassionate person, but before my understanding was intellectual. I had a good life, I didn\u2019t understand what pain actually feels like, when you can\u2019t function any more.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"responsive__Paragraph-sc-1pktst5-0 gaEeqC\">He also recognised many aspects of himself in the Succession crowd that his business treats. \u201cEven in the early days when I didn\u2019t have much, I would not have wanted to change places with any of our clients. I\u2019ve always been mindful of that, but at the same time, through my own insecurities and dopamine system I fell into the same patterns as some of them. <\/p>\n<p class=\"responsive__Paragraph-sc-1pktst5-0 gaEeqC\">\u201cI like nice houses, cars and vacations in five-star hotels \u2014 I always thought once I had them, I would be happy ever after. But you realise to a point, the emotional void isn\u2019t medicated by any of that \u2014 in fact, the more possessions you have the worse it becomes.\u201d <\/p>\n<p class=\"responsive__Paragraph-sc-1pktst5-0 gaEeqC\">Like so many of his clients, Gerber was what the former prime minister Theresa May once described as a \u201ccitizen of nowhere\u201d, who had studied and worked all over the world but lacked connections. \u201cI see it with so many clients who have homes everywhere, they go to Paris to shop and then they\u2019re like, \u2018Actually, the weather\u2019s not that good, we\u2019re bored, let\u2019s go to LA,\u2019 where they have a massive estate. But when did they last enjoy nature, walk in the forest and hear the birds chirp and feel the sun on their skin? It\u2019s a clich\u00e9, but it\u2019s what we need to do.\u201d <\/p>\n<p class=\"responsive__Paragraph-sc-1pktst5-0 gaEeqC\">\u2022 <a href=\"https:\/\/www.thetimes.com\/article\/exclusive-rehab-centres-wealthy-npd8jn0t6\" class=\"link__RespLink-sc-1ocvixa-0 csWvlP\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Welcome to the most exclusive rehab centres on Earth<\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"responsive__Paragraph-sc-1pktst5-0 gaEeqC\">He focused on putting down roots, but even in prosperous, egalitarian Switzerland, Gerber was aware that his house was bigger than his neighbours\u2019 and that \u2014 however friendly he was \u2014 \u201cwe were never invited to dog sit or babysit. They would presume we were too busy or too good for that kind of thing \u2014 it makes you feel othered. <\/p>\n<p class=\"responsive__Paragraph-sc-1pktst5-0 gaEeqC\">\u201cAnd in other countries, it\u2019s a whole different ball game, where wealthy people live completely separate lives with a wall of barbed wire behind them. Of course, you can still live in a small house and drive a Toyota, but it\u2019s hard to go back to that when you\u2019re used to comforts.\u201d <\/p>\n<p class=\"responsive__Paragraph-sc-1pktst5-0 gaEeqC\">Now, he\u2019s learning to wean himself off luxuries. \u201cAt first, these things are wonderful. When it becomes the norm, it doesn\u2019t give you pleasure. I\u2019ve done some amazing travels, but I told Jil a year or so ago, \u2018I\u2019m kind of fed up with the Four Seasons [hotel chain], can we go camping?\u2019\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"responsive__Paragraph-sc-1pktst5-0 gaEeqC\">The black dog continues to plague him, the worst episode being last autumn in the Seychelles, with another plummet in April that\u2019s left him struggling with brain fog. \u201cIt\u2019s slowly getting better, but I\u2019m still quite a distance from the \u2018old\u2019 Jan,\u201d he says. <\/p>\n<p class=\"responsive__Paragraph-sc-1pktst5-0 gaEeqC\">After we meet, he and Jil marry in their garden (\u201cFor the first time in my life I\u2019m with someone with whom I don\u2019t have to play a role, I\u2019m authentic me\u201d) and head off to India for a two-month, off-grid ayurvedic retreat. <\/p>\n<p id=\"last-paragraph\" class=\"responsive__Paragraph-sc-1pktst5-0 gaEeqC\">Gerber knows that stories about the one per cent\u2019s pain are usually greeted with howls of derision, but his compassion for his clients has only deepened. \u201cPeople always tell me it\u2019s easier to feel sorry for somebody living on the streets than for somebody in a gated cage. 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