{"id":948152,"date":"2026-10-27T12:42:16","date_gmt":"2026-10-27T12:42:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/948152\/"},"modified":"2026-10-27T12:42:16","modified_gmt":"2026-10-27T12:42:16","slug":"jamie-olivers-wife-jools-says-not-knowing-she-had-adhd-ruined-life-for-45-years","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/948152\/","title":{"rendered":"Jamie Oliver\u2019s wife Jools says not knowing she had ADHD \u2018ruined\u2019 life for 45 years"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>      <img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/1793104934_601_Independent+Membership+White.png\" alt=\"Independent Membership\" class=\"logo-premium-image\"\/><\/p>\n<p class=\"body-text\">Want to bookmark your favourite articles and stories to read or reference later? Start your Independent Membership today.<\/p>\n<p>        <a href=\"\/subscribe?regSourceMethod=Bookmarks\" class=\"subscribe-link\" target=\"_parent\">Join today<\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"login-copy\">\n      Already a member?<br \/>\n      <a href=\"#\" class=\"login-link login-trigger\" external-event=\"openLogin\">Log in<\/a>\n    <\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.independent.co.uk\/topic\/jamie-oliver\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Jamie Oliver<\/a>\u2019s wife Jools Oliver has revealed that she has been diagnosed with <a href=\"https:\/\/www.independent.co.uk\/topic\/autism\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">autism<\/a> and <a href=\"https:\/\/www.independent.co.uk\/topic\/adhd\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">ADHD<\/a>, saying that not understanding her neurodivergence \u201cruined\u201d her life for 45 years. <\/p>\n<p>Clothing brand owner Jools shared the news during a podcast interview, stating: \u201cI just think it\u2019s quite draining. I think it\u2019s tiring. I think, actually, it\u2019s ruined, so far, 45 years of my life thinking it\u2019s something else. It\u2019s no superpower. It\u2019s just a drain and it\u2019s just really hard work.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>She revealed that she decided to announce her diagnosis to her friends and family via an invitation to her 50th birthday party last year. <\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/Screenshot-2026-10-26-at-13-01-07.png\"  loading=\"lazy\" alt=\"Jools Oliver has opened up about neurodivergence on new podcast\" class=\"sc-1mc30lb-0 ggpMaE inline-gallery-btn\"\/>Jools Oliver has opened up about neurodivergence on new podcast (Instagram)<\/p>\n<p>Jools, who suffers from social anxiety, said on Lessons From Our Mothers podcast: \u201cMy 50th birthday invite, I decided to come out.\u201d She told her chef husband: \u201cJamie, I&#8217;m going to tell everyone that I\u2019m not normal because I put on such a great act of being really like, \u2018Woo,\u2019 and so social. In fact, it\u2019s like my worst night. I\u2019m such an introvert.\u2019\u201d<\/p>\n<p>She said that \u201ca lot of people didn\u2019t come and were turned off\u201d, but she thought to herself: \u201cWell, this is me. I\u2019m afraid this is the new 50. This is it.\u2019\u201d<\/p>\n<p>The 51-year-old went on to say that she is \u201cscared\u201d to take prescribed medication due to her health anxiety. \u201cI\u2019ve got the medication, but I don&#8217;t want to take it because I\u2019m scared due to health anxiety that something will happen,\u201d she explained, calling it \u201cone ongoing situation\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>Jools said that, following her attention-deficit\/hyperactivity disorder (ADHD) diagnosis, she decided to get tested for autism after realising that she shares behavioural habits with her children, who were diagnosed with autism. <\/p>\n<p>She said that she \u201cjust feels things so deeply\u201d, adding: \u201cI get so dramatic over things and I can be really up and down. And the empathy sometimes is painful. <\/p>\n<p>\u201cI don\u2019t know whether that\u2019s just a personality choice. Sometimes you don\u2019t even know, or is it just the menopause? Am I just going through the menopause and I\u2019m really going bonkers? I think when you do have neurodiversity, menopause is a double nightmare.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/Jools-Oliver-Jamie-Oliver.jpg\"  loading=\"lazy\" alt=\"Jools Oliver has been married to chef Jamie since 2000\" class=\"sc-1mc30lb-0 ggpMaE inline-gallery-btn\"\/>Jools Oliver has been married to chef Jamie since 2000 (Getty Images for Disney)<\/p>\n<p>Jamie has previously discussed his wife\u2019s neurodivergence, without revealing she had ADHD or autism, during a 2025 appearance on Davina McCall\u2019s Begin Again podcast.<\/p>\n<p>He said: \u201cShe&#8217;s quite in the background and she\u2019s done that on purpose. She\u2019s definitely the rock. She\u2019s got incredible instinct, she\u2019s incredibly kind, very funny. I love her to bits. I can\u2019t really talk for her but she has neurodiversities that make her life really interesting and really challenging. <\/p>\n<p>\u201cOf course, there\u2019s positives, but there\u2019s loads of things that, you know \u2013 she makes us the way that we are. And I\u2019m very grateful for Jools.\u201d <\/p>\n<p>The pair, who have four children, met as teenagers in 1993, and have been in a relationship for 33 years, and married since 2000. <\/p>\n<p><a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.independent.co.uk\/topic\/nhs\">NHS<\/a> <a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.independent.co.uk\/topic\/england\">England<\/a> figures shared in 2025 estimate that nearly 2.5 million <a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.independent.co.uk\/topic\/people\">people<\/a> in England have ADHD, including those who are undiagnosed. The figures mark the first publicly available estimate of how common the condition is among the population.<\/p>\n<p>Research also found earlier this year that a significant majority of <a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.independent.co.uk\/life-style\/health-and-families\/autism-non-speaking-advice-symptoms-b2852186.html\">autistic individuals<\/a> over 40 in the UK are living without an official diagnosis. Researchers at King\u2019s College London\u2019s Institute of Psychiatry, Psychology &amp; Neuroscience (IoPPN) reanalysed 2018 UK healthcare data, estimating that a staggering 91.45 per cent of <a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.independent.co.uk\/news\/health\/autism-spectrum-test-aspergers-diagnosis-b2946943.html\">autistic<\/a> men and 79.48 per cent of autistic women aged 40 to 59 remain undiagnosed.<\/p>\n<p>It found that 96.29 per cent of men and 97.19 per cent of women with autism over 60 are thought to be undiagnosed, with an overall rate of 96.51 per cent. <a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.independent.co.uk\/life-style\/health-and-families\/autism-signs-symptoms-adults-diagnosis-b2950862.html\">Symptoms can include<\/a> having specific and obsessive interests, a reliance on structure and difficulty in understanding social cues. <\/p>\n<p>For more information about autism diagnosis and assessments, visit the National Autistic Society\u2019s website at <a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.autism.org.uk\/\">autism.org.uk<\/a>. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Want to bookmark your favourite articles and stories to read or reference later? 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