{"id":922174,"date":"2026-10-06T01:28:24","date_gmt":"2026-10-06T01:28:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/922174\/"},"modified":"2026-10-06T01:28:24","modified_gmt":"2026-10-06T01:28:24","slug":"the-year-i-was-reminded-how-much-golf-means-to-me","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/922174\/","title":{"rendered":"The year I was reminded how much golf means to me"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>\tTHIS has been a year that I will not forget in a hurry.<\/p>\n<p>\tRegular readers will know that I was <a href=\"https:\/\/www.golfshake.com\/news\/view\/22986\/How_cancer_has_ruined_my_golfing_year.html\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">diagnosed with kidney cancer<\/a> and had to have my right kidney removed. All this in the year when I was installed as Seniors Captain at <a href=\"https:\/\/www.golfshake.com\/course\/view\/14490\/Dunston_Hall_Golf_Club.html\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Dunston Hall Golf Club<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>\tThis was something I had been looking forward to for months. There were lots of things I wanted to achieve. I wanted to introduce some mixed matches with our ladies section, I wanted to ensure my charity day was a huge success, I wanted to see more seniors taking part in our inter-club matches and I wanted Captain\u2019s Day to be something special &#8211; and I did manage to achieve all of those things.<\/p>\n<p>\t<img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"DC Golf 2026\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/dc-golf-2026_rrdwch.jpg\" style=\"width: 640px; height: 320px;\"\/><\/p>\n<p>\tAs I have previously recorded, I have never known pain like it. But the pain has long subsided and I am now playing golf again.<\/p>\n<p>\tDuring my illness I asked my vice-captain to step in for me and he did a wonderful job.<\/p>\n<p>\tI was sent for a CT scan and was confident that all would be well. I had lost 16lb but had put back on an impressive 12lb. I felt really well.<\/p>\n<p>\tSo you can imagine how I felt when I was told that the scan had found some \u201canomalies\u201d on my liver and my pituitary gland.<\/p>\n<p>\tI was informed that I would be fast-tracked for an MRI scan and, sure enough, within a week I found myself strapped in for 45 minutes as they carried out a full scan on my head and torso.<\/p>\n<p>\tIt was a scary experience.<\/p>\n<p>\tThe day before, I had sat down with my consultant, who told me about the possibility of immunotherapy. My scan was on the Friday and I was promised that a nurse would call me on the Monday with my results. I sat by my phone all day, but the call never came. I had been given a number to call but, yes, you\u2019ve guessed it, I couldn\u2019t get an answer.<\/p>\n<p>\tThe following day I was on the golf course when the nurse called. I didn\u2019t want to hear what could be bad news while playing golf, so I asked her to call back in the afternoon.<\/p>\n<p>\tSure enough, at 2pm I received the call I had been dreading. But I was told that the cancer had gone.<\/p>\n<p>\tShe asked if I wanted to go ahead with immunotherapy but, having read about all the possible side-effects, I opted out. I will be called back every six months for tests and am happy to take my chances.<\/p>\n<p>\tThere was more.<\/p>\n<p>\tThey had also found some irregularities with my oesophagus, which meant another hospital procedure later that week. Thankfully, they found nothing wrong.<\/p>\n<p>\tTwo days later it was off to see another specialist, this time to talk about a hernia in my groin! He had a poke around and informed me that I actually have two hernias. He asked me if I was in pain or discomfort and, when I replied that I wasn\u2019t, he recommended leaving well alone.<\/p>\n<p>\tI went home and sighed with relief. It was over. Finally!<\/p>\n<p>\tI had been away from the golf course for almost eight weeks while I recovered and there were feelings of some trepidation when I returned to the course. Would I still be able to play the game to a decent standard? How would I feel physically? My first couple of rounds were a real struggle. I played well enough but by the time I reached the ninth hole I was almost on my knees. I didn\u2019t keep my score &#8211; being out there again was enough.<\/p>\n<p>\tI now had to decide whether I wanted to resume my captaincy duties.<\/p>\n<p>\tI have to tell you that all of this has taken a huge toll on me emotionally and physically so, with a heavy heart, I informed my vice-captain that I would not be taking up the reins again.<\/p>\n<p>\tThis was the hardest decision I have ever had to take but, for the good of my health, it was the right call. And he had been doing such a wonderful job that I felt it would have been grossly unfair of me to step back in.<\/p>\n<p>\tMy <a href=\"https:\/\/www.golfshake.com\/news\/view\/22445\/How_to_start_a_year_as_captain_of_a_golf_club.html\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">final act as captain<\/a> had been my charity day, which raised a record \u00a312,000 for the East Anglian Children\u2019s Hospices, which cares for terminally ill children and offers invaluable support to their families.<\/p>\n<p>\t<img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"DC Charity golf day 2026\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/dc-2026-dunston-charity_e2swcu.jpg\" style=\"width: 640px; height: 320px;\"\/><\/p>\n<p>\tIt seemed like the perfect way to bow out. I feel like a massive weight has been lifted from my shoulders.<\/p>\n<p>\tOh, and I somehow managed to win the September medal. This came as a huge surprise to me and, after everything I have been through, it felt extra special.<\/p>\n<p>\tMy wife and I are now planning a week in the sun soon and we are hoping to visit family in Australia in January on an extended break.<\/p>\n<p>\tHopefully, this brings the curtain down on a chapter of my life I have no designs on repeating.<\/p>\n<p>\tI am now living a healthier lifestyle. I have reduced my alcohol intake dramatically and am enjoying my golf like I have never done before.<\/p>\n<p>\tI no longer care about what I score. It is more than enough for me to be out there swinging a golf club once more. And it sure as hell beats the alternative. I also have to say that getting back on the course has helped my mental wellbeing. Who knew?<\/p>\n<p>\tSometimes, you don\u2019t know what you have until it is almost taken away from you.<\/p>\n<p>\tHappy golfing to you all.<\/p>\n<p>\t\u00a0<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"THIS has been a year that I will not forget in a hurry. 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