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Copies of Courage to Care: Ripples of Love in Action are featured at the Connecting for Caring event in Westmount on Oct. 26, 2026. (CityNews)<\/p>\nCaregiving looks different for everyone, but the stories behind it can bring people closer together.<\/p>\n
A new book, Courage to Care: Ripples of Love in Action, explores those experiences. <\/p>\n
On Monday night, Montrealers gathered in Westmount for Connecting for Caring, an event featuring stories, poetry, music, artwork and conversation inspired by the book.<\/p>\n
Copies of Courage to Care: Ripples of Love in Action are featured at the Connecting for Caring event in Westmount on Oct. 26, 2026. (CityNews)<\/p>\n
Curated by Al Etmanski, the books aims to recognize the often-overlooked role of caregiving in families and communities. <\/p>\n
\u201cThe most important is to let people who are in caring relationships know they\u2019re not alone,\u201d Etmanski said. \u201cTo acknowledge they\u2019re caring with beauty.\u201d<\/p>\n
A book inspired by personal loss<\/p>\n
Etmanski said the project began after the death of his wife, who was active in the caregiving movement. He was initially asked to compile a collection of her writing, but decided instead to invite people across Canada to share their own perspectives on caring.<\/p>\n
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Al Etmanski, curator of Courage to Care: Ripples of Love in Action, attends the Connecting for Caring event in Westmount on Oct. 26, 2026. (CityNews)<\/p>\n
One of the first people he approached was Montreal-based dancer, choreographer and performer Luca \u201cLazylegz\u201d Patuelli.<\/p>\n
Etmanski said Patuelli offered a valuable perspective. <\/p>\n
\u201cIt was very natural for me to contact him and ask him about caring relationships from two points of view: as a receiver of care because of his own disability, but also as a giver of care to his daughters,\u201d Etmanski said. \u201cFor me, he was the perfect candidate for the book.\u201d<\/p>\n
Finding a way through fatherhood<\/p>\n
Patuelli\u2019s contribution, titled \u201cImprov,\u201d reflects on becoming a father with a disability and adapting to the challenges of caring for his child.<\/p>\n
He said he was honoured when Etmanski approached him and saw an opportunity to share the struggles and successes of his experience as a father.<\/p>\n
\u201cI was at a point in my life when I felt it was important to share my life as a father with a disability, who also has a child with a disability, and the beauty of the struggles and successes from my learning experiences,\u201d Patuelli said.<\/p>\n
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Luca \u201cLazylegz\u201d Patuelli, a Montreal-based dancer, choreographer and contributor to Courage to Care: Ripples of Love in Action, attends the Connecting for Caring event in Westmount on Oct. 26, 2026. (CityNews)<\/p>\n
He hopes his story will encourage others. <\/p>\n
\u201cIf my story can help inspire any other parent with a disability to understand that they can conquer their challenges and learn to adapt and do things their own way, then that\u2019s what I hope to be able to accomplish,\u201d Patuelli said.<\/p>\n
Care takes many forms<\/p>\n
Patuelli\u2019s story is one of more than 160 contributions in the book, which includes written reflections, poems, photographs, paintings, illustrations, song lyrics and recipes.<\/p>\n
Contributor Hilary Pearson wrote about the influence of service across generations of her family. Her piece, \u201cA Family Legacy of Caring,\u201d explores how public service, volunteering and philanthropy shaped her family\u2019s approach to helping others.<\/p>\n
\u201cIt\u2019s important to share a family story because it shows others that there is a generational influence, that grandparents and parents can influence children and that service is something that matters and it has a lot of meaning,\u201d Pearson said.<\/p>\n
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Hilary Pearson, a contributor to Courage to Care: Ripples of Love in Action, attends the Connecting for Caring event in Westmount on Oct. 26, 2026. (CityNews)<\/p>\n
When caring cannot fix everything<\/p>\n
Other contributions explore the limits of what care can accomplish, particularly when someone is experiencing mental health difficulties.<\/p>\n
Montreal contributor Fabrice Vil draws on his experience of a mental health crisis in his piece, \u201cCaring Doesn\u2019t Cure.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cI did have a mental health crisis a couple of years ago, which led me to noticing how much caring doesn\u2019t necessarily solve something, but it helps healing to a certain extent,\u201d Vil said.<\/p>\n
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Fabrice Vil, a contributor to Courage to Care: Ripples of Love in Action, attends the Connecting for Caring event in Westmount on Oct. 26, 2026. (CityNews)<\/p>\n
His contribution also emphasizes the importance of caring for oneself, both physically and mentally.<\/p>\n
\u201cI believe that every human being cares for someone, for something, but we don\u2019t take the time and spend the time to talk about it together,\u201d Vil said.<\/p>\n
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A sign welcomes attendees to Connecting for Caring, an evening of stories, poetry, music and artwork celebrating care and community in Westmount on Oct. 26, 2026. (CityNews)<\/p>\n
Building a wider conversation about care<\/p>\n
Beyond sharing personal experiences, the project aims to encourage greater recognition and support for caregiving across Canada.<\/p>\n
The book\u2019s publisher operates as a non-profit social enterprise. Etmanski said additional funds raised are used to purchase more copies for caregivers and their organizations.<\/p>\n
For him, the goal extends beyond the book itself. He hopes the stories will encourage people to recognize the importance of care and work together to strengthen their communities.<\/p>\n
\u201cWe want to remind people that we are a powerful force so we can do lots together to improve our capacity as citizens to take care of each other,\u201d Etmanski said.<\/p>\n
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