{"id":901565,"date":"2026-09-19T10:32:08","date_gmt":"2026-09-19T10:32:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/901565\/"},"modified":"2026-09-19T10:32:08","modified_gmt":"2026-09-19T10:32:08","slug":"what-earl-spencer-says-about-charles-and-diana-as-he-doubles-down-on-new-memoir","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/901565\/","title":{"rendered":"What Earl Spencer says about Charles and Diana as he doubles down on new memoir"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"A8Lwr BVYCX\">Earl Spencer has insisted he is &#8220;telling the truth&#8221; after making a number of extraordinary claims about King Charles&#8217; response to the death of his sister, Princess Diana. <\/p>\n<p class=\"A8Lwr BVYCX\">Excerpts of &#8216;Swan Song: Diana, My Sister&#8217;, published by the Daily Mail, include claims Charles told the former Princess of Wales he didn&#8217;t love her ahead of their wedding day, and sounded &#8220;elated&#8221; at the news of her death. <\/p>\n<p class=\"A8Lwr BVYCX\">Speaking to the BBC on Friday, Earl Spencer said he was \u201ctelling the truth\u201d about a claim in his new book that the now King told him that Diana would be forgotten \u201csoon enough\u201d following her death.<\/p>\n<p class=\"A8Lwr BVYCX\">\u201cThose are exactly the words he said,\u201d Charles Spencer told the broadcaster. <\/p>\n<p class=\"A8Lwr BVYCX\">Buckingham Palace responded to the claims on Wednesday, saying &#8220;fraternal grief can cloud reason&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p class=\"A8Lwr BVYCX\">When asked about the Palace&#8217;s statement, the Earl told the BBC: \u201cThey haven\u2019t actually (denied the claims), Laura, they\u2019ve sort of smudged that one, haven\u2019t they? They\u2019ve said recollections may vary.\u201d <\/p>\n<p class=\"A8Lwr BVYCX\">Here ITV News unpacks the memoir&#8217;s biggest revelations. <\/p>\n<p class=\"A8Lwr BVYCX\">Before the marriage<\/p>\n<p class=\"A8Lwr BVYCX\">Charles met the then 16-year-old Diana in 1977 at her family home when he was dating her sister at the time. <\/p>\n<p class=\"A8Lwr BVYCX\">She attended his 30th birthday in 1978 at Buckingham Palace, and in the summer of 1980 their romance began. The pair were engaged the following February after only a few meetings.<\/p>\n<p>Diana and Charles announce their engagement, February 1981. Credit: AP<\/p>\n<p class=\"A8Lwr BVYCX\">In his new book, the Earl claimed Diana had told their father she could not go through with the marriage to Charles a month before the wedding, having been ignored by Charles all evening during Prince Andrew&#8217;s 21st birthday party. <\/p>\n<p class=\"A8Lwr BVYCX\">&#8220;Immediately after that evening of escalating heartbreak, Diana went to see my father. She told him she could not go through with marriage to a man who clearly did not love her,&#8221; the Earl wrote. <\/p>\n<p class=\"A8Lwr BVYCX\">&#8220;My father was appalled and said it was impossible to pull out of such an enormous commitment at that point.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"A8Lwr BVYCX\">He also wrote that he had seen his sister sitting quietly in front of a mirror on the morning of her wedding, having been told by Charles he was &#8220;very happy&#8221; to marry her, but was &#8220;not actually in love with her&#8221; the day before. <\/p>\n<p>Charles and Diana get married at St Paul&#8217;s Cathedral, July 1981.  Credit: AP<\/p>\n<p class=\"A8Lwr BVYCX\">Mental health concerns<\/p>\n<p class=\"A8Lwr BVYCX\">Princess Diana married Charles at St Paul&#8217;s Cathedral on July 29 1981. A year later, Prince William was born, followed by Prince Harry in 1984.<\/p>\n<p class=\"A8Lwr BVYCX\">The couple separated in 1992 and finalised their divorce in 1996, following allegations of extramarital affairs.<\/p>\n<p class=\"A8Lwr BVYCX\">The Earl made multiple claims about Charles and Diana&#8217;s marriage, stating that Diana was having &#8220;explosive outbursts when she was at her unhappiest&#8221;. <\/p>\n<p class=\"A8Lwr BVYCX\">&#8220;It is a sad fact that, in her later years, Diana drove herself more than once to Beachy Head, the highest chalk sea cliff in England, while contemplating ending it all,&#8221; Earl Spencer wrote. <\/p>\n<p class=\"A8Lwr BVYCX\">He stated that it was love for her sons, Prince Harry and Prince William, which stopped her from taking her own life. <\/p>\n<p class=\"A8Lwr BVYCX\">Diana&#8217;s death<\/p>\n<p class=\"A8Lwr BVYCX\">On August 31 1997, Diana died from injuries sustained in a car crash in Paris, aged 36. She was being pursued by paparazzi when the driver lost control of the vehicle.<\/p>\n<p class=\"A8Lwr BVYCX\">Earl Spencer claimed the King sounded \u201cgiddily elated\u2026 like a lottery winner\u201d when he rang him following his sister&#8217;s death.<\/p>\n<p class=\"A8Lwr BVYCX\">One passage read: \u201cUnlike my other callers, who were stunned, barely able to articulate their condolences and offers of help, he sounded giddily elated \u2013 like a lottery winner, I remember thinking at the time.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"A8Lwr BVYCX\">Earl Spencer also said he was told by Charles his sister would be forgotten &#8220;soon enough&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p class=\"A8Lwr BVYCX\">Earl Spencer told the BBC: \u201cHe went ballistic, would be the right term, and started really going for my family as a whole, about their sense of duty, not being adequate enough, and ranted for a while, I have no idea how long, but it was a significant period, and I just listened.<\/p>\n<p class=\"A8Lwr BVYCX\">\u201cAnd then he stopped, and I thought, \u2018Oh now he\u2019s gonna pull himself together and say something more appropriate\u2019, and then he said, \u2018We\u2019ll forget her soon enough\u2019.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"A8Lwr BVYCX\">He added: \u201cI really was so stunned, and I just, after a stunned silence, I said, \u2018I cannot believe you just said that\u2019, and I hung up on him.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Prince Philip Prince William, Earl Spencer, Prince Harry and Prince Charles at the funeral procession for Diana, Princess of Wales. Credit: Pool<\/p>\n<p class=\"A8Lwr BVYCX\">At the time, Charles was with his mum, the Queen, and sons William and Harry, aged 15 and 12, at Balmoral.<\/p>\n<p class=\"A8Lwr BVYCX\">The Earl said: \u201cHe let me know he had informed William and Harry of their mother\u2019s death, first thing that morning, in their bedrooms at Balmoral. It all sounded strangely matter-of-fact, given the enormity of the disaster.<\/p>\n<p class=\"A8Lwr BVYCX\">\u201cLooking back now, I suspect the prince\u2019s first reaction must have been to think more of how this event might free him to marry the woman he loved, rather than appreciating the loss of one he did not.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"A8Lwr BVYCX\">Queen offers to restore HRH title<\/p>\n<p class=\"A8Lwr BVYCX\">Earl Spencer claimed the Queen offered to restore Princess Diana&#8217;s HRH title after she died. <\/p>\n<p class=\"A8Lwr BVYCX\">He described the Queen&#8217;s Private Secretary Robert Fellowes making the proposal as he travelled to his sister&#8217;s private burial in Althorp, Northamptonshire. <\/p>\n<p class=\"A8Lwr BVYCX\">The Earl wrote that Diana had been &#8220;dreadfully hurt&#8221; by the removal of her title in 1996 following the divorce, but said he decided to decline the offer as it had no use to her now.<\/p>\n<p class=\"A8Lwr BVYCX\">&#8220;I felt that I knew in my bones how she would view this posthumous award,&#8221; he wrote. <\/p>\n<p class=\"A8Lwr BVYCX\">&#8220;That&#8217;s very kind of the Queen, of course. But what&#8217;s the point, Robert? Now? I mean \u2013 Diana&#8217;s dead.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Princess Diana and Queen Elizabeth II smile as crowds wish the Queen a happy birthday, August 1987. Credit: AP<\/p>\n<p class=\"A8Lwr BVYCX\">The public were outraged by the monarch&#8217;s late response to her death in 1997. <\/p>\n<p class=\"A8Lwr BVYCX\">The flag at Buckingham Palace was not lowered to half-mast, and the Queen did not return to London until five days later, the day before her funeral. <\/p>\n<p class=\"A8Lwr BVYCX\">Buckingham Palace was cloaked with flowers and people sobbed, mourning the loss of &#8216;the people&#8217;s Princess&#8217;, as described by the then-prime minister Tony Blair.<\/p>\n<p class=\"A8Lwr BVYCX\">But as her coffin went past, the Queen bowed her head &#8211; a moment which made history for being the first time the Queen has ever bowed to a member of the public.<\/p>\n<p>Prince Harry and Diana during a holiday in Majorca, 1987. Credit: AP<\/p>\n<p class=\"A8Lwr BVYCX\">Buckingham Palace responds<\/p>\n<p class=\"A8Lwr BVYCX\">Throughout the years, several books have claimed to spill secrets about the Royal Family.<\/p>\n<p class=\"A8Lwr BVYCX\">In 2023, Prince Harry <a class=\"qNUzV q7LZa\" data-testid=\"next-link-anchor\" href=\"https:\/\/www.itv.com\/news\/2023-01-10\/prince-harrys-spare-is-fastest-selling-non-fiction-book-ever-publishers-say\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">released Spare<\/a> in which he claimed his brother, Prince William, attacked him, and that the King had put his own interests above his son.<\/p>\n<p class=\"A8Lwr BVYCX\">In a response to Earl Spencer&#8217;s memoir on Wednesday, Bucking Palace stated that &#8220;the pain of fraternal grief can cloud reason&#8221;. <\/p>\n<p class=\"A8Lwr BVYCX\">&#8220;While we do not comment on books as a matter of principle, His Majesty is mindful that the pain of fraternal grief can cloud reason, affect judgment and colour memory in ways others do not recognise, even many years after such a loss,&#8221; a Palace spokesperson said. <\/p>\n<p class=\"A8Lwr BVYCX\">This is the Talking Royals &#8211; our weekly podcast about the Royal Family, with ITV News Royal Editor <a class=\"qNUzV q7LZa\" data-testid=\"next-link-anchor\" href=\"https:\/\/www.itv.com\/news\/meet-the-team\/chris-ship\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Chris Ship<\/a> and Producer Lizzie Robinson. <\/p><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Earl Spencer has insisted he is &#8220;telling the truth&#8221; after making a number of extraordinary claims about King&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":901566,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[32],"tags":[49,48,361,75],"class_list":["post-901565","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-celebrities","tag-ca","tag-canada","tag-celebrities","tag-entertainment"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/901565","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=901565"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/901565\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/901566"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=901565"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=901565"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=901565"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}